Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[Enjoyi]

Dude my experience. I matched with a 20 year old chick on dating app. We met after 4 months of chatting although she stayed close to my home; hardly 10 minutes drive. She is in Delhi because she has applied for a study course. She is staying with her cousin brother who has put a lot of restriction on her movements and timings, instructed by her father to him. She came to Delhi in September and going back in April to attend a wedding, will come back after 2 weeks when interviews and admission process starts before the results come out in July. Now, that's the background of this chick. Coming to the other part, yay yay I know you fuckers well, the juicy one.

She agreed to meet me in February over a cup of coffee after a lot of cajoling and invites. I understand very well it takes guts to connect with a stranger elder than her dad or same page. One month I was ghosted with no response at all. Nevertheless, we spent around 3.5 hours in my car and it was purely a car date wherein I took her on a drive just roaming around the roads of Delhi, showed her my school and college. The idea was to make her feel comfortable and secure so that we could meet again. During the time spent, she opened up with me and shared that had a steady BF from school time of 4 years and has done everything except the intercourse. My question to her, are you a Virgin and she said yes. She replied that she's done orals with her BF and hardly received any because she comes from a family where she wouldn't do that and will protect her virginity. I tell you man, she is damn beautiful, has her morals and principles in right place. I offered her financial help because she is away from family and she reverted that I come from a comfortable family, the only child of her parents, father is a high ranking Government official and dabbles in stocks as well so has made his money. Offer rejected. Her asshole brother called at 9 pm and hurriedly arranged a cab for her and she left. We met again after a week over a wine car date. I had 75% of the bottle and she the balance. I got bold and took her hand in my hand while driving and at one spot asked her permission to kiss and she obliged. Let me inform all gents that I have met her thrice in 1. 5 months after the coffee date and we have made out like teenagers in my car. In all honesty, I have tried my level best to meet her in a private setting for orals and a BJ but she has refused to accompany me to a hotel and asks me a lot of questions like a curious 20 year old. She is very respectful, not always online accessible, her friends have a faint idea that she is going around with an old man (her words to me), does everything like a 20 year old does like going for birthday parties with a sleep over with her friends, went to a concert on Sunday. Shares each and everything with me like a GF does, asks for advice but not even a penny of help in terms of finance from my side as yet. I am very patient and yes, do love spending time with her over a car date of a couple of hours. I would not call her a prized catch as it's too derogatory in my humble opinion for a genuine girl who has her own mind and strict with her morals. A lot of young crowd on dating apps and SA would not agree and judge me but I don't care as it is extremely difficult to find a girl who is as sensitive as you are. I also know from the bottom of my heart that this would not last long when she gets into college, would meet boys of her age and have plenty of options. Will continue with this arrangement till she calls it off because I won't.

I met a chick yesterday and she informed me that I am not fit for this generation of SA babes as I am a very emotional and sensitive fucker but what to do, cannot change myself and my nature at this age. It pains like hell as not stone hearted but these chicks don't give a shit as they want to maximize their earnings. I am not on SA and all my 2 or 3 friends with whom I am in touch have advised me to stay away but that itch is there. No matter what you do for these SA chicks ultimately they dump you and move on to the more lucrative target.

Arjunshah, you could take away whatever rocks your boat from my real and honest escapade. I shared my experience as all girls have different parameters and choices. Take whatever you can as it is recent from October 23 to 3rd April, 24; my last chat with her.

Regards.

It is so very inspiring and hats off to your nack. What are effective ways to use dating apps like Tinder or Bumble while staying committed to our marriages and protecting our face in terms of pics on the profiles? How can we ensure our privacy and boundaries are respected while still meeting new people? Also, how do we handle the necessity of profile photos on these platforms without risking of getting caught by known friends and family and worst scenario by spouse? Please share some tips.

[JPoppen]

Flirtygeek, Foxygorgeous, Mia, Hotnerd, CheekyPrincess, PrettyMusician & Dynamicgirl are at 20 k for 3-4 hours.

Thank you Phil Bro for sharing this.

I have met Hotnerd BLR over an unpaid coffee date. She asked me 25 k for a real meet. I dropped her after that.

She is genuine, educated, curvy, fair and has an average look.

[Phil50]

ObscureGirlie and cutechickie have exactly the same (awful looking) pic. She / he is a scammer into blackmail, once you share your whatsapp no.
It tells you that SA does a terrible job of screening pics.

New profile Ragini (joined 18 Apr) is a scammer. That profile has replaced MeeraVasudevan.
New profile RishikaShetty is most likely the same.
This is the 4th & 5th such b'lore profile playing the same game. All have several attractive pics, age 29+.
Location shown as Bangalore, but tell you its actually Chennai / Coimbatore / Kochi. All will tell you they are not interested in money, only friendship etc.

[BeStill]

Thanks bro. She agreed to meet for coffee and then stopped responding. I just don't understand why can't they be upfront in their communication?

I guess they get a high from the number of men willing to pay them for the pleasure of their company. I wouldn't be surprised if these college / young girls compare notes about how many men are pinging them and how much they are willing to pay.

[Enjoyi]

Flirtygeek, Foxygorgeous, Mia, Hotnerd, CheekyPrincess, PrettyMusician & Dynamicgirl are at 20 k for 3-4 hours.

Flirtygeek & Prettymusician seem to be a full time wg.
Foxy works in a BPO. Slim, good pics.
Mia. Bengali girl, student, nice body.
Hot nerd. In advertising, Fair with big tits.
June and Hysterical girl have equally attractive pics as above, but very slow to respond, No rate yet.
Ammykh - Student from Manipur. Looks petite and cute, quoted 15k

I have not yet met these, but plan to do the coffee meet over the next week. Would appreciate feedback.
I dropped Cheeky princess (student, chubby) and DynamicBelle (North Indian, makeup artiste) who are also at 20 k.

I met with Damsel31 and Jaanu.

Damsel31 - Chubby and dark, though well educated. Dropping her. Did not ask her rate.

Jaanu. Meet went well, agreed to a date (no rate discussed), then stopped replying. She is back in her hometown, apparently in B'lore for a short time.
She had told a different story to another monger (that's she's married) who she also did not meet.
Either had 2nd thoughts, or I may get a request to help with a sudden emergency in her home town.

GPS. Gemini 35 k, Stunninggirl 30 k. CocoaPuff 35 k. I have dropped and did not negotiate.

Bangalore brothers! ! It's great to share information amongst the community. It is clear that everyone benefits from the information shared. This is how we should react to birds on SA and we don't waste time with especially those fake and high demanding ones. I understand that each one of us have a different opinion and need, however when info is available, one can make a choice. I hope the same happens in Hyderabad in the near future.

[Akrt6543]

15 k 3-4 hrs.

Met this 24 yr old bird at Aerocity for a 3-4 hour meet. Initially, had my doubts as it was fairly easy to get her TG from Seeking. YoungBanger's response from the forum provided some trust to go ahead. The girl is Fair, educated, and an amateur. Had a great time, struck long conversations. Body wise on the bulky side but I have nothing to complain. She insisted on a coffee meet first to get to know each other. But due to time constraints, had to bring her straight to the room. Convinced her that she could trust me. Will definitely repeat.

[JPoppen]

I am messaging her, slow to reply and I get the impression she is going to be GPS. Yet to get her rate.

I had posted earlier. She is a GPS and she asked for 2 L / month for arrangement. I dropped her.

[Kaling23]

Flirtygeek, Foxygorgeous, Mia, Hotnerd, CheekyPrincess, PrettyMusician & Dynamicgirl are at 20 k for 3-4 hours.

Flirtygeek & Prettymusician seem to be a full time wg.
Foxy works in a BPO. Slim, good pics.
Mia. Bengali girl, student, nice body.
Hot nerd. In advertising, Fair with big tits.
June and Hysterical girl have equally attractive pics as above, but very slow to respond, No rate yet.
Ammykh - Student from Manipur. Looks petite and cute, quoted 15k

I have not yet met these, but plan to do the coffee meet over the next week. Would appreciate feedback.
I dropped Cheeky princess (student, chubby) and DynamicBelle (North Indian, makeup artiste) who are also at 20 k.

I met with Damsel31 and Jaanu.

Damsel31 - Chubby and dark, though well educated. Dropping her. Did not ask her rate.

Jaanu. Meet went well, agreed to a date (no rate discussed), then stopped replying. She is back in her hometown, apparently in B'lore for a short time.
She had told a different story to another monger (that's she's married) who she also did not meet.
Either had 2nd thoughts, or I may get a request to help with a sudden emergency in her home town.

GPS. Gemini 35 k, Stunninggirl 30 k. CocoaPuff 35 k. I have dropped and did not negotiate.

Cocoapuff was asking 1 L few month's ago. Trust me she is not even Worth 25 k. Very rude gal.

[Phil50]

Flirtygeek, Foxygorgeous, Mia, Hotnerd, CheekyPrincess, PrettyMusician & Dynamicgirl are at 20 k for 3-4 hours.

Flirtygeek & Prettymusician seem to be a full time wg.
Foxy works in a BPO. Slim, good pics.
Mia. Bengali girl, student, nice body.
Hot nerd. In advertising, Fair with big tits.
June and Hysterical girl have equally attractive pics as above, but very slow to respond, No rate yet.
Ammykh - Student from Manipur. Looks petite and cute, quoted 15k

I have not yet met these, but plan to do the coffee meet over the next week. Would appreciate feedback.
I dropped Cheeky princess (student, chubby) and DynamicBelle (North Indian, makeup artiste) who are also at 20 k.

I met with Damsel31 and Jaanu.

Damsel31 - Chubby and dark, though well educated. Dropping her. Did not ask her rate.

Jaanu. Meet went well, agreed to a date (no rate discussed), then stopped replying. She is back in her hometown, apparently in B'lore for a short time.
She had told a different story to another monger (that's she's married) who she also did not meet.
Either had 2nd thoughts, or I may get a request to help with a sudden emergency in her home town.

GPS. Gemini 35 k, Stunninggirl 30 k. CocoaPuff 35 k. I have dropped and did not negotiate.

[ScubaDo]

Anyone in touch with or met SharpRocker? A bit older (that's why I pinged her) and got an immediate reply but seemed to have a very sarcastic and pessimistic outlook to life so I dropped it. But other aspects were very intriguing (for me) so I'm looking for a second opinion.

Thanks.

[ScubaDo]

Hey guys,

Did any of you have any interaction with her? I found her pics very hot, dmed her, she has read my msgs but hasn't replied.

TIA.

Yeah she looked hot in pics. I didn't message yet because I need a rest period from messaging profiles who don't bother to reply back. .

I don't get why they're on the site if they don't want to communicate. I'm just curious about their modus operandi. Of course, it's their wish whether to reply or not, but why bother being on the site at all. Timepass?

[Phil50]

Does anyone else have any experience with Xoxo?

I am messaging her, slow to reply and I get the impression she is going to be GPS. Yet to get her rate.

[Phil50]

Deep93, please don't bother. No correlation between photos and reality. She is really tough to look at.

I would skip without blinking an eyelid. Met a year ago.

Thanks Bro, dodged a bullet.

[Phil50]

Storm switched to TG, said she's in Whitefield and then just random one line messages at random times, nothing moving towards a meet.

Genial Genie looked very enthusiastic to start with but again gone totally quiet though I tried to steer conversation towards a meet.

Ruby no reply.

Yes, storm has random irregular 1 liners. She works in a spa in whitefield. The pic just isn't appealing to me, so I dropped.

[FunForSandy]

Hey guys,

Did any of you have any interaction with her? I found her pics very hot, dmed her, she has read my msgs but hasn't replied.

TIA.