Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[FunForSandy]

The difference here is that they are not old or successful men, but they are young guys who are spending dad's money or running dad's business and fail in dating circle.

That's true. And such guys are used to throwing money, they don't value it as much because they haven't gone through the grind to earn it.

[RoniG]

But the BMW or trophy part will work only if the girl has the look and the sophistication / elegance and who are confident enough to be seen along with an older man. Mere looks or mere sophistication won't suffice. Such girls are extremely rare at least on SA Bangalore. I have met just 2 such in my limited experience.

The difference here is that they are not old or successful men, but they are young guys who are spending dad's money or running dad's business and fail in dating circle.

[Phil50]

But the BMW or trophy part will work only if the girl has the look and the sophistication / elegance and who are confident enough to be seen along with an older man. Mere looks or mere sophistication won't suffice. Such girls are extremely rare at least on SA Bangalore. I have met just 2 such in my limited experience.

I have also met just 2 (maybe 3 if I stretch the definition), after several years in Bangalore.

We are more likely to see the opposite. Girls ordering expensive wine without understand a damn thing about wine, or Sushi, because its the in thing and someone else is paying.
They spend more time photographing food, than eating it.

[Phil50]

Hi Folks,

I'm from Bangalore and looking for someone who can have SA membership on shared basis.

Let me know any one has free slots.

Its not a good idea. If any of the users gets banned, all the IPs used by that account get banned. (you won't be able to use a new ID on the same IP).

SA has made it easier to use Indian credit cards, because the auto renewal is stopped. If you make an account, you will be mailed discount coupons (20%, 25% 33% off).

Before you pay, make your profile active and look at profiles that interest you. It will save you some time in your paid membership.

A 1 month membership with the discount coupon is worth it.

[PandeyBabain76]

CuteVenus seems like a pimp. Did vc for 1 second with someone hot. Booked a room.

Last min asked for booking name, phone number etc.

Flaked when I refused to give personal info.

Avoid. Terrible experience.

CreativeBabe is NE and heavy and face is a turn off. Her ask was 15 k 3 months back. She used to go by Wise gorgeous earlier. This is a new profile.

Adorable Hottie looks more like Nicegurl or Tithi...there are few reviews on her. A bong girl.

[FunForSandy]

On my way to Bombay. Literally in the lounge right now.

Have been searching Bombay and have a couple of new ones lined up and my regular as well.

In the mean time, these are some profiles to avoid.

- Fairytale: Claims to be Sobo and high end and classy. Chat came off like a poorly educated girl. Pics were awful. Dress style and looks. I cannot be seen in public with her. Wanted 30 K. When I said not interested at all. She got offended and a bit hurt. Claiming she is hot and classy and why would I reject her.

- Traveller: 15 K. Pics look like a WG.

- Laila: 30 K. Looks plump and very very average.

- Dipali: 40 K. Looks ok but started bombarding me with inspirational messages in the mornings. So blocked her immediately.

Please suggest some good ones also. I may be in Mumbai next week and am just starting my ground work.

First chat was with Jia who is clearly not well educated.

[FunForSandy]

I have done casual dates on this basis (but after an unpaid casual date to see if we click). The BMW analogy is apt. I'd like someone who does turn heads and is arm candy, who is comfortable in a sophisticated setting or talking to my peers. For e.g a corporate event where I don't like to go alone, but I like my companion to look like my hot GF, not a working girl.

Hardly anyone in the current lot will meet this criteria.

But the BMW or trophy part will work only if the girl has the look and the sophistication / elegance and who are confident enough to be seen along with an older man. Mere looks or mere sophistication won't suffice. Such girls are extremely rare at least on SA Bangalore. I have met just 2 such in my limited experience.

[Mad Hatter]

On my way to Bombay. Literally in the lounge right now.

Have been searching Bombay and have a couple of new ones lined up and my regular as well.

In the mean time, these are some profiles to avoid.

- Fairytale: Claims to be Sobo and high end and classy. Chat came off like a poorly educated girl. Pics were awful. Dress style and looks. I cannot be seen in public with her. Wanted 30 K. When I said not interested at all. She got offended and a bit hurt. Claiming she is hot and classy and why would I reject her.

- Traveller: 15 K. Pics look like a WG.

- Laila: 30 K. Looks plump and very very average.

- Dipali: 40 K. Looks ok but started bombarding me with inspirational messages in the mornings. So blocked her immediately.

[Mad Hatter]

I'd like someone who does turn heads and is arm candy, who is comfortable in a sophisticated setting or talking to my peers. For e.g a corporate event where I don't like to go alone, but I like my companion to look like my hot GF, not a working girl.

Hardly anyone in the current lot will meet this criteria.

This for me is very important. I want someone who can mingle in the same stratas as I can. She needs to be as comfortable eating bhel puri on the street as going to a play at the west end.

I have found a few in the past, but the current crop of girls, who have grown up on the cancer that is social media, are very arrogant with very little substance (looks, style or brains).

[Mad Hatter]

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Iamsobeautifull is a pimp for a high end escort (50 k).

Can confirm. And it appears he operates in multiple cities. Offered girls in Bombay in Delhi as well.

[Bunny123]

Hi Folks,

I'm from Bangalore and looking for someone who can have SA membership on shared basis.

Let me know any one has free slots.

[ScubaDo]

Hey guys,

Did any of you have any interaction with her? I found her pics very hot, dmed her, she has read my msgs but hasn't replied.

TIA.

So I messaged Ariii and got no reply. I can see she has read my message. So, same category as Storm.

[Phil50]

I was supposed to do coffee meets with Cheekyprincess and Kiyaaa yesterday. Both confirmed that it would not be paid. With Kiyaaa the understanding was we would have a proper date after the meet (13 k per hour was her quote).

Cheeky princess is chubby (a turn off for me), but I discovered that after I agreed to the meet. As a gentleman I did not want to call it off. In fact she was insecure about her appearance and
when I delayed replying for a few minutes, she asked if it was because of the pic.
We agreed to meet at a time and place she was comfortable with (a good restaurant 15 minutes form her place). I confirmed I'd pay cab. I round that off to the nearest 500/1000.
She confirms the lunch meet in the morning, then an hour before, asks if I can send money for can since she is broke. I told her I'd pay the cab on arrival. I gave her my name and she
checked me out on google (there's a lot on me). She tells me she can't trust me because 'trust has to be earned' and if I am not there, she will be stranded. So, if I was not going to pay,
I need to pick her up (the restaurant is in the middle of our locations) and even if I ignored the arrogance of this kid, it was impractical.

I asked Kiyaa to confirm (evening dinner meet at a classy meet), she says 'can I ask something ?'. I said sure. She reads my 'sure' message and is silent till now. Asked again if she was coming.
Read but not replied. In both cases they know I'm looking for long term, which is potentially several lacs for them.

I am ghosted, or the 1st meet is called off 1/3rd of the time. That is the reality of SA that we have to live with. I reduce the possibility by making sure we are on the same page with expectations,
the meet is at a time and place of their convenience etc. After all that, this experience is too much.

The sense of entitlement and arrogance of these girls is unbelievable.

[Phil50]

Janvi and Pihu look like pimp profiles.

They will typically have changed locations (between the big cities) or the profile will say they are going to be in town for just a couple of days.
If they are overbooked, you will be told she has periods, or 'busy with a shoot' but her friend is ready to meet.

Nothing wrong in getting business this way. Its an opportunity for those interested, to go directly to source, by saying for e. G. That if more options can be given, you and your friends may be
regular customers.
The same girls will probably be supplied cheaper (as Christmas has posted) but on SA, pimps or girls feel they can charge more.

Iamsobeautifull is a pimp for a high end escort (50 k).

[Phil50]

She makes living on casual dates and prefers that. As per her there are many men ready to pay 6 k to 10 k just for casual dates. Like a dude wants to show off his dad's bmw, a guy wanted a GF for a movie, girl friend for a party etc. Have met her for intimate time and good experience except she is not into DFK. Girl next door looks.

I have done casual dates on this basis (but after an unpaid casual date to see if we click). The BMW analogy is apt. I'd like someone who does turn heads and is arm candy, who is comfortable in a sophisticated setting or talking to my peers. For e.g a corporate event where I don't like to go alone, but I like my companion to look like my hot GF, not a working girl.

Hardly anyone in the current lot will meet this criteria.