Getting women who want to be with you.

[SubCmdr]

I'm sure many of you have noticed that repeat sessions can easily result in better service each time.

That is exactly what I have noticed. Even during my time in Sosua.

[Lubriderm69]

I'll be 50 years old soon and its very important to me that there's some real mutual attraction and chemistry. It's essential to my enjoyment and I have been definitely known to lower my standards as long as I sense some real sexual desire from a provider. If her pussy is very wet, that means a whole lot to me. If it's dry, I feel like she's just in it for the money and its all an act. Sexuality is a dance not a monologue. If its all one sided its not fun for me. This is why I prefer to keep a girl around for at least overnight and show her a great time. It takes time for women to warm up to you. I'm sure many of you have noticed that repeat sessions can easily result in better service each time.

[SubCmdr]

I have been watching the constant bickering back and forth on these forums between some of the senior members and it's been interesting at times. I've only ever been to SD for the first time for just 4 days just last week and can definitely confirm that this experience is almost certainly the norm. There's an endless supply of girls who simply need help, and will gladly fuck your brains out if you can treat them with respect and help their financial situation. I've personally experienced this just in my 4 days as a girl I was with was able to buy school supplies for her kid for school this week.

Interestingly, while I was in SD, I got on a call with a chick in Jamaica, who I've never met, but we've chatted for almost a year. I asked her "why do you even still talk to me?" She said "I remember when my baby was sick and you sent money to help, and every so often I remember and just feel like calling you to check on you". I only sent her $50. And she's asked for money since and I've said "No". Yes the goodwill is still there. I'll be sure to cash in on that next time I'm there, because I know that it's available to me.

Maybe it's a misunderstanding of the culture of poor places. These women don't have the luxury of fucking solely for fun. They're always very stressed trying to provide for themselves and their kids. A man who can ease that burden is a godsend and they'll repay that immensely. Reciprocity is hard wired into human DNA. We want to return a favour (unless we're sociopaths).

So, I'm in agreement, I'd never call these women prostitutes, and it's not pay for play in the strictest sense, but just treating them well gets you a far superior experience.

Agreed. And might I add that it is about time someone stepped up and cut through some of the nonsense I have seen posted about what a prostitute is or is not. I am in Pattaya right now. And the lines here are so blurred that I can't even tell the difference anymore.

[OldKool]

Latin women want much from their men so they give their men much. Most of the ladies I have known have been great. They provide amazing affection. Most are in survival mode. Having reliable income is a dream.

L.

I have been watching the constant bickering back and forth on these forums between some of the senior members and it's been interesting at times. I've only ever been to SD for the first time for just 4 days just last week and can definitely confirm that this experience is almost certainly the norm. There's an endless supply of girls who simply need help, and will gladly fuck your brains out if you can treat them with respect and help their financial situation. I've personally experienced this just in my 4 days as a girl I was with was able to buy school supplies for her kid for school this week.

Interestingly, while I was in SD, I got on a call with a chick in Jamaica, who I've never met, but we've chatted for almost a year. I asked her "why do you even still talk to me?" She said "I remember when my baby was sick and you sent money to help, and every so often I remember and just feel like calling you to check on you". I only sent her $50. And she's asked for money since and I've said "No". Yes the goodwill is still there. I'll be sure to cash in on that next time I'm there, because I know that it's available to me.

Maybe it's a misunderstanding of the culture of poor places. These women don't have the luxury of fucking solely for fun. They're always very stressed trying to provide for themselves and their kids. A man who can ease that burden is a godsend and they'll repay that immensely. Reciprocity is hard wired into human DNA. We want to return a favour (unless we're sociopaths).

So, I'm in agreement, I'd never call these women prostitutes, and it's not pay for play in the strictest sense, but just treating them well gets you a far superior experience.

[ChrisD1680]

So gentleman, for 200 USD a month I get all the mouth, pussy and ass that I want. Whenever I want each month.

Which one of your mother fuckers wants to come up in here and tell me that my relationship is not real because I give her money? The relationship started very differently but now has developed in something special (and very real).

I have been watching the constant bickering back and forth on these forums between some of the senior members and it's been interesting at times. I've only ever been to SD for the first time for just 4 days just last week and can definitely confirm that this experience is almost certainly the norm. There's an endless supply of girls who simply need help, and will gladly fuck your brains out if you can treat them with respect and help their financial situation. I've personally experienced this just in my 4 days as a girl I was with was able to buy school supplies for her kid for school this week.

Interestingly, while I was in SD, I got on a call with a chick in Jamaica, who I've never met, but we've chatted for almost a year. I asked her "why do you even still talk to me?" She said "I remember when my baby was sick and you sent money to help, and every so often I remember and just feel like calling you to check on you". I only sent her $50. And she's asked for money since and I've said "No". Yes the goodwill is still there. I'll be sure to cash in on that next time I'm there, because I know that it's available to me.

Maybe it's a misunderstanding of the culture of poor places. These women don't have the luxury of fucking solely for fun. They're always very stressed trying to provide for themselves and their kids. A man who can ease that burden is a godsend and they'll repay that immensely. Reciprocity is hard wired into human DNA. We want to return a favour (unless we're sociopaths).

So, I'm in agreement, I'd never call these women prostitutes, and it's not pay for play in the strictest sense, but just treating them well gets you a far superior experience.

[SubCmdr]

Old Kool, I saw over in the Sosua Forum that you were wondering out loud about my impressions of Thailand: favorable.

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[SubCmdr]

I am going to quote from myself because I am the best authority I know on this particular subject:

Why do folks always make a disingenuous argument when people say free?

Disingenuous: Not candid or sincere, typically by pretending that one knows less about something than one really does. I am never disingenuous. In fact I am so candid and sincere when I make a response it is sometimes interpreted as being argumentative when I am only pointing out deficiencies in the ideas being proffered. My ideas often so powerful they are like an armor piercing slug hitting a vest designed to stop hand gun ammunition.

Free means no payment or 'gifts" to the chick.

Gift - a thing given willingly to someone without payment; a present. If you buy dinner for the girl it it a gift? Strict definition would define it as a gift. Free is that the girl sees you in your place or her place and sex occurs. According to some no money for taxi. No dinners. No day trips to the beach or sight seeing. No vacations. No movies. No nothing.

You see prostitution is defined as: the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment. Looks very straight forward. But I have pointed out several examples in serval posts that shows that is no always a bright line transaction. Of course it can be. But sometime it is not. Marriage is the most expensive sex you will ever get for "free". LOL!

I prefer to use that actual definitions of the Kings English instead of the interpretations of others. I am NOT going to let anyone tell me that if I give my girlfriend money to get her nails and hair done and she asked me what color I want her nails or when we are together we goto the salon together and get our manicure pedicure that she is a prostitute. Yet that is the opinion of some individuals posting here. Because I like to see her with pretty fingernails when I look down and see her hands wrapped around my dick as she lowers her mouth on it. Maybe when she is around me she wraps it about the dick of some other man. But I can't control that. You know how many wives I have fucked, listened to their conversations while they are laying next to me in bed.

Words have meaning. And in order for others to understand the meaning of your posts you have to use those words properly. But I don't understand why money it is such an issue for some people anyone. Nothing is in life is free. This is a site that is for sharing information on having sex with girls. There are many individuals getting sex from girls in many different ways. I like to hear their stories.

It does not bother me OldKool that visitors consistently challenge my knowledge of the Dominican Republic even though I have lived here for 10 years and have done WAY more than they have here in this country. I always stipulate that many posting here know more about prostitutes in the Dominican Republic than I do. My life does not revolve around hanging out with prostitutes.

Enjoy your trip and your non-pros OldKool.

[Mr Enternational]

It bothers me some guys can not distinguish between putas and girls who need a little help.

Who doesn't need a little help? Some guys can't distinguish hookers from hookers. Words mean something. You can not change the definition based on whether you think she is a good person. You sound like a Dominican chick now. Well if I just fuck guys to get a little help I am not like those "other" girls that fuck guys because they need help.

[OldKool]

It bothers me some guys can not distinguish between putas and girls who need a little help. On my next trip I am going to SD for a few days. I have 2 lovely ladies who treat me like a king. The sex with them is amazing. Making love to a women who wants to be you is a great feeling. In truth it is more economical then dealing the pros. We have sex about 3 times a day. Plus you do not have to watch your back as much.

It warms my heart to see you write about your experiences OldKool. As they confirm mine. I feel in many ways your new user blog is very congruent with my ideas of non-pros. Not every girl is a prostitute. And just because you give them money as part of the relationship does not make them a prostitutes. Now there are others (who have posted in your user blog) who insist that all others use HIS definitions because he is right in everything. But I have disproven this time after time for almost 10 years.

You sir are winning it in ever sense of the word. Because you are your own man and do things on your own term. It is very easy for the keyboard warriors to be critical. And we know they do not count. That is why being a "man in the arena" is so important.

I do live a interesting life. Especially considering I have three other girls who give me real GFE and it is not a unique thing to the Dominican Republic. One of my girls lives in Colombia. I posted about here what is curious the same individual who knows it all posting in your user blog has attacked me in the Colombia forum also. And has a bunch of fan boys giving him back up. There is even a character that calls me names each and every post that he makes. You do not have to be smart in order to post to ISG.

I cannot reply to your posts or even see them when I log into ISG. I am not sure why. But I am sure somebody above my pay grade has made that decision.

[SubCmdr]

It warms my heart to see you write about your experiences OldKool. As they confirm mine. I feel in many ways your new user blog is very congruent with my ideas of non-pros. Not every girl is a prostitute. And just because you give them money as part of the relationship does not make them a prostitutes. Now there are others (who have posted in your user blog) who insist that all others use HIS definitions because he is right in everything. But I have disproven this time after time for almost 10 years.

You sir are winning it in ever sense of the word. Because you are your own man and do things on your own term. It is very easy for the keyboard warriors to be critical. And we know they do not count. That is why being a "man in the arena" is so important.

I do live a interesting life. Especially considering I have three other girls who give me real GFE and it is not a unique thing to the Dominican Republic. One of my girls lives in Colombia. I posted about here what is curious the same individual who knows it all posting in your user blog has attacked me in the Colombia forum also. And has a bunch of fan boys giving him back up. There is even a character that calls me names each and every post that he makes. You do not have to be smart in order to post to ISG.

I cannot reply to your posts or even see them when I log into ISG. I am not sure why. But I am sure somebody above my pay grade has made that decision.

[The Cane]

Hey, as long as a tute wants to be with me anywhere from 1 hour to overnight that works for me hahahaha!

[OldKool]

I have a similar situation. With a lady I met in Sosua but lives in SD. She is retired from Sosua and works at a school. She gives me great GFE. Every time I think it can not get better and it does. I help her with her rent. 3000 pesos the difference. She moved to house for a Dominicana. What she gives me is priceless. Some guys are not interested in GFE. However it makes sex so much better for me.

[SubCmdr]

With what Old Kool is saying. Mr E has the time and inclination to go hunting for the "well heeled" everywhere while the week long visitors do not. Besides, stating that there are rich people in the DR, is like saying: Hey given that there are so many people living at Park Avenue, there cannot be projects in NY or in Chicago or wherever. The lucky ones among us, the well-offs and the blind, are impervious to reality beyond their realm. Remember, Marie Antoinette's, "why don't they eat cake?

Nobody is allowed to define or judge the methods of others. There are certain individuals who will give their definition of something (prostitution, real relationships) and then tell them how they should be doing things because of what they think. That is actually a violation of basic Man Law 101. A grown man should not be telling another grown man how to spend his money, what to think or who to fuck. The activity of getting girls is not "my way or the highway". There are, as the expression goes, "many different ways to fuck the pussy".

Let us start with economics. None of us created the economic situations we find in the different countries we travel to. I personally won the birth lottery and have developed an income stream of money that is sought after in most parts of the world. That means in most parts of the world the exchange rate is favorable for me. And while there are many Dominicans that can buy or sell me, I am time rich. Every morning I set my agenda of what I am going to with my time. And I allocate part of that time to keeping my relationships going by greeting my girls and making inquiries about their health and well being.

Getting girls to like you

If you want GFE (real GFE) you got to give BFE. And it has absolutely nothing to do with money and everything to do with the personal chemistry you share with the girl and the relationship you develop with her. Most travelers from "sex prison" nations here for a week really do not understand the culture (Latin American culture). They are here to exchange money for sex. Nothing wrong with that. But then a mother fucker comes into this user blog and starts with his usual bullshit (and he has a large supply) spreading around his ideas about the type of girls others should seek out because that is his preference. Worry about your own dick brother. And let everyone else take care of their dick. Contribute to the forum with the techniques you use to get girlfriends in "real relationships" and free pussy everywhere you go. That is the core of sharing of information on having sex with girls. How you do it! Not that you can do it. Those telling what it is that they do without explaining how they do it are just bragging. And then when they move past their own inflated sense of self they begin to tell others what they should be doing because they think that is the right way to do. That dog simply does not hunt with me.

You can find quality girls at any age or anyplace in the Dominican Republic. I ask why would you actually favor pussy that been ran through since they have been of legal age with 30 - 40 years on it to young pussy is beyond me. But if that is what these old mother fuckers like, then I love it. Fuck dem old chicas! They need love too. I have fucked girls on this island between the age of 20 - 42. Which are my favorite? The ones that are still fucking me right now. LOL!

And example from real life in the Dominican Republic

Now I will give you an example of technique. I got a Tinder hit and I moved her over to WhatsApp. And we were just chatting. I made implications that I would like to see her but never a hard date. Finally she told me that we have been talking for over a year and she was ready to have sex with me. DAMN! She wanted 3000 DOP to meet me in the cabana. I agreed. We met in at the cabana and we had instant, intense chemistry. But we stayed at arms length from each other because this was a paid encounter. The sex was good. It was really good. And afterwards she left.

Here is what I noticed about our encounter. She did not ask for her taxi fare to arrive or leave. She did not ask for a tip. She was actually cuddly and talkative after I got mine. And the chemistry was there but like I said before it was a paid encounter. We had two more pleasant encounters (paid in the cabana) but I could not break through her shell in person.

Then she told me that she wanted me to take her out. I told her that if she wanted to go out then she had to make a choice. And that she was going to have to give me more in our encounters because I wanted more from her. Something more personal. She countered that she needed help with her financial situation right now and she wanted to give more but needed money. So, when she would make requests like "got to take my son to the doctor I need 1500 DOP" I would make the transfer to her account. One time she needed some amount and I told her I didn't have in my account. She asked how much did I have. I told here I have 600 DOP available (and that was the truth) she asked me to please send it that it would help. After making those two good faith gestures the next time we got together it was completely different. She dressed up. She had on lingerie underneath her outfit. Deep passionate tongue kisses. She hopped on without a condom and it was on! At the end she let me flood the zone without a problem. And at that point I knew things had changed between us on her side. And that was great for me. We actually started dating. I started taking her out to eat. And afterwards we would spend the night together. No mention of money. I asked here what did she need to maintain herself. She told me she can pay her rent and by food for the month for 10500 DOP. I told her I could help her with that. So gentleman, for 200 USD a month I get all the mouth, pussy and ass that I want. Whenever I want each month.

Which one of your mother fuckers wants to come up in here and tell me that my relationship is not real because I give her money? The relationship started very differently but now has developed in something special (and very real). She is a pastry chief with her own business and her business is a bit down right now. But sometimes when we see each other she has a piece of cake (or two) that she has baked and decorated to my specifications. I have a massive sweet tooth so that is very special for me. And they really do not do desserts well here in the Dominican Republic. It is the best cake I have every had.

So, why don't they eat cake Mr. T? I don't know. Because I most certainly do. LOL!

[OldKool]

Rolling out this week. I have some friends on the ground in Sosua so will I post up with the fellows. This could be my swan song so I will not be hold back. My SD girl will be on her period (glad I asked) so I am importing my 1st cupid girl. Having back up plans is a requirement for not getting frustrated in SD. I had 3 great option. My cupid girl has gained about 30 lbs but has some awesome pussy. Sex with her is always off the chain. In Sosua I am not sure how I will roll. I have quite a few ladies who I can repeat with but new pussy always has its appeal. Being in my 60's has made me more GFE focused. This why I focus on girls I know who can provide it.