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07-25-21 19:40 #3662
Posts: 1972Hear, hear
Originally Posted by Oakie [View Original Post]
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07-25-21 11:54 #3661
Posts: 468Naw Keep Posting
Originally Posted by Stradivari [View Original Post]
This has honestly been some good solid dialog about how to deal with the different type of ladies (froms pros to regular girls) in DR.
We're enjoying your adventure so keep posting.
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07-25-21 10:14 #3660
Posts: 1908Originally Posted by Stradivari [View Original Post]
When you've been on this board for a while, you'll see that you will be taken to task by the regulars for A. Paying too much. Be. Paying too little. See. Treating a prostitute like shit. The. Having a prostitute treat you like shit.
It's all good and the responses tell us more about the posters attitudes, than about you.
Thing is, I always wish there was a similar forum for DR P4P ladies.
As a resident here, I maintain relationships with all kinds of chicas, (except the hard core SW's). They have all our types sorted and categorized. They have their stories to tell too, funny and sad. They've learned to read guys like a book, and can smell a bad news monger from fifty paces. I always take issue when mongers, who allow themselves to be ripped off, call them dumb girls. LOL.
Keep the reports coming, we are all on a journey to the promised land here, with mistakes made, experience acquired, and hopefully getting there.
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07-25-21 06:02 #3659
Posts: 37Originally Posted by JustTK [View Original Post]
I will have lunch at the boat house at around 1 pm again. I'm the guy with a red bracelet on his right wrist.
Yes, true you are. If she was no hooker (which I strongly assume), nothing was wrong. In case she should have been a hooker: Lesson learned (or not) on her part.
It's funny. Many people judge (badly) about those, who pay money in exchange of sex (although this was, what both had agreed upon). Some people, as we have learned here, judge those, who don't pay in exchange of sex (again, although this was, what both had agreed upon). Others try not to judge but only to observe peoples behavior.
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07-25-21 03:04 #3658
Posts: 2116Originally Posted by Stradivari [View Original Post]
I personally agree that there are NOT two different ways to deal with women. Finally, often times, if I do not know the person well enough, I leave money on the table, perhaps next to a candy bag for her child or a gift, so they can pick it up without losing face.
BTW, are you a violin player?
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07-24-21 22:08 #3657
Posts: 15969Originally Posted by Stradivari [View Original Post]
When a chick asks what I am looking for, I ask them what they are offering or say that depends on the woman. I have been at this for so long that I can usually separate who is what. I divide them into pro and non-pro. I do not subscribe to the semi-pro category. For me either I am paying (prostitute) or I am not (non-prostitute). Maybe if I could pay half I would call that semi-prostitute. A normal chick is not going to be showing her ass in her profile pictures. A normal chick is not going to send you a copy and pasted message saying my name is so and so and I am looking for a serious relationship. My whatsapp is xxx or do you have whatsapp. A normal chick is going to be pretty cautious and generally try to feel you out from conversation (even if briefly) before exchanging numbers. To the chicks that send that copy paste shit I say sorry, I am just looking for fun (aventura). Pretty much 100% of the time they will say well I can do that too. It does not have to be a serious relationship.
As you also said, a very easy way is to just ask. Sometimes I will come out and ask a chick if they are a hooker. That is usually when they keep saying baby, sweetheart, love. That is fucking hooker talk. No normal chick talks like that when they are just starting a conversation with a stranger. The chicks that are not will simply say no. I then say because a lot of chicks on here keep trying to sell me pictures, or videos, or sex and ask for money. I say why would I pay for pics and videos when there are tons on the internet for free. They understand. If the chick is a hooker then they will say why do you ask that. Or they will do the hit dog will holler and act offended and run away when the jig is up.
The ones that admit they are hookers or are up for aventura you can agree on the terms there and say okay I will contact you when I am in town. No need to chat to them everyday like you are courting them.
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07-24-21 21:13 #3656
Posts: 1972Please reconsider!
Originally Posted by Stradivari [View Original Post]
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07-24-21 20:50 #3655
Posts: 1804Originally Posted by Stradivari [View Original Post]
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07-24-21 19:47 #3654
Posts: 37Originally Posted by MrGogo [View Original Post]
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07-24-21 15:17 #3653
Posts: 5675Everybody wants money. A woman would refuse money if after having sex accepting money would make them feel like a hooker. Whether they are a prostitute or not they may not want to convey that impression, for whatever reason. They would gladly take the money under other circumstances.
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07-24-21 14:25 #3652
Posts: 3700The semi pro GFE vs the monger BFE
First, a non pro would not come to Boca chica to meet a foreign stranger without a buffer. Auntie, cousin or friend would come with her for that first introduction. And she would never go to his hotel room on a first meet. A semi pro or pro would have no problem coming to BC because they expect P4P and understand the environment. Boca chica has a reputation, that's why mongers go there, no gringo goes to BC to meet a good girl for free sex. Mongers play the BFE role thinking this girl is different and really likes him. But why would a girl come to meet a old gringo with gray hair, beer belly, and nose hair to give him free sex?
Real talk, if you aren't blonde haired, blue eyes, 6 feet tall, and have muscles don't expect free sex, pay as you go. These are the foreign guys girls put at a premium in hopes of a relationship or having a baby. Sure gringos get lucky sometimes, but she expects some generosity even if it's not spoken. If she wanted to give away pussy, mostly likely it would be with a local Dominican who can speak the language and is from the culture.
She walked the beach, had food and drinks and wasn't even offered a tip for her extra services. If she was hardcore she would have raised hell and torn up the room until she got her money but she decided to play cool with the long game. He has not heard the last of this girl after the eviction. It's a vacation killer to have a stalker thinking the gringo fucked her over. Requests for money, chica saying you play with girls feeling, and threats with insults now come into play.
To some, he won. Free pussy when on vacation is the trophy. To others, he violated the monger code in a monger area. Some take the risks associated with getting free pussy in a monger area, while others understand to keep it on a respectful business level.
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07-24-21 04:08 #3651
Posts: 37Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
And then: Let's assume that on tinder (as in real life), there are pros, semi-pros and non pros. While for me there is no difference in my attitude to any of these groups, there is a difference in the way you negotiate about the time you are going to spend with them. That's why it is wise to figure out, if you are dealing with a pro, semi-pro or non-pro. For me, the easiest way is to ask.
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07-24-21 04:07 #3650
Posts: 37Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
And then: Let's assume that on tinder (as in real life), there are pros, semi-pros and non pros. While for me there is no difference in my attitude to any of these groups, there is a difference in the way I negotiate about the time we are going to spend together. That's why it is wise to figure out whether I am dealing with a pro, semi-pro or non-pro. For me, the easiest way is to ask.
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07-24-21 03:27 #3649
Posts: 15969Originally Posted by GrownMan1 [View Original Post]
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07-24-21 03:02 #3648
Posts: 37Day 2 and 3
To keep the story short: One other tinder date from Day 2 started similar, with the girl pretending not to want money. However, when we talked about the exact day and time, she declared, that sex would be 4000. I offered 2500, she declined. Offered 3000, she accepted. The problem with tinder are the pictures. They are far from reality. But in the end, the girls is there, has a nice face and she already came her way. So I accepted (sex was less than mediocre), but I decided to stop the tinder thing for having the purpose of meeting somebody for sex. Waiting for an hour after the agreed time, not having the body that is on the pictures, that's just to difficult for me. Now I am accepting those who live in BC and want to join me in the activities I am doing anyway. If they don't come, no problem. If they are pretty, we can talk about anything once they are there and I make clear upfront that I am not paying for conversation.
Other than this tinder date, I was surprised to try other massage places and being suggested 1000 for massage and 4000 for a handjob in the end. I told her, in that case, I would use my own hand. Another date was with a real hot Haitian street girl. She also told me, I could pay what I want. Paid 3500, sex was mediocre but her body is stunning.
My hotel gave me a little unpleasant surprise. When I asked with the first girl, how the process was with a girl in the room, they told me that she would leave her cedula at the reception and she would get a bracelet. "That's it?" I asked and they confirmed and told me, I had a double room booked anyway. I was happy with that. Today, another guy at the reception told me, I would need to pay for every bracelet. I was not in the mood to discuss, as other people were standing around but I should clarify that. If they will present an invoice of 10 bracelets on the departure day, that will be a high bill and I might decide to go elsewhere and not to my room. However, if I ask directly now after a couple of days again, I might wake up sleeping dogs. I will have to make up my mind how to deal with that. Has anyone experiences with Boca Beach Residence?