Seeking Arrangements

[Akibono]

Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?

I am always careful. Everyone hides something. What I find important is whether she values the money or the experience. It can be a bit of both. If she values money, then a trip is wasting her time because she is paid less. However, if she values the experience, it can create a better SD relationship. The experience must be something really out of this world. First class travel, 5 star restaurants and hotels. This can be more expensive, but worth it.

[Elvis 2008]

Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?

Yeah, I would not do it. I had SBs I had known well cancel on me at the last minute. In general, it was 50-50 if they would show up. The funny thing is the women would always say the same thing, a sick or dead father. My friends started giving me shit about it. They said I needed to stop asking women on trips because the death rate of fathers was skyrocketing.

[GoingDumb]

If you've been with her before, then you know her a lot better than we do, so none of us can you you useful advice. But if you've never been with her before, then I would definitely take a pass. The risk-return just ain't worth it.

Haven't met before. Was thinking video call to gauge it. This is my issue with seeking. I'll be in a place with good options so no need for seeking but I'm still looking LOL even though there's more risk.

[HumbleHal]

Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?

Can be lousy, or OK. I have travelled with 2 SBs. The last one got a bad attitude and was mean to me after 3 hours of a weekend trip to Vegas. The one before was more mellow. You find out a lot about them, whether they would make good marriage material or not, and of course they are checking you out too- if you are generous, buy them clothes or not, give them spending cash. Its a no-win no-man's land and chances are you or her will not have a good time and someone's expectations will be shattered.

[Midwestern]

Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?

If you've been with her before, then you know her a lot better than we do, so none of us can you you useful advice. But if you've never been with her before, then I would definitely take a pass. The risk-return just ain't worth it.

[Sloninger]

Depends on the country in my opinion. Maybe meet her first and see what vibe you feel.

Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?

[GoingDumb]

Does anyone have experience or advice for traveling with a sb? A sb is willing to meet me in her country when I'm there next month. I will be in 2 other cities than the one she's in and haven't had a sb travel with me. I was hoping to get away with covering travel expenses but she asked for 2 k for a few days. I'd probably try and get it down a little but it doesn't seem crazy. I've been scammed before though and feel like I'd be paranoid leaving her alone in the room with my stuff at least for the first day or two. The obvious scam is if she wants pay up front and then disappears. Bad idea?

[Midwestern]

I'm kinda jealous. At my peak, I had a collection similar to yours, but plus a few years, because I prefer mid to late 20's instead of early 20's. And this was in the states, where it's tough. 500 sterling or usd?

Long time lurker so thought I'd make an account and write a mini-report of the SA scene in London.

It seems that price has gone up lately and quality down compared to what I've been reading in this thread. Most girls I seek are asking for 500 ppm+ and not willing to budge. If I try to negotiate down, most of them simply block you. Here are some of my latest scores:

24, English, IG gym girl type 8/10. Great pair of naturals. She works an office job in a small town outside of London. Likes money and sex and she's a great girl to be around, very down to earth. She is very submissive and likes to please. She told me she likes to suck cock and she is very good at it. She gets wet very fast and it only took me a few pumps for her to reach orgasm. She likes being chocked and called a good girl. In fact, she was always asking me to call her a good girl. She is now my regular. I give her 500 per meet.

22, English rose, University student 8/10. Petite, blonde blue eyed girl. Very pretty face, little PAWG thing going on as well. Quite innocent but been in the game for a while. She's a nice girl to be around. The best moment is when her mascara runs down her face while sucking cock. She takes it deep and is very determined. Beautiful and pink pussy and it tastes great when doing RO. She is my semi regular now. I give her 500 per meet.

22, French University student 9/10. Petite, brunette and very pretty face. Great pair of naturals and tight body. She is fun to be around, we have lots in common and she likes to dress up for me. Sex is great and passionate. I gave her 500 per meet. She's now back to France for the summer break.

22, English University girl. Quite plain looking girl, your average English girl 7/10 but good body. She makes up for it in bed though. Absolute anal * and just wants to please you and likes taking cock in all of her holes. I gave her 350 per meet. Not seeing her at the moment.

This is my first year on Seeking and I'm still trying to learn how to do better at it. London has a great scene, but it's pricy compared to other countries. I don't mind paying as long as I meet an 8/10 and above. Life is short and I don't want mediocre sex with average looking women, as bad as that sounds. I have harvested over 30 phone numbers and I'm going to go through the best of them this summer.

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[DramaFree11]

Which do you prefer (MTY vs CDMX) and why?

Other than chicas, any good hiking around MTY?

Both cites are great, but are more long term destinations. If you are able to travel often they both are great. If you are just going one time and going strictly for girls then stick with Tijuana or GDL.

CDMX is better for girls and Restaurants, but very expensive now, especially with the current exchange rate.

MTY is cheaper, not as many girls available, but still great. Restaurant are okay, but in comparison to other cities in Mexico, they are not that great. Service is definitely inferior to other destinations. Lots of places to go in MTY for hiking, but be prepared during the summer the weather can get very hot.

I am here now and killing it. The great thing about both destinations there just is not a lot of competition from other sex tourist. MTY is very expensive to travel to, but Hotels and Restaurants are cheaper, then CDMX. This helps keep the guys out a lot of the low end sex tourists.

[YoungWolf994]

Long time lurker so thought I'd make an account and write a mini-report of the SA scene in London.

It seems that price has gone up lately and quality down compared to what I've been reading in this thread. Most girls I seek are asking for 500 ppm+ and not willing to budge. If I try to negotiate down, most of them simply block you. Here are some of my latest scores:

24, English, IG gym girl type 8/10. Great pair of naturals. She works an office job in a small town outside of London. Likes money and sex and she's a great girl to be around, very down to earth. She is very submissive and likes to please. She told me she likes to suck cock and she is very good at it. She gets wet very fast and it only took me a few pumps for her to reach orgasm. She likes being chocked and called a good girl. In fact, she was always asking me to call her a good girl. She is now my regular. I give her 500 per meet.

22, English rose, University student 8/10. Petite, blonde blue eyed girl. Very pretty face, little PAWG thing going on as well. Quite innocent but been in the game for a while. She's a nice girl to be around. The best moment is when her mascara runs down her face while sucking cock. She takes it deep and is very determined. Beautiful and pink pussy and it tastes great when doing RO. She is my semi regular now. I give her 500 per meet.

22, French University student 9/10. Petite, brunette and very pretty face. Great pair of naturals and tight body. She is fun to be around, we have lots in common and she likes to dress up for me. Sex is great and passionate. I gave her 500 per meet. She's now back to France for the summer break.

22, English University girl. Quite plain looking girl, your average English girl 7/10 but good body. She makes up for it in bed though. Absolute anal * and just wants to please you and likes taking cock in all of her holes. I gave her 350 per meet. Not seeing her at the moment.

This is my first year on Seeking and I'm still trying to learn how to do better at it. London has a great scene, but it's pricy compared to other countries. I don't mind paying as long as I meet an 8/10 and above. Life is short and I don't want mediocre sex with average looking women, as bad as that sounds. I have harvested over 30 phone numbers and I'm going to go through the best of them this summer.

[WhoMadeWho]

I am traveling to MTY now, but I am also getting some crazy high prices as well, I just laugh. Some of these girls are just average girls, no way I would be anymore $175-200, I can see guys paying $300, in CDMX, but in MTY anything above $250 is way too much. Especially in CDMX there are tons available of available chicks, MTY, not so much. Some will say no, but most will say yes, $200-250. It takes some work, but you will find some amazing girls in CDMX. I love the city and girls.

Which do you prefer (MTY vs CDMX) and why?

Other than chicas, any good hiking around MTY?

[Steve 9696]

I was just thinking how dead it is in here and boom. Here comes Shroomer with a tale to tell. Decidedly odd and interesting. But hey you banged a hot chick in the US major city for $360. Not so easy these days! Thanks for carrying on the good work out there!

Meanwhilst I am tied up with GF Shayla pretty tight but going to bang Alexa for three days soon so that's nice but no new conquests to report. May repeat w Smoke Show in July but have to come to terms on $$ and that might break the deal because she's high roller money. We will see how much she likes me! At least she's stayed in touch and willing to travel with me. We will see. Lots of other options if this busts. Life is good.

[Gfefan]

I remember vaguely reading about Green dot somewhere.

Looks like it needs SSN and verification? Thoughts?

Heading to SFO. Thinking of giving SA one last shot in the US before calling it quits. Any intel?

[LshRoomer]

You guys might get a kick out of this one.

Pulled her from SA. Her pics were sexy, she was pretty and the conversation was engaging. Also there were no signs of escort. Possibly hobby working girl, but not full on escort (100% income from the trade). I used my cookie cutter line that it's important to me to make sure that my sb leaves with at least x (region specific amount $$) dollars, often more. It takes the edges off of the business side of things just slightly, ever so slightly as it sets a floor but no ceiling, but it is clear that the amount above the floor is up to my discretion. I've found this to work very well with EU Sbs. Our number was 350. She happily accepted before moving over texts. I told her my idea of the sb / sd dynamic and she was happy with my perception. I kept the oven warm with texts before I arrived to town but was sure not to spam her.

Set the date and we had scheduling conflicts because of her work. Finally nailed down a time. She texted me and said something like, "hey baby, we need to talk about how you are going to take care of me". We had already talked about this in detail and it's clear to see in the text history, so I responded with that exactly. Her response was apologetic and we moved on. She seemed quite aloof during most of our interactions, kinda like she was high or something, kinda forgetful with obvious things. This further gave me red flag vibes, but she was cute and I wanted to extract some measure of success from ATL, especially after the failure from the night before. She mentioned that she had work at night, so she couldn't stay out too late; My offer was to go out to get food / drink early around 5 or just have champagne at my place. She opted for the champagne. At this point, my red flags are validated, but I still wanted to bang her.

She called an Uber and came over. When I laid eyes on her at the gate, waiting for me to let her in, I noticed a few things in those first 15 seconds. Her tits looks amazing and bigger than I thought, she was short (good size), she had an awesome ass, she hugged and was warm, her body was hot (like a stacked slim girl with a long curly hair and a pretty face), she had braces, and she didn't recognize me as I approached the gate (sent her clear pics). I got comfortable as soon as we entered the apartment by taking off my shoes and she followed suit. She took off her shoes and started checking the place out; she was impressed (I usually rent nice Apartment when I don't do hotels). She mentioned that she was 19 and didn't know why her profile said 21, then followed up asking if I'm a fan of banging young girls. I actually get along with girls that have a bit more life experience, so starting at around 22/23 is usually my sweet spot. Poured the champagne, put on some music and got the conversation going. We were sitting at the bar chatting and I slowly moved over to the ottoman. She followed again and stood in front of me putting her hands on my shoulders, so replied by grabbing her ass and it was soft and round; a very nice ass. While still standing there with my hands on her ass and rubbing her back, she told me that she wants to get a neck tattoo. At the time it seemed like a strange conversation shift and topic. I was curious as to where she was going to get the tattoo, so I asked if she was thinking a side of the neck tat or front. LOL. She pulled down her turtleneck (sleeveless, belly showing shirt with a turtleneck) and showed me about 5 or 6 slashes across the front of her neck and explained that she recently tried to kill herself in Vegas about 2-3 months ago. WTF! She mentioned that she was sober at the time and just decided to end it by taking a knife and slashing at her throat. In the hospital, they asked if she was on drugs and found none. I did not dig deeper into that. There are some questions you don't ask.

She sat down in front of me and started rubbing her feet on mine and her leg on mine, all while I start rubbing her thighs. She stood up in front of me again and said that she was hot and asked if it was okay for her to take her pants off. Who is going to say no to that?? She started to undo her pants and as she pulled them down I saw a bunch of unshaven pubs with a beautiful thong. Cupped her ass again and stood up to embrace her energy. She said a few things trying to be sexy and it just didn't' do it for me. I especially don't like being called Daddy. However, I don't mind Papi the least bit (I know it means the same). She kept up with the sexy talk and I'm just not a sexy talk guy. I prefer physical energy than verbal energy. To each his own. I took off her shirt and was excited to see those big tits. When I finally removed the bra, her tits were nice, but probably a be, while her bra makes them look like a the cup. The overall shape was great, so my disappointed was assuaged pretty quickly. She asked if we should have sex in the living room or the bedroom, I replied by picking her up by her thighs and walked into the next room.

The bed was the perfect height for the drilling that was about to come. She sat on the bed grinding her V against me as I stood in front of her stroking her hair and kissing her neck. I threw her legs in the air in order to dine at the why. This was going to be a short meal, as the major purpose was to check things out and see if I need to abort. All fresh and clean so I tasted it and she seemed to respond quite well. Put on the bag and went in it slow. It's wasn't tight, but you could feel walls around you. I started slow using a odd deep thrust count (Deep, shallow shallow deep, and so on making each odd number a deep thrust). She must have really dug this, as with each deep thrust, she would squeeze my wrist or bit my arm, all while I have a fist of her hair behind her head controlling her posture and supporting it (you got to be supportive, hahaha). I love then girl squeeze their own tits. As she is squeezing them, we go forehead to forehead just pounding away. She started with the Daddy talk again so I just grabbed her jaw and kissed her face. It was a bit sensual but more kept her from her sext Daddy talk that wasn't sexy. Moved over to doggy and she starts asking me ot finish. She was wet as a fish and tried to limit my depth. After about 5 minutes doggy, I pulled out and bust in the bag. While doing this, she put one leg on the bed and started shaking her ass like a stripper. Again, I can see how some guys might have really enjoyed that, but for me, it was meh.

While she was in the shower, I put 360 under her phone, assuming that she, like most people, would check her phone after getting dressed. I didn't need her to stay as I had already put in my mind that she wasn't an SB, as evidence by the fact that we never kissed once. I've had escorts that will go for a kiss if you get too close to their face. Tested the same with her and got nothing. Didn't complain, just continued. She entered the living room after showering came over to the couch, saying that's exactly what she needed. She then asked in a trying-to-be-sexy voice for the $500. $500? At this point, she is leaning over in front, face to face, supporting her weight with her hands on my thighs. My response was that we agreed to 350, multiple times, and this is fully verifiable in the text history. She started to say that if it was 350 that she wouldn't have. Then she stopped herself. She took the 350 and asked if I had cashapp. I responded that I do, but an agreement must be honored or we crumble as a society. Hahahaha. There was a hug as she left and that was it. One and done. Very nice and I don't intend on ever repeating. Too fake and she's probably used to switching at the last minute and using guilt as a tactic.

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[DramaFree11]

Videochat would have helped me recently.

I had a recent experience in ATL. I was in town for a few days, so I decided to check out the local SA talent. It was a pain in the ass, with lots of energy / texts input for less than desirable output. I lined up two dates. One was with a girl that was a 7.5 or 8 in the pics. She sent quite a few and she was bangable, without a doubt. Set up the meet at a bar, even though she was willing ot meet at my place (red flag. I want sb, not escort). Still I'm an experience seeker, so I wondered where the road would take me. As soon as I walked into the bar and saw her, her 7. 5 dropped to a 3. 5. Her neck almost looked like it disappeared (high shoulders, strange posture) and her face was really bad. Even as I sat there drinking my beer, I wasn't too happy with her body either, skinny (I love em thin) but not alluring. And the icing on the cake was that her conversation left much to be desired, like she had a mental deficiency or something. She even told me that her ex BF said that she wasn't smart enough to become a flight attendant. LOL I left and called it a night and she was not happy. On top of all that, she wanted 4 bills and told me that she usually get 5, but was willing to work with me. Which one of you bastards is paying this girl 5 bills? Hahahaha. I should have video chatted, but up until this point, it hasn't been a necessity.

Girl #2 was a success, but still had some American stuff going on. Putting that one in a separate thread.

Yep, I had many similar situations. They all say they are getting $500, maybe $300. Video Chats are a must in the states or you will waste way too much time.

Also, you must meet in a public place for the first meeting, way too dangerous now.