Seeking, Tinder.

[Simplii]

What's the link to her profile?

She's not in Seeking anymore! But I can suggest some others.

Some better options if you speak Spanish.

[Simplii]

Hello!

Any comments about this SB.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...6-7bbe40fb42f5

Looks nice.

Thanks!

[SonicBoom1]

So I spent some time browsing the forum, and want to use SA for my time in CDMX. I don't have experience with it, but here's a summary of what I've read. A chunk of this comes from posts by Steve 9696 like this: http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...ighlight=guide#post2639393. Sorry for the otherwise lack of credit, I just sort of copy and pasted and organized other people's thoughts. If you believe I used your intel and would like credit I will gladly edit this with it.

Anyway, I am looking for feedback on this. Do you guys agree / disagree? Have better insight? Thanks..

I mostly agree. Would say that I prefer to discuss limits in sex during texting to avoid last minute surprises.

[BreadNButter]

So I spent some time browsing the forum, and want to use SA for my time in CDMX. I don't have experience with it, but here's a summary of what I've read. A chunk of this comes from posts by Steve 9696 like this: http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...ighlight=guide#post2639393. Sorry for the otherwise lack of credit, I just sort of copy and pasted and organized other people's thoughts. If you believe I used your intel and would like credit I will gladly edit this with it.

Anyway, I am looking for feedback on this. Do you guys agree / disagree? Have better insight? Thanks.

SA Interactions.

- Open ideally with a reference to their profile; if nothing, low effort intro is fine, e. G. "Como estas? I'm living in Mexico for a few days / weeks / months."

- Try to end messages with a question to keep her responsive.

- Establish that you like each other reasonably well and suggest taking the conversation off of SA and over to WhatsApp. Just say something like that it might be easier to connect up by text and give number.

- Expect 20% response rate.

- Profiles are BS; girls who claim they want to be strictly platonic have sex, and a ton of girls who say in the bio "down for anything" coyly inform me they want to be online only.

WhatsApp Messaging.

- Continue friendly / flirty chat.

- At some point suggest that you think you vibe well and should meet up.

- Upon reciprocated date interest, lead by describing potential date to her:

- Good time laughing over dinner and / or drinks.

- If vibe right, spending some private time together.

- If not, part after dinner, all is good.

- Don't bring up "sex".

- Can determine pricing over text or in person.

- If she brings up pricing or if you want to negotiate beforehand:

- "Of course I want to give you a gift / allowance. Did you have something in mind?

- If she expects you to give first figure (good negotiating tactic on her part, but often they are in fact new), try, "well, what I've done before is XXX. I hope that works for you."

- Never say anything too forward or explicit, e. G. , "what's your price?" or "how much do you charge for PPM?

- Avoid using " sign or "pesos," instead use simple numbers, E. G, "2000."

- Stay in contact with non-clingy, flirty texts before the M&G; the frequency of communication should increase as the date / time approach.

- Girls tend to block or move on if you cannot close the deal quickly.

Rates.

- M&G. Pay their Uber / taxi; if it goes well without intimacy, maybe 500.

- PPM ranges 1500 - 4000.

- Sweet spot is 1800 - 2500 (+ food & Uber) for 4-6 hours.

- 3000 overnight.

- No more than 3000 unless she is super hot.

- English speakers demand more.

- No shopping trips until there is a monthly allowance.

- Pesos only.

Dates / M&GS.

- Always pay for Uber / taxi.

- Aim for mid-range / nothing spectacular restaurants.

- Plausible but not typical to bring her directly home.

- Dress nice.

- Some believe having sex on the first date is super important. Many platonic dates (especially a non-alcoholic one) don't lead to sex on the second date. Take the momentum on that first date and take it all the way to the bedroom. Remember girls are submissive and will largely follow your lead even if that lead is to the hotel room.

- Rarely do SBs show up on time. No amount of bitching, moaning, berating, redefining, etc. Will change LATAM. The most you can hope for and expect is a phone call or message saying that X happened and she will be why minutes / hours late.

- Time you spend with her is largely up to her and how well you vibe. It's not something you negotiate, like you would with a hooker. Most times it will probably be 3-4 hours including dinner and sex, after which she might say she needs to get home. About 50% of girls sleep over. It's not something you discuss. It just happens.

Relationships (although PPM better).

- A Mexican SB thinks nothing of taking a bus to meet you after the initial M&G. And buses are cheap. A 120 mile bus fare will cost no more than $20 USD. $40 USD round trip. I would recommend buying and open-ended roundtrip ticket on-line. This way the SBs trust will soar.

- Don't worry about taking your Mexican SB to a Michelin Star restaurant or buying expensive theater tickets; unless of course that is your thing. They will prefer to go to a "normal" restaurant so that you don't have to spend so much. Thus, in their minds, assuring funds for their allowance. Also, it is their way of trying to take care of you.

- Mexican SBs are more interested in money than luxury gifts.

- Many Mexican SBs still live at home or with extended family. Their ability to host will be limited to non-existent. Expect to pay for hotels or at least love motels. The Mexican SB would appreciate a regular hotel more than the love hotels. Appearances matter. Especially when you are first starting out.

- A typical long term relationship example:

- There would be 1 to 3 encounters / month with an average of 2/ month.

- Possible trips during the arrangement with an additional economic consideration.

- Finally a more comprehensive arrangement after 6 months, but not before.

[DramaFree11]

Spanish will help a little, but not significantly. NOW who is delusional? JaJa.

Colombia is a great place at least for me and many others. It did not work for you for whatever reason. Does not mean it's a crappy place for all, just you buddy.

So let's all just agree that some can get better prices than others and keep it moving on about some more chicas. Cause at the end of the day that's why we are all here. Right?

So, what's a great Airbnb in CDMX? You can PM me if you don't want to blast it out.

Yes, Spanish obviously helps and women definitely change prices, but not significantly.

Colombian girls are instant blocks for me and I will never go back to Colombia. Mexico is so much better then the best Colombia has to offer, so no need for me to change.

I am happy to meet the next time you are in CDMX. Good luck.

[Frank Lucas]

Spanish will help a little, but not significantly. NOW who is delusional? JaJa.

Colombia is a great place at least for me and many others. It did not work for you for whatever reason. Does not mean it's a crappy place for all, just you buddy.

So let's all just agree that some can get better prices than others and keep it moving on about some more chicas. Cause at the end of the day that's why we are all here. Right?

So, what's a great Airbnb in CDMX? You can PM me if you don't want to blast it out.

[DramaFree11]

You do know that women, even working women, will change prices based on how they feel about the hombre. I learned Spanish for this exact reason. I can communicate and tell the chica exactly what I want naturally without a translator which people can tell you are using. This gets me cheaper prices in Latin countries such as Mexico, Colombia, and hell even non-latin USA. Plus if the OP knows some history about the country, can dance then more feathers in his cap. So it's really hard to say there is a set price. I met a chic in Colombia charing a guy 200 k for cita and I got her for 40 k. I spoke Spanish he did not.

I like the starting range of 1000 k pesos and then maybe up to 2000 k which is worthwhile for Mexico it seems. Otherwise, if I'm going to pay more I may as well stay in the USA.

You are wrong about this, just like you talk about Colombia being a great place. I really doubt you know what a. 9 or 10 looks like.

Spanish will help a little, but not significantly.

I guess you pay $150 in America, you are completely delusional.

[Frank Lucas]

Sorry, a really 9 or 10 will not budge for $150-175, sorry this not going to happen on a regular basis or at all. Maybe you might get lucky once, but very doubtful. Sorry, this is a little delusional.

You do know that women, even working women, will change prices based on how they feel about the hombre. I learned Spanish for this exact reason. I can communicate and tell the chica exactly what I want naturally without a translator which people can tell you are using. This gets me cheaper prices in Latin countries such as Mexico, Colombia, and hell even non-latin USA. Plus if the OP knows some history about the country, can dance then more feathers in his cap. So it's really hard to say there is a set price. I met a chic in Colombia charing a guy 200 k for cita and I got her for 40 k. I spoke Spanish he did not.

I like the starting range of 1000 k pesos and then maybe up to 2000 k which is worthwhile for Mexico it seems. Otherwise, if I'm going to pay more I may as well stay in the USA.

[DramaFree11]

If she was a 9 or 10, then paying her 3500 for 4 hours seems good.

If she was 7 or 7. 5, you could have a date for 1500-2000.

I rarely pay above 2000 and have had good experiences.

Sorry, a really 9 or 10 will not budge for $150-175, sorry this not going to happen on a regular basis or at all. Maybe you might get lucky once, but very doubtful. Sorry this is a little delusional.

[SonicBoom1]

What do you guys typically offer a girl in Mexico City on seeking? (Would it be different for Monterrey or Guadalajara?

I don't see a lot of price info being exchanged here and would like to know what the going rates really are.

If she was a 9 or 10, then paying her 3500 for 4 hours seems good.

If she was 7 or 7. 5, you could have a date for 1500-2000.

I rarely pay above 2000 and have had good experiences.

[DramaFree11]

That's my view exactly. I hate haggling since you can't really 'win' - if you talk them down in price, they'll provide a worse experience even unintentionally. I won't support GPS but if they throw out $100 US, I'll offer more but ask for a more open menu. Win-win.

I definitely negotiate, but only if it is more than $25-50, then I quoted. No sense screwing up a nice meeting over a few dollars.

[WiseTraveler]

I usually pay 1,000 Mxn so you are providing fair compensation in my opinion. I'm from the US and from a karma point of view, I don't like to take advantage of the strong dollar. We are all human with our own needs, feelings, desires for a happy and fulfilling life.

That's my view exactly. I hate haggling since you can't really 'win' - if you talk them down in price, they'll provide a worse experience even unintentionally. I won't support GPS but if they throw out $100 US, I'll offer more but ask for a more open menu. Win-win.

[DramaFree11]

Coming in late to this but noting the areas that have the most active seeking / sugar threads (Orlando, Minneapolis, Phoenix / Scottsdale, etc.) tend to share mainly scammers and GPS (golden pussy syndrome) examples, ask for intel on specific profiles, or commiserate on local trends. Some might share potential SBs once they are no longer interested but most SB recommendations are done via PM between senior members. If you share a link to a specific profile with a recommendation, all that happens is she'll suddenly get a firehose of messages and some idiot will share 'I heard about you from someone' or worse, 'on a forum' and guess what, she's gone. That's why we can't have nice things.

If you know a SB who wants to go semi-pro and she says it's okay to share, great, but it's rare and generally it just means her rates will go up and responsiveness will go down.

In just 20 minutes of rapid scrolling, I marked 10 potential SBs I may reach out to at some point. Two already messaged me. The vibe seems more like larger metro areas (Chicago, Orlando, Houston, Dallas) from 5+ years ago. In the US now there's a high % of 'spoil me', 'I'm a princess', 'I know my worth' and other entitled / GPS tag lines and 'looking for conversation' or 'I'm a good listener' time wasters who watched some TikTok video and think guys are going to make it rain if they just chat cute and occasionally send pics of them in a bra or nudes.

My point is post more about warnings, feel free to ask questions about potential SBs to share intel, "She wants $200 US to meet" and then share intel across active members. Good luck.

You can read my posts on SA, but you are looking at $175-250. Most will not move for less then $200. I am here now. No need to pay more $250, but this is for multiple pops and no clock.

Lots of Colombian chicks here, avoid you will over pay. If you want that go to Colombia. I avoid Colombian like the plague.

Models will want more, that is totally your call.

[WiseTraveler]

Most users who talk about SA boast about it, but actually not share any reviews of the girls. They don't even share the profile name or links. Not sure what is the value of having a forum if they are not willing to share who is good who is not good.

Unless we have users who are willing to share some useful info, there is no use of having SA forum for CDMX.

Coming in late to this but noting the areas that have the most active seeking / sugar threads (Orlando, Minneapolis, Phoenix / Scottsdale, etc.) tend to share mainly scammers and GPS (golden pussy syndrome) examples, ask for intel on specific profiles, or commiserate on local trends. Some might share potential SBs once they are no longer interested but most SB recommendations are done via PM between senior members. If you share a link to a specific profile with a recommendation, all that happens is she'll suddenly get a firehose of messages and some idiot will share 'I heard about you from someone' or worse, 'on a forum' and guess what, she's gone. That's why we can't have nice things.

If you know a SB who wants to go semi-pro and she says it's okay to share, great, but it's rare and generally it just means her rates will go up and responsiveness will go down.

In just 20 minutes of rapid scrolling, I marked 10 potential SBs I may reach out to at some point. Two already messaged me. The vibe seems more like larger metro areas (Chicago, Orlando, Houston, Dallas) from 5+ years ago. In the US now there's a high % of 'spoil me', 'I'm a princess', 'I know my worth' and other entitled / GPS tag lines and 'looking for conversation' or 'I'm a good listener' time wasters who watched some TikTok video and think guys are going to make it rain if they just chat cute and occasionally send pics of them in a bra or nudes.

My point is post more about warnings, feel free to ask questions about potential SBs to share intel, "She wants $200 US to meet" and then share intel across active members. Good luck.

[Steve 9696]

I had an amazing session yesterday with a 19-year old universitaria. Slim, taut body free of tattoos, piercings or scars. Good size, natural breasts-about see cup.

During chat, I asked for 3 hours of her company and she asked for 3500 pesos (about US $165). Compared to costs elsewhere, that seemed like a steal, especially considering how mind bogglingly attractive she was. We got together, actually spent over 4 hours together, and she seemed very happy for the agreed upon 3500.

Afterwards, I was wondering if I overpaid. Underpaid. Hit the nail on the head. I don't know.

What do you guys typically offer a girl in Mexico City on seeking? (Would it be different for Monterrey or Guadalajara?

I don't see a lot of price info being exchanged here and would like to know what the going rates really are.

There is a group on here for Seeking Arrangements worldwide and Drama Free and some others talk a lot about Mexico. Would be a good place to check out. It's under the general category, dating agencies. Or just wait and it will pop up in the daily list. It's pretty active.