Havana

[DiavelLoco]

Hi all,

I was in Cuba for a week in early January and got a lot of action in Havana. Without going into much details, I will say the regular spots such as Q'bola seems to have a plethora of chicas for one to choose from. In addition, the latest happening spot seems to be a club called Saltzucar Bar. Plenty of 8-10 chicas here to pick up. My local Cuban buddy helped me and another friend of my pick up two 10's to have fun for the night.

However, on the 3rd night I met a hot chica who came with me for the night and I just fell for her. Spent the next 4 days and nights with her. The issues is that it is getting serious among the two, and I am thinking of supporting her and her daughter with funds, and she is promising that she will not go out with anyone else if I do that. She says she does this only to support her daughter and is not interested in selling herself to a new guy every night. I am 50-50 on this and find this hard to believe.

Does anyone of the forum have a similar experience earlier? How did it turn out? What would you recommend to me?

Thanks!

I smell danger all over. Good for you that you fell for her but never ever offer money to chicas here. There will be no end to this and they will fleece you dry. I live here and I have enough girlfriends to teach me all that. The moment they start taking advantage of my kindness and generosity, I will say good bye to them. Trust me my friend, you will find another chica as good as her in no time the next time you come to Cuba.

[Canuck34]

Edye offers you the best advice "Leave your heart at Cuban customs and collect it when you leave."

Unless you are paying for her apartment $500/ month is overboard. Try not to get caught up thinking the more you give the less likely she will be working again. The more money she has the more Cuban "friends" she has trying to get a slice of the pie. It's all about status with these girls.

Meeting her family means shit. They are more than happy to have someone in the family bring in money. The uncle gets his rum, the mother gets her nails done every week and so on. There is no way a girl can hide this kind of money from her family and neighbors without spreading some sort of love.

You will soon have to deal with the "friend" who is like a brother to her. He's the guy that swooped in after your girl flaunted her new status. His only job is to cosy up to her for the money while hes banging several other Cuban chicas. This is when you start getting pressure for more money.

I wish you good luck. But I would take Edye's advice.

[Mr Gogo]

Thanks for your reply. Let me share some of my experience. I stopped sending money in 2011 because they never ask just one time. You do it once and it never ends. I tell them I'm with law enforcement and to send money would draw a flag and I could be questioned. My thing is all the rewards will come when I arrive.

A Cuban guy told me never to try to understand a Cubana. He said Cuban guys are still trying to figure Cuban women out themselves.

I'm a firm believer that an ex working girl could make a great companion or side piece. She should have the sex part down since she was a pro. We all got a past and mine is not so rosy, so why judge. An ex pro will probably grow to being more appreciative of a good solid guy. I'm also with the idea that if you don't live there you have no right to believe a girl will be faithful. If she cheats low key when you are not there, maybe no harm.

I think 500 CUC for guaranteed Cuban pussy that you can fuck all month or have on standby is worth it if you have extra funds. I wouldn't send money but maybe you should let her know you will only pay when you arrive. Nothing worse than her and her Cuban boyfriend waiting at WU for your donation.

If you are going to Cuba every 6 months its not worth it to send money monthly. If you go every 3 months just make her wait till you are there.

Tell her you want a trial run. You will visit frequently and see her mostly. You will bring cash no WU. Chat with her weekly to gage her honesty. Pay attention closely how much of your business she tells others. I prefer girls who a private and respects my privacy. She has come clean on her past and that's a great start I guess. I prefer to leave the past in the past and move forward.

You might compromise and send her half and half when you arrive. Good luck and thanks for your honesty. That Cuban pussy is powerful so I understand your commitment.

[Trader911]

Hyurl, Mr. Gogo, Muzungufotsy, and Dg8787.

The amount that I offered her is 500 CUC per month.

I hope you did not add extra 0 in typo. The average monthly income there is 25 CUC per month.

The amount that you wrote is earned my millionaires in Cuba. LOL.

[Trader911]

Hyurl, Mr. Gogo, Muzungufotsy, and Dg8787.

Thank you all for your advice. All are very good and valid points.

Although I don't want this to become a relationship therapy there, I would like to answer / clarify few questions that were presented below:

First, yes, I met her in a bar, and yes she is a working girl. During our 4 days together she said to me openly that she has been doing this for two years, and she has slept with many many foreigners. The age difference between us is around 14 years, which is considered quite normal in Cuba and many other parts of the world. We both are in the same league on looks, however, she has a way to call for attention when she walks into a place. Yes, we did walk hand-in-hand on the streets of Havana without being bothered by anyone. I also took her to nice restaurants in the Miramar area, and she was dressed elegantly as a lady (not as a pro). As we walked into the restaurants, my buddy who walked behind us told me that several guys were checking her out, (guys from USA and Canada who were actually sitting there with their wives and SOs.). So she does have an appeal that can turn heads.

This is a nice story and thanks for sharing it.

I want to add two cents here. It appears all 15 years you have been with those 500+ girls were pros.

My first visit to Cuba, the first girl I met on the street was a university student, She has the same traits as you mentioned. I got emotional but was not prepare to get involved. I saw her every time when I visited Cuba since then. She is now married and has a kid.

Fast forward, 80% of the girls I met there have been non-pros and most have similar traits as you mentioned. That is another story that how I pick up non-pros there.

In the end, most of those are ready to get into relationship or anything you want. Once they get involved with a tourist then know that money will automatically follow.

Its good that you are trying to help her. But the dilemma is that how often you will visit her? She has physical needs. If not for money she still needs sex. Will you be OK if she is fucking regular Cuban friends on the side?

[Trader911]

The info and post I am reading here has now forced me to start sharing some info.

I have visited Holguin 5 times in last 3 years. 2 visits in 2019. The last visit was in Dec.

Holguin has completed changed. Policia is everywhere in the streets circling the central park and the main action area. 24/7.

Nocturno club was dead on Friday night. I don't know if it is a Saturday's night club.

The news is that Policy is strictly enforcing and ensuring that no girls talk to the tourist in the downtown area. Of course there is no enough policy to do that in other places.

Girls are dam scared to meet tourists. The semi-pros are the most affected and they don't come close to the downtown area anymore.

The news is that it all happend after the Toursim minister become the PM.

Good luck guys.

[DeepStick411]

Hyurl, Mr. Gogo, Muzungufotsy, and Dg8787.

Thank you all for your advice. All are very good and valid points.

Although I don't want this to become a relationship therapy there, I would like to answer / clarify few questions that were presented below:

First, yes, I met her in a bar, and yes she is a working girl. During our 4 days together she said to me openly that she has been doing this for two years, and she has slept with many many foreigners. The age difference between us is around 14 years, which is considered quite normal in Cuba and many other parts of the world. We both are in the same league on looks, however, she has a way to call for attention when she walks into a place. Yes, we did walk hand-in-hand on the streets of Havana without being bothered by anyone. I also took her to nice restaurants in the Miramar area, and she was dressed elegantly as a lady (not as a pro). As we walked into the restaurants, my buddy who walked behind us told me that several guys were checking her out, (guys from USA and Canada who were actually sitting there with their wives and SOs.). So she does have an appeal that can turn heads.

Second, regarding infatuation: I have been mongering around the world for over 15 years. In the last 10 years, I have been consistently fucking 3 new girls every month, and I rarely repeat. So my dick has seen his fair share of pussy, and infatuation is a feeling that I don't really get. I have no plans of marrying her, but she can be my mistress.

Third, she has told her entire family about me, and wants me to meet her family. I met the daughter on our 4th day together.

Fourth, and the most important point- In our 4 days together, she never asked for a single dime from me. Only on our first day, she told her rate to me, which I tried to negotiate and told her I will not pay her until after. She said how about 50% before and 50% after. She stayed the whole night with me from 11-6 am. When she left in the morning, I gave her some small gift items. I am the one who called her back again the following evenings and days, and nights. During the entire 4 days stay with me, she never touched any of my items on the dresser. (The other 5 chicas that I did in the first 3 days fucking started taking my deo, my cologne, creams etc. As soon as they entered my room).

Finally, she has never asked me for money or any support. In fact, the last day when I offered her my support, she said that "Why do you want to do it? What do you expect from me if you do that?" I was the one to propose that. The amount that I offered her is 500 CUC per month. She still did not accept my offer. In fact, she gave me a bracelet that she was wearing to me to keep as her memory and asked me to give her something similar. I gave her something personal too. When she was gone, I noticed that she forgot her hair clips with me, and I texted her from the airport about few things she responded that she is out of recharge and will reply to me after she recharges. True to herself, she did recharge her phone and texted me the following day. Since then she and I have been talking on texts and WhatsApp. She has finally accepted my offer and decided to get out of the business. To prove to me that she is not going to the bars or clubs, she calls me every night and we talk from 11-1 am. She has given me passwords for her Facebook account where she has all the mongers added, and asked me to delete everyone that I don't want on her friends list.

In conclusion, what has attracted me to her is her honesty and intellectual maturity even at a young age. She never ever asked for a single dime. No sad stories or emotional dramas to suck money out from me, and that is something I not seen in 500+ chicas I have done over the 15 years.

Best,

If I had to bet money on it, she's playing you for a fool and has said the same story to me and 8 other guys on this forum. Think of the environment you met her in. Now, think of:

1) what is our age difference?

2) did she outright ask for money?

3) what do I really gain by doing this?

4) what is the long term goal of this, even if it's genuine?

5) how many different girls can I be with using this money I'm about to send her.

6) are we in the same league? Or is she a lot better looking than I am?

7) what do I really know about her?.

[Edye Minetye]

In Cuba you will find a chica on every 2nd corner that falls in love with you or your buddy, you shouldn't take that personally, it's just about care.

Let it go and don't send money to Cuba.

These are attempts to simply get money.

You will only be disappointed and may be out of a lot of money.

Because the demands don't stop. I speak from experience, believe me.

She tells the same to every other tourist she meets.

Pay only for services, never for love.

Leave your heart at Cuban customs and collect it when you leave.

The time in between enjoy it to the fullest and act against everyone like everyone's acts to you.

[Hyrul]

Hi all,

I was in Cuba for a week in early January and got a lot of action in Havana. Without going into much details, I will say the regular spots such as Q'bola seems to have a plethora of chicas for one to choose from. In addition, the latest happening spot seems to be a club called Saltzucar Bar. Plenty of 8-10 chicas here to pick up. My local Cuban buddy helped me and another friend of my pick up two 10's to have fun for the night.

However, on the 3rd night I met a hot chica who came with me for the night and I just fell for her. Spent the next 4 days and nights with her. The issues is that it is getting serious among the two, and I am thinking of supporting her and her daughter with funds, and she is promising that she will not go out with anyone else if I do that. She says she does this only to support her daughter and is not interested in selling herself to a new guy every night. I am 50-50 on this and find this hard to believe.

Does anyone of the forum have a similar experience earlier? How did it turn out? What would you recommend to me?

Thanks!

If I had to bet money on it, she's playing you for a fool and has said the same story to me and 8 other guys on this forum. Think of the environment you met her in. Now, think of:

1) what is our age difference?

2) did she outright ask for money?

3) what do I really gain by doing this?

4) what is the long term goal of this, even if it's genuine?

5) how many different girls can I be with using this money I'm about to send her.

6) are we in the same league? Or is she a lot better looking than I am?

7) what do I really know about her?

8) this is probably just infatuation. What about a year or two from now?

Many of these Cuban women will play the same game.

Amor, there's a phone recharge bonus. Can you recharge please?

Amor, my xyz (random family member) is sick, can you send money?

Amor, I love you and want to be with only you, but I don't have anything. Can you send money?

Etc.

Catch my drift?

That's not to say it's impossible. But chances are she's whispering sweet nothings in your ear and you're willing to do it because of your sheer attraction to her and that you genuinely like her and want things to work out. Be cautious, whatever you do, with any woman. Whether it's in Cuba or any part of the world. Look out for yourself.

[Dg8787]

Hi all,

I was in Cuba for a week in early January and got a lot of action in Havana. Without going into much details, I will say the regular spots such as Q'bola seems to have a plethora of chicas for one to choose from. In addition, the latest happening spot seems to be a club called Saltzucar Bar. Plenty of 8-10 chicas here to pick up. My local Cuban buddy helped me and another friend of my pick up two 10's to have fun for the night.

However, on the 3rd night I met a hot chica who came with me for the night and I just fell for her. Spent the next 4 days and nights with her. The issues is that it is getting serious among the two, and I am thinking of supporting her and her daughter with funds, and she is promising that she will not go out with anyone else if I do that. She says she does this only to support her daughter and is not interested in selling herself to a new guy every night. I am 50-50 on this and find this hard to believe.

Does anyone of the forum have a similar experience earlier? How did it turn out? What would you recommend to me?

Thanks!

You are going to get a lot of naysayers and doomsday critics. Listening to them will only cause you regrets. Set aside what amount of money you are willing to risk and a time schedule if you are really serious.

Only you can decide what to do.

[Mr Gogo]

Hi all,

I was in Cuba for a week in early January and got a lot of action in Havana. Without going into much details, I will say the regular spots such as Q'bola seems to have a plethora of chicas for one to choose from. In addition, the latest happening spot seems to be a club called Saltzucar Bar. Plenty of 8-10 chicas here to pick up. My local Cuban buddy helped me and another friend of my pick up two 10's to have fun for the night.

However, on the 3rd night I met a hot chica who came with me for the night and I just fell for her. Spent the next 4 days and nights with her. The issues is that it is getting serious among the two, and I am thinking of supporting her and her daughter with funds, and she is promising that she will not go out with anyone else if I do that. She says she does this only to support her daughter and is not interested in selling herself to a new guy every night. I am 50-50 on this and find this hard to believe.

Does anyone of the forum have a similar experience earlier? How did it turn out? What would you recommend to me?

Thanks!

Only took 3 days for Cuba to turn you out?

You chose not to discuss prices so I'm guessing you are very generous. Possibly taking care of a girl you just met a few days ago confirms your generosity and maybe your naivete. Have you met the daughter, family or any of her friends? Were you able to walk around Havana with this newfound love without being harassed by the police? Where did you meet this girl? These are questions you need to answer if you want advice on relationships.

Sure she doesn't want to sleep with different guys at night because she knows Cuban guys don't pay much and Christmas came early when you arrived.

Actually she seems like a smart lady to me. She presented herself properly. She sexed you very thoroughly so much that you needed sex repeatedly. She knew not to let this opportunity pass without maximum effort. And she presented her final pitch. Just out of curiosity, how much was the family support deal she or you discussed?

Thanks for the tips on the clubs.

[Muzungufotsy]

Hi all,

I was in Cuba for a week in early January and got a lot of action in Havana. Without going into much details, I will say the regular spots such as Q'bola seems to have a plethora of chicas for one to choose from. In addition, the latest happening spot seems to be a club called Saltzucar Bar. Plenty of 8-10 chicas here to pick up. My local Cuban buddy helped me and another friend of my pick up two 10's to have fun for the night.

However, on the 3rd night I met a hot chica who came with me for the night and I just fell for her. Spent the next 4 days and nights with her. The issues is that it is getting serious among the two, and I am thinking of supporting her and her daughter with funds, and she is promising that she will not go out with anyone else if I do that. She says she does this only to support her daughter and is not interested in selling herself to a new guy every night. I am 50-50 on this and find this hard to believe.

Does anyone of the forum have a similar experience earlier? How did it turn out? What would you recommend to me?

Thanks!

Deepstick do you believe in Santa Claus? So why would you believe somebody you just met 4 days ago and that you paid for sex? Even if you are around she can cheat on you so if you are not.

Wake up my friend!

[DeepStick411]

Hi all,

I was in Cuba for a week in early January and got a lot of action in Havana. Without going into much details, I will say the regular spots such as Q'bola seems to have a plethora of chicas for one to choose from. In addition, the latest happening spot seems to be a club called Saltzucar Bar. Plenty of 8-10 chicas here to pick up. My local Cuban buddy helped me and another friend of my pick up two 10's to have fun for the night.

However, on the 3rd night I met a hot chica who came with me for the night and I just fell for her. Spent the next 4 days and nights with her. The issues is that it is getting serious among the two, and I am thinking of supporting her and her daughter with funds, and she is promising that she will not go out with anyone else if I do that. She says she does this only to support her daughter and is not interested in selling herself to a new guy every night. I am 50-50 on this and find this hard to believe.

Does anyone of the forum have a similar experience earlier? How did it turn out? What would you recommend to me?

Thanks!

[Mr Gogo]

Hi. Does anyone have any experience using the Internet for Skype in Cuba? Thanks.

I just heard from my girl in Santiago and the internet is not a priority at this moment. She had no phone and hasn't answered my email for about 3 months. Well today I got am email from Cuba with a name I didn't know. Its was a lady who is a female doctor and my friend is using her email on the friends phone. The friend basically would relay any further messages. Food, clothes and basic necessities are the priority now. Paying for the internet and an online dating sites can be more than most Cubans have at this moment. She wants me to go to Santiago because she said the police in Havana are assholes. So getting out of Havana and exploring other cities might be the current best option.

[PirateMorgan]

Hi. Does anyone have any experience using the Internet for Skype in Cuba? Thanks.