Boca Chica

[JustTK]

It seems my messages to get in touch do not go through the clearance.

I will have lunch at the boat house at around 1 pm again. I'm the guy with a red bracelet on his right wrist.

Sry, didn't see your msg until now. I just arrived boathouse. Will be here for an hour. Red t-shirt at the bar. 4-5 pm.

[Xpartan]

Don't take it personally. Your honest report provoked an interesting discussion here.

When you've been on this board for a while, you'll see that you will be taken to task by the regulars for A. Paying too much. Be. Paying too little. See. Treating a prostitute like shit. The. Having a prostitute treat you like shit.

How true! All the above are the transgressions that every monger should be striving to avoid.

[Coolie High]

I understand what you are saying but I'm not sure if you are making the right guess I'm this particular situation. Maybe, some here are looking through mongers glasses for too long and have forgotten the rest of the world. One lesson learned for me is: I'll never again report on a situation where I didn't pay money. It's outside the scope of this board. Cheers.

This is what the board is about. Exchanging information, seeing things from a different perspective so that you can have and continue to have good times with the ladies in DR. Theres honestly no right or wrong way in how you handle the situation. All the OGs on this board that commented on your situation are just giving their observation on how they wouldve handle it as they've been around the block quite a few times.

This has honestly been some good solid dialog about how to deal with the different type of ladies (froms pros to regular girls) in DR.

We're enjoying your adventure so keep posting.

[Oakie]

I understand what you are saying but I'm not sure if you are making the right guess I'm this particular situation. Maybe, some here are looking through mongers glasses for too long and have forgotten the rest of the world. One lesson learned for me is: I'll never again report on a situation where I didn't pay money. It's outside the scope of this board. Cheers.

Don't take it personally. Your honest report provoked an interesting discussion here.

When you've been on this board for a while, you'll see that you will be taken to task by the regulars for A. Paying too much. Be. Paying too little. See. Treating a prostitute like shit. The. Having a prostitute treat you like shit.

It's all good and the responses tell us more about the posters attitudes, than about you.

Thing is, I always wish there was a similar forum for DR P4P ladies.

As a resident here, I maintain relationships with all kinds of chicas, (except the hard core SW's). They have all our types sorted and categorized. They have their stories to tell too, funny and sad. They've learned to read guys like a book, and can smell a bad news monger from fifty paces. I always take issue when mongers, who allow themselves to be ripped off, call them dumb girls. LOL.

Keep the reports coming, we are all on a journey to the promised land here, with mistakes made, experience acquired, and hopefully getting there.

[Stradivari]

Haha, I was thinking that this is truly bizarre too. Being tied to a post and given 20 lashes for not paying for sex. Really crazy. Even if you had done somthg underhand or malicious, I am still not sure I would condemn you. I remember countless times when a working chica has cheated me. I would simply tihnk it evens up the score a little. TBH I generally do not do mongering for charitable purposes. That is not my primary goal. Haha.

It seems my messages to get in touch do not go through the clearance.

I will have lunch at the boat house at around 1 pm again. I'm the guy with a red bracelet on his right wrist.

Yes, true you are. If she was no hooker (which I strongly assume), nothing was wrong. In case she should have been a hooker: Lesson learned (or not) on her part.

It's funny. Many people judge (badly) about those, who pay money in exchange of sex (although this was, what both had agreed upon). Some people, as we have learned here, judge those, who don't pay in exchange of sex (again, although this was, what both had agreed upon). Others try not to judge but only to observe peoples behavior.

[Tempoecorto]

One lesson learned for me is: I'll never again report on a situation where I didn't pay money. It's outside the scope of this board. Cheers.

There are people on this board who for the longest time maintained that they get it free. Hmm! Of course if you start a conversation with, I am looking for the "love of my life", in a poor country, you might wind up in a different place but most here are truthful and play no such game.

I personally agree that there are NOT two different ways to deal with women. Finally, often times, if I do not know the person well enough, I leave money on the table, perhaps next to a candy bag for her child or a gift, so they can pick it up without losing face.

BTW, are you a violin player?

[Mr Enternational]

Hmm, interesting point of view. Is there a difference in the way you both approach hookers and other people?

And then: Let's assume that on tinder (as in real life), there are pros, semi-pros and non pros. While for me there is no difference in my attitude to any of these groups, there is a difference in the way you negotiate about the time you are going to spend with them. That's why it is wise to figure out, if you are dealing with a pro, semi-pro or non-pro. For me, the easiest way is to ask.

I approach everyone the same way. That is by saying, "Hello. What are you doing?" Now I am starting to drop the hello, because most chicks will only see the hello and not the following question. You have to spoon feed them and can not give them too much to process at one time. They will only say Hello back, or say I am well (something that I did not ask.) The ones that don't answer the question, I say and my question? Then they answer what question. I say look above, while I am thinking look above you dumb bich; I only said 1 sentence and you can't even figure out what question. I get excited when one answers the question that I asked. That gives me a hope they may have some modicum of intelligence. The other day online I told a chick that I started talking to in San Pedro about this. I was really excited that she actually knew how to carry a conversation. She attributed it to chicks being uneducated. (Personas sin estudios. No porque no hayan ido a la escuela o universidad,hay persona qu sencillamente no le interesa tener una buena presentacin personal). I know most guys just want a hole to stick their dick into, but I can not be around a chick for 2 seconds that does not have some type of basic intelligence.

When a chick asks what I am looking for, I ask them what they are offering or say that depends on the woman. I have been at this for so long that I can usually separate who is what. I divide them into pro and non-pro. I do not subscribe to the semi-pro category. For me either I am paying (prostitute) or I am not (non-prostitute). Maybe if I could pay half I would call that semi-prostitute. A normal chick is not going to be showing her ass in her profile pictures. A normal chick is not going to send you a copy and pasted message saying my name is so and so and I am looking for a serious relationship. My whatsapp is xxx or do you have whatsapp. A normal chick is going to be pretty cautious and generally try to feel you out from conversation (even if briefly) before exchanging numbers. To the chicks that send that copy paste shit I say sorry, I am just looking for fun (aventura). Pretty much 100% of the time they will say well I can do that too. It does not have to be a serious relationship.

As you also said, a very easy way is to just ask. Sometimes I will come out and ask a chick if they are a hooker. That is usually when they keep saying baby, sweetheart, love. That is fucking hooker talk. No normal chick talks like that when they are just starting a conversation with a stranger. The chicks that are not will simply say no. I then say because a lot of chicks on here keep trying to sell me pictures, or videos, or sex and ask for money. I say why would I pay for pics and videos when there are tons on the internet for free. They understand. If the chick is a hooker then they will say why do you ask that. Or they will do the hit dog will holler and act offended and run away when the jig is up.

The ones that admit they are hookers or are up for aventura you can agree on the terms there and say okay I will contact you when I am in town. No need to chat to them everyday like you are courting them.

[Xpartan]

One lesson learned for me is: I'll never again report on a situation where I didn't pay money. It's outside the scope of this board. Cheers.

That would be unfortunate. You can see there is no consensus here even among those who criticize you, LOL. All data points are useful.

[JustTK]

Maybe, some here are looking through mongers glasses for too long and have forgotten the rest of the world. One lesson learned for me is: I'll never again report on a situation where I didn't pay money. It's outside the scope of this board. Cheers.

Haha, I was thinking that this is truly bizarre too. Being tied to a post and given 20 lashes for not paying for sex. Really crazy. Even if you had done somthg underhand or malicious, I am still not sure I would condemn you. I remember countless times when a working chica has cheated me. I would simply tihnk it evens up the score a little. TBH I generally do not do mongering for charitable purposes. That is not my primary goal. Haha.

[Stradivari]

First, a non pro would not come to Boca chica to meet a foreign stranger without a buffer. Auntie, cousin or friend would come with her for that first introduction. And she would never go to his hotel room on a first meet. A semi pro or pro would have no problem coming to BC because they expect P4P and understand the environment. Boca chica has a reputation, that's why mongers go there, no gringo goes to BC to meet a good girl for free sex. Mongers play the BFE role thinking this girl is different and really likes him. But why would a girl come to meet a old gringo with gray hair, beer belly, and nose hair to give him free sex?

Real talk, if you aren't blonde haired, blue eyes, 6 feet tall, and have muscles don't expect free sex, pay as you go. These are the foreign guys girls put at a premium in hopes of a relationship or having a baby. Sure gringos get lucky sometimes, but she expects some generosity even if it's not spoken. If she wanted to give away pussy, mostly likely it would be with a local Dominican who can speak the language and is from the culture.

She walked the beach, had food and drinks and wasn't even offered a tip for her extra services. If she was hardcore she would have raised hell and torn up the room until she got her money but she decided to play cool with the long game. He has not heard the last of this girl after the eviction. It's a vacation killer to have a stalker thinking the gringo fucked her over. Requests for money, chica saying you play with girls feeling, and threats with insults now come into play.

To some, he won. Free pussy when on vacation is the trophy. To others, he violated the monger code in a monger area. Some take the risks associated with getting free pussy in a monger area, while others understand to keep it on a respectful business level.

I understand what you are saying but I'm not sure if you are making the right guess I'm this particular situation. Maybe, some here are looking through mongers glasses for too long and have forgotten the rest of the world. One lesson learned for me is: I'll never again report on a situation where I didn't pay money. It's outside the scope of this board. Cheers.

[Turgid]

Everybody wants money. A woman would refuse money if after having sex accepting money would make them feel like a hooker. Whether they are a prostitute or not they may not want to convey that impression, for whatever reason. They would gladly take the money under other circumstances.

[Mr Gogo]

First, a non pro would not come to Boca chica to meet a foreign stranger without a buffer. Auntie, cousin or friend would come with her for that first introduction. And she would never go to his hotel room on a first meet. A semi pro or pro would have no problem coming to BC because they expect P4P and understand the environment. Boca chica has a reputation, that's why mongers go there, no gringo goes to BC to meet a good girl for free sex. Mongers play the BFE role thinking this girl is different and really likes him. But why would a girl come to meet a old gringo with gray hair, beer belly, and nose hair to give him free sex?

Real talk, if you aren't blonde haired, blue eyes, 6 feet tall, and have muscles don't expect free sex, pay as you go. These are the foreign guys girls put at a premium in hopes of a relationship or having a baby. Sure gringos get lucky sometimes, but she expects some generosity even if it's not spoken. If she wanted to give away pussy, mostly likely it would be with a local Dominican who can speak the language and is from the culture.

She walked the beach, had food and drinks and wasn't even offered a tip for her extra services. If she was hardcore she would have raised hell and torn up the room until she got her money but she decided to play cool with the long game. He has not heard the last of this girl after the eviction. It's a vacation killer to have a stalker thinking the gringo fucked her over. Requests for money, chica saying you play with girls feeling, and threats with insults now come into play.

To some, he won. Free pussy when on vacation is the trophy. To others, he violated the monger code in a monger area. Some take the risks associated with getting free pussy in a monger area, while others understand to keep it on a respectful business level.

[Stradivari]

I see what you are saying because he did ask the girl from the beginning about giving her money. If those were his only intentions then IMHO he should have made that clear to the chick in the beginning. I never meet non-pros with the intention of just using them as I would a hooker, so I am coming from a different perspective.

Hmm, interesting point of view. Is there a difference in the way you both approach hookers and other people?

And then: Let's assume that on tinder (as in real life), there are pros, semi-pros and non pros. While for me there is no difference in my attitude to any of these groups, there is a difference in the way you negotiate about the time you are going to spend with them. That's why it is wise to figure out, if you are dealing with a pro, semi-pro or non-pro. For me, the easiest way is to ask.

[Stradivari]

I see what you are saying because he did ask the girl from the beginning about giving her money. If those were his only intentions then IMHO he should have made that clear to the chick in the beginning. I never meet non-pros with the intention of just using them as I would a hooker, so I am coming from a different perspective.

Hmm, interesting point of view. Is there a difference in the way you both approach hookers and other people?

And then: Let's assume that on tinder (as in real life), there are pros, semi-pros and non pros. While for me there is no difference in my attitude to any of these groups, there is a difference in the way I negotiate about the time we are going to spend together. That's why it is wise to figure out whether I am dealing with a pro, semi-pro or non-pro. For me, the easiest way is to ask.

[Mr Enternational]

Come on E! We all read and he told us what his intentions were with chicas. We know why he asked her did she expect anything from him for visiting him. He wasn't looking for free sex. It was a visitation that he was asking about not a sexual confrontation. Stop acting like they are one in the same because I know you're smarter than that. Most of us on this board are smarter than that. At least I feel that way.

I see what you are saying because he did ask the girl from the beginning about giving her money. If those were his only intentions then IMHO he should have made that clear to the chick in the beginning. I never meet non-pros with the intention of just using them as I would a hooker, so I am coming from a different perspective.