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[Cherubino]

Prokofiev

How to meet Mexican women in the 30-45 y/o range for dating? If you find a good answer to that one I hope you will let ME know. I lived in Mexico back in the 80s and have been going back regularly ever since and so am somewhat familiar with the territory yet the answer to your question continues to elude me too.

It seems to me that there is a much more powerful social dynamic in Mexican society against women staying single and in that 30+ age group there do really seem to be fewer of them there than in the US.

As to how to meet them before you go, I have had some small success with dub dub dub americansingles dot com. I set up some dates in Monterrey, DF and Queretero which were well worth the effort though nothing long-term has come of it yet. The Mexican singles sites seem to have a short half-life, but the best one this year seems to be dub dub dub yupi dot com which seems to be a Microsoft outlet.

On the ground, many towns and cities in Mexico have an English language school, public library or University which hosts a public conversation hour. English speakers are much in demand and these gatherings can be good places to meet the locals.

Next I have found the best place to be in the retail establishments and malls. The Liverpool department store in Queretero and the one in Leon are both first rate. Forget Wall-Mart. If I can keep a conversation with a señorita going more than 60 seconds that is a good sign. I then will just come right out and ask her where are the places the nice girls like to hang out. I tell her the "doorman at the hotel sent me to La Yegua last night…" pause for her to blush and watch whether or not she does…"but that is not what I was looking for". Over the years that line has gotten me a couple of dates with that señorita in a nice restaurant, but I never really did get an answer to the question as to where they hang out.

Overall, Mexico is heaven on earth for Cherubino, my mongering dark side; but has proved to be a much more difficult place to meet nice women.

[Prokofiev]

Hi,
Does anyone have any recommendations on how to meet Mexican women for dating? I travel to Mexico 3-4 times a year and would like to correspond and meet with Mexicanas in the 30-45 y/o range. Most of the escorts, dancers, discos and estetica workers are 18-25 (although certainly not all...) and I want to date older women. Does anyone have experience with personal ads, dating web-sites or other means of contacting women here from the US before I arrive in a city? I speak reasonable Spanish and I'm not just looking to get laid. I want to set up dates for dinner or a movie and meet the locals. I travel to Morelia, Guadalajara, Puebla and Mexico City. Any leads or ideas would be appreciated! Also where is a good place to meet women once in Mexico? Most discos and clubs are for a younger set. Any ideas on where to pick-up older women in any of the above cities?

Thanks, -P

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