Seeking Arrangements

[Mush Elvii]

Anyone used SA in BOG (recently)? I got alot of leads in just past few days and wondering if anyone used SA (including 3 some options) and if I can match my notes with them? This'll help me weed off some of possible clunkers.

Appreciate your input!

Stay horny ya' all!

[OffMan73]

Can I DM you?

You are right. I am living the time of my life right now. But no it's not exactly a flexible don't ask don't tell relationship. A couple things here that other marrieds might cobsider:

1. At first I was paralyzed that she might find out. But the more I thought about it I realized I'the be happier single than married at this stage. I want to keep things together "for the kids" for a couple more years. And she NEEDS me. She's very dependent on me. If things went south she's be waaaaay more fucked than I would. So it's kinda funny. I keep it private for HER sake not for mine. She's a smart girl tho. She prob knows something is up and too smart to push to hard because she knows she needs me more than I need her.

2. I work very hard to ensure all details are covered. If I say I am going out to dinner I make sure that place is open. I know the menu and "what I had". It's all made up. But she asks sometimes. Likewise I recently went in a trip and didn't actually go where she thinks I did. I took Shayla to Miami instead. But I had itinerary and hotel reservations for my pseudo location. Texted take off and landing at appropriate time zone adjusted times etc. It was a fuck load of work and very dicey at times! But totally worth the meticulous planning.

I guess those are my two key points to other married guys:

1. Consider how bad it would be if it all went south. Is it really that bad? Set your risk tolerance around this.

2. Engineer your opportunities and plan your cover story meticulously.

Or maybe I'm just fucking lucky. LOL.

[Maha Siddha]

When you sign up on SA you need 1. A new email account to give them- gmail or yahoo will set it up, 2. A new phone number to give them-google voice will set it up, 3. Then when you input your credit or debit card on their pay page you use a different first name (like your middle name), 4. A new street number that is not the same, like 2 numbers off, but the same street name, same city and zip code so it will go thru. Your bank will let it thru. SA does not track the IP address. Worked for me.

It works!! Thanks for the guidance bro.

[Blue Swede]

Hi!

I get an error message when trying to log on:

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Any idea what that is?

Can add: It was only using Chrome on the PC that didn't work, so it was not that bad.

[WyattEarp]

And on the supply side, I was at a store in a very rural Texas town and heard two somewhat attractive women talking, and one said, "Maybe I will just get a sugar daddy and get a trip to the Bahamas then. " So it looks like the supply side may be fine.

I am just shaking my head at how open the sugar market is now and in the Bible belt of Texas no less.

That's an understatement.

[Blue Swede]

Hi!

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Any idea what that is?

[Elvis 2008]

But I hear some guys get 300 so I figure I'll float that out there. 300. She says "300 is your offer including intimacy?" I guess she must have forgot the incredulous emoji because I texted back and she's ghosted me. 300 was clearly a stone cold insult to her GPS. Oh well. Next!

Yeah, it was ridiculous. I was talking to some strippers and they were like prepandemic, if we left the club with $500 we were happy, but now it is $1000 per night. That was a sign to me to short the market because when the economy gets shut down, we should not see strippers doubling their incomes. And I looked at escort prices, and there was no one I was interested in for less than $500 an hour for a while.

But I looked at the escort market last week just for grins and I was seeing what IMO are doable women going for $300 an hour now, so Steve, maybe the gal you hit up has not get the new memo on prices.

And on the supply side, I was at a store in a very rural Texas town and heard two somewhat attractive women talking, and one said, "Maybe I will just get a sugar daddy and get a trip to the Bahamas then. " So it looks like the supply side may be fine.

I am just shaking my head at how open the sugar market is now and in the Bible belt of Texas no less.

[Elvis 2008]

I wonder if he seriously doesn't see the irony in specifically calling out the things a condom can't protect you from.

LOL. Yeah, that was my sentiments exactly. I wish we could ban the STD talk especially people who are so definitive on what is safe and what is not. People should talk to their doctor, read the facts, and make up their own minds on what to do. We are all adults here.

[HumbleHal]

My experience with SA in USA is not so good. Girls have GPS with high expectations and bad service. (I am also in 40's and prefer girls in 25 age range with slim body).

I did get some good vibes with black girls, but these girls are too much drama and not in good shape, but willing to provide BBFS.

Specially had lot of girls available a week before Christmas as they were looking for quick money for holidays.

Yes, we all want 25 year old girls. They are in better shape, more fun and less critical, and have a good sex drive and are more mature than the 18-21 year olds who expect free money without fucking. And I have also noticed much better response rates with the black girls, one of whom said in her profile, as a black woman, she did not want AA (African) men. And they are more willing to perform for less, around $200 for starters seems to be accepted for me. The white girls seem to want 400-500. Many want meetup fees, or try to add extras. Its about supply and demand, no? In reality the white women, age 25, seem to be in higher demand and can command more money than the black women.

[HumbleHal]

SA banned me three times.

I used prepaid debit card which l did for my last run.

I have not bought the membership since April 2022.

Any brothers here use prepaid debit card for that and which one?

Last time l use green dot and it worked fine.

I am really concerned SA again change their rules??

Thanks for all the help.

When you sign up on SA you need 1. A new email account to give them- gmail or yahoo will set it up, 2. A new phone number to give them-google voice will set it up, 3. Then when you input your credit or debit card on their pay page you use a different first name (like your middle name), 4. A new street number that is not the same, like 2 numbers off, but the same street name, same city and zip code so it will go thru. Your bank will let it thru. SA does not track the IP address. Worked for me.

[AmericanPi]

I wonder if he seriously doesn't see the irony in specifically calling out the things a condom can't protect you from.

He does.

He has read the literature.

And he understands that something not being 100 percent prophylactic is not the same as being 0 percent prophylactic. And that for the herp in particular a condom is quite prophylactic for the areas covered.

And he understands that his caution has worked throughout his life despite his, and because of his, skeezy ways and he encourages others who engage in sexual acts with a rotating cast of strangers to consider exercising the same care for their own safety, because they love love love doing this. So much. And they like me want to do it as long as humanly possible.

[Parasitius]

. I imagine you already have herpes and warts if you're asking that. Or you will soon.

I wonder if he seriously doesn't see the irony in specifically calling out the things a condom can't protect you from.

[Ucgdx]

600+ and you get BBFS??

With the plane tickets to CDMX and Airbnb it might end up with similar cost.

Last trip l stayed for 6 weeks in CDMX and on average 2 girls per week.

Airbnb ends up like 4 k+ usd.

BBFS is a touchy subject: some guys like it and some don't. Some girls like it and some don't. Among amateur SA girls, I've never found one that tried charging extra for it.

[AmericanPi]

Man what did you do to get banned 3 times? 3?

I buy green dots. They are not easy to find. There's a Walgreens near my house and I buy them there. They are behind the counter and it's always kind of odd when the cashier wonders (I imagine he's wondering) why I'm so picky about the Visa card I want. "No not that one it has to be that one. In the middle row at the bottom. That one."

SA banned me three times.

I used prepaid debit card which l did for my last run.

I have not bought the membership since April 2022.

Any brothers here use prepaid debit card for that and which one?

Last time l use green dot and it worked fine.

I am really concerned SA again change their rules??

Thanks for all the help.

[KeviKev68]

I have arrangements in Nor Cal and So Cal (San Diego) there are many more women in San Diego by far. The price range is $200 - $600. I had a French Au Pair (I'll find her pics) that was 450 and she was the only one who wouldn't do BBFS. She did swallow me but her visa expired so she's back in France. You might have to get an UBER as most of the girls don't have cars.

I don't do dinner dates or drinks it's not for me. I always meet in public place during the day so that I can see them clearly. My experience is that BBFS is almost automatic. I always ask what things they are not comfortable with. If they want things covered they will say this.

I have noticed that most of the black girls (I am a black guy) will not do BBFS. I think in the USA you have to more discreet about how you approach women than say Mexico. Many will feel conflicted if they perceive an arrangement as purely sex for money. That's essentially what it is but I try to make it feel differently.

I think someone earlier had asked about SA in Tijuana. I don't think it's necessary since you can go to the clubs and pick the girl you want. The hottest girls work Saturday nights and I think they go to the highest bidder and regulars. When I went to Tijuana and this was over 10 years ago it was $60 for the girl and $15 for the room. The street girls $20 but the service is very basic. For the most part service in Tijuana is covered unless you can strike a deal.