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[Onojdi]

Hi brothers, can you help me with advice?

I'm planning to visit Colombia for 2 weeks and I'm trying to choose between Medellin, Bogota and Cartagena. I don't want to check-in check-out all the time so I decide to spend one week at one place and then move to the second. So I have to skip one but can't decide which one. My trips usually are walking around enjoying the area including the usual tourist stuff, drinking beer next to the sea (that's why Cartagena) and of course having fun with the local girls. Usually semi-pro spending the whole night together (sometimes and the whole day). Very often visiting the tourist places in the company of the girl that I spend the night with. So I think Cartagena is a must but not sure about the second stop. Maybe Medellin because of the girls, especially the Venezuelan Any thoughts on the subject?

[Elvis 2008]

If that is the case then your girlfriends are hookers. It does not work that way with women that are not. I have met more women that are not the way you describe than I can count in the last 16 years and I am still in contact with many.

I owe you big time for this Mr. E. I do not think most guys can pivot like you (and now me) between the world of dating and whoring.

If you say every male-female interaction is transactional, then you have defined yourself as a john and every woman as a working girl, and that is very limiting. Why not accept that there are two kinds of relationships and go with that?

If you think all relationships are transactional, you will never find one that is not, and you have lost. If you say that working girl-john relationships are immoral, you have lost in the sense that you are often going to be going without sex and be so desperate for sex, you may wind up with a working girl who is a great actress. The game IMO is to master both worlds.

The number one rule for dating for men who use working girls is to identify if the woman you are after is a hooker or not and do not give money to women who are not hookers. Be open to the notion that she will fuck you for you and not for a buck even if she is incredibly hot and a tiger in bed. Rule #2 is that if she is a hooker go ahead and enjoy yourself but do not lose sight of the fact of what she is.

The other and much worse part that I had to admit, and no one here wants to admit, is that if you say every male-female relationship is transactional, you define yourself as a john, and you are admitting that you are a loser in societal terms. Guys may say every guy is a john, and every woman is a working girl to make themselves feel better, but that is not true.

You will get laid much more and your feelings hurt much less with the P4 P approach, however once a woman has her feet put to the fire about being a working girl or feeling like one, she is probably going to leave you or the profession.

I brought that often quoted, "She is not yours but your turn" to this forum, but your turn is going to be one helluva lot longer if the woman does not think she is a working girl.

I am so tired of guys here talking about what women want. Here is a survey of what women want, and the #1 quality was kindness, and that does not mean spending money: https://www.insider.com/what-women-r...esearch-2019-7.

Researchers analyzed the answers from 68,000 people in 180 countries. Overall, they found personality comes out on top, with 88.9% of women considering "kindness" a very important trait in a partner. Close behind were "supportiveness" and "intelligence," which were chosen by 86.5% and 72.3% of women, respectively.

Even though so much of our dating lives seem to depend on looking good for potential suitors, attractiveness traits came secondary to personality. For example, only 22.3% of women thought an "attractive body" was very important.

I have never heard one guy on here talk about women wanting kindness and supportiveness. Not one.

I kept landing all these beauties and thinking I was not good enough because I was not a Brad Pitt type. Our programming dictates a beautiful girl belongs with a handsome guy. If a beautiful girl is with an older guy who may not handsome, then programming says she is after his status or money. I kept believing this even though I was scoring babe after babe. It took me years to reject this crap.

I never would have the woman I do now if I accepted that programming.

[Mr Enternational]

Harsh but to the point. My suggestion is, you can find your love in Colombia as long your wallet is green. I say my magic word to get rid of novia. Soy pobre.

If that is the case then your girlfriends are hookers. It does not work that way with women that are not. I have met more women that are not the way you describe than I can count in the last 16 years and I am still in contact with many.

[BigButtDetecto]

Are you fluent in Spanish? Have you mastered the Medellin accent? If not, why would you feel you can blend in with the locals?

How much do you know about the Colombian culture? If you can't find a partner in your own country, someone who you already have much in common with, why would you think it's going to be easier in another country, where you have no shared experiences?

Anyone who can afford an extended visit to Colombia, from another continent has a good chance of landing a Colombiana. Very few end up with a lifelong partner who makes each day wonderful.

I remember a Colombian capo with a mustache in "el senor de LOS cielos" saying:"better marry a crocodile than a Colombian woman". I witnessed first hand how jealous they are.

[PseudoGene]

With all due respect you need to find a dating site, an on-line cupid, there are a number of them. We are mongers here, we pay for pussy and sex, we have many chicas and have zero interest in finding 'love' or our 'soul mate for life'.

Yes many are promiscuous which is the reason why Medellin in particular has such an appeal to guys like us that pay for sex.

The expression about women here in Colombia is "she is not your girl rather she is only your turn", think long and hard about that.

Much love and respect!

The Tall Man.

Harsh but to the point. My suggestion is, you can find your love in Colombia as long your wallet is green. I say my magic word to get rid of novia. Soy pobre.

[BigFree]

Heya,

First time poster, but a subscriber.

I've been reading a bit, mostly in the Columbia forums. I came across a few posts that recommend the use of FaceBook to acquire a list of chicas to use in future endeavors.

I am not that FaceBook savy. But, I did create a 'new' FaceBook profile that I would use just for this purpose during a future visit.

What I can't seem to figure out is how to find a few girls profiles who are likely using their FaceBook profiles in a way that would accommodate what most on this site are looking for.

I saw another post in these forums that said if you check the threads, you'd find many names of chicas on FaceBook, and can't start your acquisition of a friends list there, but I never saw one. (maybe I didn't look long enough or in the right places).

Can someone give me a leg up and off one or two girls (link to their profiles) and I'll take it from there as far as trying to mine their friends lists and their friends friends list and so on.

Thanks!

[JjBee62]

Hello guys,

I am an Egyptian dude (white skin, but Mediterranean features) in my mid 20's. Been told I look Spanish / Italian. I'm also 5'10. Anyways, I'm thinking of moving to Colombia and finding a partner. I very am attracted to the curvy type, particularly women with large breasts. Colombia supposedly has some of the curviest women, who also have white European features (double bonus for me).

Since I am Spanish-looking, I feel that I can blend in with the locals. Plus I (5'10) might be taller than the average Colombian man, which should give me some advantage. My only problem with Colombia is that they seem vervy promiscuous (I. E girls there are not faithful). And they seem to use a lot of cosmetic surgery, so I don't know if they are naturally curvy on average compared to Poland for example or if that's just inflated because of all the surgery. Would you agree or disagree with that?

Given this info, do you think I have a decent shot of landing a Colombiana? If so, can you recommend any cities where I can find the women I described above? The only one I found so far that fits my preference of curvy European-ish women is Medellin. BTW, I don' mind darker-skinned girls, I'm all for it really! If you think I should look elsewhere, could you name some other countries instead please? Thank you!

Are you fluent in Spanish? Have you mastered the Medellin accent? If not, why would you feel you can blend in with the locals?

How much do you know about the Colombian culture? If you can't find a partner in your own country, someone who you already have much in common with, why would you think it's going to be easier in another country, where you have no shared experiences?

Anyone who can afford an extended visit to Colombia, from another continent has a good chance of landing a Colombiana. Very few end up with a lifelong partner who makes each day wonderful.

[Phuket90]

Anyone know where I can get good exchange rates for a larger ammount of cash?

[The Tall Man]

Hello guys,

I am an Egyptian dude (white skin, but Mediterranean features) in my mid 20's. Been told I look Spanish / Italian. I'm also 5'10. Anyways, I'm thinking of moving to Colombia and finding a partner. I very am attracted to the curvy type, particularly women with large breasts. Colombia supposedly has some of the curviest women, who also have white European features (double bonus for me).

Since I am Spanish-looking, I feel that I can blend in with the locals. Plus I (5'10) might be taller than the average Colombian man, which should give me some advantage. My only problem with Colombia is that they seem vervy promiscuous (I. E girls there are not faithful). And they seem to use a lot of cosmetic surgery, so I don't know if they are naturally curvy on average compared to Poland for example or if that's just inflated because of all the surgery. Would you agree or disagree with that?

Given this info, do you think I have a decent shot of landing a Colombiana? If so, can you recommend any cities where I can find the women I described above? The only one I found so far that fits my preference of curvy European-ish women is Medellin. BTW, I don' mind darker-skinned girls, I'm all for it really! If you think I should look elsewhere, could you name some other countries instead please? Thank you!

With all due respect you need to find a dating site, an on-line cupid, there are a number of them. We are mongers here, we pay for pussy and sex, we have many chicas and have zero interest in finding 'love' or our 'soul mate for life'.

Yes many are promiscuous which is the reason why Medellin in particular has such an appeal to guys like us that pay for sex.

The expression about women here in Colombia is "she is not your girl rather she is only your turn", think long and hard about that.

Much love and respect!

The Tall Man.

[Boixos24]

Hello guys,

I am an Egyptian dude (white skin, but Mediterranean features) in my mid 20's. Been told I look Spanish / Italian. I'm also 5'10. Anyways, I'm thinking of moving to Colombia and finding a partner. I very am attracted to the curvy type, particularly women with large breasts. Colombia supposedly has some of the curviest women, who also have white European features (double bonus for me).

Since I am Spanish-looking, I feel that I can blend in with the locals. Plus I (5'10) might be taller than the average Colombian man, which should give me some advantage. My only problem with Colombia is that they seem vervy promiscuous (I. E girls there are not faithful). And they seem to use a lot of cosmetic surgery, so I don't know if they are naturally curvy on average compared to Poland for example or if that's just inflated because of all the surgery. Would you agree or disagree with that?

Given this info, do you think I have a decent shot of landing a Colombiana? If so, can you recommend any cities where I can find the women I described above? The only one I found so far that fits my preference of curvy European-ish women is Medellin. BTW, I don' mind darker-skinned girls, I'm all for it really! If you think I should look elsewhere, could you name some other countries instead please? Thank you!

[Lefeu]

No one asked me for the form. I only had to show the negative test at the airport.

I flew with AA and only the airline agent asked to see the test results. After that, nobody asked me for anything. I flew from Medellin to Miami, then onto San Francisco.

On the way out, at SFO, the AA agent gave me a hard time, because I did not have a confirmation email from Colombia migracion. The agent explained to me that they are likely to get fined if they let me in. Luckily, I had screen shots showing that I had answered all their questions. I managed to convince him to let me in.

[John Gault]

Which airline, if you don't mind posting the name?

Spirit is the airline. I must say both flights had problems.

[Fun Luvr]

No one asked me for the form. I only had to show the negative test at the airport.

Which airline, if you don't mind posting the name?

[John Gault]

You do not need the form in the USA. You only have to show the place where you board the plane a screenshot that you have filled it out online. If you fill a paper copy out there, then you turn it in to the agent before you board the plane.

No one asked me for the form. I only had to show the negative test at the airport.

[Fun Luvr]

I got the form online. As I left GYE I had the hard copy. No one asked me for the form when I got to the USA. Maybe because I have Global Entry?

Here's what Jetblue has on their website: "A printed and signed form confirming the information presented is true. This will be collected and retained by JetBlue at the departure airport." Copa is the only airline I can find where you can complete and submit the form online.