Boca Chica

[Prtyr2]

Just when you were making a solid point you jump off the grid. "Pricing is not online higher either", You could be right depending on what you've been paying. Anyone that understands the current value for sex in The Dominican of republic and not the US can make their own Judgment. To actually say it's not higher makes me wonder what you've been paying? How long have you been coming to this country? Many newbies think that the price they're P4 P is not high even though they're being gringo taxed.
I don't know if you are a newbie or not. But let me give you a little of reality that you can 'easy' learn. Normal girls do not get on tinder, Dominican Cupid, or any other social site looking to hook up with older or younger gingos that can't even speak the language. Even if they speak the language means nothing to the Chica. The Dominicans are nationalist. Despite what you may think and how you spend your time with them; the Dominican women will always be loyal to their Dominican men. (Klk) They are not looking for anything from a foreign man but his money. They are not innocently looking for a good guy. The most you can get is a respectable understanding between each other. Once you understand that it's all about how you want to deal with them. It's your time and money after all.

When was the last time you ask a normal girl how much would it cost to spend time with you? Like you I like the normal pictures. She may be a typical Dominican that's willing to P4 P. Advertising online is not the norm for anything other than Chicas looking for money or a sponsor to their Financial needs. They don't need us for sex. There are too many handsome Dominican men at their fingertips. You say you take chicas out and have sex with them for free! I do not doubt you. However, I've learned from my years coming here that free shit will cost you more in the end.

Now this here is some complete BS, LOL. The odds on tinder are lower but I have met a few very good ones there. I like Badoo better than all the rest. Many, Dominican women do not like Dominican men. Many have been burned and know that every Dominican guy they know cheats. Many know men that are abusive. Many Dominican guys could care less if the woman enjoys. Machismo is real. I used to chat with an extremely horny girl that is over 30 years younger. She always wanted to come over. We would chat about sex and she complained all the Dominican guys she knew never wanted to go down on women. If they did it was sort of obligatory foreplay they needed to do to get laid. We would chat about sex all the time. Phone sex a few times. She sent me videos and pics. Never hooked up as she was not really my type. Too thick but nice firm boobs. She was cool to chat to if bored. If busy, I would ignore.

One of my "tricks" from over the years is first date not banging them. Maybe some affection, making out, getting them off and not trying to do her. Worked every frigging time. Second date they would literally rape me. They never met a guy that put her needs first. . . . . Or did he?

[Prtyr2]

Dude, the few things I said made you that upset? LOL, damn man, it's actually pretty common among gringos, date non pros, fuckd them and send them on their way with nothing. Obvious you want to give them something, but truly I've had chicas refusing to take any LOL. Yes, try dating a real non pro, someone with an actual job. Some will even pay for dinner, take you to visit their family, want to build a genuine friendship. Did you have to pay all of your girlfriends you've dated during your life? Mongering to me is a mix between paying hardcore pros, and meeting soft and sweet tinder / SA / Cupid college chics for dating, hoping to make a foreign boyfriend; use my good looks and dance moves and get laid free at times. Don't hate if you can't do this, not my fault, stop sounding like a bitter ahole.

We all trying to learn and have fun hombre. It's so funny how some losers get to the island on their Social security or Disability income for couple months, and they suddenly claim to know more or claim to have lived there. When really they don't even know if the one they're writing to could be part Dominican, or was raised there or lived there longer than they did LOL. Renting a $200 apartment in Sosua, not speaking a word of Spanish, never been involved with the real non-sex working families in the Dominican republic or other activities, does make you a local, in fact you technically still haven't lived there. You must have a cedula, a bank acct, a business, a marriage, be part of real ex-pat group and not mongering boards, and all the above I mentioned to claim so. Until then just STFU. Now who's pathetic?

LOL. He will talk crap about "man in the arena" "boots on the ground", come off as if because he lives here he knows it all. If someone says they have been here longer and have more experience, he also gets pissed.

One way to gauge if a girl is non pro is to hint you may go to a resort in beávaro for a weekend. The amount of normal girls that will say "invítame" is high. Many have never or rarely been. If you know her and get along, if you take her to a place where she can drink and eat all day for free and where she will be half naked all day? Almost a sure thing. I have a weekend booked in November with an amiga I took last year. Still, last night a sister of an old amiga called to chat. Never dated her. She asked if I am officially single again. Hinted at me needing a novia etc. I said with stay at home, I can't go out and meet women etc. Told her I may go to punta cana for weekend and she said "Invítame". Did not tell her I had date lined up. Wanted to feel her out for future reference. I am going to resort using airline miles and even if paying cash, the difference for bringing a date is minimal. Maybe 50 bucks more per night.

By the end of the call she was saying I need to invite her dancing once the discos open. Invited me to her house for dinner. 100% non pro. Owns small business that she runs out of her modest house.

I had a very cute waitress tell me "invítame" when I was planning a business trip to Cartagena. She had saved up money and said she would pay flight since she always wanted to go there. My job would have been paying hotels anyway so she saw an opportunity. No doubt she would show her appreciation.

The ammount of non pros down here who hardly ever go out is astounding. I have taken women from harina and San Cristobal to zona colonial and they had never been. A few beers in "romantic" setting like plaza Espana or sega zona, and they are happy. Also appreciative.

[GrownMan1]

New member of ISG, been on USA guide for a long time. Did a lot of traveling all over Central and South America and the Caribbean years ago. Many, many, many, adventures but it has been a while. I am ready to start traveling again so I joined up, been reading the site for a while. I need some help. I am deciding whether to go the hotel or Airbnb route.

Also, PP, Sosua, or BC? I do not need unlimited choices, as long as there are some opportunities I will be fine, I am confident that I can find a friend without any problems.

Being well traveled and knowing Spanish is a big plus to your advantage. Also, not being there solo for P4 P, gives us insight to how you want to spend your vacation.

Hotels.

Pros: Traveling accommodations are met. (Hot water, safe, bed, and air condition). Most hotels have a front desk, cleaning staff, and security personnel to assist you during your time. Most hotels have backup generators because power outages are frequent. Someone will be there to address your problems.

Cons: less private, less space, usually more expensive but not much.

Airbnb.

Pros: more private, you're not renting a room, you're renting someone's apartment or home. You usually have a patio or balcony. You usually have a dining room and living room separate from your bedroom.

Cons: no one's there to address your problems. Most don't have backup generators.

Personally I think as an experience traveler you will do fine in an Airbnb. I recommend hotels for people less familiar with the area, culture, and language.
I definitely would suggest Boca Chica for you. It’s easier to get the hang of.

[EddieLima]

Welcome bro!

Based on the information on the post, you know Spanish and know what's up cause your not really "new". I recommend Boca Chica if you don't want all the hoopla of Sosua super pros and the noisy, young crowds showing each other up over there. Boca is way smaller, quieter and simpler.

For a feeler, stay at FrioHot Hotel for at least 3 days. There's also a good sports bar across the street there but I forgot the name. But FH is a hotel restaurant and the food is very good just a smidge pricey-but when you see how clean and well kept the place is you'll see why!!

Try the fried calamari and the green bread spread-O M G!! They even got a money exchange right outside, or a bank up behind the hotel. It's chica friendly with free breakfast! Only thing is they don't have a pool, just a jacuzzi on the rooftop overlooking the ocean! But its a modern looking place and you have a chance to meet a few travelers there as well to point you to some other spots. One 4 block strip in town closed to traffic at night and VERY safe. Go to the Piano Bar!! If you like Spanish mamis they got them. If you like Haitian mamis (I do) you'll see some nice ones there and all over.

Stay away from fast talking dudes during the day-all of them!! Never let them take you to eat on the beach-EVER. They will triple charge you. The Chinese food spot is good and they got a supermarket by the park. More to list but I won't kill your fun. It's great for the older, wiser, slower guys--like us!! Enjoy bro!! P.S. --walk the entire beach down to the shacks at the end--nice walk, plenty to see. Just not at night, sir.

Maybe this will help some of the new travelers to DR.

New member of ISG, been on USA guide for a long time. Did a lot of traveling all over Central and South America and the Caribbean years ago. Many, many, many, adventures but it has been a while. I am ready to start traveling again so I joined up, been reading the site for a while. I need some help. I am deciding whether to go the hotel or Airbnb route. You guys have made me nervous about the Airbnb, that was my initial plan. I have been exposed to many situations in my travels and never had issues. I always felt that if I did, I could talk my way out, or run like hell. But, I am now older, wiser, and slower.

[Mr Enternational]

I'm going there to relax and not "power monger". Girls are the added bonus beside diving / going to the beach / sailing (or at least that is the plan).

The diving sux in Boca Chica and Sosua. I would save my money on that end.

[Sawassdee]

I admit I AM totally green and a bit late to the game as well: I really appreciate the forums like ISG where I can find what to avoid and what to expect, also allowing me to say "Right! I remember reading about that, should have been more careful" after getting into one of those situation. I don't have any illusion that I will be able to navigate everything perfectly but at least I had been forewarned.

I'm going there to relax and not "power monger". Girls are the added bonus beside diving / going to the beach / sailing (or at least that is the plan). I have used Badoo to get to know a few girls beforehand (mostly because it's free and you can easily change the location to DR with a GPS simulator) and found a few that were point blank asking for money for their time, and 1-2 who said they didn't want any (thought I am still not sure I trust them when they say that).

Current plan is 1 week in Sosua and 1 week in Boca Chica, the rest is ***.

You will do just fine. This shit isn't rocket science. Girls are girls everywhere in the world. The trick is to try and figure out what type of chick you are dealing with upfront. Glad you flat out asked them about money upfront since you are new to the game.

If you are confused about girls who say they don't want money. Just tell them upfront that you are looking to meet and spend time getting to know a nice girl and let destiny decide. And that you aren't interested in a professional sex worker. And see if she is still interested in coming.

My own personal take, for those GF types I never pay her for sex in the states. Our economy is different.

However when traveling to a second or third world country I gauge the girls professional career. If I feel she is just getting by and she is making her own way to see me; AND SHE IS GOING TO MEET MY NEEDS WITHOUT BS, I typically prefer to give her a "buy yourself a nice little gift (monies)" AS SHE LEAVES. It is her (walking away money) because I'm still going to play around with other chicks and I more than likely may choose not to see her again. I am PAYING HER TO LEAVE and not show back up creating a crazy situation unexpectedly at my door.

If she is a professional career woman with good income I don't give her money. And it works for me.

You will have to figure out your own style based on how and what you are hunting. Nothing is written in stone. Just ensure you RTFF for others experiences, and 1 don't overpay or 2 let these chicas ruin your trip!

Have a f*ing blast and Enjoy!!

[DoubleDouble]

Maybe this will help some of the new travelers to DR.

New member of ISG, been on USA guide for a long time. Did a lot of traveling all over Central and South America and the Caribbean years ago. Many, many, many, adventures but it has been a while. I am ready to start traveling again so I joined up, been reading the site for a while. I need some help. I am deciding whether to go the hotel or Airbnb route. You guys have made me nervous about the Airbnb, that was my initial plan. I have been exposed to many situations in my travels and never had issues. I always felt that if I did, I could talk my way out, or run like hell. But, I am now older, wiser, and slower. I talk a good game, am not shy or scared and speak Spanish so I am comfortable and confident being out and about no matter where I am. So what do you think, which way should I go?

Also, PP, Sosua, or BC? I do not need unlimited choices, as long as there are some opportunities I will be fine, I am confident that I can find a friend without any problems. Not being cocky, just basing it on what I have read about DR. I am there 10/12 to 10/22 and would enjoy hooking up with one of you for some drinks, especially some of the real pros on here. I am a great wingman, can add to the conversations, and shut up and listen at the right times. Most importantly I am not a dick or a pain in the ass. So what do you guys think, pros and cons of each based on the above?

Thanks guys, be safe.

[Xiomega]

I admit I AM totally green and a bit late to the game as well: I really appreciate the forums like ISG where I can find what to avoid and what to expect, also allowing me to say "Right! I remember reading about that, should have been more careful" after getting into one of those situation. I don't have any illusion that I will be able to navigate everything perfectly but at least I had been forewarned.

I'm going there to relax and not "power monger". Girls are the added bonus beside diving / going to the beach / sailing (or at least that is the plan). I have used Badoo to get to know a few girls beforehand (mostly because it's free and you can easily change the location to DR with a GPS simulator) and found a few that were point blank asking for money for their time, and 1-2 who said they didn't want any (thought I am still not sure I trust them when they say that).

Current plan is 1 week in Sosua and 1 week in Boca Chica, the rest is ***.

You sound very green. LOL. Nothing wrong with that! But off jump, why E S. It is a bad idea to to bring a chica to your room before the price is set. WHY? Because she might say you should have known it was $200 USA For and hour and then the cops arrive. No bueno! And BTW, being that you are new, do not use an Air BnB. They might just give you the key for the week and leave you at the mercy of hardened pros. They can smell you, bro. And you're not going to be able to fend off a "Hoe-Spazz" by yourself yet. Use a chica friendly hotel your first few times out. They know the scene, they know the problem chicas and most importantly will not allow you to bring in a minor!

How to ask how much?. This is the easiest and hardest thing to do isn't it? The Vets on here will say to just ask. And they're right, IF, you're in a place like Sosua, Boca or the red light districts in the Cap.

But I know, somewhere in the back of your mind you're asking yourself what if she isn't a "working girl" and how do I avoid getting slapped in the face or totally ruining something that might be special? Hey, you never know!.

[GrownMan1]

You sound very green. LOL. Nothing wrong with that! But off jump, why E S. It is a bad idea to to bring a chica to your room before the price is set. WHY? Because she might say you should have known it was $200 USA For and hour and then the cops arrive. No bueno! And BTW, being that you are new, do not use an Air BnB. They might just give you the key for the week and leave you at the mercy of hardened pros. They can smell you, bro. And you're not going to be able to fend off a "Hoe-Spazz" by yourself yet. Use a chica friendly hotel your first few times out. They know the scene, they know the problem chicas and most importantly will not allow you to bring in a minor!

How to ask how much?. This is the easiest and hardest thing to do isn't it? The Vets on here will say to just ask. And they're right, IF, you're in a place like Sosua, Boca or the red light districts in the Cap.

But I know, somewhere in the back of your mind you're asking yourself what if she isn't a "working girl" and how do I avoid getting slapped in the face or totally ruining something that might be special? Hey, you never know! Especially if you are NOT in those cities I mentioned and in a regular locals bar. The great beauty about the DR. The women are plentiful and aggressive and sex is good fun and no big deal. Say that you want her to go back to your room and what can you give her? DR men are just as aggressive so they are used to getting asked for some ass. Just be nicer and suave about it. Dassit bro! Remember, you can tip. Just don't overpay. And RTFF. Haaaaa.

Play close attention. I support this advice. Just to add remember not all chica are professional street walkers. Some chicas have normal jobs. Some have very professional jobs. IMHO the majority of them can use the extra money. Whether they come out forward about it or not. A foreigner to them mean someone who they can get something out of to help their current financial position. But it's cool as long as you understand the game. Get out of it what you're trying to achieve. Whether it's just a dinner date or TLN.

You're right most of us vets will agree to come out and be straight up. It's kind of a very direct but we are just trying to save you time and energy. When I first started coming to the DR I met a girl I labeled superwoman. She was all of that and a bag of chips. She gave me her number and I was trying my best to make things happen. I befriended some vets who took me under their wing. They liked talking to me because I like listening. I told them I was trying to score with this Chica and I ask for their assistance. After 30 seconds the conversation the vet looked at me and said she's full of bullshit. Continue talking to her if you want but she's full of bullshit. As bad as I wanted her! I would've easily fell victim to her bullshit. I took there advice and deleted her from my phone.

I was a good grasshopper. I hate someone telling me I told you so. I always tell my son your dad is your cheat code. Use your freaking cheat code; Especially when you’re playing with your money.

[Sawassdee]

I agree 100% on the video interview regardless of how you source your Chicas. I interviewed 10 before my last trip and locked in two. I'm repeating with one and interviewing now for number 2. L on my next trip in October. I actually did 3 separate video chats with the ones I picked just to be sure. Nothing is 100% but for me, I need to see & talk to the woman.

Strawhat.

Do you use it to interview both Pros and regular girls? , verify their looks, both? Create or check the vibe??

I mainly use it for gaming regular girls. As far as their looks, I typically depend on lots of Pics of her. If their are not enough pics I ask for more while chatting her up via text.

I've never personally video chatted upfront. For me It may be awkward due to the potential language barrier. And honestly I've been successful with not saying much and allowing her own mind to do all the legwork of building the best romantic image / version of me that she wants to bang. (That's what girls do unless the dude talks too much!) That is why I shoot for meeting at my place, I need to go for the lay while her self hypnosis is at its peak. LOL After that I am golden!

[GrownMan1]

Just want to save some of the newbs from reading all this inaccurate info:

Been going to DR for more than 15 years I. Am I qualified enough?

1. Yes there are plenty of normal girls, non putas in Tinder and Cupid dating sites. You can't tell me who I have fuckd. In fact, some of them will get upset with you if you hint that they are putas or if you offer money in exchange for sex.

2. When I say you can ask how much they charge, no one is stupid to ask just like that. It means you would hint it in your a phrase like. "What would I have to give you to spend a day or two with me? Then they'll be straightforward if they are a hooker. But honestly I'll try that with 1 out of 20 chatters because within a few inbox msg you will know immediately if they are a normal working class girl with a job, or a a P4P chica.

3. The game of pretty young foreign girls dating Americans and Europeans is nothing new. You sound like you're in your 20's or haven't travelled much. Get your head out of arse and understand the dynamics behind it. Yes those chicas do have lots of young good looking Dominican men for sex.

Yes sex is something that us men are dominated by, and we worry more about looks then women do. Women are more passionate and driven toward successful men, men with title, men with homes, wealth, etc. Do you see now how being a foreigner with powerful dollars in our pocket, our beneficial it can be? How we can use the status quo to our favor? That's all mongering is about. We can sport bang the pros hourly, or we can stretch our dollars to wife up some young beauties and have a wife in every country we step foot in. We can't do this America, not in Feminazzi land. You can be 50 years old, overweight as a gringo and looking like a chomp, and still a young beauty in those poor countries will run away with you instead of living in poverty with a Dominican. But just do not assume everyone in these types of boards are old men who can't get laid free, or aren't good looking or aren't seeking something more than just quick nuts. Mongering for me is for fun, seeking adventures, away from rude American women with dicks (yes most have dicks or lesbos, physically or mentally), and finding nicer women who appreciate a man who can afford dinner and pay the rent.

First my man let me apologize you are a Vet. If I wrote anything offensive to you; that wasn't Intentions. A lot of times when I use the word you I didn't really mean you. Then there were times I was speaking directly to you.

As vets we can disagree because we have different strategies. I pay attention to what people say and sometimes some thing I give two cents.

1. What I said about normal girls I standby. She may be a typical Chica but I understand the culture enough to know that looking for romance through social networks it's not the norm in the DR. Looking for financial support No matter the profession is. I haven't traveled as with many years as you have. Maybe you have a higher insight than I do, you definitely have more years experience.

2. I'll say you have more experience in negotiations than me. Sometimes I said "you" I really wouldn't mean you individually I meant "you" in general. I apologize if you thought I was directing it all to you. I was under the influence. But just to playfully jab at you. There's only one type of chica that I know that you ask how much for her time. No matter how you articulate it. That Language is the norm for people of our hobby and chicas who break the norm to get down with us.

3. My man I disagree with you. I don't think they try to escape- but try to survive. Doing whatever they have to do to live in the county they love very much. IMO The Dominicans are nationalist. They have a Family, cultural, and spiritual bond with each other. (Klk) They will always be down for each other. Honestly, I haven't met too many Dominicans trying get me to get them to the US. But I haven't been around as long as you. I understand where you coming from, I have heard a few stories. Not only that; I've been to Cuba. Where I will agree, what you say I can see applies. I am just telling you what I observed seeing the culture.

My man, I don't want to throw insults or play tit for tat. I just disagreed. I feel we both have good intention sharing our experiences and trying to help others. I'll concentrate on that.

[EddieLima]

You sound very green. LOL. Nothing wrong with that! But off jump, why E S. It is a bad idea to to bring a chica to your room before the price is set. WHY? Because she might say you should have known it was $200 USA For and hour and then the cops arrive. No bueno! And BTW, being that you are new, do not use an Air BnB. They might just give you the key for the week and leave you at the mercy of hardened pros. They can smell you, bro. And you're not going to be able to fend off a "Hoe-Spazz" by yourself yet. Use a chica friendly hotel your first few times out. They know the scene, they know the problem chicas and most importantly will not allow you to bring in a minor!

How to ask how much?. This is the easiest and hardest thing to do isn't it? The Vets on here will say to just ask. And they're right, IF, you're in a place like Sosua, Boca or the red light districts in the Cap.

But I know, somewhere in the back of your mind you're asking yourself what if she isn't a "working girl" and how do I avoid getting slapped in the face or totally ruining something that might be special? Hey, you never know! Especially if you are NOT in those cities I mentioned and in a regular locals bar. The great beauty about the DR. The women are plentiful and aggressive and sex is good fun and no big deal. Say that you want her to go back to your room and what can you give her? DR men are just as aggressive so they are used to getting asked for some ass. Just be nicer and suave about it. Dassit bro! Remember, you can tip. Just don't overpay. And RTFF. Haaaaa.

I heard it's a bad idea to bring a chicha to your room without negotiating the terms first. How do you broach the subject of compensation?

Do you ask point blank? I know depending on where you go worldwide, some culture are way more open with those kind of talks. What about the DR?

[Confiable]

MaddTraveler, you bring up good points for the traveler that is there for a short period of time and the tools (dating apps, or references) to utilize while there. SubCmdr viewpoints are clear for someone that is there for a long period or permanently. He can just relax and he is not under the clock to try and meet non pros because your trip will end in soon. You can build an organic relationship without the same tools as the short time traveler. I am not saying that it can't be done in a short vacation time frame but you will need some stars aligned, right place at the right time for it to happen.

[StrawHat]

I agree 100% on the video interview regardless of how you source your Chicas. I interviewed 10 before my last trip and locked in two. I'm repeating with one and interviewing now for number 2. L on my next trip in October. I actually did 3 separate video chats with the ones I picked just to be sure. Nothing is 100% but for me, I need to see & talk to the woman.

Strawhat.

Getting 100% of what you want is truly a numbers game. So, why not increase the #'s of chicas you interact with?

The return on your investment is 100's of times better than spending painful time with crazy girls, or buying girls drinks, food or paying for transportation to find out they are not the ones. Average $40 1 time investment brings 100's to 1000's of in the location of your choice fresh potential opportunities for interviews right to your fingertips for 30 days. Secondly, 99.6% of these ladies you will never meet walking the streets during your visit. Third, interviews are quick and typically painless, and finished in less than 1 to 10 minutes worth of complete texting all online getting what you need to know with the same set of copy and paste questions before deciding to meet up or move on (cut her loose). Fourth, these ladies are actively (that means right this moment) looking for the RIGHT male company (It is a win. Win for both parties involved). And lastly, but by far the most important piece of this puzzle are The Ladies who like the way YOU LOOK will CHOOSE and Inbox YOU FIRST! No matter what each of our different appearances, there are Ladies who get turned on by YOURS!

Tip. - Make it a point to interview the girls that reach out to you FIRST and not the other way around.

We all know the girl that chooses you will provide you with the most noteworthy fun! The time or sessions spent with her are always better than the girls you do most of the legwork with.

Next tip. If interview went well, get them over to your private location first. Away from other local eyes and interactions. They too want privacy while they do their dirt. They are online to get there needs met quickly and DISCRETELY and not advertising in the mall or the street. Upon arrival Immediately make them feel safe and desired while warming them up to fun with you and your light physical touch (nicely as you talk not creepy like) and Go for the fuck. If they are in your apt. / room they came with the mindset to do the deed. Online dating apps works like gangbusters LOL. P.S. If they need to meet over dinner move on.

[MaddTraveler]

I have learned not to debate the islanders that wish to throw bombs in between trips. If you want to be a PUA more power to you. If you think barrio is a location and not a attitude more power to you. If you think you know more than someone like me who actually lives here on the island then you are just another critic like the Mr. Twins. More power to you brother. Instead of trying to school me or debate my methods give us some insight into your own.

The statements above prove that you lack knowledge at best and are uneducated at worst! You cannot import a girl that is already here. So who is the idiot?

When you live here you have social circles were you still meet girls in person. When you live here you have to perform all the activities of daily life (going to malls, grocery stores and locations of all types) and those activities bring you in contact with girls in regular situations all the time. When you live here (and you are like me, but we know you are not) you have real girlfriends that you have been seeing ever since you hit the island..

Dude, the few things I said made you that upset? LOL, damn man, it's actually pretty common among gringos, date non pros, fuckd them and send them on their way with nothing. Obvious you want to give them something, but truly I've had chicas refusing to take any LOL. Yes, try dating a real non pro, someone with an actual job. Some will even pay for dinner, take you to visit their family, want to build a genuine friendship. Did you have to pay all of your girlfriends you've dated during your life? Mongering to me is a mix between paying hardcore pros, and meeting soft and sweet tinder / SA / Cupid college chics for dating, hoping to make a foreign boyfriend; use my good looks and dance moves and get laid free at times. Don't hate if you can't do this, not my fault, stop sounding like a bitter ahole.

We all trying to learn and have fun hombre. It's so funny how some losers get to the island on their Social security or Disability income for couple months, and they suddenly claim to know more or claim to have lived there. When really they don't even know if the one they're writing to could be part Dominican, or was raised there or lived there longer than they did LOL. Renting a $200 apartment in Sosua, not speaking a word of Spanish, never been involved with the real non-sex working families in the Dominican republic or other activities, does make you a local, in fact you technically still haven't lived there. You must have a cedula, a bank acct, a business, a marriage, be part of real ex-pat group and not mongering boards, and all the above I mentioned to claim so. Until then just STFU. Now who's pathetic?