Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[SpicyPrince]

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...c-cb4b01dc5094

SA Ankita3993 Saw her this week at a hotel. MILF type gal. Heavily photoshopped pics. Bad skin and not-so-good teeth.

She loves to experiment and is bi too. We initially agreed for 4 - 5 hours but I think I did not feel the chemistry with her and we just had 1.5 hours. Out of that 1 HR was for fun and 30 min was spent in food.

Looks: 6.5.

Attitude: 7 likes give a BJ but definitely needs instructions. Can definitely take some nice pounding. Not too proactive.

Service: 6.5. I am definitely been spoiled using SA Back home in the US. The fun and the attitude are wayyy better.

Overall: 6 Maybe value for money as she might as 10 K for 2-3 hours.

WIR: No.

Met 2 other Gals from SA recently. One is a keeper will share the details with people who have something to trade valuable info. Another one that was supposed to be a friendly meet-up went beyond friendly. I will write about her later on. Any good English-speaking gals on SA or any NE chicks info will be much appreciated.

[IntMain123]

Ok so I met this really cute girl on sa and we are meeting next month, now I have texted and spoken on call to her a lot of times. She is 20 and cute, I like her, now comes the hard part she has told me that she doesn't want ppm she only wants allowance per month. I asked how much and she told me she never likes to bring up money, she just said meet me first and give me what you feel like I deserve. I am stumped.

I am really worried I will fuck her then she will demand like 50 k pm which I can't afford for me max is 20 k.

Anyone here have asb which they pay per month what's the going rate? I know the rate is different for each girl but I want a way out of this situation, and I would really like to keep the girl because she is really sweet.

Seems like she's either a keeper or a scammer, be prepared for both.

I have a lot of SB / SD experience from overseas, and the girls who ask for allowance before even the first meet are usually the scammy / greedy ones.

Talks about allowance happens when the girl wants to judge your budget limit and to see if you are interested in something long-term. I had converted only one SB to allowance mode, and this was after 4-5 amazing sessions. It was more beneficial for me cause I was ending up spending a lot. It is also important to ensure that the girl will be consistent for the agreed number and duration of arrangements per month, if not, then you are losing.

I would suggest you to meet her a couple of times, pay what you think is fair based on how the deed was, and if she's that good, setup a couple of more sessions to check if she delays or cancels. If all good, then you can switch to monthly allowance mode. And talking about your budget, if it's 20 k, then you should stick to pay-per-meet, cause if she agrees for once a week, and she cancels one or two sessions, then you will also not have enough money to meet any other girl.

[Lged821]

Pass her onto me LOL, I can try her and let you know what she is worth!

Ok so I met this really cute girl on sa and we are meeting next month, now I have texted and spoken on call to her a lot of times. She is 20 and cute, I like her, now comes the hard part she has told me that she doesn't want ppm she only wants allowance per month. I asked how much and she told me she never likes to bring up money, she just said meet me first and give me what you feel like I deserve. I am stumped.

I am really worried I will fuck her then she will demand like 50 k pm which I can't afford for me max is 20 k.

Anyone here have asb which they pay per month what's the going rate? I know the rate is different for each girl but I want a way out of this situation, and I would really like to keep the girl because she is really sweet.

[Niksad008]

Ok so I met this really cute girl on sa and we are meeting next month, now I have texted and spoken on call to her a lot of times. She is 20 and cute, I like her, now comes the hard part she has told me that she doesn't want ppm she only wants allowance per month. I asked how much and she told me she never likes to bring up money, she just said meet me first and give me what you feel like I deserve. I am stumped.

I am really worried I will fuck her then she will demand like 50 k pm which I can't afford for me max is 20 k.

Anyone here have asb which they pay per month what's the going rate? I know the rate is different for each girl but I want a way out of this situation, and I would really like to keep the girl because she is really sweet.

[AdamL]

I'm average looking with an average body. I've had the best experiences with MILFs and separated / divorced ladies above 30-35 years and non-pro college going indies aged 18-20 years.

The older indies don't get enough sex and hence they crave for sex and usually give an unhurried and passionate experience, while young ones can be moulded as per our directions / fantasies.

With increasing popularity, more and more money minded chics are flocking to SA, but every once in a while, you can find some gems too! So keep exploring and hold on to the good ones!

Through non-ISG sources, I tried few indies in Hyderabad. Some have baggage and sob stories, which killed my mood once. I like GFE mostly passionate kissing, which I never got to date among 10 or so episodes. This was pre-pandemic era experience. One interesting one is who worked in an ice cream shop, a girl from a village in Andhra kept on staring at me. One day I waited at the close and asked her about the stares, she was shy and said I am good looking, My antennas went up and started frequenting the shop / area. Long story short, I convinced her to spend a day with me at an Oyo. Persistence paid and we get to spend in an Oyo near HTC.

She is 23, not a looker, skinny, slightly dark, but those innocent bright mesmerizing eyes are a treat. She has hair all over her privates as well as body. She said she is not a virgin, but gave a wonderful GFE experience as she is sex starved. I wish I had pills for more shots. The second and last time I had her, I had Cialis. All in all no money except for Oyo, food and few gifts costing 7 k. She left to her village, never told me the name of the place. She said she is getting married and will not be back.

This happened to me out of luck of draw. If we can invest time in shopping malls looking for pickups, perhaps we will be successful.

[AdamL]

While it is a Red flag for sure. Think from a girl's point of view. She has to handle multiple calls - 90% of which would be rabble and time passers.

Getting back to your predicament. Tell her you are willing to meet her first. Even that could be a bait. So you have to be very careful.

You have a wonderful way of analyzing, digressing as well as documenting things. In other words, the perspective of visualizing hidden side of everything is amazing. I will give it a try with open mind as you thoroughly convinced me. It is an experiment with minimal funds risk. The fact that I like the girl who is youthful, slightly voluptuous, smiley with nice teeth.

Thank you for sharing your uncommon wisdom.

A.

[AdamL]

5 k no one demands its too low. So its a scam just to get that money out of you as you may end up paying being a small amount.

Thank you for jumping in and addressing my concerns. I will certainly be cautious, but try my luck by meeting her in a coffee shop / dinner. I am kind a shy, will try to muster courage to talk about my needs and frequency. I will tell her that I will fork some more funds to increase the frequency.

Few questions:

Is it advisable to pay per meeting?

How often / mode of transmittal for the funds?

If everything goes well with coffee shop, where do you take her? I cannot take to my apartment due to obvious reasons.

Thank you.

[IndianDom]

Hey bro,

Did you find any good contacts on SA in Vizag?

Brethren,

I am very glad to find this forum, and I found this by sheer accident. Needless to say, I am brand new to mongering. I have been looking for love in long places via wrong outlets such as FB.

In my prolific browsing and research, I found a couple / friends in MeWe. The female friend in the couple is looking arrangement from a mature man (I am 43). The guy said she is tired of young folks. For mutual safety we agreed to communicate in Telegram and no numbers were exchanged. She made a video call to show her face as well as checked me out. She looks youthful, looks good to my liking, and honestly I like her. We have not discussed the frequency and type of activities, but the arrangement is 5 K per month. Soon after confirmation, she asked me to send the monthly allowance, which I denied due to my previous KLPD by a facebook (supposedly sugar) friend. I explained her that we need to meet first and then I can disburse payment. My home base is Hyderabad, but at present unfortunately I am stuck in Vizag due to family circumstances. I conveyed to her that I am expected to reach Hyderabad during first week of November. I made the contact about a week ago and the communication is texting via telegram Hello / Hai / etc. I would like to get to know her prior to meeting, but a voice call has not happened yet.

I was wondering if anybody smelled anything in the current transaction. Any guidance / feedback / suggestions is deeply appreciated. Thank you brothers!

[Raabram2005]

Sugarbaby69.

She is 20 yr student in Bangalore. We spoke over the phone a couple of times too. "My allowance would be 40 k per meet, with condom and no anal and I come in the morning and leave post lunch" -- this is her tg message. I am not paying that kind of dough. Plus is cashing on her so-called model tag that's all. I will not pursue her.

Thanks for the feedback. 40 k is quite expensive. I don't think I will pursue her.

[SEXciting]

Hello brother,

Thanks for reading the previous experiences and I hope you have taken your notes. Let me tell you something. Mongering is all about learning from your experiences. If your brain says no or hints a red flag DO NOT proceed. There is nothing like free sex my friend. Money will be involved always. Especially if you are talking about the MP and / or SP.

Seeking is where even larger money comes in play But I still prefer seeking over any other thing as if gives me complete control to handle the situation. Once you are seasoned pro things are easy with the girls. As a matter of fact, I have arrangements with my regulars on seeking who are not even active now but we do have encounters many times without even a penny involved. Of course it has taken many years of commitment with them. Seeking is something that needs time. Once you have the right partner, arrangement you won't regret seeking.

As I say always. Patience is the key. You might have money involved in the arrangement to begin with but nurture it for a few months and you'll get what I am talking about. Don't be a jumping jack and keep changing partners on seeking. Its a long term thing.

Cheers.

None could be a better step by step guide to land a non-pro. Thanks for sharing your experience and observations. I saw your previous posts and it looks you really learn from your past mistakes.

Started mothering recently. With help from pointers on this Forum visited more than half a dozen MPs, 2-3 SP / indies and spent around 20 k in all and never came across a experience which I can recall to be satisfying. Actually most of times, didn't feel to go ahead and start the deed with whole the arrangement making me feel I'm in a place I don't belong to. Be it place, person, privacy, hygiene or no intimacy. Certainly it's not only because of me being new to mongering (am not new to good sex), but also because.

I didn't like being part of sexual encounter where money is the only factor, not One of the factors.

Maybe because it was very mechanical and I can't enjoy if someone is spreading their legs wide open only and only for money. I won't like to be between them.

I like if girl is little bit choosy, hygienic, and involved in the act. I am always a passionate partner (in non-mongering) in the bed and expect same from the other person (in mongering) even if money becomes a part of whole scene..

[SpicyPrince]

Have been chatting to these 2 girls. Appreciate if anyone who has met them provide a feedback. Another girl wildesttt is difficult to get hold of but when contacted seems to be demanding quite high.

Sugarbaby69.

She is 20 yr student in Bangalore. We spoke over the phone a couple of times too. "My allowance would be 40 k per meet, with condom and no anal and I come in the morning and leave post lunch" -- this is her tg message. I am not paying that kind of dough. Plus is cashing on her so-called model tag that's all. I will not pursue her.

[Male Man]

If the girl asks for any advance. It is a red flag. I would not go ahead with the arrangement. Block the contact and move forward.

While it is a Red flag for sure. Think from a girl's point of view. She has to handle multiple calls - 90% of which would be rabble and time passers.

And within the next 10% - you have to meet her criteria.

This kind of arrangement work like corporate arrangement. I know of a friend in Delhi. He had such an arrangement. Monthly allowance of 10 K and max 3 nights or something like that. Again subject to availability. That lady had such tie ups with almost 25+ men. That's a cool 2.5 lakhs per month. Day or night she was available. With men with whom she had good chemistry she used to relax the conditions and have more fun.

This was going on for almost 3+ years when she decided to reduce it for health reasons. Also, this 25+ men were not recurring and consistent. Her experience was max about 7-10 guys were consistent and rest all came and went. But more guys come through reference and hence her monthly count somehow gets met it seems.

But her filter mechanism and something like this. Initially she started with advance to knock of unwanted guys. Slowly she realized she is missing out on customers based on advance and hence she decided to move through reference.

Getting back to your predicament. Tell her you are willing to meet her first. Even that could be a bait. So you have to be very careful.

[ItsMark]

I'm average looking with an average body. I've had the best experiences with MILFs and separated / divorced ladies above 30-35 years and non-pro college going indies aged 18-20 years.

The older indies don't get enough sex and hence they crave for sex and usually give an unhurried and passionate experience, while young ones can be moulded as per our directions / fantasies.

Also repeating the indies will also improve the comfort and chemistry leading to a better experience.

To some extent, you may have to compromise on looks / figure in favour of service! The good looking chics in their 20's already get enough sex and reserve their best GFE for their partners. So unless the monger is super attractive and rich, it is harder to get great GFE from this age group. Good mannerisms, respect, hygiene and grooming also can lead to better experiences.

Regarding platforms, Tinder may have a slight edge over SA to find non-paid and passionate hookups.

With increasing popularity, more and more money minded chics are flocking to SA, but every once in a while, you can find some gems too! So keep exploring and hold on to the good ones!

Actually most of times, didn't feel to go ahead and start the deed with whole the arrangement making me feel I'm in a place I don't belong to. Be it place, person, privacy, hygiene or no intimacy. Certainly it's not only because of me being new to mongering (am not new to good sex), but also because.

I didn't like being part of sexual encounter where money is the only factor, not One of the factors.

Maybe because it was very mechanical and I can't enjoy if someone is spreading their legs wide open only and only for money. I won't like to be between them.

[ItsMark]

5 k no one demands its too low. So its a scam just to get that money out of you as you may end up paying being a small amount.

I second this opinion. 5 k per month is too low for an arrangement. So its most probably a scam.

Meet them first and then see if you want to proceed.

[Raabram2005]

Brethren,

I am very glad to find this forum, and I found this by sheer accident. Needless to say, I am brand new to mongering. I have been looking for love in long places via wrong outlets such as FB.

In my prolific browsing and research, I found a couple / friends in MeWe. The female friend in the couple is looking arrangement from a mature man (I am 43). The guy said she is tired of young folks. For mutual safety we agreed to communicate in Telegram and no numbers were exchanged. She made a video call to show her face as well as checked me out. She looks youthful, looks good to my liking, and honestly I like her. We have not discussed the frequency and type of activities, but the arrangement is 5 K per month. Soon after confirmation, she asked me to send the monthly allowance, which I denied due to my previous KLPD by a facebook (supposedly sugar) friend. I explained her that we need to meet first and then I can disburse payment. My home base is Hyderabad, but at present unfortunately I am stuck in Vizag due to family circumstances. I conveyed to her that I am expected to reach Hyderabad during first week of November. I made the contact about a week ago and the communication is texting via telegram Hello / Hai / etc. I would like to get to know her prior to meeting, but a voice call has not happened yet.

I was wondering if anybody smelled anything in the current transaction. Any guidance / feedback / suggestions is deeply appreciated. Thank you brothers!

If the girl asks for any advance. It is a red flag. I would not go ahead with the arrangement. Block the contact and move forward.