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01-19-17 04:14 #4797
Posts: 59Back from Bogota
Just got back from Bogota and I had a great time. I stayed at the Hotel San Francisco which is right next to the Santa Fe district. The street girls near the clubs were just adorable. I had to walk around a couple of times just looking at the incredible line up. For 50 k I had a nice thick chica work me like she was my girlfriend, multiple positions and very passionate it could have been an act but she had me believing. After I came she laid on top of me and started kissing me all over my neck and chest it was very nice. I had another girl for 40 k she was around 20 years old she had braces and a small tight smoking hot body with a very tight and very pretty pussy. While it wasn't as passionate as the night before, she knows how to please a man and she's definitely better than some of the skanks I have to put up with over here. The third woman was a little older but I wanted to try something different and it was quite good. With her years of experience she knows how to please a man and she did have a nice round ass, some gigantic tits and gave me a BBBJ before jumping on top and riding me like she was a jockey. As a single man not interested in ever getting married I wonder why we can't have a setup like this in America. One can wish and hope but knowing I can hop a plane and three or four hours be in chica heaven makes me feel better. I've been to Cartegena so I guess I'll try Medellin next.
Happy hunting.
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01-17-17 18:02 #4796
Posts: 719Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
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01-17-17 18:00 #4795
Posts: 719Originally Posted by Routard [View Original Post]
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01-15-17 17:47 #4794
Posts: 1114Originally Posted by AddictedToWomen [View Original Post]
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01-15-17 14:07 #4793
Posts: 5466Originally Posted by AddictedToWomen [View Original Post]
Couples only events tend to be much better.
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01-15-17 07:54 #4792
Posts: 719Originally Posted by CPlusPlus [View Original Post]
I promise not to leave her too sticky. .
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01-15-17 07:53 #4791
Posts: 719Originally Posted by Routard [View Original Post]
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01-14-17 16:14 #4790
Posts: 5466Originally Posted by CPlusPlus [View Original Post]
You can break up with her and postpone the trip, until she's completely out of your life. Or at least far enough out that she won't know about it. She still could say something, but now it's coming from a jealous ex, "crazy ***** will say anything. ".
You can change your rules. Your current rules, she gets no other dick, you and her only get other pussy together and she controls how much you get, aren't really fair to anyone. Go in the direction of full swinging.
Swinging is too broad of a term. There are a lot of variations. From mild to wild, here they are:
Girls play. Just like it sounds the girls make out, and go as far together as they want, the guys watch and participate only with their own girl.
Same room sex. Which is the next step. You end up with 2 or more couples, all having sex in the same room, often on the same bed.
Soft swap. Guys and girls play together, both guys play with both girls, but only penetration with your own girl.
Same room swap. After all the other stuff, penetration with other girls is allowed, but only together, only in the same room. This is also called Full swap.
Separate room swap. This can range from just switching girls and going to separate bedrooms, to switching girls and going on separate vacations.
Most swingers work up to full swap and stay there.
If your girl is more hetero, then she wants other dick, just like you want other pussy. She probably won't tell you she wants other dick, but unless you're the world's greatest lover, she would like some variety.
Swingers, as a group, tend to be less judgemental. It's more about the sex than having the perfect body. You'll find your own comfort zone, but you're unlikely to find people who will try to make either of you feel inferior. There are all types. I've seen a couple in their 70's fucking at the bar in a swingers club, I've seen couples that looked like Sumo wrestlers. I've seen couples in their 20's swapping with a couple in their late 50's.
Jealousy becomes less of an issue, because you're both getting more and better sex.
Of course, swinging requires more maturity and a strong commitment. It can cause breakups. On the plus side, if there is a breakup, all the swinging is never mentioned again.
If you take that route, you'll just have to figure out whether to split time swinging and being with your friend, or to bring him to a swingers club on a night when single guys are allowed. It will eliminate any worries about her blabbing to anyone.
Or, you can take her along and realize that you're not going to get everything you want. Your Spanish skills will help. You can explain clearly what you expect and that satisfying your girl is first priority. You don't get unlimited fucking with hot chicks, but you do get something out of it, and you'll probably spend less money.
You can go as planned without her. There's no way that ends well. You just have to ride it out and probably replace all the things she breaks or rips up.
Or you can cancel the trip. Which doesn't resolve anything. She can still say something.
You're right. You shouldn't have said anything, other than telling her you had committed to the trip before you met her. I still say the best bet, under the current rules, is take her, and do your best to keep her face buried in Colombian pussy. A few photos for future leverage might also help.
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01-14-17 07:30 #4789
Posts: 30It is a recipe for disaster, I have thought it through and it is going to suck, my girlfriend is not ugly by any means, but she is not as hot or has the body type like many Colombians. Just thinking my girlfriend is a skinny ass barely no tits or ass girl and I can already see the future of her being so insecure and jealous when she will see all the chicas over there with nice silicon asses and tits, women with great proportionate body, which yeah she probably will love in a sexual sense but not when they become all friendly and feminine and flirtatious to me because that is how the culture is there, l see that is going to be a cultural shock to her that she may not be too fond of, especially since she will have the language barrier and thus the chicas over there will probably only be communicating with me, thus more reason my girl might feel more like shit. Goddammit should have thought of all these scenarios before I opened my fucking mouth.
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01-14-17 07:16 #4788
Posts: 30Nothing resolved yet, second guessing my decision
It has been already 5 days since I spilled the beans about the situation, and it seems that is not resolving, basically like Shadow said, my friend is very paranoid and does not trust my girl, and as a matter of fact I am second guessing and thinking it through if I actually made the right decision with telling her the whole story, but I felt like I had to because she told me she had desires of traveling there anyways even before mentioning the perverted intentions of the trip (his GF on the other hand is not too interested and has a lot more to do here, her career school etc etc) And I was thinking too maybe its not going to end well, first off yes I have had a couple of threesomes with my partner here, and honestly they have not been the best threesomes I have had, even tho in my first post I sounded like it was the greatest thing ever, I remember the 1st one was with a lesbian friend she had, she actually was in love with my GF, but my GF did not reciprocate the feelings and she would join us and actually deal with me just to be with her, very super mechanical sex with that lesbian girl and she honestly hates and envies the living hell out of me, so those occasions were super awkward and uncomfortable (my GF was tired of how jealous and possessive she was trying to be so she told her to get the hell out of our lives LOL) then it happen again with another friend of her's, she was bisexual, but her lesbianism was stronger than her heteronism, unlike my GF who is more hetero than lesbian but still has a lesbian desire, with her it was a thing where my GF made the rules, I could only act according the way my GF wanted, if she did not feel comfortable or if she felt her friend was being to flirtatious with me she would stop it or make it mechanical, my GF is selfish now that I think about it and honestly I can see her get mad the moment a Working girl over there might focus more attention to me than her, and unfortunately with the rules me and her set up for the relationship I don't have much to say (rules are my my girlfriend cannot have sex with another man at all, she agreed then Rule 2# is that I obviously cannot be with another girl by myself, nor without her knowledge. I can only fuck another girl in the condition that we can share it and it has to be of her choosing and she decides and controls how the sexual situation goes).
Like I reiterated, I see a problem as to where this will go, she knows no Spanish for shit, so she cannot communicate with the chicas thus will not be able to control the sexual situation to her liking, and with that said there are more chances the chicas will focus more on me than the non Spanish speaking gringa and it will cause my GF to be super jealous and go crazy, especially since my GF likes to smoke weed and drink and obviously she will smoke a shit load while over there since its cheap so I am afraid she might act psycho in a situation gone bad, at the end of the day she might sexually liberal but she still a woman and they are unfortunately complicate creatures, even with this honest and cutthroat relationship me and her have, then of course it goes the situation where I can't be for sure she would not tell my friend GF about the situation, which again I regret telling my GF because now I am not sure what the future holds, maybe one day my GF and my friend fight and my GF acts like a * and retaliates by snitching, BTW my GF and his GF have no sort of communication nor are they close friends, they know each other but honestly my friend GR is not to fond of my GF and they don't talk at all, two totally different women, my friends girl is a very brazen, independent self righteous bitchy woman, but very clever and ingenious, the kind of woman you would want as a daughter minus the part that she is with a lying cheating boyfriend, my girlfriend is more of a one day at a time girlfriend, a lot more calm and mellow and liberal, smokes pot and drinks often and is not as formal / mature nor as clever or independent than my friend GF.
Let see how this plays out, I believe now with close analyzation I probably fucked up by being honest, even tho my relationship with her is all based on honesty but I did not meant to jeopardize my friends relationship nor have him be collateral damage, I think there could be a chance that there will be no Colombia trip and kind of let it go, or we could go because I honestly do desire other women even with the rules and stipulations my GF puts but again now the concern goes with how safe is my friend secret with my GF. I want to believe she won't say shit but like you all said when it comes to women you can never know. Again it helps that they have no sort of friendship nor relationship so my GF has no pity nor empathy to their situation, she knows she don't like her nor me so I think low key my GF is gloating and happy at the fact that she knows she is being cheated on. Again I just hope in some future if me and her don't work out she will not use the trip to blackmail my friend.
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01-14-17 01:32 #4787
Posts: 5466Originally Posted by TheShadow2 [View Original Post]
Plus she would be going as an accomplice, which torpedoes any friendship she has with buddy's GF. Now that she knows about the trip, the safest thing is to bring her along and keep her satisfied.
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01-13-17 21:01 #4786
Posts: 159Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
I don't agree that the stigma / shame of her going into a strip club with her boyfriend would keep a girl like her quiet.
Girl A: "Your boyfriend fucked a bunch of girls when he was with us in Colombia. ".
Girl be: "OMG! Wait. How the hell would you know that?"
Girl A: "I went with them when they went to the strip clubs. He left us at the table and went into a private room with a prostitute and that's what they do there."
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01-13-17 19:40 #4785
Posts: 5466Originally Posted by TheShadow2 [View Original Post]
Perhaps he shouldn't have told his GF, except at some point, she would find out. They always do. In my mind, the safest thing to do is take her along.
It's something I learned in the swing clubs, years ago. Someone new to swinging would worry "what if we run into someone we know?" What can they say? "Me and Fred were at a swingers club last week, Fred was balls deep in this hot redhead, while she was munching on my box and her hubby was blowing a load on my tits, when in walks Nancy and John. I was so disgusted!" Nobody is going to say anything, because they have to incriminate themselves.
Same works with taking the GF along to the clubs and casas. She can't talk about it to anyone without explaining what she was doing in a brothel.
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01-13-17 17:45 #4784
Posts: 159Originally Posted by JjBee62 [View Original Post]
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01-13-17 17:19 #4783
Posts: 183No problems
Originally Posted by CPlusPlus [View Original Post]