Seeking Arrangements

[DramaFree11]

JC, I was in Mexico when the Covid restrictions hit. When American gyms and restaurants were closed in March 2020, Mexican ones were open and then they closed too. I remember thinking they even got Mexico, Mexico which has laughed and profited off the USA's "moral" stand with regards to drugs, prostitution, and gambling.

But the border never closed and when an American border town mandated wearing masks and none were too be found in the USA, I was able to buy several in Mexico.

Mexico reopened faster than everyone else and never required Covid vaccination to enter their country. When Colombia closed down, Dramafree suggested I look at Mexico, and the Mexican women literally kept me sane in this world that had gone totally mad. I traveled to Cancun when air fares were dirt cheap and stayed at resorts for next to nothing and went to amusement parks that were empty. Quite frankly, while the world was mad, I was having the time of my life.

And a month after Colombia reopened is when I met my woman, which would not have happened without the lockdown and travel ban, so you may think I am upset at someone like you but honestly people like you gave me the biggest gift of a lifetime. And what I mean by people like you is this:



Like I said, personally, I should hug and thank a guy like you because my life was never better than during the pandemic. But I do have to ask if you have any regrets about what you posted. And do you find it at all hypocritical that you are traveling and asking advice for guys like me about Mexico, the one country that gave guys like you the middle finger?

As for your question, I never showed a photo on seeking and did not have any problem getting women. Best cities were Monterrey and CDMX for seeking. Best cities for P4 P were MTY and Tijuana. I would be careful going to or near Jalisco or Sinaloa. Sinaloa cartel, which tried to keep a lid on violence, has been overtaken by the Jalisco cartel who are killing people everywhere including the beaches of Cancun and Tulum. Sinaloa has been in turmoil since one of El Chapo's sons was arrested. Guadalajara is a great town and may have the best weather of all the major cities in Mexico and best P4P scene but I would hesitate going there now unless I got reassurance from those who have been recently. Seeking women in MTY want less than CDMX but MTY gets old after a while. In general, outside of the tourist areas like Cancun / Tulum, in general, the further South you go in Mexico, the less attractive the women are. If you find a babe in CDMX and want to spend a weekend away somewhere warmer and sunnier, Cuernavaca is a great place and only a cheap 90 minute bus ride from CDMX. Hope that helps.

So true about the lockdown. I had 3 of the most beautiful girls in my life during lockdown. I would have never had a chance with them if it was not for Covid. 2 of the 3 now have boyfriends in Europe. I lost contact with the other girl.

I have been working a lot, so I have not been able to go to CDMX as much, not to mention flights were crazy expensive over the Holidays. I am back hanging out in MTY. Much cheaper and the girls are sexually freaks here, but it does get boring quickly.

[Dj Tan]

Last time I looked, SA still does the auto-renew right?

So any of you guys use pre-paid? Does SA ban you on the 2nd month once they figure that same pre-paid Visa has no more fund in it?

[Elvis 2008]

I'm leaving next week for a solo moto tour of Mexico and, after reading about all the successes here, I had it in mind to try and hook up with someone 1/4th my age on SA.

JC, I was in Mexico when the Covid restrictions hit. When American gyms and restaurants were closed in March 2020, Mexican ones were open and then they closed too. I remember thinking they even got Mexico, Mexico which has laughed and profited off the USA's "moral" stand with regards to drugs, prostitution, and gambling.

But the border never closed and when an American border town mandated wearing masks and none were too be found in the USA, I was able to buy several in Mexico.

Mexico reopened faster than everyone else and never required Covid vaccination to enter their country. When Colombia closed down, Dramafree suggested I look at Mexico, and the Mexican women literally kept me sane in this world that had gone totally mad. I traveled to Cancun when air fares were dirt cheap and stayed at resorts for next to nothing and went to amusement parks that were empty. Quite frankly, while the world was mad, I was having the time of my life.

And a month after Colombia reopened is when I met my woman, which would not have happened without the lockdown and travel ban, so you may think I am upset at someone like you but honestly people like you gave me the biggest gift of a lifetime. And what I mean by people like you is this:

Republican-voting suckers actually caught and died from Covid-19 after refusing to wear a mask for fear that they would be taken for a "Democrat"/"lib" for doing so.

Kind of wishing it was a little more deadly.

This is not about you, it's about the health of all humans.

1) If you're not vaccinated, you will get it (unless the disease is first eradicated through the efforts of others).

2) The longer the disease circulates, the more it mutates. The delta mutation is apparently 100X more contagious than previous mutations. It exists in the US because you didn't get vaccinated.

Like I said, personally, I should hug and thank a guy like you because my life was never better than during the pandemic. But I do have to ask if you have any regrets about what you posted. And do you find it at all hypocritical that you are traveling and asking advice for guys like me about Mexico, the one country that gave guys like you the middle finger?

As for your question, I never showed a photo on seeking and did not have any problem getting women. Best cities were Monterrey and CDMX for seeking. Best cities for P4 P were MTY and Tijuana. I would be careful going to or near Jalisco or Sinaloa. Sinaloa cartel, which tried to keep a lid on violence, has been overtaken by the Jalisco cartel who are killing people everywhere including the beaches of Cancun and Tulum. Sinaloa has been in turmoil since one of El Chapo's sons was arrested. Guadalajara is a great town and may have the best weather of all the major cities in Mexico and best P4P scene but I would hesitate going there now unless I got reassurance from those who have been recently. Seeking women in MTY want less than CDMX but MTY gets old after a while. In general, outside of the tourist areas like Cancun / Tulum, in general, the further South you go in Mexico, the less attractive the women are. If you find a babe in CDMX and want to spend a weekend away somewhere warmer and sunnier, Cuernavaca is a great place and only a cheap 90 minute bus ride from CDMX. Hope that helps.

[HumbleHal]

Me no wife sex for 25+ years. For "status" I used Open Relationship, as there is no real good fit. I am not "Married but Looking" (I'm not planning to change my marriage sitch) nor am I single.

I always tell women I am a widower. My ex-wife died a few years ago. I get more sympathy and understanding from the women.

If they ask more I say "I cut the brake lines of her car" and look at the expression on their faces change.

[AsianPursuits]

Plenty of talk about the potential for chat bots to ruin the world. Here is the profile that ChatGPT suggests for me.

I suggested: write a sugar dating profile for a white male adventurous guy.

Occupation: Adventure Tour Guide

About Me:
I am a white, adventurous guy who loves to explore new places and try new things. I am outgoing, confident, and always up for a good time. Whether it's hiking a mountain, bungee jumping, or trying a new type of food, I am always down for an adventure. I am also a very ambitious person and am always working towards achieving my goals. I am looking for a sugar baby who is fun-loving, adventurous, and enjoys trying new things. I am willing to be your sponsor, in exchange for your company and companionship on my adventures.

What I Offer:

Exclusive and luxurious travel experiences
A financially stable and generous sponsor
A fun-loving and adventurous companion
A chance to experience new and exciting things
What I'm Looking For:

A sugar baby who is fun-loving, adventurous, and enjoys trying new things
Someone who is open-minded and ready for new experiences
A sugar baby who is looking for a financially stable and generous sponsor
Someone who is willing to join me on my adventures and make new memories together

Then being more specific: write a sugar dating profile for a male adventurous guy that prefers Asian girls.

About me: I'm a thrill-seeking, adventurous guy who loves to explore new places and try new things. I'm always up for a challenge and am always looking for new ways to push my limits. I'm also a huge fan of Asian culture, and I love to travel to different parts of Asia to experience new cultures and meet new people.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a fun-loving, adventurous girl who is open to new experiences and is willing to join me on my travels. I'm particularly interested in meeting Asian girls, as I find their culture and beauty to be incredibly captivating. I'm looking for someone who is open-minded, outgoing, and confident, and who is not afraid to take risks and try new things.

My ideal sugar baby: My ideal sugar baby is a confident and adventurous Asian girl who is open to new experiences and is not afraid to take risks. She should be open-minded, outgoing, and confident, and should be willing to join me on my adventures and explore new places with me. She should also be able to hold a conversation and be able to engage in a variety of activities.

What I can offer: I can offer my sugar baby an exciting and adventurous lifestyle, with the opportunity to travel to new places and experience new cultures. I can also offer my sugar baby financial support and help her to achieve her goals and aspirations. I'm also a great listener and can offer my sugar baby a listening ear and a supportive shoulder when she needs it.

If you're a fun-loving, adventurous Asian girl who is looking for a thrill-seeking guy to join you on your adventures, then I'm the guy for you! Let's explore new places together and make unforgettable memories!

[Steve 9696]

Thanks for all the superb advice, which I've come to expect from (90%) of this forum. I'm kind of tempted just to tell the truth -- I've been married for forty years and, while I haven't had sex with my wife in almost twenty years, I don't want to embarass her.

I will report back with the results.

We are in very similar situations. Me no wife sex for 25+ years. For "status" I used Open Relationship, as there is no real good fit. I am not "Married but Looking" (I'm not planning to change my marriage sitch) nor am I single.

I have some girls ask if I'm married and I explain yes but it's sexless. Generally they are appalled and did not know such things exist! And quite sympathetic. So it's usually positive when disclosed.

[John Clayton]

...I do cover this in my profile saying that I am an executive and have to be discreet so no photos on site but glad to send...I am moving my city around all the time depending where I am headed next.

Thanks for all the superb advice, which I've come to expect from (90%) of this forum. I'm kind of tempted just to tell the truth -- I've been married for forty years and, while I haven't had sex with my wife in almost twenty years, I don't want to embarass her.

I will report back with the results.

[Steve 9696]

You can post private photos that no one can see unless you give them permission. In your situation it might also be wise to use a different location than where you actually live. Scammers have been known to pose as female members, hijack photos, and put them on the internet. You pay them some money and they take them down. These sites are organized by city though, so if you say you live in Duluth but you're really in New Orleans it's very unlikely friends or family would see the photos.

I wasnt able to set up a SA account when traveling in Europe. I think it was because I was using a U.S. credit card as I believe I tried using a VPN, and tried indicating I lived in Europe. You might have a similar problem if you try to sign up in Mexico.

Better yet don't post any photos in your profile. No lead photo. No hidden photos. I have been doing this wildly successfully for four years now and have NO photos posted on the site at all. No chance of being outted that way. I do cover this in my profile saying that I am an executive and have to be discreet so no photos on site but glad to send.

And then depending how conservative you want to be you can either send a girl a photo thru the site as part of a message or you can say you aren't comfortable posting photos on the site and move them to WhatsApp. Not a problem for s girl worth her salt.

And yes you can def put your city as elsewhere. I am moving my city around all the time depending where I am headed next.

[AmericanPi]

A 79 year old man who is going to bang girls 1/4 his age and who needs to keep this secret from his wife.

I only have 2 things to say.

1. I want to be you when I'm 79.

2. I want to get a beer with you.

I'm leaving next week for a solo moto tour of Mexico and, after reading about all the successes here, I had it in mind to try and hook up with someone 1/4th my age on SA. I'm hesitating because of the fear of getting outed somehow. On Tinder, I felt somewhat protected because I could limit who saw my photo to a defined distance, say five miles. I don't see that option on SA. It seems unlikely, but my wife does have younger, single friends. Question is, who can see my photo on SA? Should I wait until I actually get deep into Mexico before I set up the account, or is there someway to limit who can see you?

[Tiny 12]

I'm leaving next week for a solo moto tour of Mexico and, after reading about all the successes here, I had it in mind to try and hook up with someone 1/4th my age on SA. I'm hesitating because of the fear of getting outed somehow. On Tinder, I felt somewhat protected because I could limit who saw my photo to a defined distance, say five miles. I don't see that option on SA. It seems unlikely, but my wife does have younger, single friends. Question is, who can see my photo on SA? Should I wait until I actually get deep into Mexico before I set up the account, or is there someway to limit who can see you?

You can post private photos that no one can see unless you give them permission. In your situation it might also be wise to use a different location than where you actually live. Scammers have been known to pose as female members, hijack photos, and put them on the internet. You pay them some money and they take them down. These sites are organized by city though, so if you say you live in Duluth but you're really in New Orleans it's very unlikely friends or family would see the photos.

I wasn’t able to set up a SA account when traveling in Europe. I think it was because I was using a U.S. credit card as I believe I tried using a VPN, and tried indicating I lived in Europe. You might have a similar problem if you try to sign up in Mexico.

[KeviKev68]

I'm leaving next week for a solo moto tour of Mexico and, after reading about all the successes here, I had it in mind to try and hook up with someone 1/4th my age on SA. I'm hesitating because of the fear of getting outed somehow. On Tinder, I felt somewhat protected because I could limit who saw my photo to a defined distance, say five miles. I don't see that option on SA. It seems unlikely, but my wife does have younger, single friends. Question is, who can see my photo on SA? Should I wait until I actually get deep into Mexico before I set up the account, or is there someway to limit who can see you?

Unless you are a famous person it's almost impossible for someone you know to see you on SA. At your age I mean come on. LOL.

[John Clayton]

I'm leaving next week for a solo moto tour of Mexico and, after reading about all the successes here, I had it in mind to try and hook up with someone 1/4th my age on SA. I'm hesitating because of the fear of getting outed somehow. On Tinder, I felt somewhat protected because I could limit who saw my photo to a defined distance, say five miles. I don't see that option on SA. It seems unlikely, but my wife does have younger, single friends. Question is, who can see my photo on SA? Should I wait until I actually get deep into Mexico before I set up the account, or is there someway to limit who can see you?

[KeviKev68]

I know this has been discussed before but I feel like a public service announcement is due as my goal here is to maximize everyone's experience with the ladies.

First. Why do it?

1. Because it will increase your odds of BLS by at least 5 X. And not just with SA girls but with pros also. A clean sack is the single most important inducement to ball sucking heaven.

2. The girls enjoy it way more. This is a win win. You make her happy AND she spends way more than just s quick tongue flick down there.

3. It FEELS better. I estimate 3 X better feel with slippery clean balls vs hairy.

Second. How to do it.

1. Do NOT use hair remover. Stings like fuck. And will make your sack s red mess no one is sucking for at least a week..

Yes, I shave and clean myself downstairs before the deed. It goes along way to getting those nuts sucked on. I use the Manscaped shaver and works fast no nics. They also toss in a deodorant for nuts that smells nice.

[Tiny 12]

I am. They are pursuing a human trafficking angle and want to fleece you. The Feds can take any assets associated with suspected trafficking without a warrant. I heard a well known sex worker say she knew thousands of sex workers and she did not know one who was trafficked which sounds right to me. I would not hire a lawyer but I would steer the hell away of helping any women move between the states and definitely not move any women between countries. This is the Feds at work:

https://www.insider.com/man-who-had-...y-back-2021-10

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...cated-him.html

https://www.retreatbehavioralhealth....-drug-offense/

Customs are looking thus for a Mann Act Violation: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mann_Act.

Yeah, I met a lawyer off seeking in Mexico and flew here into the USA, and customs harassed the shit out of her probably because of the way she dresses. From what I understand, these customs agents are rewarded with raises if they make a bust on what is being emphasized, and the government has a hard on for trafficking now. They asked Who bought the ticket? How long have you been dating? Where did you meet? She was in tears when I finally met her.

It is kind of funny though about the laws they do not emphasize. When I got Global Entry, they went through this long list of stuff about how global entry could be revoked but the big one was bringing in booze without paying the taxes due on it.

I would not hire a lawyer, and I doubt they will detain you but if they do, know what the Mann Act is and understand they are going to try to trip you up into admitting you violated that law.

Interesting Elvis. I already knew it's a bad idea to invite a hooker to cross state lines or visit the USA because of the Mann Act and FOSTA. But the thought that it could affect sugar babies too never crossed my mind.

You provided a link to a description of the Mann Act above. Here's relevant language from FOSTA.

"Whoever, using a facility or means of interstate or foreign commerce...with the intent to promote or facilitate the prostitution of another person shall be fined under this title, imprisoned for not more than 10 years, or both."

https://www.congress.gov/bill/115th-...bill/1865/text

A little off the topic, in Texas, as you probably know, it's now a state jail felony to see any prostitute.

Good links, thanks. It's crazy the government can just take your money without proving anything.

[The Cane]

I know this has been discussed before but I feel like a public service announcement is due as my goal here is to maximize everyone's experience with the ladies. First. Why do it? Because it will increase your odds of BLS by at least 5 X. And not just with SA girls but with pros also. A clean sack is the single most important inducement to ball sucking heaven. How to do it. Do NOT use hair remover. Stings like fuck. Use a Venus ladies razor. Amazing. Only takes me about 2 minutes now and always on point.

Oh man I love getting my nuts sucked! Thing is, I never knew I did until I became a monger and started going to Costa Rica where the Colombianas would suckle on these here nuts! Haha! Then I started going to Brazil and noticed how the Brasilieras were even more into taking a nose dive for them nuts! And another "weird" thing I noticed in Europe was that it was the Polish girls who liked to suckle at my nuts more than any other nationality over there LOL! I've always been one to use hair removers because it was quick and easy. But like you say, it can burn like hell. Ouch!

So usually what I would do is use the hair remover just a couple of days before departure on my trip as the discomfort typically lasts only a couple of days. Applying some soothing lotion always helps, and by the day it's time to fly, I'm good to go! I've never thought about using a ladies razor. In fact, I have never seriously considered using any kind of razor down there. I say again. Ouch! Do the ladies use a Venus razor on their cootchies like that? I guess if it's safe for them to do that then it should be safe for these here nuts too! Ha! I'll give it a try. But if I cut my scrotum bro? You got a cursing out a coming! Hahaha!