Puerto Plata

[Tempoecorto]

Jao mentioned Aventura. Not sure if the group is still together, but the lead singer Romeo Santos is a huge superstar on his own now.

I am impressed with your knowledge of Latin music. Romeo Santos sings very well and yes, he has a somewhat effeminate voice but I enjoy his music. The last that I knew was last year. A mix of Argentinian Tango and Bachata: "Una aventura es mas divertida si huele al peligro" - a fling is more fun if it smacks of danger. Was lovely. There is another good looking boy. Prince Royce, his music is also nice- the last one I heard last year had a nice Reggae rhythm " Solo quiero darte un beso" - I only want to give you a kiss. Very soothing.

If you are seriously into Latin music, you will have to listen to Ricardo Arjona. He is a singer songwriter from Guatemala. Great music and even better poetry, a whole different world contrasted to ass swinging Dembow, more enjoyed by people with gray matter up there.

[Parkinsons]

Thanks Jaosousa. I found useful info in your report. Planning a trip soon and I was hoping to load my iPhone up with dance music likely to get the girls in the mood. With a wireless speaker I was hoping to have a go-anywhere disco in my travels.

Could anyone please update the music hit list?

Haha it's funny to see someone quoting a five year old post. Yes, musical trends come and go, the list needs updated. Jao mentioned Aventura. Not sure if the group is still together, but the lead singer Romeo Santos is a huge superstar on his own now. Like sellout stadium full of screaming chicas superstar. When I was in Santiago he was having his concert. I BRIEFLY entertained the thought of impressing a girl to some 1300 peso tickets, but no way was I going to sit through 2 hours of that high-pitched (not falsetto) singing.

Reggaeton is dead, or at least the name of the genre. Daddy Yankee is about as hot as Perry Como at the present. DR youngsters like dembow now. To me the beats are less repetitive than raggaeton, and the bass has more kick. Look up El Alfa on YouTube, every one of his videos has hot women popping booties. And the songs are funny too, they're all about sex.

I laughed out loud on Jao's comment about Hotel California. My girl had that saved on her phone and was singing along to it! Am I getting Jao's sloppy seconds?? I asked my girl does she like Glenn Frey's style of guitar playing, or Don Henley's melancholic vocals, she said, yes.

[Cyberspace]

Thanks Jaosousa. I found useful info in your report. Planning a trip soon and I was hoping to load my iPhone up with dance music likely to get the girls in the mood. With a wireless speaker I was hoping to have a go-anywhere disco in my travels.

Could anyone please update the music hit list?

... Good to have some spanish music for the chicas, while they are in the car with you and you can also use the same music while they are in the room with you.

Some suggestions for Spanish music (you can do a search in youtube and find all these artists): just about all Juan Luis Guerra songs chicas like. Omega the songs chambonea, que tengo hacer, no me amas. Classic salsa, Joe Arroyo, Rebelion. Fruko, El Preso. Oscar Deleon, Lloraras. Chicas also like the group Aventura, romantic songs. Frank Reyes (Bachata style music), Quien eres Tu, Falso amor, Nada de Nada. Chicas will also enjoy the Gypsy Kings. Chicas also like Luis Miguel del Amargue (Amargue means kind of sour), most bachata songs are about love and betrayal.

Can be fun to dance merengue or bachata with a chica, just wing it, two steps forward, two steps back a step to both sides. Some chicas will ride your body while dancing merengue.

Reggaeton is fun to dance in the Dom Rep and you will see some chicas grinding their asses on a guys crouch in Dom Rep. Don Omar and Daddy Yankee are popular.

Some Santiago chicas like Hotel California by the Eagles.

When I am alone in the car doing a long ride in the car in Dom Rep I have listened to Tribute to Trance by Dj Tatiana a bunch of times. Trance music is kind of repetitive, sort of like driving, it helps keep me awake and in a sort of mindless groove.

[RadPoker]

Jay couldn't get passed the smell MR E! Shitty situation. I had a girl do that to me while she was riding me. To this day I don't deal with women that have the gastric bypass surgery.

How do you know if they have had the gastric bypass surgery? Just asking, because this subject has never come up prior to hitting the rack. LOL.

[Jay Balanty]

When was this? Last spring and summer she was there and I kept telling myself I'd try her very long legs out for a spin but I never got around to doing her. Her teeth were jacked but her legs were bonkers.

But sure enough. I haven't seen her at BB since around September.

This was around January of 2014. You didn't miss anything. I was there for about 4 or 5 days and that was the only night I saw her.

[OldKool]

It has been a long time since I laughed so hard. Your description was priceless.

Jay couldn't get passed the smell MR E! Shitty situation. I had a girl do that to me while she was riding me. To this day I don't deal with women that have the gastric bypass surgery.

[Lou32]

Gentlemen,

Have a seat, pour a drink, relax. I will now tell the tale of Shit Stain.

It was a cool evening at Blackbeards, the upstairs disco was pumping, the ladies looked great all dressed in their sexy little nighties. I was sitting at the bar by myself drinking a grande Presidente. I look toward the balcony and see Sheila waving me over. Since I am somewhat a regular at BB's I have a half decent reputation with some of the ladies, especially the ones that have been there a while. I walk over to Sheila and she puts her arm around me and points across the dance floor and says "see that girl, she is my cousin and this is her first night, can you talk to her"? Without getting a clear look at her, I said " Yeah, sure. I'm going to get a cigar in my room first". My room was the deluxe single on the second floor around the corner from the disco. I go to my room, grab a cigar and as I am walking back to the disco I am trying to light the cigar, my head is down and I feel a tap on my shoulder. Its her. I invite her to sit down on the balcony and I order us some drinks. Sheila asked me to talk to her, so that's what I did. Gentlemen take a look at the attached photo. I am not turned on by her at all. She speaks 0 English so I revert to my terrible Spanish, which gets the job done. We finish our drinks and she asks if I want to go to my room. Its getting late and I figure hell, why not. We get to my room and this is where things get weird.

Rather then jump in the shower for the customary scrub down, she sits on the edge of my bed like a lost puppy. I sit with her and we chat some more. And more. And more. About 45 minutes go by. I figure since this is her first night maybe she just needed to ease her way into this profession, so to speak. So I don't make a move, I just talk to her. Eventually she leans in with those big buck teeth and wants to kiss, I oblige for a little, I guess she got turned on enough to get undressed, she takes off her clothes and. Damn, what a disappointment. She had the body of an Asian boy, not my thing. So we climb into bed and she pulls the sheets up. We go at it for a few minutes and then I feel her shake a bit and she says Oh my god, oh my god, and something that I translated in my head as stop I've had enough. Apparently she came and was too sensitive to continue. That was fine by me because I was not turned on at all. She jumps out of bed and heads to the shower. I climb out of the bed as well to clean myself up. As I do I am hit with this smell. Its not that normal sex stink, this is something else, something bad, no something evil. I wipe down my junk and get dressed, she is still in the shower and I am sniffing around my room like a hound dog.

She exits the shower and bathroom and is ready to leave. I hand her some pesos and she asks me to come downstairs to sit with her and wait for a taxi. OK. That's weird but fine. I follow her downstairs and she tells me to wait right here. She goes to that back locker room by the pool. She comes out and wants me to hold her hand while she waits for the moto-taxi. What seemed like ages, the taxi arrives, she hugs me with intensity and leaves. As I walk back to my rook, I think. What a weird chick. I open the door to my room and it hits me like a ton of bricks, a wall of funk. I again am determined to find this smell, I start sniffing around my room. Closet? Nope not there, bathroom? No the smell is weaker. The bed. Its getting stronger. Something died under my bed, that has to be it. Nope nothing under the bed. Then it hits me. My god, no not in the bed. Like a horror movie a pull the top sheet from the bed and there it was. A disgusting brown spot about the size of a softball. The smell emanating off of this thing was horrendous. I open the windows as much as I could and then took a shower because I felt disgusting. It was like that scene from the crying game after that guy sees the trannys cock. I scrubbed my body down, nearly gagging the entire time. I get fully dressed. I am just staring at this stain. Its too late to tell anyone, even the bartenders have left for the evening. I contemplated sleeping on one of the lounge chairs near the pool. The smell is subsiding, the open windows helped. I decide to take every pillow and make a wall of them so I wouldn't roll onto it while I was asleep. So I lay down on my side of the pillow wall, fully dressed and attempt to fall asleep. I actually do sleep that night.

When I wake up, I write a note for the maid apologizing for the mess and leave her a nice tip. I also make it painfully obvious that the sheets need to be changed.

I go down to breakfast and sit with some of the fine upstanding gentlemen staying at the resort. I tell the story.

By the time I was finished we were all laughing our asses off and affectionately named her "shit stain".

That was the last time I saw that chica there.

When was this? Last spring and summer she was there and I kept telling myself I'd try her very long legs out for a spin but I never got around to doing her. Her teeth were jacked but her legs were bonkers.

But sure enough. I haven't seen her at BB since around September.

[GrownMan1]

Jay you are a damn fool! She literally gave you a shitty deal. I would have taken those pillows and made a pallet on the floor though.

Jay couldn't get passed the smell MR E! Shitty situation. I had a girl do that to me while she was riding me. To this day I don't deal with women that have the gastric bypass surgery.

[The Cane]

I go down to breakfast and sit with some of the fine upstanding gentlemen staying at the resort. I tell the story. By the time I was finished we were all laughing our asses off and affectionately named her "shit stain". That was the last time I saw that chica there.

Sometimes shit happens hahahaha! Well, at least you had somebody to talk to LOLOLOL!

http://www.InternationalSexGuide.nl/forum/showthread.php?p=1650607

[Mr Enternational]

Jay you are a damn fool! She literally gave you a shitty deal. I would have taken those pillows and made a pallet on the floor though.

[Jay Balanty]

Gentlemen,

Have a seat, pour a drink, relax. I will now tell the tale of Shit Stain.

It was a cool evening at Blackbeards, the upstairs disco was pumping, the ladies looked great all dressed in their sexy little nighties. I was sitting at the bar by myself drinking a grande Presidente. I look toward the balcony and see Sheila waving me over. Since I am somewhat a regular at BB's I have a half decent reputation with some of the ladies, especially the ones that have been there a while. I walk over to Sheila and she puts her arm around me and points across the dance floor and says "see that girl, she is my cousin and this is her first night, can you talk to her"? Without getting a clear look at her, I said " Yeah, sure. I'm going to get a cigar in my room first". My room was the deluxe single on the second floor around the corner from the disco. I go to my room, grab a cigar and as I am walking back to the disco I am trying to light the cigar, my head is down and I feel a tap on my shoulder. Its her. I invite her to sit down on the balcony and I order us some drinks. Sheila asked me to talk to her, so that's what I did. Gentlemen take a look at the attached photo. I am not turned on by her at all. She speaks 0 English so I revert to my terrible Spanish, which gets the job done. We finish our drinks and she asks if I want to go to my room. Its getting late and I figure hell, why not. We get to my room and this is where things get weird.

Rather then jump in the shower for the customary scrub down, she sits on the edge of my bed like a lost puppy. I sit with her and we chat some more. And more. And more. About 45 minutes go by. I figure since this is her first night maybe she just needed to ease her way into this profession, so to speak. So I don't make a move, I just talk to her. Eventually she leans in with those big buck teeth and wants to kiss, I oblige for a little, I guess she got turned on enough to get undressed, she takes off her clothes and. Damn, what a disappointment. She had the body of a [CodeWord907] Asian boy, not my thing. So we climb into bed and she pulls the sheets up. We go at it for a few minutes and then I feel her shake a bit and she says Oh my god, oh my god, and something that I translated in my head as stop I've had enough. Apparently she came and was too sensitive to continue. That was fine by me because I was not turned on at all. She jumps out of bed and heads to the shower. I climb out of the bed as well to clean myself up. As I do I am hit with this smell. Its not that normal sex stink, this is something else, something bad, no something evil. I wipe down my junk and get dressed, she is still in the shower and I am sniffing around my room like a hound dog.

She exits the shower and bathroom and is ready to leave. I hand her some pesos and she asks me to come downstairs to sit with her and wait for a taxi. OK. That's weird but fine. I follow her downstairs and she tells me to wait right here. She goes to that back locker room by the pool. She comes out and wants me to hold her hand while she waits for the moto-taxi. What seemed like ages, the taxi arrives, she hugs me with intensity and leaves. As I walk back to my rook, I think. What a weird chick. I open the door to my room and it hits me like a ton of bricks, a wall of funk. I again am determined to find this smell, I start sniffing around my room. Closet? Nope not there, bathroom? No the smell is weaker. The bed. Its getting stronger. Something died under my bed, that has to be it. Nope nothing under the bed. Then it hits me. My god, no not in the bed. Like a horror movie a pull the top sheet from the bed and there it was. A disgusting brown spot about the size of a softball. The smell emanating off of this thing was horrendous. I open the windows as much as I could and then took a shower because I felt disgusting. It was like that scene from the crying game after that guy sees the trannys cock. I scrubbed my body down, nearly gagging the entire time. I get fully dressed. I am just staring at this stain. Its too late to tell anyone, even the bartenders have left for the evening. I contemplated sleeping on one of the lounge chairs near the pool. The smell is subsiding, the open windows helped. I decide to take every pillow and make a wall of them so I wouldn't roll onto it while I was asleep. So I lay down on my side of the pillow wall, fully dressed and attempt to fall asleep. I actually do sleep that night.

When I wake up, I write a note for the maid apologizing for the mess and leave her a nice tip. I also make it painfully obvious that the sheets need to be changed.

I go down to breakfast and sit with some of the fine upstanding gentlemen staying at the resort. I tell the story.

By the time I was finished we were all laughing our asses off and affectionately named her "shit stain".

That was the last time I saw that chica there.

[Parkinsons]

As guys we will overlook things or become yes men because we are afraid of missing out on the pussy.
Once you realize you can get another one the same way you got that one the jig is up and that dangling carrot no longer works.

Excellent point, Mr. E.

I can sympathize with Jay's story. If I were to examine my situation with my civilian main chick, there are a few similarities. But also reminders that confirm Mr. E's point.

First, you met her at a non-mongering setting. You walked by a beach, ran into her, and things went on from there. I hit on my girl while she was working at a nail salon (except I didn't hide anything- I actually had her help get direction from a cupid chica on the phone). We can either feel really good about ourselves that, hey, I charmed a civilian into bed just like that with my magnetism! Or feel like we hit the Powerball jackpot, man I'll never be so lucky again!! But if you really think about it, the truth is neither. Hookups like these WILL JUST ALWAYS HAPPEN. As Mr. E said, like how you got her, you're going to get another one just the same.

Second, you may have "overestimated" her status- if I may say that, no offense. Yes, she's beautiful, great in bed, you two communicate well. I can understand you have (had) feelings for her. But you were too impressed by her being college-educated, or that she seldom / never asked you for cash. You said she has a prideful character; but honestly, trying to get knocked up without you knowing, begging you on her hands and knees outside Blackbeards. Those are low self-esteem actions. My point is, evaluating a girl too highly will lead to "fear of missing out on good pussy", which in turn will lead to doing a lot of inconvenient stuff (e. G. Flying halfway around the globe to console her) that do you no good. I have to remind myself that, yes my girl doesn't troll the streets of Sosua for a living, is pretty, can suck a mean dick, doesn't hit me up for Western Union money. But those alone are not reasons to put her on a pedestal! I think all the generalizations we read in the monger boards, as well as the full extent of our interactions with DR women being limited to the Sosua type, got us irrationally euphoric like spotting a unicorn when we find a regular girl.

I hope you don't think that I'm piling on your misery. It certainly takes guts to post personal stories on these boards and I don't want to discourage anyone. At any rate, you're not in that relationship anymore, you learned from it and moved on. I'm still in the initial phase with my girl (and early stages of DR mongering); it may sound stupid but, writing out my thoughts like this can help me focus and hopefully avoid pitfalls.

[Tempoecorto]

All I am saying is that you have to open your damn mouth.

All I am saying is that you cannot expect the rest of the world comport the way you do, equipped as you are, with gift of gab and languages!

On pills, if you are speaking of the "day after", yes, agreed. The narrator however was presumably speaking of the other kind and in the context of a girlfriend where trust is implicit. Also, there are paternity tests so it is not so easy to dupe. But above all, this person shared his intimate story. Warts and all, with complete strangers. Mature as you are, you would know it is a hard act as most only flaunt their wins. To me hence, it was not a "teaching moment", see'est tout!

[Mr Enternational]

Don't you think, it would be incredibly boring if all males were to behave RIGHT as per your definition, not to speak of increased competition for you? Let the man do what he did or would do, without getting an earful on the right modes of wooing.

By the way, I cannot imagine you checking a woman physically taking pills every day of the month, given the amount of females you seem to be keeping track of, across the globe, unless you fly on the carpet, LOL!

All I am saying is that you have to open your damn mouth. Women as well as men are guilty of not conveying to the other partner the parameters of the relationship and what they expect from one another. As soon as the partner comes with BS (read something you know you will only be able to put up with for so long) it should be nipped in the bud. As guys we will overlook things or become yes men because we are afraid of missing out on the pussy.

I asked in the PI thread once how is it that guys continue to be taken advantage of? You commomly read stories of a guy asking a girl to dinner and she shows up with 6 other family members expecting to be fed. Instead of saying no, he plays the Jed Clampet role and pays for everybody. The answer of course was that they don't want to mess up their chance with the pussy so they do shit that a sane individual would not ordinarily do.

I also read a story once in the Colombia thread of a guy going to Exito (megamarket) with a girl and her mom and they got a basket and started shopping, picking up a microwave and everything. When they got to the checkout counter they looked at him for payment. He told them he would have to go to the ATM and they haven't seen him since. Once you realize you can get another one the same way you got that one the jig is up and that dangling carrot no longer works.

If you want to be sure she is taking the pills then there is only 1 way. If not then you don't know and you are taking a risk by going on faith or trust. Many couples have trusted each other to find out well. Just so happened that J got lucky and found out before the lifetime of consequences caught up to him. In addition, remember the old adage "Mama's baby, daddy's maybe. " A lot of mfs have been tricked into claiming and taking care of kids that are not theirs because they trusted so much. So if you don't witness her taking those bcp or that morning after pill don't be so shocked when you end up with a kid to raise.

[OldKool]

WTF the man had 2 great years with the lady. She was nota puta but nice young lady that wanted more then he wanted to give. Relationships evolve. He was getting what he wanted for 2 years. They both had feelings for one another this is a good thing for normal people. We are older and very jaded. There is no right or wrong way in this game. It is what floats your boat.

Mr. Enternational nailed it as to where Jay went wrong. You have to set borders with women especially Latinas. They respect you more for it.

It's not so much Machismo as self confidence / self respect.