Seeking Arrangements

[FishMongerC]

I was on Reddit the other day reading a thread among sugar babies.

One girl mentioned she was offered a situation where she moved in and does all the household Maintnenance. Pick up the kids, do the shopping, etc. Plus intimacy of course.

Guy offered her 80-100 k a year.

The thread totally shot that down. Sour sloots. Said things like those are each 75 k / year jobs so you should be getting 75 x5 k.

Besides the fact that's a stupid argument, I actually thought it was a pretty good deal.

I actually met someone who claimed she had a friend enter into a similar agreement. She described her friend as getting scammed. Since there was no contract, she had nothing legally binding. While he did give her money, it wasn't even half that claimed. Meanwhile her friend was trapped, she had given up her own place of residence so was trapped there until she found the means to get out. She stayed with him for about 1 month before realizing it wasn't living up to her expectations.

I think 80 k - 100 k a year is a pretty good deal for the girl, especially if tax free. Even better deal for the guy tho!! At my peak I was paying out about 2 K a week anyway for a few months.

[AmericanPi]

Funny, I have used that same exact strategy before. I was paying for the rent of this visiting South American student! Told her I was losing my job and couldn't afford that short stay luxury apartment I was paying for. So she offered to move in! Haha. She stayed for 5 more months before her visa expired and she returned home.

I was on Reddit the other day reading a thread among sugar babies.

One girl mentioned she was offered a situation where she moved in and does all the household Maintnenance. Pick up the kids, do the shopping, etc. Plus intimacy of course.

Guy offered her 80-100 k a year.

The thread totally shot that down. Sour sloots. Said things like those are each 75 k / year jobs so you should be getting 75 x5 k.

Besides the fact that's a stupid argument, I actually thought it was a pretty good deal.

[FishMongerC]

Holy crap that's diabolical and brilliant.

Funny, I have used that same exact strategy before. I was paying for the rent of this visiting South American student! Told her I was losing my job and couldn't afford that short stay luxury apartment I was paying for. So she offered to move in! Haha. She stayed for 5 more months before her visa expired and she returned home.

[AmericanPi]

After I have been with someone a bunch of times, I sometimes tell them that I lost my job and I cannot see them anymore or as much. Sometimes, the girl has become so comfortable with me that they continue seeing me for free (but on occasion, I may still help them out). Doesn't last that long though, because eventually they need the money. I only do this with gals that I am okay with never seeing again.

Holy crap that's diabolical and brilliant.

[Midwestern]

Perhaps the greatest that I ever had was with a totally crazy pyscho *****. Wow she was fantastic in the sack. I wonder if there is a causality. I have been with other crazies that were also very good in the sack.

Yeah, I am tired of this. There have been a few women I saw too that were totally trustworthy. 96% is not the same as 100%.

On the borderline part, I got fooled a lot in the past. The main thing guys need to know is when they argue about something completely absurd. One borderline was convinced that her baby's autism was due to the father. When I said the cause of autism is unknown, she got mad and crazy. She screamed, "It is his fault he is autistic. What is wrong with you?" The instinct is to run from crazy which means the borderline feels even worse as you are abandoning them. What I know now is challenging borderlines on facts like what causes autism is totally wrong. When you have a woman like this, you say nothing and leave. Arguing with them works to their advantage. Their goal is to show the world they are not crazy, and you are.

And leaving is what most often makes them crazy. I had one woman, a super hot Mexican lawyer, go down to a bar late at night alone. I said I did not feel like going but she was free to go on her own. An hour later, she returns and says frantically, "You left me at the bar!" Borderlines are freaked out about abandonment. If you have a woman freak out about that, then just leave. A friend of mine said she thought the Mexican lawyer was borderline, and I realized she was right. As soon as I realized that, I axed that women from my life and never saw her again.

FWIW, I think borderlines are above average attractive and above average in bed. They also can swoon over your words and put you on a pedestal and because of all this, they can be very attractive to us men and suck us into their crazy.

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[Midwestern]

Just told another "race horse" that she could either accept $400 a PPM or go back on the site for the $500 she thinks she is worth. She agreed to continue at $400 PPM. Women are constantly trying to re-negotiate their terms, thinking they are worth more than they are. I have 2 others that would take her place for less, although I did not tell her about my other girls in my stable.

After I have been with someone a bunch of times, I sometimes tell them that I lost my job and I cannot see them anymore or as much. Sometimes, the girl has become so comfortable with me that they continue seeing me for free (but on occasion, I may still help them out). Doesn't last that long though, because eventually they need the money. I only do this with gals that I am okay with never seeing again.

[NeilGeorge]

Just told another "race horse" that she could either accept $400 a PPM or go back on the site for the $500 she thinks she is worth. She agreed to continue at $400 PPM. Women are constantly trying to re-negotiate their terms, thinking they are worth more than they are. I have 2 others that would take her place for less, although I did not tell her about my other girls in my stable.

[Steve 9696]

I have two in Europe. One in Netherlands and another in Spain. I would do that for. Amazing humans. Lovely girls. Just that naivety and innate ability to truat and see the good side of the world. There are couple more nice ones but they are poor in money management that they would waste whatever I give them.

4% overall sounds about right. But, unfortunately, none yet in the US. Girls are so materialistic here. Well, who am I to complain while I am on SA being pussyalistic! What goes around, comes around.

Both mine are US based surprisingly. Tho to be fair acquired some time ago. Alexa — Las Vegas of all places — from Dec 2019 — she's in tech customer support and makes candles and soaps on Etsy. And Shayla my current girl — from Jan 2022 and going strong. She's a chemist (no not meth!) and gaming enthusiast. Both these girls fit the "regular girl but with a spicy side" mold. Sue in London was brilliant while it lasted but she got boring and Kayla in Miami was same. They wouldn't quite make the cut but nice girls nonetheless.

P.S. I think DramaFree has been working the CDMX seeking game but now found some stateside. It's all right place right time. Nice girls don't stay on there long.

[Gfefan]

I have two in Europe. One in Netherlands and another in Spain. I would do that for. Amazing humans. Lovely girls. Just that naivety and innate ability to truat and see the good side of the world. There are couple more nice ones but they are poor in money management that they would waste whatever I give them.

4% overall sounds about right. But, unfortunately, none yet in the US. Girls are so materialistic here. Well, who am I to complain while I am on SA being pussyalistic! What goes around, comes around.

Funny you should mention that. If I can find a way to do it there are at least two girls I've been very close with on Seeking and would easily give them $10,000 upon my demise. They are just quality humans and I feel fortunate to have crossed paths with them, let alone in such an intimate way! Sorta independent of when even. Like 10 or 20 years from now. But prob tough to execute both in terms of will and staying in touch. But it says something about the quality of the girls you can find. Yes I am talking about only 4% of the girls I've dated. But still it says something I think. I'm not leaving a dime to any pro girl nor the other 96% (well another borderline one).

[Gfefan]

Reminds me of a old flame (2013) back when I did not know SA.

Dated this American girl for three months. Above average looks, excellent in bed, gets wet within minutes of whenever I had a hardon. We even fucked on a beach (I think public sex is demeanor). All goes well.

She keeps saying she is an independent woman, wants to bring things to the table blah. Blah.

I see signs of gold digging but I go along given the amazing sex and other swooning over me (like my dusky appearance, loves my sports involvement).

I had two tickets for a concert but was traveling. Gave it to my client (relationship building).

She calls me when I was in another town, asks for tickets to go with her "friend". I say I gave it to my client. She starts yelling at me as if I hurt a child.

I quietly hang up, return to town few days later, dropped off her stuff at her front door with a note "You say you are an independent woman. You shouldn't need me to buy tickets for concerts". Boom. Another round of yelling on phone. A week later, tries to patch up but I stayed away.

Looking back, I did the right thing for myself. But, I admit, every once a while I think I should have broken up softer and kept her as a bootycall. The sex was amazing. Beach, shower, kitchen counter, parks, lake, parking lot, laundry. Name a place. We have fucked there most likely. All CIP. As she was on control. I do miss that sex but not the craziness.

Yeah, I am tired of this. There have been a few women I saw too that were totally trustworthy. 96% is not the same as 100%.

On the borderline part, I got fooled a lot in the past. The main thing guys need to know is when they argue about something completely absurd. One borderline was convinced that her baby's autism was due to the father. When I said the cause of autism is unknown, she got mad and crazy. She screamed, "It is his fault he is autistic. What is wrong with you?" The instinct is to run from crazy which means the borderline feels even worse as you are abandoning them. What I know now is challenging borderlines on facts like what causes autism is totally wrong. When you have a woman like this, you say nothing and leave. Arguing with them works to their advantage. Their goal is to show the world they are not crazy, and you are.

And leaving is what most often makes them crazy. I had one woman, a super hot Mexican lawyer, go down to a bar late at night alone. I said I did not feel like going but she was free to go on her own. An hour later, she returns and says frantically, "You left me at the bar!" Borderlines are freaked out about abandonment. If you have a woman freak out about that, then just leave. A friend of mine said she thought the Mexican lawyer was borderline, and I realized she was right. As soon as I realized that, I axed that women from my life and never saw her again.

FWIW, I think borderlines are above average attractive and above average in bed. They also can swoon over your words and put you on a pedestal and because of all this, they can be very attractive to us men and suck us into their crazy.

[Pk099]

So my membership expired 2 days back and now suddenly I have 10+ messages from girls around me and SA wants me to Upgrade.

Why SA thinks we are stupid to Upgrade by seeing 10 messages.

[The Cane]

Yeah, I am tired of this. There have been a few women I saw too that were totally trustworthy. 96% is not the same as 100%.

On the borderline part, I got fooled a lot in the past. The main thing guys need to know is when they argue about something completely absurd. One borderline was convinced that her baby's autism was due to the father. When I said the cause of autism is unknown, she got mad and crazy. She screamed, "It is his fault he is autistic. What is wrong with you?" The instinct is to run from crazy which means the borderline feels even worse as you are abandoning them. What I know now is challenging borderlines on facts like what causes autism is totally wrong. When you have a woman like this, you say nothing and leave. Arguing with them works to their advantage. Their goal is to show the world they are not crazy, and you are.

And leaving is what most often makes them crazy. I had one woman, a super hot Mexican lawyer, go down to a bar late at night alone. I said I did not feel like going but she was free to go on her own. An hour later, she returns and says frantically, "You left me at the bar!" Borderlines are freaked out about abandonment. If you have a woman freak out about that, then just leave. A friend of mine said she thought the Mexican lawyer was borderline, and I realized she was right. As soon as I realized that, I axed that women from my life and never saw her again.

FWIW, I think borderlines are above average attractive and above average in bed. They also can swoon over your words and put you on a pedestal and because of all this, they can be very attractive to us men and suck us into their crazy.

I haven't met a woman yet who took any responsibility for their past relationships going bad. It was always the man's fault. But then I go out with them for just two weeks and see all kinds of things they do wrong to ruin a relationship and drive men away! "Borderlines" is right. I found something much better. Combining my love of international travel with tapping foreign ass abroad! Yes sir!

[Steve 9696]

Logged into my burner email for old time sake. Also peeked to see if SA was doing their usually % off re-subbing sales for V-Day. Unlike past years, their push instead was bonus starter pack by cloning your account into their other brand WhatsYourPrice.

Never heard of it before these emails, did some research (some).

Exact same company anyone know if they're merging the two monikers and phasing out the SA name?

No. What's your price has been around for a while. I tried it but didn't really get very far. Seeking is way more successful so I don't see them messing w that.

[The Cane]

Logged into my burner email for old time sake. Also peeked to see if SA was doing their usually % off re-subbing sales for V-Day. Unlike past years, their push instead was bonus starter pack by cloning your account into their other brand WhatsYourPrice.

Never heard of it before these emails, did some research (some).

Exact same company anyone know if they're merging the two monikers and phasing out the SA name?

On Valentines Day SA offered me 33% off on a 90-day premium package. I declined. They routinely offer me 20% to 25% off.

[CenTexCrash]

Logged into my burner email for old time sake. Also peeked to see if SA was doing their usually % off re-subbing sales for V-Day. Unlike past years, their push instead was bonus starter pack by cloning your account into their other brand WhatsYourPrice.

Never heard of it before these emails, did some research (some).

Exact same company anyone know if they're merging the two monikers and phasing out the SA name?