Seeking Arrangements

[Steve 9696]

I took a girl from seeking to Vegas a couple years ago. I was twice her age, she was 27 and I was 65 m ok, I was about 3 times her age. Immediately the airline stewardess started looking at us funny, like I was trafficking her. The girl got an attitude and clammed up. Trip was hostile for all 3 days. I do not recommend travel with these hoors. They will turn on you if you don't spend enough money on them, and its all in their mind how much you must give them or spend on them. My advice, don't do it.

I wouldn't go to this other extreme either. Traveling a girl can be awesome. Like I said I am five out of six and damn those five were totally worth it:

Thifany to London for a week. Honestly this was nuts. Met her at a Boate and fucked her and then her and her friend. Knew her a total of five hours. Flew her to London her first international trip. She is the IT girl. We had such a blast. We were getting sent thru the VIP rope and our entry comped on nights 2+. It was simply epic. I can post this story again if anyone wants. It's the best SA read ever (tho it wasn't strictly seeking).

Alexa to Miami. Epic. Pedicab with drinking wine from the bottle, cigars and Led Zeppelin. And off the charts sex.

Mika to Dallas. Moderately good. She had her period which was suboptimal.

Shayla to Miami. Helicopter ride and parasailing and amazing dinners and sex.

Sue to Croatia. Sex was just ok but what a great girl. Had a blast.

I highly recommend traveling a girl you know. Yes sometimes it's sand to the beach. But it's very good sand! 😜.

[Gfefan]

My advice. Definitely do not do it in the US. In or out or within.

Can't speak for Latin America but in Europe, I did. But, Steve's point is spot on. Do not ever send money. I never did that.

My girl from BCN. We met, we had amazing chemistry when I traveled to BCN. We did that few times and then, I booked her a flight (but borrowed Credit card from a friend to put distance on record). Then, for the safety of my friend, we complained "I don't recognize this transaction".

Bottomline: too many things to take care of. But, I did that only because I knew the girl really well and we had epic time (sex and otherwise) for the 4 days she was with me.

And, no. I did not pay for time. I paid for her food, travel and all together activity expenses. She went for a music event while I was at work and she paid herself. Super nice girl. She refused to take that money when I gave her.

I took a girl from seeking to Vegas a couple years ago. I was twice her age, she was 27 and I was 65 m ok, I was about 3 times her age. Immediately the airline stewardess started looking at us funny, like I was trafficking her. The girl got an attitude and clammed up. Trip was hostile for all 3 days. I do not recommend travel with these hoors. They will turn on you if you don't spend enough money on them, and its all in their mind how much you must give them or spend on them. My advice, don't do it.

[HumbleHal]

There's a girl who is willing to travel with me. Anyone done anything like that? How does that work? Is she expecting allowance along with flight, hotel, food expenses (that I will of course cover for both of us)? I prefer not to send money for her to travel to me, and rather meet at a common place and then go together. Haven't started discussing details yet, just doing homework here.

I took a girl from seeking to Vegas a couple years ago. I was twice her age, she was 27 and I was 65 m ok, I was about 3 times her age. Immediately the airline stewardess started looking at us funny, like I was trafficking her. The girl got an attitude and clammed up. Trip was hostile for all 3 days. I do not recommend travel with these hoors. They will turn on you if you don't spend enough money on them, and its all in their mind how much you must give them or spend on them. My advice, don't do it.

[Pessimist]

I've been on Seeking for over a year. Friggin love it. My account is probably getting stale now that it is over a year old. Frankly I don't even reach out to girls whose accounts are that old because they look like escorts and I'm sure I look like a john. I mean I guess I am but that's a different story.

I think I heard that Seeking can tell if you've created another account and they ban you for life. Like they can tell from your browser or facial recognition or something. I use a VPN, private browser, and prepaid card. But every once in a while I search without my VPN just because I forget to turn it on.

Also I want to lower my age on my profile.

Anyone find issues setting up and using multiple accounts? I see girls do it at times so I kind of think it must be ok?

More than tunes, it is the fakers who get to me in a bad way. I hate having to wade through hundreds of fake profiles to find a few genuine girls. 6 years ago SA was not this well known and guys and gals were mostly genuine. Now, I think the fake profile percent is very high. Kinda sad but not unexpected for any popular site.

[Pessimist]

They "suspended my account" for life because I responded to a woman who talked about price and she turned me in. Now I have to get a new credit card and make a new fake email account, and get a new google phone number to get back on.

For some reason, SA is tougher on new accounts. My account is over 6+ years old. I don't discuss price as a rule but I slipped and have discussed to some extent occasionally in the past such as "I do give allowance" or "my allowance is typically a few hundred a week ". They never banned me. Perhaps no girl ever reported me on that issue, which helps. I did have problems with a few girls here and there, they blocked me or I blocked them, some harsh words were said but was not a problem. But that said, it is absolutely a good rule to not discuss pricing on the forum especially not as a transactional price for something in return.

[Pessimist]

First. Never ever discuss price on Seeking.This can get u banned for life cuz it smacks of prostitution which is illegal in many geographies and Seeking would get shut down. Always suggest talking on WhatsApp and discuss there. And try not to make it so transactional this is less important internationally but key in states. Like don't say we will have sex. Or I'll pay you $400. Be more indirect. Like "if we go out and have a great time and spend private time together, I'the want to give you a gift / allowance". That kind of thing.

Never ever pay up front. Actually what I do (learned this from briefly playing the pro scene in US) is put the $$ in an envelope and put it in plain sight under the ice bucket or lamp or something. Afterwards I slip it in their purse where they can see it or put it with their purse. Girls seem to really appreciate that you are not just handing them cash. Occasionally a girl will ask to pay up front. You should stick to your guns here and say I always pay after. Don't worry it's right there and point to the envelope. This is usually sufficient. Insistence on up front is a bad sign that the in room experience is about to suck. LOL.

+1.

Good suggestions, all of them.

[Steve 9696]

I've been on Seeking for over a year. Friggin love it. My account is probably getting stale now that it is over a year old. Frankly I don't even reach out to girls whose accounts are that old because they look like escorts and I'm sure I look like a john. I mean I guess I am but that's a different story.

I think I heard that Seeking can tell if you've created another account and they ban you for life. Like they can tell from your browser or facial recognition or something. I use a VPN, private browser, and prepaid card. But every once in a while I search without my VPN just because I forget to turn it on.

Also I want to lower my age on my profile.

Anyone find issues setting up and using multiple accounts? I see girls do it at times so I kind of think it must be ok?

I actually set up a girl account just to see what they see. It's a bit too spooky tho trolling thru the desperate hoards of men. Didn't stay on very long. It freaked me out a bit. LOL.

[CarloRogue]

I've been on Seeking for over a year. Friggin love it. My account is probably getting stale now that it is over a year old. Frankly I don't even reach out to girls whose accounts are that old because they look like escorts and I'm sure I look like a john. I mean I guess I am but that's a different story.

I think I heard that Seeking can tell if you've created another account and they ban you for life. Like they can tell from your browser or facial recognition or something. I use a VPN, private browser, and prepaid card. But every once in a while I search without my VPN just because I forget to turn it on.

Also I want to lower my age on my profile.

Anyone find issues setting up and using multiple accounts? I see girls do it at times so I kind of think it must be ok?

I have had multiple accounts in the past, one paid, one unpaid (for browsing purposes), without issue. But SA's algorithms and tracking methods are quite sophisticated from what I've read, so I don't doubt they know the two accounts are the same owner. There are more detailed explanations on the various city forums (Richmond, VA's especially) and I'm no IT expert, but if you're banned, it takes quite a bit more effort than just using a VPN, scrubbing cookries, and new photos to outwit the security measures. Best thing is to avoid the problem in the first place of course, by taking conversations off site as soon as possible. I also delete / block messages I receive that cross the line. SA doesn't give a damn about any individual paying user. They seem to default to permanent instant banning on any complaint, with no chance of stating your case. I think their number one concern is keeping the gravy train running as long as possible before it inevitably is rolled up. On a related note, I had a burner phone app ban me with no explanation or recourse. Lost years of messages and contacts. I presume it was over a complaint from a jilted POT I didn't pursue.

[Intelligencium]

This won't end well. Trust me. ......

P.S. Surely there are good girls wherever you are going?

Thanks for the advice! I am not going to proceed then. Yes, there are good girls where I am going (mostly). I was also hoping to step outside of major cities and visit some Alps destinations. Was thinking of getting company for that part of the trip. But I think I am getting greedy. Will be good to be alone for that part of the trip.

[CarloRogue]

You can download the seeking android app from the play store and pay with your old credit card or PayPal. I used my phone number from my blocked account. Downside is you cannot use the easily found, by searching on google, 20% off coupon.

www.privacy.com is another option if you do not want to get another credit card.

So I've recently tried to renew my SA account with a Secure Spend Prepaid VISA card (used to be called One Vanilla). It isn't working now and the help line hasn't been helpful. The only thing I'm trying to do is not connect my real name with the SA account (fears of an Ashley Madison breakdown), not trying to out-sleuth first-world state surveillance powers. The privacy.com option sounds intriguing. How does that work? TIA, CR.

[AmericanPi]

I've been on Seeking for over a year. Friggin love it. My account is probably getting stale now that it is over a year old. Frankly I don't even reach out to girls whose accounts are that old because they look like escorts and I'm sure I look like a john. I mean I guess I am but that's a different story.

I think I heard that Seeking can tell if you've created another account and they ban you for life. Like they can tell from your browser or facial recognition or something. I use a VPN, private browser, and prepaid card. But every once in a while I search without my VPN just because I forget to turn it on.

Also I want to lower my age on my profile.

Anyone find issues setting up and using multiple accounts? I see girls do it at times so I kind of think it must be ok?

[Rosebud1]

They "suspended my account" for life because I responded to a woman who talked about price and she turned me in. Now I have to get a new credit card and make a new fake email account, and get a new google phone number to get back on.

You can download the seeking android app from the play store and pay with your old credit card or PayPal. I used my phone number from my blocked account. Downside is you cannot use the easily found, by searching on google, 20% off coupon.

www.privacy.com is another option if you do not want to get another credit card.

[Steve 9696]

I guess that's why most girls move to WhatsApp as soon as they see potential.

There's a girl who is willing to travel with me. Anyone done anything like that? How does that work? Is she expecting allowance along with flight, hotel, food expenses (that I will of course cover for both of us)? I prefer not to send money for her to travel to me, and rather meet at a common place and then go together. Haven't started discussing details yet, just doing homework here.

This won't end well. Trust me. She's not going to buy her own ticket. And you don't know her from fuckall. This can only end with your money in her pocket. Only travel a girl you know well! And even then it can backfire. I'm 5 for 6 but yeah one was a bad bust heartbroken mess and I thought I knew her well. But never travel a girl you don't know. Never.

P.S. Surely there are good girls wherever you are going?

[Intelligencium]

First. Never ever discuss price on Seeking.

I guess that's why most girls move to WhatsApp as soon as they see potential.

There's a girl who is willing to travel with me. Anyone done anything like that? How does that work? Is she expecting allowance along with flight, hotel, food expenses (that I will of course cover for both of us)? I prefer not to send money for her to travel to me, and rather meet at a common place and then go together. Haven't started discussing details yet, just doing homework here.

[HumbleHal]

First. Never ever discuss price on Seeking.This can get u banned for life cuz it smacks of prostitution which is illegal in many geographies and Seeking would get shut down.

They "suspended my account" for life because I responded to a woman who talked about price and she turned me in. Now I have to get a new credit card and make a new fake email account, and get a new google phone number to get back on.