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[LeyenLouvain]

I do not cum inside of them. What I do to prevent pregnancy is give them plan be or levonorgestrel 1. 5 grams all at once.

If you don't cum inside, are they confused about the need for the Plan B?

[Dcrist0527]

What kind of "research"?

Frankly, you are a menace to public health.

The attacks here are getting to be a bit much. I think we all need to realize people have differing opinions and experiences. Just because they do not match your own opinions or conclusions, that doesn't mean it is wrong. Worse, taking things out of context or omitting important pieces. The OP was not trying to change your mind. Just the opposite.

I know mine is a minority view, but I am skeptical of so much the government says about sex and did my own research. I am not recommending anyone follow my lead. But I have not had any issues when I follow my protocol.

He shared his experience. Will I change my practices? No. But I won't claim my opinion is more important or valuable. The OP has even spelled out his logic and why he came to that conclusion.

And no, I have no clue who the OP is. I have no relation to him (that I'm aware of LOL). And he is capable of speaking for himself. I'm just done with the personal attacks.

[John Clayton]

...I have a regimen of two antibiotics and one antiviral I take after bareback sex if I am concerned about a partner. There are not studies on whether they work...

... What I do to prevent pregnancy is give them plan be or levonorgestrel 1. 5 grams all at once....

... and did my own research...

What kind of "research"?

Frankly, you are a menace to public health.

[YyzTravel]

The working women in Colombia are hyperparanoid about going bare. Apparently, the government scares the crap out of them about AIDS and condoms there. What I find is the regular women I have met on Seeking Arrangement are much more okay with it. I go bare with all of them are once I get to know them.

I have a regimen of two antibiotics and one antiviral I take after bareback sex if I am concerned about a partner. There are not studies on whether they work. I think that they do but I cannot prove it. The other big vaccine to take is Hepatitis be. Hepatitis be is 100 x more infectious than HIV.

Elvis. Thanks for the thought out response! I'm not worried about the pregnancy, I got fixed quite a few years back and go back to check annually to ensure it sticks. Which antibiotics do you use? Also, you mentioned Seeking Arrangements. Is that the seeking dot com website I save seen? Looking to get a few Colombian girls lined up before I go and was curious if this was the best route over Colombia Cupid.

[Elvis 2008]

All that being said then Elvis, do you go bareback often then? It sounds like a lot of STIs / STDs can either be treated, prevented, vaccinated against, etc. What is the criteria you use when going bareback that makes you feel comfortable?

Yyz, there was a huge study back in 2002 that had all the major health organizations in on it. The goal was to show condoms worked for STDs. The result was the opposite, and it was buried. It totally changed my thinking on sex and condoms.

The working women in Colombia are hyperparanoid about going bare. Apparently, the government scares the crap out of them about AIDS and condoms there. What I find is the regular women I have met on Seeking Arrangement are much more okay with it. I go bare with all of them are once I get to know them.

I have a regimen of two antibiotics and one antiviral I take after bareback sex if I am concerned about a partner. There are not studies on whether they work. I think that they do but I cannot prove it. The other big vaccine to take is Hepatitis be. Hepatitis be is 100 x more infectious than HIV.

I do not cum inside of them. What I do to prevent pregnancy is give them plan be or levonorgestrel 1. 5 grams all at once. It is like $3 in Colombia and you can buy it OTC. Levonorgestrel works by suppressing ovulation. If the ovum or egg is released in the Fallopian tube prior to your having sex, it does not work, so it is not 100%, but neither are condoms. Do not give it and have the woman say that she will take it later. Make sure that she takes it in front of you. It works for 3 days officially, it probably really works for 5.

If I am going to be with a girl a long time and see her again and again, I will either tell them to get an implant or give them or have them get a shot of medroxyprogesterone every 3 months. I think medroxyprogesterone is available over the counter in Colombia as well. It is almost impossible for them to get pregnant after the shot. Again, it is something I like to see injected myself.

One last thing to point out is that latex allergies are a real deal. No one wants to talk about this because the dermatitis associated with latex looks like a STD, but it is not. I have had this put on a steroid cream and the bumps went away. I have been tested for everything and it was not a STD. The bumps are common. Far less common is anaphylaxis but latex anaphylaxis is real and can be deadly.

As you can see, I am a helluva more concerned about pregnancy than STDs.

I know mine is a minority view, but I am skeptical of so much the government says about sex and did my own research. I am not recommending anyone follow my lead. But I have not had any issues when I follow my protocol.

[JjBee62]

I don't need advice from someone who admitted he does not know how to manage his financial life.

Then why did you ask?

Sorry, but I don't have a financial life. Just one of those plain, everyday normal lives most people are born with. I grew up on government cheese and VA survivor benefits.

Broke doesn't scare me. I have no fear of being poor. Again. Admitting mistakes doesn't worry me either. I make them, admit them and hope someone learns from them. That's one of the reasons this board exists, so we can help others learn from our mistakes.

What is it you're worried about?

[Dcrist0527]

I'm fine with letting a woman choose to take plan b or have an abortion, it's her body. A man should have a choice to support the kid / woman or not. Otherwise you have a ton of women claiming they are on birth control or stealing condoms / poking holes in them to land a monthly payday for 18 years.

I did a long term rent with a girl for a few weeks. She was fine with me blowing my load in her but I was always paranoid that she was trying to get me on the hook for a monthly paycheck. After the first week or so, I started using a condom and making sure all liquids went into the sink.

Has anyone had a situation where you offered a girl plan be and she refused and even though she's in Colombia and you are in the US or Canada, you still got to pay some kind of monthly fee? I guess I could avoid this situation by not using my real name and not telling them where I come from but it's a little hard to do with a long term rent. They can spot your name on documents if you "work from home" and spot your passport. Trying to figure out the risk of doing another long term sin condom rent.

I'm going to say this and do not mean it to be judgmental. But if you BBFS, you inherently accept that risk. I'm not talking about the girls who trick men about being on the pill. But even that is a gray area. But talking about fake names, abandoning a girl in the country just doesn't feel right at all. I am really not trying to get on a high horse here. But I don't find a man shirking his responsibility acceptable. To each their own. And sure, she knows the risk too. She also has multiple partners. I understand it's a complex issue. But I just don't know my conscience would allow me to ghost a responsibility like that. I don't BBFS, but just my two cents. No offense meant here at all. I truly am not judging.

[Kafka]

I show them my passport and they use my passport number to enter stores. Some are A-holes and will not let me in on the wrong day even when there is no line (ARA). Sometimes business is slow and there is nobody at the door and you just walk in (Justo y Bueno). Walked 2 miles then 3 another day. Carrying a bag, walking fast, and alone nobody bothered me (I am in Barranquilla so is less strict I think). I go to store every 2-3 days to get drinks and change mostly. Several police see me out every time and no problems. It is hot here so I wear shorts and sandals so they know I am "foreigner" walking down the street.

Great report this is the info needed going forward. Will you be headed to Cartegena?

[LoveItHere69]

So guys that are in country need to know all the chica's cedula numbers so they know which ones to call over on which days. LOL But on a serious note this schedule does not address gringos or foreigners . So how are gringos supposed to take care of basics like grocery, pharmacy, bank errands etc? I know there is Rappi but not everything can be done that way. I personally would find a chica who could do some of this also but not all of it so what are the gringos there doing? Or gringo is caught out going to the pharmacy or bank?

I show them my passport and they use my passport number to enter stores. Some are A-holes and will not let me in on the wrong day even when there is no line (ARA). Sometimes business is slow and there is nobody at the door and you just walk in (Justo y Bueno). Walked 2 miles then 3 another day. Carrying a bag, walking fast, and alone nobody bothered me (I am in Barranquilla so is less strict I think). I go to store every 2-3 days to get drinks and change mostly. Several police see me out every time and no problems. It is hot here so I wear shorts and sandals so they know I am "foreigner" walking down the street.

[Fun Luvr]

I'm pretty sure you can find a YouTube video to teach you how to use Google to figure out the rest.

I don't need advice from someone who admitted he does not know how to manage his financial life.

[JjBee62]

Do you believe that 51% of women and 61% men in the Americas have not had bareback sex?

What does my belief have to do with it? I'm pretty sure that my belief you can't get gonorrhea from bareback sex will have no effect on whether or not you get gonorrhea.

In case you missed it, I pointed out those numbers are estimates from the WHO. In case you missed it, I pointed out that some infected people are asymptomatic.

I'm pretty sure you can find a YouTube video to teach you how to use Google to figure out the rest.

[Septimius]

Well that is because they are guys. You see all the stuff that guys on here are saying they do with women and others are wondering if girls will do such and such with them. You don't have that problem with guy on guy because they both are already down to do all the shit anyway. I guess what I am trying to say is that the average guy (whether straight or gay) has less inhibitions than than the average woman.

This is exactly what I am trying to say. Imagine girls played the same way? We probably would not even have this board.

[Fun Luvr]

According to the WHO estimates, 49% of women and 39% of men in the Americas are infected with HSV-1 or HSV-2.

Do you believe that 51% of women and 61% men in the Americas have not had bareback sex?

[Duncan216]

Of course you would take responsibility, if it is really your child. Any man knows that is the proper thing to do.

I'm fine with letting a woman choose to take plan b or have an abortion, it's her body. A man should have a choice to support the kid / woman or not. Otherwise you have a ton of women claiming they are on birth control or stealing condoms / poking holes in them to land a monthly payday for 18 years.

I did a long term rent with a girl for a few weeks. She was fine with me blowing my load in her but I was always paranoid that she was trying to get me on the hook for a monthly paycheck. After the first week or so, I started using a condom and making sure all liquids went into the sink.

Has anyone had a situation where you offered a girl plan be and she refused and even though she's in Colombia and you are in the US or Canada, you still got to pay some kind of monthly fee? I guess I could avoid this situation by not using my real name and not telling them where I come from but it's a little hard to do with a long term rent. They can spot your name on documents if you "work from home" and spot your passport. Trying to figure out the risk of doing another long term sin condom rent.

[LeyenLouvain]

Finally, I went out and got the Gardasil vaccine injections. You can still get HPV, but the vaccine is effective against a lot of strains of HPV.

Interesting. It seems that Colombia and Mexico have vaccine programs ie mainly to protect girls from cervical cancer but also reducing the chance of getting warts and passing them to men.

No such program in Venezuela.