Can't go as many times as I would like

[TerryHintz]

I'm a young guy (28) and I've had a couple ED problems in the past and was also curious about ways to keep going after a shot. Got bored listening to Cumtown and heard them joke about blue chew. Got a prescription and it's actually legit. Refractory period was lower, I could last longer even. You can do it through just their website, of course you'll have to fill out their health questionnaire so you've got to be comfy with that. Weird thing is I never did the virtual consultation with a physician but they sent me the stuff anyway so that was cool.

First time taking one 30 MG kicked like a fucking horse, was pretty awesome. It can take anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour to kick in. Head got fuzzy, I was the hardest I could get, I felt a serious compulsion to screw, heart was pounding. It might have been from excitement or a placebo effect because I definitely got more mild reactions when I took it later, still does the job though. Later on I'the need to take two 30 MG for a similar effect to the first time. But yeah BlueChew sildebafil definitely does the trick, you can chew or swallow the pill.

I really got to warn those with heart, health problems and our older gentlemen, I mean it when I say it kicks. For comparisons same I workout often and weigh 170. There were times after taking blue chew that I felt super sleepy after and could get a headache. Be serious with their questionnaire and honest with yourself, there's really no physician to tell you that it could be a bad idea. If unsure, be smart and start with the lowest dosage, maybe cut that pill in half even and gauge your response from there. Results really are best when you've eaten well and are hydrated, avoid alcohol, seriously makes a difference. But yeah all in all very good stuff. Really helps ED, or if you just want to Lance Armstrong your sex game.

[Dan7373]

Thank you. This is the most accurate reason.

Last night I did it without leaving the bed. Did it while laying on the bed and the partner infront of me. Asked her to do it for me. It went normal. No sudden loss of erection happened. Yes, it was a bit weaker but then when I focused on my partner and what turns me on in my partner, it got hard again.

I think it is a focus issue. The more you think of things that turn you on in your partner, even if it is something you imagine, the more you'd be getting blood flow and a hard on. Afterall, the most powerful sexual organ is the brain.

Thank you for the recommendation.

I've learned this idea of focus from my own experience with a hot P4P lady.

I met her when she was fully dressed in loose clothing that hid her figure. And I wasn't even sure if I wanted to be with her. She didn't seem like much of an attraction for my cocky action. But then in our private room, she asked me to wait, while she went to undress in front of a large mirror on the wall. She dropped her clothing. And I gasped at how nice her figure was. She had small natural tits and a very nice, big, sexy ass.

This lady was so hot that I thought she was out of my league. And normally, she would be. But she was doing P4P. And she agreed to do it with me.

This lady got me to undress, and she did a soapy body-to-body massage on me. Her tits, her nice ass, and her pussy were all over me. She even spread her legs and did some pussy sliding on my thigh to make me a cocky guy.

But I was so intimidated by her sexiness and beauty that I didn't do much grabbing and feeling. I just lay there passively and let her do her stuff. And I wasn't even thinking and planning how I was going to nail her pussy with my cock. I was instead thinking about how hot she was and that I needed to impress her. So, I focused my attention on myself to control my behavior and to show her my best side.

Eventually, she finished her body-to-body massage on me. She lay back and invited me to take her pussy with my cock in the missionary position. I got up, put on a condom with some struggle, and attempted to take advantage of her pussy offer. But my cock wasn't hard enough to penetrate her. And I think a part of the problem was that this lady wasn't fully ready for intercourse with me. I didn't do anything at all to foreplay this girl. She rubbed her pussy on my thigh. But this was more for my pleasure than for hers.

Fortunately, this hot P4P lady was experienced enough to know what the problem was and how to fix it. She told me right away to massage her pussy and clit with the flat of my hand. And she showed me how to do it with her own hand.

Her pussy and my hand were both slippery after that body-to-body massage. And I really enjoyed getting to know all the prominences and folds of her pussy lips and clit with my slippery hand. I recalled how I masturbated myself with my own hand. And I started to massage this lady's pussy with my hand with the same speed, force, and timing as I would've masturbated my own cock. I basically masturbated her pussy with my hand, the way I would've masturbated my own cock. Except I did it with my open hand to adapt it for her pussy. Flat hand, instead of wrapped around. That's the only difference.

And this worked so well for the lady that her clit got hard. I knew it was her clit. Because her pussy lips were spreading, stretching, and sliding all over the place under my firm hand. But in between her pliable pussy lips there was a hard immovable prominence, which had to be her clit. I mostly used her pussy lips to massage her clit. But once in a while her pussy lips spread apart in such a way that I felt her hard clit directly on the flat of my hand. My hand was well lubricated, and I didn't apply too much pressure. So, even this direct contact was apparently pleasant for her.

This lady got red in the face, and she began to breath heavily. I continued to masturbate her. And she began to struggle close to orgasm. Apparently, she didn't want to orgasm. Because she was there for my pleasure and not so much hers. And she probably didn't want to lose her mood by getting completely satisfied. She was P4P. And she wasn't just doing it with me. She had to save it for other guys too.

And by this time, I had a huge erection going. Because I totally focused on her and forgot about myself. I also foreplayed this lady really well, so well that she was close to orgasm. Ready to take me on she really was. She was still in the missionary position, with her legs spread apart. So, she told me a couple of times to get on top of her and ride. And she motioned me with her hand in a semi-circle towards herself as a non-verbal invitation for me to get on top of her and ride.

A hot invitation this certainly was. I've before had any lady invite me with her hand like that.

I quickly put on a condom, because I was so hard and ready for this hot lady. And ride her pussy good in the missionary position I really did.

I think the easiest way to focus your attention on the lady is to focus your senses on her. Look at the lady's pussy, tits, and ass. Fill your mouth with her tit and suck on it. Grab her nice ass. Massage her thighs. And masturbate her pussy with the flat of your hand.

It's not hard to maintain your mental focus on the lady, when you are looking at her, touching her, and masturbating her.

Masturbating yourself can also help, if you are imagining and planning how you are going to take the hot lady with your hands, mouth, and cock. But putting on your condom while worrying about your looks and performance with the lady is a big no-no. If you have a tendency to do that. Then get the lady to put on your condom, while you are looking at her charms and getting to know her pussy, tits, and ass with your hands.

[VonderJohn]

I think the problem is a change of focus from your partner to yourself. During foreplay, you are focused on your partner and not on yourself. But when you take a condom and start putting it on, then your focus changes from your partner to yourself. And that's what causes a loss of excitement and a loss of erection.

I suggest that you ask your partner to put on the condom on you, rather you doing it yourself. And while your partner is doing it, try to maintain your focus on your partner with some foreplay for your partner.

Thank you. This is the most accurate reason.

Last night I did it without leaving the bed. Did it while laying on the bed and the partner infront of me. Asked her to do it for me. It went normal. No sudden loss of erection happened. Yes, it was a bit weaker but then when I focused on my partner and what turns me on in my partner, it got hard again.

I think it is a focus issue. The more you think of things that turn you on in your partner, even if it is something you imagine, the more you'd be getting blood flow and a hard on. Afterall, the most powerful sexual organ is the brain.

Thank you for the recommendation.

[Dan7373]

Hello mongerers,

So my question is about stamina during sex:

I get normal erections. With no premature ejaculation or any ED issues. But there's one period when I have an erection that fades:

The period when my penis is erect and hard. Then I go to put my condom on for penetration. This is when the erection fades during that 4-5 second period. And doesn't easily come back.

Is that normal? Do you go through it?

Again, I get normal hard ONS during foreplay, bare blowjobs (so it is not a blood flow problem). But it just doesn't last long when I go to put the condom. Is it a focus problem? An exhaustion problem? Is there a way to avoid it?

It's been happening 80% of the times and it is annoying for me and my partner.

Thanks in advance for any feedback on this.

I think the problem is a change of focus from your partner to yourself. During foreplay, you are focused on your partner and not on yourself. But when you take a condom and start putting it on, then your focus changes from your partner to yourself. And that's what causes a loss of excitement and a loss of erection.

I suggest that you ask your partner to put on the condom on you, rather you doing it yourself. And while your partner is doing it, try to maintain your focus on your partner with some foreplay for your partner.

[Dan7373]

Even if it is a pro or whatever her status is I still like making them cum. It's happened plenty, I mean I want them to enjoy it too. Part of my pleasure is getting her off or at least trying. Even if she is a pro.

Maybe some fake it, maybe some cum hard, maybe some don't cum at all. But I much prefer they are enjoying themselves.

You can extend your enjoyment by delaying your orgasm. Orgasm is what brings enjoyment to an end.

I'd rather enjoy a hot lady for an hour or two, without orgasm, than orgasm with her in 5 minutes or so and lose my motivation and my sexual interest with her.

With women, it's hard to tell if they are faking their orgasm or not. And I found from my experience that when a woman orgasms with me, then she loses her interest and motivation to have more sex. Which isn't hot for me.

Perhaps orgasm has a place in P4P. But it should be delayed until the end of your time with the lady, rather happen at the beginning or in the middle and suddenly bring your session with the lady to an end.

When you've paid for a 2-hour session with the lady, and you cum in the first 15 minutes or so, then this is a disappointment, rather than something to feel happy about. It should be more like a porn-movie, where the orgasm happens at the end of the scene, that lasts at least half and hour or more.

A 5-minute experience isn't much of an experience. A good hour or more is what makes your experience with the lady memorable and fully enjoyable.

[Dan7373]

I think that is called a glutton, not a connoisseur. In the hood we call it letting your eyes overload your ass. Eat then throw up just so you can eat more. Being a connoisseur is not sitting down to eat 10 different desserts at one time. Or in your case not finishing the first dessert so you can move on to a second and taking only one bite of that so you can move on to the third.

Perhaps you haven't heard of wine tasting events. People at these events smell the wine aroma, swish the wine in their mouth, and then they spit it out. They don't actually drink the wine, and they don't get drunk even when they taste 20 different wines.

That's what being a connoisseur is like. And it works like this in any field. Connoisseurs aren't gluttons. They are tasters and experiencers.

And a glutton in sex is someone who seeks to orgasm, even when he is already satisfied. This like stuffing your mouth with more food, when you already full, and you can hardly eat anymore.

[OldSchool318]

Even if it is a pro or whatever her status is I still like making them cum. It's happened plenty, I mean I want them to enjoy it too. Part of my pleasure is getting her off or at least trying. Even if she is a pro.

Maybe some fake it, maybe some cum hard, maybe some don't cum at all. But I much prefer they are enjoying themselves.

[Mr Enternational]

You can be a hungry man, or you can be a connoisseur.
But when you aren't painfully hungry anymore, then it makes sense to be a connoisseur. And a connoisseur is out to taste and experience everything that's available.

I think that is called a glutton, not a connoisseur. In the hood we call it letting your eyes overload your ass. Eat then throw up just so you can eat more. Being a connoisseur is not sitting down to eat 10 different desserts at one time. Or in your case not finishing the first dessert so you can move on to a second and taking only one bite of that so you can move on to the third.

[Dan7373]

What the what? I thought the reason people fuck is so they can cum. What is the sense in saying I fucked a bunch of chicks if I did not get the payoff? Maybe the chick you are with stops herself, but how does this give you a license to say they? And who cares what they are doing? You are paying to get your rocks off. If not, then you should specify to the chick what exactly it is you are paying for before your session starts. If you are so set on a chick getting off then get a chick that is not a hooker and go to town on her. But these hookers are not your girlfriend. Why are you worried about if they orgasm or not?

You can be a hungry man, or you can be a connoisseur.

When you are truly hungry, then it makes sense to gulp down the first available meal. You just want to relieve the pain of your hunger. And in such a situation it doesn't make sense to hold back. You need to relieve your pain as quickly as you can.

But when you aren't painfully hungry anymore, then it makes sense to be a connoisseur. And a connoisseur is out to taste and experience everything that's available. His goal is pleasure. And pleasure is the opposite of pain. Pain you want to relieve quickly. But pleasure you want to extend and make it last for as long as possible.

So, it depends on your need and your state of mind.

There isn't just one reason why people eat. And there isn't just one reason why people fuck.

So, there is no such thing as 'The Reason'. There are many reasons, depending on people's circumstances, needs, and goals.

P4P ladies avoid orgasm so that they can maintain their motivation and sexual interest to do many guys. And a true connoisseur also avoids orgasm, so that he can maintain his motivation and sexual interest to do many ladies.

The P4P lady does it so that she can make money. She might also enjoy it like a connoisseur. But money, rather than enjoyment is her main goal. While a connoisseur doesn't make any money. His motivation is strictly enjoyment. And there is nothing wrong with connoisseurs learning from P4P ladies how to do it well.

[Mr Enternational]

I would stop every time I would come close to orgasm, wait, and resume once my orgasmic feeling recedes. And not only was I able to last for a long time with one lady at a time, but I was also able to do several ladies in one day.

The key is to enjoy but stop short of orgasm. This is what keeps you in the mood to do every hot lady good.

And I think that's how P4P ladies do it too to stay in the mood to do every guy good.

They enjoy sex, just as the guys. But they do everything they can to stop themselves from having a real orgasm. And having a fake orgasm with a guy is one of the ways for these ladies to stop themselves from having a real orgasm. Because when the guy thinks his lady has orgasmed, then he lets up on her and lets her rest.

What the what? I thought the reason people fuck is so they can cum. What is the sense in saying I fucked a bunch of chicks if I did not get the payoff? Maybe the chick you are with stops herself, but how does this give you a license to say they? And who cares what they are doing? You are paying to get your rocks off. If not, then you should specify to the chick what exactly it is you are paying for before your session starts. If you are so set on a chick getting off then get a chick that is not a hooker and go to town on her. But these hookers are not your girlfriend. Why are you worried about if they orgasm or not?

[Dan7373]

I once spent some time with an experienced P4P lady, who worked at a Thai massage parlor. She was pretty good in bed with me. But she never let me bring her to a full orgasm.

I was pretty good at massaging this lady's pussy with my well-lubricated hand, so good that I brought her close to orgasm every time. She was the one who showed me how to do it. But she never let me finish her off. She would stop me and get me to bang her with my cock. And I would quickly lose it to her, because she was hot, too hot for me. I couldn't last for long with her.

I think the reason why this lady wouldn't let me orgasm her was because she wanted to stay in the mood to do other guys good. Too much sexual satisfaction makes both men and women lose their interest in sex for a while.

I tried this idea on myself. I would stop every time I would come close to orgasm, wait, and resume once my orgasmic feeling recedes. And not only was I able to last for a long time with one lady at a time, but I was also able to do several ladies in one day.

The key is to enjoy but stop short of orgasm. This is what keeps you in the mood to do every hot lady good.

And I think that's how P4P ladies do it too to stay in the mood to do every guy good.

They enjoy sex, just as the guys. But they do everything they can to stop themselves from having a real orgasm. And having a fake orgasm with a guy is one of the ways for these ladies to stop themselves from having a real orgasm. Because when the guy thinks his lady has orgasmed, then he lets up on her and lets her rest.

[AussieGaigin]

I know there out there I have seen the ads. Don't know how legit they are or how well they work.

Might be of help to some that can't go often.

I really doubt it. I wouldn't waste your money. Even a lot of the stuff that chemists sell is useless. Look for other ways to get healthy.

[OldSchool318]

I know there out there I have seen the ads. Don't know how legit they are or how well they work.

Might be of help to some that can't go often.

[Lucky Nuts]

I remember when I was 26 in Frankfurt. I probably banged 10 girls in one day (with condom). Hell, as recently as 5 years ago, I did trips to the Philippines where I averaged banging 2-3 per day for 2 weeks and had a blowout of 5 or so girls on my last night.

Now that I'm 48, I'm much more worldly. I know where to go to get some bare poontang. Mainly Philippines, Colombia, and Tijuana with Seeking Arrangements. I just can't get motivated or recover fast enough to bang more than 2 per day. I've tried taking Clomid to get my T up. But it doesn't seem to help much. The cost of my trips are much harder to justify when I only bang 1. 5 chicks per day. Like I did on my latest trips to Bogota and Tijuana. I have a huge backlog of hot girls who have agreed to my terms and it's frustrating that I can't make much of a dent in my list.

Has anybody else experience this sort of drop-off? How did you solve it?

I spend winters in Medellin where the action is relatively cheap. So I see more girls day in and day out than I can handle. My simple solution is I just don't come every time. I never have trouble getting hard because I take 50 MG of generic V before she comes over. But I bang them hard ususally until they complain it's too much LOL. Then I decide if I want to finish or save it for the next one. The decision depends on the girl I'm with and what else I have lined up that same day or the next day. Bottom line I'm at the point where I can easily get $70 worth of fun out of a session without the need to always come.

[Lucky Nuts]

Gotcha. Yeah altitude could contribute for sure. I recommend 5 HR energy for basic energy to be up for extended sessions. That shit works.

Yeah that shit really works. I never take a whole bottle at one time anymore or I'll be up for like 15 more hours instead of 5. But I've had some great times with that in my blood followed up by some drinks over the next few hours. And generic V when the time is ripe.