Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[FunForSandy]

Adding 3 more to the no response list:

Adira.

Sensualsoumya.

WarmPlayer.

[Phil50]

Its been 10 years since I first joined SA and 8 years in Bangalore. I rejoined after a gap and against my better judgement, as the kind of girls I seek are now very rare on SA.
- a long term GFE, with someone I vibe well with and for whom I am either the only sugar daddy, or the one she spends most of her sugar dating time with.

As ChristmasTre suggests (I fully endorse his views), the girls are either cheap hookers getting a premium for SA listing, entitled girls quoting GPS, time wasters or unsuitable women trying their luck on SA.

I have noted all my SA contacts over the years and can do a PhD on the data I have collected. Some points that may be helpful:

I do a unpaid 1st meet with all prospects. I have met 110 in 10 years and only paid 3 of them (around 5 k). The rest are only covered for cab. In a long term relationship, a girl stands to make 5 lac on average. If she wants to throw that away because she wants to be paid to for the chance to eat and drink in a classy place, that's not my kind of partner.
The other way I look at it is that its like asking to be paid to attend a job interview.

Of these 110 people I have met, I have not seen 70 again. Though I had seen pics, their actual looks were disappointing, or we had nothing in common, or I saw no interest on their part.
This may not be relevant when you want short term and your interaction is limited to sex. However, when the girl that arrives to your hotel room is not what you expected, quite often we go through with it because there is a sunk cost in time and money and no other option and the girls know that. A learning for me is to do a VC, but there is no substitute to face to face. Even if you don't have time, make it clear that you will meet for e. G. In a hotel lobby and if she is not suitable, or late, it will be called off.
There were a few of these 70 with him I have had a 2nd meet and it hasn't worked. Trust your first instincts.

Only 2-3 of the 70 who were not seen again, where those I would have liked to meet, but they did not respond. I am over 50 and don't pay more than market rates, but if you are interested.
and have the money you won't be rejected.

The best indicator of success in a long term relationship is when they show up on time. I have had 12 long term relationships on SA (over 1 year and over 24 meets). I also had only
15 girls of 110 who showed up on time for a first meet, 12 of the 15, were my 12 long term relationships. My 3 best ones were the 3 who arrived early. Our time is more valuable then theirs and
if someone is disrespectful of our time in the first meet (I'm talking over 30 minutes late) it will only get worse.

Girls wants to be paid an amount per session that would be equal to their monthly salary if they had a real job. Yet, they will either have no info in their profile. That reeks of entitlement -.
I need to be paid despite making no effort, just because I need money. I have not seen any instance where responding to an 'empty' profile has resulted in a good relationship.
Similarly someone who does not reply to a message when you are in the middle of a chat, or disappears for several days, will only come back to you when there is no other alternative.
Don't chase such people, just as in our professional lives, we won't chase a supplier (in a market with many of them) who shows no interest in you. When someone replies after you send repeat messages, you can be sure the price has increased.

No one wants your friendship, or wants to meet you because of your looks and personality, or wants to see you exclusively. Be suspicious of those who say so, particularly when they haven't.
read your profile. At best, if there are multiple people offering the same amount and her time is limited, she may choose whoever she gels with best.

Don't ever pay advance, it's almost always a scam. The exception is when you know them well enough. Even with girls I have advanced money to after a few dates, some have scammed me.

We often have little lies in our profile, but I do not understand why girls lie stupidly about their location, or job, or send an obviously fake pic. If the girl is successful in getting 'business'. She is going to be seen naked. She will disappoint men who expect her to resemble the profile pic, or her heavily photoshopped pic. That suggests an attitude of 'I give a damn' and It has never got her a 2nd meet with me.

In a long term relationship, there has to be some amount of emotional bonding and liking for the lady. However, you can be dropped without notice at any time. Being dumped and ghosted can hurt, but that is a reality of SA and it is best to move on, rather than chase the girl, or throw more money at the next one. The only person who is likely to be there for you, is your spouse.

We are on the site to de-stress and are willing to pay a lot for that. I'm not here to listen to the girl's problems, or exchange good morning messages. When you get these messages right in the beginning, its not a good sign. I don't need to know why they need money or why they got on the site. In my long term relationships, I have helped with genuine problems, but these are rare.

The girls are more networked than we are. For the same amount of time spent on SA, they have met more men and have a better understanding of the site than we do. I am constantly surprised.
by the ability of girls half our age to manipulate our feelings.

Finally, I have broken all the above rules, because I have thought with my the**k, or been in an emotionally vulnerable state.

Happy mongering.

[Christmas Tre]

Thought I'd add some points to think about this week.

*There has been a sea of change lately in Bangalore SA. Though GPS still exist the rates somehow seem very reasonable. As mentioned by others before, I have received quotes mostly in the range of 12 - 20 k. This is in a sample size of about 35 girls I have chatted with in the last 3-4 days.

Now before you rejoice, I would like you to think from another angle. Many of these girls are throwing off WG vibes. Some are obvious, some are very difficult to ascertain. While many may be thrilled that rates of 15 k exist, it may not seem so when you pay that amount for a girl the bros in the other forum paid 7 k for from their pimp.

* To make matters worse, there are uglies and fatties (sorry gentlemen) demanding GPS rates. Then there are some non SA pimps having quite a good collection at prices that would jaw drop us regular SA folks. Bottom line is that a good pimp may have a far better collection of wares than what is available on SA. So when you are pounding that fat 'regular' girl you're paying 30 k on SA for, use that moment to reflect on what you have just purchased.

* Quite a few girls mentioned that they are at the risk of last minute cancellations. Yes gentlemen, if you have complained that you were stood up, know that the women also live with this fear.

* The scammers are plentiful, and there is something fishy going on with these friendship scams. The profiles are fake. Phil also has mentioned this in his reports. Hence, I advice you all to be cautious, especially with your pics and personal details. Don't jump into video call mischief unless you are very sure. Video calls are easily recorded and you don't want a video of you waking off to be out there.

* Most girls know that the best way to make some bucks here is to play with multiple men. The remaining who don't know that yet will learn soon. Don't expect them to be loyal and faithful to you. Few years back, this was not the case. Now, they have all evolved.

* If you like fat girls, then look no further than SA Bangalore. The subscription is worth it. If you like slim and fine figured ladies like I do, then you must pray for the drought and lack of rains in Bangalore to evolve into a famine.

* There are many profiles with girls who I wouldn't fuck even if you paid me to. However, their confident and attitude is astounding. One must learn these qualities from them.

Using SA is an experience. In the stack, you may find a diamond, no doubt. The girls are constantly evolving and we must too.

[JPoppen]

Kudos to Phil40, Flyte137, FunforSandy and all other bros who are taking their time out to contribute and helping us take informed decisions! The purpose of this forum is truly served now!

Bros like Phil40, Flyte137, FunforSandy have made Bangalore SA forum so lively. Keep it up Bros!

[KoolTemp]

Hii brothers.

Has any one tried Kaira Thakur. Asking for 15 k for night after moderate negotiations. Says everything allowed except CIM and anal. Attaching pics which she shared on telegram.

[Ge148]

Indeed. A big shout out to both Phil40, Flyte137 for taking out time to provide reviews of Bangaluru SA gals. Really helpfull. It would be great to get similar review for Delhi / Mumbai gals.

Kudos to Phil40, Flyte137, FunforSandy and all other bros who are taking their time out to contribute and helping us take informed decisions! The purpose of this forum is truly served now!

[FunForSandy]

Folks, I've gone through most of the Bangalore profiles. The ones who seem value for money (cost & looks), completed the chat and ready to meet are:

Rahat - (Hindi speaking) 5 k per hour & Feminine hottie. Assamese beautician (10 k short time).

I'm not going ahead only because I look for long term. Someone who I can converse with well and be comfortable in a classy restaurant or 5 star.

There are good hot ones in the 20-25 range (quoted, not negotiated) that are already discussed, point being there is no need to pay more.

Flirtygeek, Mia, Rani, Foxygorgeous, Hotnerd, PrettyMusician, Kiyaaa, Cheekybae (17 k), Kindcookie, Akshara. MysticalDimple, Ammykh (15 k).

I am in the process of doing the coffee meet with some of them.

I have met KindCookie over coffee. She was on time. Jovial but not very sharp or smart. And she is heavyset. I doubt if she will be comfortable in a 5 star.
Rani is genuine, says she works for nobroker. Again I don't think she will be at ease in a 5 star.

[Phil50]

Folks, I've gone through most of the Bangalore profiles. The ones who seem value for money (cost & looks), completed the chat and ready to meet are:

Rahat - (Hindi speaking) 5 k per hour & Feminine hottie. Assamese beautician (10 k short time).

I'm not going ahead only because I look for long term. Someone who I can converse with well and be comfortable in a classy restaurant or 5 star.

There are good hot ones in the 20-25 range (quoted, not negotiated) that are already discussed, point being there is no need to pay more.

Flirtygeek, Mia, Rani, Foxygorgeous, Hotnerd, PrettyMusician, Kiyaaa, Cheekybae (17 k), Kindcookie, Akshara. MysticalDimple, Ammykh (15 k).

I am in the process of doing the coffee meet with some of them.

[Phil50]

Taara and Jeni are fake profiles. Reverse image search shows the original. Taara is ugly and new to SA.

'A' is fat and unattractive. Will get upset if you ask for pics.

CreativeBabe is an old profile (GPS), with a new ID.

Jigsaw is an old profile for a medical student Anusha (Kannadiga girl) who I met before Covid. She was attractive at the time, though my sense is 4 years in the line will make her jaded.
She is still in med college. Final year.

[FunForSandy]

A few more genuine ones: HelpfulMiss, Baby girl, Jennbee.

Likely frauds: Pihu, Deepti, Yourfavouritemuse, Big smile.

Mysterious. Insisting on an allowance even for a coffee meet, dropped her.

PrettiestWoman3 is Pariscalling's new profile. Good in chats, refusing coffee meet, slow to respond.

Weirdos. Warm mermaid. Claims to be Kashmiri, chatted very intensely for 3-4 days only to disappear without rhyme or reason.

Kate. Claims to be a law student, same experience as above.

DivineQueen: genuine, software engineer, cute girl next door. She is my runaway bride. Slow to respond. Agreed to meet me for lunch after I had almost given up. Stayed till late night with me, asked me to book a hotel only to develop cold feet when we reached the hotel. Fortunately I didn't lose money. She is also not moneyminded, refused to buy a dress when I offered, didn't ask for cab fare. A little nervous and not so street smart. Promises to meet me later, reduced communication slowly and now doesn't respond, hasn't blocked me yet. I guess she is just dipping her toes.

Violetbee is unresponsive. Prettychick wants 35k, so dropped her.

[RoniG]

Anyone in touch with or met SharpRocker? A bit older (that's why I pinged her) and got an immediate reply but seemed to have a very sarcastic and pessimistic outlook to life so I dropped it. But other aspects were very intriguing (for me) so I'm looking for a second opinion.

Thanks.

Met for coffee date. Conversation and look wise okay. But she is not in good shape.

[SeductiveChip]

Kudos to Phil40, Flyte137, FunforSandy and all other bros who are taking their time out to contribute and helping us take informed decisions! The purpose of this forum is truly served now!

[ScoreMammoth]

Guys here is a comprehensive update on Bangalore SA. Have not captured all, have omitted some good ones by choice, rest is to just save time for you guys from scamsters and greedy ones. The good ones you will find very few but will take some effort. I have just segregated them into these categories.

Genuine. They will respond, send pics and chat but may or may not be great.

Scamsters. Delete them from your list.

Arrogant and Greedy. Its Ok to pay more but should be with mutual respect, else they should not be on this site looking.

Genuine (Choice is yours if you like them or not from the looks perspective).

Lulu, Brightchick, Twinklestar, fungirl, Mysticalinfluencer, Meira_star, Kinddiva, Girlinside, Mia, Mysteriousmadame, Femininehottie, Dynamicbelle, Notaquickie, Browngirl, Wittysiren, Adorablehottie, msfitncurvy, Cheekybelle, Storm, Sharpmizz, Creativebabe, flirtygeek, Cheeky bae, Gothgirl4 u, Gemini, Gemma_Blah, Elegantqueen, Dreamymizz, Cheekyprincess, Kindcookie, Mish, Chubbydoll, Humbleprincess, Journal, Beauty, Swathi, InnocentSocialite, Funnyfan, Sharprocker, Cheerfulangel, Prettychick, Hotnerd, Clasyymiss, Black Rose.

Scamsters.

Desirable Queen, Obscure Girlie, Cultured Aphrodite, Alluringbelle, Sharpltgirl, HonestInfluencer, Stunninggurl, attractive member, Jashvi, Shanaya, barbii, Sweetbae, Deepthika, Sheryl, Alluringchickie, Mamzz, Tina117, Slimcandysugar, Just_V, Abito, Soni3632.

Arrogant and Greedy.

Innocent Entusiast, Freewill_new101, Cheekylngenue, Mermaidonthebeach, Xoxo, Brilliantmizz, Qtie, Exceptopnally, Elegantseema, enchantingprincess, Deep29, Kiyaa, Kiki, Enchanting Girl.

SA is still not great here, even if some are genuine it just means they are real people, they may also behave differently with each individual. The only piece of advice is never transfer funds to anyone. Also some of the chicks in the pics to when you meet them are so different. If you have a good SP, would still advice to go to him, because you know what you are getting for sure.

Dynamicbelle is literally using profile pictures of some insta girl. Just an easy google search would tell you that.

[SeductiveChip]

Thanks bro. She agreed to meet for coffee and then stopped responding. I just don't understand why can't they be upfront in their communication?

In my experience, 8/10 SA girls are very slow to respond, either because they don't check their messages often / because they are talking to too many people / its straight up hubris.

[Enjoyi]

Dude my experience. I matched with a 20 year old chick on dating app. We met after 4 months of chatting although she stayed close to my home; hardly 10 minutes drive. She is in Delhi because she has applied for a study course. She is staying with her cousin brother who has put a lot of restriction on her movements and timings, instructed by her father to him. She came to Delhi in September and going back in April to attend a wedding, will come back after 2 weeks when interviews and admission process starts before the results come out in July. Now, that's the background of this chick. Coming to the other part, yay yay I know you fuckers well, the juicy one.

She agreed to meet me in February over a cup of coffee after a lot of cajoling and invites. I understand very well it takes guts to connect with a stranger elder than her dad or same page. One month I was ghosted with no response at all. Nevertheless, we spent around 3.5 hours in my car and it was purely a car date wherein I took her on a drive just roaming around the roads of Delhi, showed her my school and college. The idea was to make her feel comfortable and secure so that we could meet again. During the time spent, she opened up with me and shared that had a steady BF from school time of 4 years and has done everything except the intercourse. My question to her, are you a Virgin and she said yes. She replied that she's done orals with her BF and hardly received any because she comes from a family where she wouldn't do that and will protect her virginity. I tell you man, she is damn beautiful, has her morals and principles in right place. I offered her financial help because she is away from family and she reverted that I come from a comfortable family, the only child of her parents, father is a high ranking Government official and dabbles in stocks as well so has made his money. Offer rejected. Her asshole brother called at 9 pm and hurriedly arranged a cab for her and she left. We met again after a week over a wine car date. I had 75% of the bottle and she the balance. I got bold and took her hand in my hand while driving and at one spot asked her permission to kiss and she obliged. Let me inform all gents that I have met her thrice in 1. 5 months after the coffee date and we have made out like teenagers in my car. In all honesty, I have tried my level best to meet her in a private setting for orals and a BJ but she has refused to accompany me to a hotel and asks me a lot of questions like a curious 20 year old. She is very respectful, not always online accessible, her friends have a faint idea that she is going around with an old man (her words to me), does everything like a 20 year old does like going for birthday parties with a sleep over with her friends, went to a concert on Sunday. Shares each and everything with me like a GF does, asks for advice but not even a penny of help in terms of finance from my side as yet. I am very patient and yes, do love spending time with her over a car date of a couple of hours. I would not call her a prized catch as it's too derogatory in my humble opinion for a genuine girl who has her own mind and strict with her morals. A lot of young crowd on dating apps and SA would not agree and judge me but I don't care as it is extremely difficult to find a girl who is as sensitive as you are. I also know from the bottom of my heart that this would not last long when she gets into college, would meet boys of her age and have plenty of options. Will continue with this arrangement till she calls it off because I won't.

I met a chick yesterday and she informed me that I am not fit for this generation of SA babes as I am a very emotional and sensitive fucker but what to do, cannot change myself and my nature at this age. It pains like hell as not stone hearted but these chicks don't give a shit as they want to maximize their earnings. I am not on SA and all my 2 or 3 friends with whom I am in touch have advised me to stay away but that itch is there. No matter what you do for these SA chicks ultimately they dump you and move on to the more lucrative target.

Arjunshah, you could take away whatever rocks your boat from my real and honest escapade. I shared my experience as all girls have different parameters and choices. Take whatever you can as it is recent from October 23 to 3rd April, 24; my last chat with her.

Regards.

It is so very inspiring and hats off to your nack. What are effective ways to use dating apps like Tinder or Bumble while staying committed to our marriages and protecting our face in terms of pics on the profiles? How can we ensure our privacy and boundaries are respected while still meeting new people? Also, how do we handle the necessity of profile photos on these platforms without risking of getting caught by known friends and family and worst scenario by spouse? Please share some tips.