Bogota Reports

[Frisky Frank]

Girls don't sign up to seeking to fuck for free. I promise you that you didn't give the kind of life changing dick that makes a girls bills suddenly disappear. I've used seeking for 5-6 years now stateside. I've met close to 100 girls from the site, they're all there for money and if you keep paying them, they'll keep making you feel special. Get your emotions and ego in check before you fuck up a good thing. Just pay the girl for a job well done.

I fucked a woman last week from seeking, we agreed beforehand for 300 k and that't what I paid in the end. Later that night she started texting me in whatsapp, at first she thanked me for the beautiful night, we joked a little bit and that was it.

This week I wrote her to ask if she wants to meet again and she seemed super happy about it. We have a 2nd date arranged for next Friday. We did a bit of sexting, she wrote she misses my dick, ahe said thinking about my dick makes her wet, etc. BUT we haven't talked about any further allowance.

Is it expected to her that every time we fuck I should give her the same 300 k? Or can I try to fuck her first and wait until she asks for the money? I think she really enojyed our time together so maybe she would just fuck for free?

I'm not experienced in seeking BTW, she is my first girl using that website.

[Aureliano16]

I fucked a woman last week from seeking, we agreed beforehand for 300 k and that't what I paid in the end. Later that night she started texting me in whatsapp, at first she thanked me for the beautiful night, we joked a little bit and that was it.

This week I wrote her to ask if she wants to meet again and she seemed super happy about it. We have a 2nd date arranged for next Friday. We did a bit of sexting, she wrote she misses my dick, ahe said thinking about my dick makes her wet, etc. BUT we haven't talked about any further allowance.

Is it expected to her that every time we fuck I should give her the same 300 k? Or can I try to fuck her first and wait until she asks for the money? I think she really enojyed our time together so maybe she would just fuck for free?

I'm not experienced in seeking BTW, she is my first girl using that website.

[Mr Enternational]

A lot of times to close a date (and get a girl out of her clothes) I'd invite her back to the pool / jacuzzi in my building. They're a rarity in Bogota, so most of the time girls would say "Yes, but I don't have a swimsuit. " So I'd just offer to buy them one.

My answer would be you won't need one.

[BearEmy84]

Lots of talk about taking girls to the mall. I'll share something from my MO.

A lot of times to close a date (and get a girl out of her clothes) I'd invite her back to the pool / jacuzzi in my building. They're a rarity in Bogota, so most of the time girls would say "Yes, but I don't have a swimsuit. " So I'd just offer to buy them one. There's a lot of places around Andino for this, and you get to pick out the sexiest one. Only sets you back about $20 too.

There's also a store called Pink Rose. I'd meet for a casual lunch. If it goes well, I'd invite them to spend the rest of the day with me then go to dinner. "But I don't have anything to wear" Well, this store is EXTREMELY Cute. Girls fucking love it. Reasonably priced cute dresses.

[LatinaLover#1]

Don't know about dressing rooms, but me and my ex girlfriend did it at the movie theater in Cali in the handicap bathroom.

Bathrooms are great for this!

[Mr Enternational]

Not sure if you can get this done in Bogota. They always have at least one or two people at all dressing rooms and are always present, this is more an anti shoplifting measure than trying to stop you from smashing a chic in the DR. I'm curious if you can pull this off, keep us posted.

Don't know about dressing rooms, but me and my ex girlfriend did it at the movie theater in Cali in the handicap bathroom.

[LatinaLover#1]

I'll be trying just this soon. Sounds really hot getting a cute dress, going out for dinner and everyone eye fucking mi novia and then ending the night right. And maybe a 2nd outfit at the lingere store. I really want to find a dressing room to fuck in. Maybe Unicentro would be better to live out that fantasy. Andino seems a little uptight but ive also only gone into mens stores too.

If anyone knows of a good place for it I am all ears. Will report back for sure if I accomplish it.

Not sure if you can get this done in Bogota. They always have at least one or two people at all dressing rooms and are always present, this is more an anti shoplifting measure than trying to stop you from smashing a chic in the DR. I'm curious if you can pull this off, keep us posted.

[JackTaggart]

Just because he walks around a mall with a chick does not mean she is expecting him to buy stuff for her. I see that my experience and outlook is totally different than some other guys.

And even though I find going to malls with chicks boring as shit (as guys we go get what we are looking for and get the hell out of there), what Lugnut said sounds goods and could make for a great outing.

I'll be trying just this soon. Sounds really hot getting a cute dress, going out for dinner and everyone eye fucking mi novia and then ending the night right. And maybe a 2nd outfit at the lingere store. I really want to find a dressing room to fuck in. Maybe Unicentro would be better to live out that fantasy. Andino seems a little uptight but ive also only gone into mens stores too.

If anyone knows of a good place for it I am all ears. Will report back for sure if I accomplish it.

[LatinaLover#1]

That is one of the high end malls there. Be prepared to open up your wallet.

That is why I hate to bring any girls shopping. They will go on a shopping rampage which end up costing more. Freebies have never been free. I would rather give them a set amount and let them do their shopping themselves if it even ever come to that.

I've been to that mall too many times, mostly to the casino but a few shopping trips too. I've been told the most prestigious and expensive mall in all of Bogota.

The militant terrorist chose this mall as the site to blow up a bomb in the ladies room a few years ago. Aside from this it's a very safe area.

[Elvis 2008]

She works at a call center.

I mentioned the Andino Mall because from us following each other on Facebook for a year, I knew that was one of her favorite spots and coincidentally, it is within a stone's throw of my building.

El Moreno,

I have done the shopping thing many times, and I cannot recall it ever bearing fruit. All it did was give the women an inflated ego and to expect more and more. Don't take her shopping man. There is no upside. Trust me. If you want to eat there and look around, that is cool but do not offer to buy her anything.

[JjBee62]

Well you're a lot of fun LOL. Taking a girl shopping at the mall is not necessarily expensive. The guy can say, I'll buy you one outfit. Go try a bunch on and model each one for me and we'll pick the one that looks best on you. And she can wear it that night, and both may have a good time.

I've taken 3 Colombianas to the mall, 2 in Medellin, 1 in Cincinnati. The first one wouldn't even look at anything. I took her to dinner and a movie, but when I suggested looking at something for her, she refused.

The second refused a trip to Santa Fe mall because everything was too expensive, but agreed to go to Itagui, where I bought her a dress for 30 k or so. Even then she complained that she could have gotten it cheaper in El Centro.

The one in Cincinnati started when her sister bought some AirPods for pickup at an Apple store, and didn't ask me which store was more convenient. After we picked up the AirPods, we walked around some. I took her into Victoria's Secret, because that's what you do when you're at the mall with a hot girl. She picked out 3 makeup, or perfume gifts from the 50% off rack, which came to about $50. The only other store we entered was a candy store, where she picked up some chocolate for her sister and something for her mother. Another $30. That was it.

If you're with the wrong type of girl a mall trip is a disaster. With the right girl it's fun and not expensive.

[Mr Enternational]

That is one of the high end malls there. Be prepared to open up your wallet.

Just because he walks around a mall with a chick does not mean she is expecting him to buy stuff for her. I see that my experience and outlook is totally different than some other guys.

And even though I find going to malls with chicks boring as shit (as guys we go get what we are looking for and get the hell out of there), what Lugnut said sounds goods and could make for a great outing.

[Lugnut]

Well you're a lot of fun LOL. Taking a girl shopping at the mall is not necessarily expensive. The guy can say, I'll buy you one outfit. Go try a bunch on and model each one for me and we'll pick the one that looks best on you. And she can wear it that night, and both may have a good time.

That is one of the high end malls there. Be prepared to open up your wallet.

That is why I hate to bring any girls shopping. They will go on a shopping rampage which end up costing more. Freebies have never been free. I would rather give them a set amount and let them do their shopping themselves if it even ever come to that.

[Ggekko2009]

She works at a call center.

I mentioned the Andino Mall because from us following each other on Facebook for a year, I knew that was one of her favorite spots and coincidentally, it is within a stone's throw of my building.

That is one of the high end malls there. Be prepared to open up your wallet.

That is why I hate to bring any girls shopping. They will go on a shopping rampage which end up costing more. Freebies have never been free. I would rather give them a set amount and let them do their shopping themselves if it even ever come to that.

[Elvis 2008]

Seeking your opinion about whether option of Airanb apartment is more convenient or Real 97 suites on calle 97 A? Hotel provides 2 room suite with be / f, while airanb apartment has no be / f typically. Also which area is suitable for getting mongering partner?

I stayed in Parque Suites 97 a few times and liked it. I had no issue bringing women in. One time the hotel even called me and let me know a girl had arrived that I was not expecting. This was pre-Covid but I had no issues with women. The restaurant downstairs had a bar and it was nice enough that if you were entertaining a date you would not be ashamed of it. Food was pretty good.

It is a little far from Santa Fe with traffic but I think it is close to the casas. It is really close though to the best parts of Bogota. Only issue I had was it got a little cold at night, and there was no heater. If you want heat, you have to move up to the higher end American chains. LOL. So just make sure you have some warm clothes. But if you have an overnight, that can work to your advantage.