Seeking Arrangement- SA- in India

[BeStill]

Folks, I've gone through most of the Bangalore profiles. The ones who seem value for money (cost & looks), completed the chat and ready to meet are:

Rahat - (Hindi speaking) 5 k per hour & Feminine hottie. Assamese beautician (10 k short time).

I'm not going ahead only because I look for long

Birds like Rahat are exactly what I am looking for. Vfm birds, good for 1-2 meets, absolutely no long term. I have zero plans to take them out to a restaurant or shopping.

If you come across other such profiles, do let us know.

[Pk099]

Great write-up Phil50.

I have similar experience on SA like you (maybe 7 yrs), but mostly in Mexico / Canada / USA.

In India I have used SA in last 3 yrs, mostly after travel opened post covid.

Initially I had good success in Delhi, Mumbai with SA girls, met some really good NE and Delhi / ggn / noida girls.

They were not cheap, but really provided very good GFE experience (went to nice dinners, dance clubs etc.).

One girl even introduced me to her friend and we had 3 some in her apartment in ggn.

But since middle of last year, when I visited India, I saw lot of scam and agencies working on SA.

When you message them, you get immediate response with pics and amount.

Also regular girls are asking for large amount and they are below average (short, out of share, bad hygiene), at least not my type.

I have seen this trend in other parts of world also, like last month I visited Mexico and had very disappointed trip.

Many of my favorites have moved on, and many new SA profiles are either agencies or escorts.

Best days of SA are behind us, hopefully things get back to where they were.

Its been 10 years since I first joined SA and 8 years in Bangalore. I rejoined after a gap and against my better judgement, as the kind of girls I seek are now very rare on SA.
- a long term GFE, with someone I vibe well with and for whom I am either the only sugar daddy, or the one she spends most of her sugar dating time with.

As ChristmasTre suggests (I fully endorse his views), the girls are either cheap hookers getting a premium for SA listing, entitled girls quoting GPS, time wasters or unsuitable women trying their luck on SA.

I have noted all my SA contacts over the years and can do a PhD on the data I have collected. Some points that may be helpful:
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[Phil50]

Not met or done VC, but they seem legit.

Bright dame & Broken heart - 15 k.

Janvi. Visiting from Mumbai - 12 k.

Old profiles but had good reviews. I am not meeting, as I don't want people who are heavily sampled, but it may be of interest:

Adoreable hottie & CreativeBabe (they quote 25 k).

[Phil50]

A category not covered here, but make up a lot of profiles.

These are people just casually checking out the site, or (even worse, because they are active) don't know what they want, but take up a lot of your time either chatting or sending
messages very slowly, without finalizing anything.

Girlinside is one discussed earlier.

Others: Shrijal, Jaanu, Swapna, MysteriousMadame, TemptingEnthusiast, A, Taara (fake pic).

[Phil50]

Adding 3 more to the no response list:

Adira.

Sensualsoumya.

WarmPlayer.

Not responded to me either.

For older profiles, its a good idea to see their last online date. Sometimes the last online is a few day after they made the profile. In other cases, its at least a month back. Neither type is.

Likely to respond.

[FunForSandy]

Adding 3 more to the no response list:

Adira.

Sensualsoumya.

WarmPlayer.

[Phil50]

Its been 10 years since I first joined SA and 8 years in Bangalore. I rejoined after a gap and against my better judgement, as the kind of girls I seek are now very rare on SA.
- a long term GFE, with someone I vibe well with and for whom I am either the only sugar daddy, or the one she spends most of her sugar dating time with.

As ChristmasTre suggests (I fully endorse his views), the girls are either cheap hookers getting a premium for SA listing, entitled girls quoting GPS, time wasters or unsuitable women trying their luck on SA.

I have noted all my SA contacts over the years and can do a PhD on the data I have collected. Some points that may be helpful:

I do a unpaid 1st meet with all prospects. I have met 110 in 10 years and only paid 3 of them (around 5 k). The rest are only covered for cab. In a long term relationship, a girl stands to make 5 lac on average. If she wants to throw that away because she wants to be paid to for the chance to eat and drink in a classy place, that's not my kind of partner.
The other way I look at it is that its like asking to be paid to attend a job interview.

Of these 110 people I have met, I have not seen 70 again. Though I had seen pics, their actual looks were disappointing, or we had nothing in common, or I saw no interest on their part.
This may not be relevant when you want short term and your interaction is limited to sex. However, when the girl that arrives to your hotel room is not what you expected, quite often we go through with it because there is a sunk cost in time and money and no other option and the girls know that. A learning for me is to do a VC, but there is no substitute to face to face. Even if you don't have time, make it clear that you will meet for e. G. In a hotel lobby and if she is not suitable, or late, it will be called off.
There were a few of these 70 with him I have had a 2nd meet and it hasn't worked. Trust your first instincts.

Only 2-3 of the 70 who were not seen again, where those I would have liked to meet, but they did not respond. I am over 50 and don't pay more than market rates, but if you are interested.
and have the money you won't be rejected.

The best indicator of success in a long term relationship is when they show up on time. I have had 12 long term relationships on SA (over 1 year and over 24 meets). I also had only
15 girls of 110 who showed up on time for a first meet, 12 of the 15, were my 12 long term relationships. My 3 best ones were the 3 who arrived early. Our time is more valuable then theirs and
if someone is disrespectful of our time in the first meet (I'm talking over 30 minutes late) it will only get worse.

Girls wants to be paid an amount per session that would be equal to their monthly salary if they had a real job. Yet, they will either have no info in their profile. That reeks of entitlement -.
I need to be paid despite making no effort, just because I need money. I have not seen any instance where responding to an 'empty' profile has resulted in a good relationship.
Similarly someone who does not reply to a message when you are in the middle of a chat, or disappears for several days, will only come back to you when there is no other alternative.
Don't chase such people, just as in our professional lives, we won't chase a supplier (in a market with many of them) who shows no interest in you. When someone replies after you send repeat messages, you can be sure the price has increased.

No one wants your friendship, or wants to meet you because of your looks and personality, or wants to see you exclusively. Be suspicious of those who say so, particularly when they haven't.
read your profile. At best, if there are multiple people offering the same amount and her time is limited, she may choose whoever she gels with best.

Don't ever pay advance, it's almost always a scam. The exception is when you know them well enough. Even with girls I have advanced money to after a few dates, some have scammed me.

We often have little lies in our profile, but I do not understand why girls lie stupidly about their location, or job, or send an obviously fake pic. If the girl is successful in getting 'business'. She is going to be seen naked. She will disappoint men who expect her to resemble the profile pic, or her heavily photoshopped pic. That suggests an attitude of 'I give a damn' and It has never got her a 2nd meet with me.

In a long term relationship, there has to be some amount of emotional bonding and liking for the lady. However, you can be dropped without notice at any time. Being dumped and ghosted can hurt, but that is a reality of SA and it is best to move on, rather than chase the girl, or throw more money at the next one. The only person who is likely to be there for you, is your spouse.

We are on the site to de-stress and are willing to pay a lot for that. I'm not here to listen to the girl's problems, or exchange good morning messages. When you get these messages right in the beginning, its not a good sign. I don't need to know why they need money or why they got on the site. In my long term relationships, I have helped with genuine problems, but these are rare.

The girls are more networked than we are. For the same amount of time spent on SA, they have met more men and have a better understanding of the site than we do. I am constantly surprised.
by the ability of girls half our age to manipulate our feelings.

Finally, I have broken all the above rules, because I have thought with my the**k, or been in an emotionally vulnerable state.

Happy mongering.

[Christmas Tre]

Thought I'd add some points to think about this week.

*There has been a sea of change lately in Bangalore SA. Though GPS still exist the rates somehow seem very reasonable. As mentioned by others before, I have received quotes mostly in the range of 12 - 20 k. This is in a sample size of about 35 girls I have chatted with in the last 3-4 days.

Now before you rejoice, I would like you to think from another angle. Many of these girls are throwing off WG vibes. Some are obvious, some are very difficult to ascertain. While many may be thrilled that rates of 15 k exist, it may not seem so when you pay that amount for a girl the bros in the other forum paid 7 k for from their pimp.

* To make matters worse, there are uglies and fatties (sorry gentlemen) demanding GPS rates. Then there are some non SA pimps having quite a good collection at prices that would jaw drop us regular SA folks. Bottom line is that a good pimp may have a far better collection of wares than what is available on SA. So when you are pounding that fat 'regular' girl you're paying 30 k on SA for, use that moment to reflect on what you have just purchased.

* Quite a few girls mentioned that they are at the risk of last minute cancellations. Yes gentlemen, if you have complained that you were stood up, know that the women also live with this fear.

* The scammers are plentiful, and there is something fishy going on with these friendship scams. The profiles are fake. Phil also has mentioned this in his reports. Hence, I advice you all to be cautious, especially with your pics and personal details. Don't jump into video call mischief unless you are very sure. Video calls are easily recorded and you don't want a video of you waking off to be out there.

* Most girls know that the best way to make some bucks here is to play with multiple men. The remaining who don't know that yet will learn soon. Don't expect them to be loyal and faithful to you. Few years back, this was not the case. Now, they have all evolved.

* If you like fat girls, then look no further than SA Bangalore. The subscription is worth it. If you like slim and fine figured ladies like I do, then you must pray for the drought and lack of rains in Bangalore to evolve into a famine.

* There are many profiles with girls who I wouldn't fuck even if you paid me to. However, their confident and attitude is astounding. One must learn these qualities from them.

Using SA is an experience. In the stack, you may find a diamond, no doubt. The girls are constantly evolving and we must too.

[JPoppen]

Kudos to Phil40, Flyte137, FunforSandy and all other bros who are taking their time out to contribute and helping us take informed decisions! The purpose of this forum is truly served now!

Bros like Phil40, Flyte137, FunforSandy have made Bangalore SA forum so lively. Keep it up Bros!

[KoolTemp]

Hii brothers.

Has any one tried Kaira Thakur. Asking for 15 k for night after moderate negotiations. Says everything allowed except CIM and anal. Attaching pics which she shared on telegram.

[Ge148]

Indeed. A big shout out to both Phil40, Flyte137 for taking out time to provide reviews of Bangaluru SA gals. Really helpfull. It would be great to get similar review for Delhi / Mumbai gals.

Kudos to Phil40, Flyte137, FunforSandy and all other bros who are taking their time out to contribute and helping us take informed decisions! The purpose of this forum is truly served now!

[FunForSandy]

Folks, I've gone through most of the Bangalore profiles. The ones who seem value for money (cost & looks), completed the chat and ready to meet are:

Rahat - (Hindi speaking) 5 k per hour & Feminine hottie. Assamese beautician (10 k short time).

I'm not going ahead only because I look for long term. Someone who I can converse with well and be comfortable in a classy restaurant or 5 star.

There are good hot ones in the 20-25 range (quoted, not negotiated) that are already discussed, point being there is no need to pay more.

Flirtygeek, Mia, Rani, Foxygorgeous, Hotnerd, PrettyMusician, Kiyaaa, Cheekybae (17 k), Kindcookie, Akshara. MysticalDimple, Ammykh (15 k).

I am in the process of doing the coffee meet with some of them.

I have met KindCookie over coffee. She was on time. Jovial but not very sharp or smart. And she is heavyset. I doubt if she will be comfortable in a 5 star.
Rani is genuine, says she works for nobroker. Again I don't think she will be at ease in a 5 star.

[Phil50]

Folks, I've gone through most of the Bangalore profiles. The ones who seem value for money (cost & looks), completed the chat and ready to meet are:

Rahat - (Hindi speaking) 5 k per hour & Feminine hottie. Assamese beautician (10 k short time).

I'm not going ahead only because I look for long term. Someone who I can converse with well and be comfortable in a classy restaurant or 5 star.

There are good hot ones in the 20-25 range (quoted, not negotiated) that are already discussed, point being there is no need to pay more.

Flirtygeek, Mia, Rani, Foxygorgeous, Hotnerd, PrettyMusician, Kiyaaa, Cheekybae (17 k), Kindcookie, Akshara. MysticalDimple, Ammykh (15 k).

I am in the process of doing the coffee meet with some of them.

[Phil50]

Taara and Jeni are fake profiles. Reverse image search shows the original. Taara is ugly and new to SA.

'A' is fat and unattractive. Will get upset if you ask for pics.

CreativeBabe is an old profile (GPS), with a new ID.

Jigsaw is an old profile for a medical student Anusha (Kannadiga girl) who I met before Covid. She was attractive at the time, though my sense is 4 years in the line will make her jaded.
She is still in med college. Final year.

[FunForSandy]

A few more genuine ones: HelpfulMiss, Baby girl, Jennbee.

Likely frauds: Pihu, Deepti, Yourfavouritemuse, Big smile.

Mysterious. Insisting on an allowance even for a coffee meet, dropped her.

PrettiestWoman3 is Pariscalling's new profile. Good in chats, refusing coffee meet, slow to respond.

Weirdos. Warm mermaid. Claims to be Kashmiri, chatted very intensely for 3-4 days only to disappear without rhyme or reason.

Kate. Claims to be a law student, same experience as above.

DivineQueen: genuine, software engineer, cute girl next door. She is my runaway bride. Slow to respond. Agreed to meet me for lunch after I had almost given up. Stayed till late night with me, asked me to book a hotel only to develop cold feet when we reached the hotel. Fortunately I didn't lose money. She is also not moneyminded, refused to buy a dress when I offered, didn't ask for cab fare. A little nervous and not so street smart. Promises to meet me later, reduced communication slowly and now doesn't respond, hasn't blocked me yet. I guess she is just dipping her toes.

Violetbee is unresponsive. Prettychick wants 35k, so dropped her.