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Originally Posted by El Chico
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I hate to say it (but it's true) when it comes to a long distance relationship with a Cuban girl, you can't trust them. And I mean none.
If someone was thinking of meeting a girl and taking her out of Cuba, I highly recommend against it. Culturally it wouldn't work unless she is really educated and mature. Cubans are so close to their family and friends, to take her away with little contact to a 1st world country where she may not speak the language and doesn't know anyone is a recipe for disaster. I honestly can not see that working more than 1 in a 100 times.
Not only Cuban gals, but all of them. Long distance relationships don't work, period.
I have to say tho, that in Cuba it gets to a really ridiculous extent and they do act that way even between themselves. Meaning that if the partner isn't on the spot right at that time, it's like there isn't any partner at all.
That's how most of them see it.
Concerning taking a Cuban gal away from there to your home country; it could work if you happen to share the same interests and thoroughly enjoy the same things they enjoy; dancing, drinking, clubbing (and fucking which I won't put in the list because we all know we do). Cubans don't really seem to be up for anything else, all they know how to enjoy themselves is clubbing and dancing and drinking, period. Living with a Cuban partner anywhere means either dedicating a hell of a lot of time to those activities or having her depressed.
I have personally never met a Cuban anywhere outside Cuba that wasn't either selling sex and / or giving dancing classes or at the most working in latin clubs as bartender.
That's pretty much as far as they get.
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Originally Posted by El Chico
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That guy should never return to Cuba because if they ever find out his name he will be off to prison as well.
Why would the guy go to prison? The girls seemed over 18, unless I am missing something.
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Originally Posted by mfins
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i am wondering why the girl drinking a red bull makes her lose her innocence.
i know what he means, if i understand his point correctly. red bull is more expense than beer or rum at a disco and regular cubans would never drink it. for her to casually ask for the most expensive drink they have basically gives her away as a jinetera who is use to going to discos and hitting up foreigners for drinks.
regarding the video, if the cuban authorities come across it (and they do search the internet for such things) you can almost guarantee the guy has basically condemned the workers at the ambos mundos to 15 years in prison. that guy should never return to cuba because if they ever find out his name he will be off to prison as well. a spanish reporter did a report on prostitution in cuba once and when he went back he was arrested and put in prison for sleeping with ****d girls (as evidenced by him talking to them in his video).
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I am wondering why the girl drinking a red bull makes her lose her innocence.
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Originally Posted by El Chico
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I'm sure everyone has a different point of view, but I take a more cynical approach. It's only natural that young girls want what comes from having a foreign boyfriend (financial security, etc) and it is a dream for many, but the more common experience (I have seen literally a hundred times) is a foreign tourist comes to Cuba and falls for a beautiful young girl who tells him everything he wants to hear. Then he sends money monthly, but the entire time she either has a Cuban boyfriend or is still hooking up with foreigners or both. I even know more than a few examples of foreigners paying to renovate or buy (permutar) a house for a girl and she lives there with her boyfriend / husband who moves out during the time the foreigner visits. I hate to say it (but it's true) when it comes to a long distance relationship with a Cuban girl, you can't trust them. And I mean none.
If someone was thinking of meeting a girl and taking her out of Cuba, I highly recommend against it. Culturally it wouldn't work unless she is really educated and mature. Cubans are so close to their family and friends, to take her away with little contact to a 1st world country where she may not speak the language and doesn't know anyone is a recipe for disaster. I honestly can not see that working more than 1 in a 100 times.
I second that, amor de lejos, es amor de pendejo.
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Thanks for the video. Great camera work. Filmed in Hotel Ambos Mundos (Calle Obispo) in 2011. The protagonista has lost her innocence in my eyes when she asked for Red Bull.
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It was not fair to put this video on line as those girls may have been sent to jail by this time. We must respect other human beings wherever they live for their security.
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Originally Posted by Mfins
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Thanks Chico, Yeah in the Documentary he makes it seem like she was an innocent sweetheart normal girl. In reality she probably isn't a pro or even a semi pro but is definately willing to give it up for the chance to be something more than she is (she wants to be a model) or maybe even some $ which the Film maker may have given her to do that modeling strip thing at the end. Also we don't know how many girls he approached before finally getting a willing participant. I guess we won't really know the actuall truth. Don't get me wrong, (I am 38 in good shape and think I am good looking) if I ended up with that girl in the Video I would consider my Cuba trip a roaring success.
Chico, Do the girls down there really envision making a life with a gringo. I consider my self a world traveler and in most countries the gringo card works well but not to the extent I see in the video. That girl seemed downright enamored and desperate. It seems in CUBA it would be next to impossible to actually get her out of there. Any way thats my impression and would like your opinion thanks.
I'm sure everyone has a different point of view, but I take a more cynical approach. It's only natural that young girls want what comes from having a foreign boyfriend (financial security, etc) and it is a dream for many, but the more common experience (I have seen literally a hundred times) is a foreign tourist comes to Cuba and falls for a beautiful young girl who tells him everything he wants to hear. Then he sends money monthly, but the entire time she either has a Cuban boyfriend or is still hooking up with foreigners or both. I even know more than a few examples of foreigners paying to renovate or buy (permutar) a house for a girl and she lives there with her boyfriend / husband who moves out during the time the foreigner visits. I hate to say it (but it's true) when it comes to a long distance relationship with a Cuban girl, you can't trust them. And I mean none.
If someone was thinking of meeting a girl and taking her out of Cuba, I highly recommend against it. Culturally it wouldn't work unless she is really educated and mature. Cubans are so close to their family and friends, to take her away with little contact to a 1st world country where she may not speak the language and doesn't know anyone is a recipe for disaster. I honestly can not see that working more than 1 in a 100 times.
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Originally Posted by El Chico
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Contrary to what a lot of guys will tell you, it does depend on your age and appearance. It's true just about any guy can get a hot looking pro (who might pretend she's not) , but regular Cuban girls. Although promiscuous. Do have some standards. I've heard stories from lots of girls that they pass off old men to their friends that are willing to be with them. It's also pretty hard to tell, especially if you are new to Cuba, when a girl is a semi pro. If she's hanging out on Opisbo, where that guy was, wearing a nice dress and takes a liking to you that quick, she's most likely at least a semi-pro. I've met a many regular girls that won't do anything with you the first time you meet, but typically will by the second or third time and don't ask for money. But in reality they are hoping you will at least help them out. I've only met a small number that actually refuse to take any money and these have all been girls with a real job.
Thanks Chico, Yeah in the Documentary he makes it seem like she was an innocent sweetheart normal girl. In reality she probably isn't a pro or even a semi pro but is definately willing to give it up for the chance to be something more than she is (she wants to be a model) or maybe even some $ which the Film maker may have given her to do that modeling strip thing at the end. Also we don't know how many girls he approached before finally getting a willing participant. I guess we won't really know the actuall truth. Don't get me wrong, (I am 38 in good shape and think I am good looking) if I ended up with that girl in the Video I would consider my Cuba trip a roaring success.
Chico, Do the girls down there really envision making a life with a gringo. I consider my self a world traveler and in most countries the gringo card works well but not to the extent I see in the video. That girl seemed downright enamored and desperate. It seems in CUBA it would be next to impossible to actually get her out of there. Any way thats my impression and would like your opinion thanks.
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Originally Posted by Mfins
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I agree in some of the scenes but others the gilrs knew they were being filmed. The quality of the hidden camera too is excellent.
How realistic is it to meet girls (hot ones non pros) on the street like that there and end up banging them that night or the next?
Of all the places I have been to I have never seen it that easy. At least not with that kind of quality.
Contrary to what a lot of guys will tell you, it does depend on your age and appearance. It's true just about any guy can get a hot looking pro (who might pretend she's not) , but regular Cuban girls. Although promiscuous. Do have some standards. I've heard stories from lots of girls that they pass off old men to their friends that are willing to be with them. It's also pretty hard to tell, especially if you are new to Cuba, when a girl is a semi pro. If she's hanging out on Opisbo, where that guy was, wearing a nice dress and takes a liking to you that quick, she's most likely at least a semi-pro. I've met a many regular girls that won't do anything with you the first time you meet, but typically will by the second or third time and don't ask for money. But in reality they are hoping you will at least help them out. I've only met a small number that actually refuse to take any money and these have all been girls with a real job.
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Please note that this is a good young looking guy. This also makes it easy, a fat, old man like me has to talk about money. 60 or 70 cuc at least.
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Originally Posted by El Chico
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I think it's clear it was a hidden camera or he said it wasn't turned on. Many scenes you can see both his hands, so it looks like he put it in a hat or something.
I agree in some of the scenes but others the gilrs knew they were being filmed. The quality of the hidden camera too is excellent.
How realistic is it to meet girls (hot ones non pros) on the street like that there and end up banging them that night or the next?
Of all the places I have been to I have never seen it that easy. At least not with that kind of quality.
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Originally Posted by Mfins
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That was an excellent video. My question is how did they get permission in CUBA of all places to shoot the police man with Video. Have video in the clubs et. Also, werent these girls afraid of the repercussions by discussing openly there hatred for Cuba.
The star of the documentary picked up a smoking hot girl on the street. (non pro a sweetheart as he called it) I am sure there was a lot of editing but how realistic is that for the average tourist.
I think it's clear it was a hidden camera or he said it wasn't turned on. Many scenes you can see both his hands, so it looks like he put it in a hat or something.
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That was an excellent video. My question is how did they get permission in CUBA of all places to shoot the police man with Video. Have video in the clubs et. Also, werent these girls afraid of the repercussions by discussing openly there hatred for Cuba.
The star of the documentary picked up a smoking hot girl on the street. (non pro a sweetheart as he called it) I am sure there was a lot of editing but how realistic is that for the average tourist.
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Just a video to share
http://vimeo.com/33851895
Never seen a better video of the "Havanna Feeling". Hope it's okay to post this. Includes Salon Rojo section and Habana Vieja mongering.
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