Bogota Reports

[Chicago85]

Ok it's clear to me now. So in the end I will pay her the same rate. Althought after meeting the girl the first time, I think she is clearly not a professional hooker, at least not yet. Might be on the path to becoming one, yes. But at the moment is just a horny young girl enjoying life (that includes money of course).

I still find it more expensive when you don't pay women directly for sex. Last time it ended up costing me several thousands of dollars in the divorce.

My experience on Seeking is similar, in that many are non-pros, particularly if they've been on for less than a year (less jaded, just want to experience some nice things). If more than a year they are doing it for the money that affords them a lifestyle and it's harder to break down what they've learned to do transactionally. When I first tried Seeking in the US back in 2013/14 it was possible that some girls would not ask for money and I know a lot of guys who got mucho free sex with hotties trying to snag them. That is no longer the case. Girls figured out that guys would exploit them so the majority are straight P4 P.

If you don't want to pay as much you can just tell them you don't have as much money at present, but would still like to see them and do something fun. I've done that a handful of times to test girls and I'd say 4 of 5 took me up on it. Outside of that, you'll need to have a RTA (redefine the arrangement) conversation or wait for her to say she doesn't need the money.

Regarding divorce, several thousands is fortunate compared to many!

[Woodman09]

I am doing research on Love Motels for my clients and everyone else-.

Has anyone styed at any of the love motels in Chapinero??

I am currently contacting Amarte Suites and others for info I will publish my findings-.

[The Critic]

Girls don't sign up to seeking to fuck for free. I promise you that you didn't give the kind of life changing dick that makes a girls bills suddenly disappear.

It is at this time that you say do you miss my dick or do you miss my money? Because if you miss my dick that much, we can do it without the money next time.

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I like this site for the comedic lines.

[Ggekko2009]

Does anyone have a reccomendation for an easy std testing place in Bogota? Ideally in Chipinero or in the north? I went to a place last time I was there and they were a nightmare to deal with and made me come back in person multiple times to get the results. They were very judgemental too. My spanish is terrible so I would need to use Google translate. I am seeing a normal girl for the first part of my trip and I want to make sure I'm all good for endless bb and cip. She wants to see the results.

Ideal situation would be 1 visit and emailed results. Looking for hiv plus the other normal stuff that you could get.

Try this one.

I have used its service and it's pretty good. For hiv test result, they will want to talk to you in person via their web app before releasing your result. It's related to their privacy law. Takes 24 hours.

Contact them via WhatsApp and let them know you need an English speaking professional to talk to you if you are not fluent in Spanish.

Vitălea Sede 82.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/82ePGCjivsaAzxiN9

[Aureliano16]

I know I'm piling on here, but: If you establish a pay for play relationship in your initial meeting, 99% of the time, that's what it will be from then on. She may very well enjoy your company immensely, but the quid pro quo nature of the relationship has been established. If you hadn't paid her for sex on the first date, then it's possible you could have a relationship with her not based money for sex (even though you might buy her drinks / dinner).

Honestly, I like Mr. E's suggestion, but I would say it to her in a joking manner. I've done this a few times when a prepago says she misses me - "Do you miss me or my money?" Some think it's funny, some don't.

Ok it's clear to me now. So in the end I will pay her the same rate. Althought after meeting the girl the first time, I think she is clearly not a professional hooker, at least not yet. Might be on the path to becoming one, yes. But at the moment is just a horny young girl enjoying life (that includes money of course).

I still find it more expensive when you don't pay women directly for sex. Last time it ended up costing me several thousands of dollars in the divorce.

[Combo]

I fucked a woman last week from seeking, we agreed beforehand for 300 k and that't what I paid in the end. Later that night she started texting me in whatsapp, at first she thanked me for the beautiful night, we joked a little bit and that was it.

This week I wrote her to ask if she wants to meet again and she seemed super happy about it. We have a 2nd date arranged for next Friday. We did a bit of sexting, she wrote she misses my dick, ahe said thinking about my dick makes her wet, etc. BUT we haven't talked about any further allowance.

Is it expected to her that every time we fuck I should give her the same 300 k? Or can I try to fuck her first and wait until she asks for the money? I think she really enojyed our time together so maybe she would just fuck for free?

I'm not experienced in seeking BTW, she is my first girl using that website.

I know I'm piling on here, but: If you establish a pay for play relationship in your initial meeting, 99% of the time, that's what it will be from then on. She may very well enjoy your company immensely, but the quid pro quo nature of the relationship has been established. If you hadn't paid her for sex on the first date, then it's possible you could have a relationship with her not based money for sex (even though you might buy her drinks / dinner).

Honestly, I like Mr. E's suggestion, but I would say it to her in a joking manner. I've done this a few times when a prepago says she misses me - "Do you miss me or my money?" Some think it's funny, some don't.

[JackTaggart]

Does anyone have a reccomendation for an easy std testing place in Bogota? Ideally in Chipinero or in the north? I went to a place last time I was there and they were a nightmare to deal with and made me come back in person multiple times to get the results. They were very judgemental too. My spanish is terrible so I would need to use Google translate. I am seeing a normal girl for the first part of my trip and I want to make sure I'm all good for endless bb and cip. She wants to see the results.

Ideal situation would be 1 visit and emailed results. Looking for hiv plus the other normal stuff that you could get.

[Mr Enternational]

We did a bit of sexting, she wrote she misses my dick, ahe said thinking about my dick makes her wet, etc. BUT we haven't talked about any further allowance.

It is at this time that you say do you miss my dick or do you miss my money? Because if you miss my dick that much, we can do it without the money next time.

Is it expected to her that every time we fuck I should give her the same 300 k? Or can I try to fuck her first and wait until she asks for the money? I think she really enojyed our time together so maybe she would just fuck for free?

Why do you guys keep developing in your mind that these chicks are not hookers even though you have already paid them for sex? You call up Uber and say you will pay them $20 for a ride to the airport. You guys have a great conversation on the way. They write a review saying what a great passenger you were. Are they supposed to take you free the next time?

You don't need to talk anymore about alowance. You have already established it is 300 K. Of course she is going to send you messages trying to entice you to spend more money with her. Everybody on this board has been to McDonald's and knows how a Big Mac tastes. Why does McDonald's continue to put up billboards and commercials on TV? Because they want us to come spend more money, not because they want us to come get a free Big Mac.

[JjBee62]

I fucked a woman last week from seeking, we agreed beforehand for 300 k and that't what I paid in the end. Later that night she started texting me in whatsapp, at first she thanked me for the beautiful night, we joked a little bit and that was it.

This week I wrote her to ask if she wants to meet again and she seemed super happy about it. We have a 2nd date arranged for next Friday. We did a bit of sexting, she wrote she misses my dick, ahe said thinking about my dick makes her wet, etc. BUT we haven't talked about any further allowance.

Is it expected to her that every time we fuck I should give her the same 300 k? Or can I try to fuck her first and wait until she asks for the money? I think she really enojyed our time together so maybe she would just fuck for free?

I'm not experienced in seeking BTW, she is my first girl using that website.

You agreed beforehand on 300 k. That means she fucks for money. It's her job. Expect to pay her 300 k every time. If she decides she no longer wants your money, she will tell you.

Would you hire someone to paint your bathroom and then when you ask them to come back to paint another room, wonder if they will work for free?

[Frisky Frank]

Girls don't sign up to seeking to fuck for free. I promise you that you didn't give the kind of life changing dick that makes a girls bills suddenly disappear. I've used seeking for 5-6 years now stateside. I've met close to 100 girls from the site, they're all there for money and if you keep paying them, they'll keep making you feel special. Get your emotions and ego in check before you fuck up a good thing. Just pay the girl for a job well done.

I fucked a woman last week from seeking, we agreed beforehand for 300 k and that't what I paid in the end. Later that night she started texting me in whatsapp, at first she thanked me for the beautiful night, we joked a little bit and that was it.

This week I wrote her to ask if she wants to meet again and she seemed super happy about it. We have a 2nd date arranged for next Friday. We did a bit of sexting, she wrote she misses my dick, ahe said thinking about my dick makes her wet, etc. BUT we haven't talked about any further allowance.

Is it expected to her that every time we fuck I should give her the same 300 k? Or can I try to fuck her first and wait until she asks for the money? I think she really enojyed our time together so maybe she would just fuck for free?

I'm not experienced in seeking BTW, she is my first girl using that website.

[Aureliano16]

I fucked a woman last week from seeking, we agreed beforehand for 300 k and that't what I paid in the end. Later that night she started texting me in whatsapp, at first she thanked me for the beautiful night, we joked a little bit and that was it.

This week I wrote her to ask if she wants to meet again and she seemed super happy about it. We have a 2nd date arranged for next Friday. We did a bit of sexting, she wrote she misses my dick, ahe said thinking about my dick makes her wet, etc. BUT we haven't talked about any further allowance.

Is it expected to her that every time we fuck I should give her the same 300 k? Or can I try to fuck her first and wait until she asks for the money? I think she really enojyed our time together so maybe she would just fuck for free?

I'm not experienced in seeking BTW, she is my first girl using that website.

[Mr Enternational]

A lot of times to close a date (and get a girl out of her clothes) I'd invite her back to the pool / jacuzzi in my building. They're a rarity in Bogota, so most of the time girls would say "Yes, but I don't have a swimsuit. " So I'd just offer to buy them one.

My answer would be you won't need one.

[BearEmy84]

Lots of talk about taking girls to the mall. I'll share something from my MO.

A lot of times to close a date (and get a girl out of her clothes) I'd invite her back to the pool / jacuzzi in my building. They're a rarity in Bogota, so most of the time girls would say "Yes, but I don't have a swimsuit. " So I'd just offer to buy them one. There's a lot of places around Andino for this, and you get to pick out the sexiest one. Only sets you back about $20 too.

There's also a store called Pink Rose. I'd meet for a casual lunch. If it goes well, I'd invite them to spend the rest of the day with me then go to dinner. "But I don't have anything to wear" Well, this store is EXTREMELY Cute. Girls fucking love it. Reasonably priced cute dresses.

[LatinaLover#1]

Don't know about dressing rooms, but me and my ex girlfriend did it at the movie theater in Cali in the handicap bathroom.

Bathrooms are great for this!

[Mr Enternational]

Not sure if you can get this done in Bogota. They always have at least one or two people at all dressing rooms and are always present, this is more an anti shoplifting measure than trying to stop you from smashing a chic in the DR. I'm curious if you can pull this off, keep us posted.

Don't know about dressing rooms, but me and my ex girlfriend did it at the movie theater in Cali in the handicap bathroom.