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01-10-24 15:25 #14327
Posts: 3263Originally Posted by JohnnieCash [View Original Post]
The one successful hooker I knew personally who got out of the biz and ran her own business really was not independent. She had a sugar daddy on the side.
Thing is when I mentioned looking for long term, I was actually thinking this gal was a bad long term partner more because she was Venezuelan than a hooker. The hooker part for me was a given, but your post made me want to look more into the why hookers are bad long term partners.
There was a fascinating video on youtube of a guy who ran a brothel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R9kQuy90OGM.
I found the guy to be honest, logical, and a straight shooter. He only hired woman new to the business and only kept them in the business for a year. In his book, he described successful hookers who were millionaires but were so addicted to money they could not leave the business even in their 50's.
Then there was this from a woman who really was a hooker. Granted, she had an agenda. https://psyche.co/ideas/the-reality-...x-it-is-simple.
Prostitution is not sex and it's not work. Its reality is far from complex in fact, it's simple. Trust me, I've done it. The truth is, there was no 'work' involved in what was done to us in prostitution. Prostitution is neither sex nor work.
During my last 10 years campaigning, I have sometimes been asked by women what prostitution 'feels like'. I hit on a way of explaining this some years ago, and have repeated it a few times since. I invite them, the next time they are in a caf or a bar, to take a look around at the male patrons. Old, young, fat, thin, tall, short, handsome, ugly, beautiful, repulsive and imagine that they are obliged to have sex with them. All of them. The women's faces turn to horror because they don't need to imagine; they know full well that they'the have no interest in sleeping with whoever happens to walk through the door. At the most basic level, having our personal space breached by a stranger causes a stress reaction. Sex does not just involve mutuality; it necessitates it. The sex of prostitution is devoid of mutuality, and cash is introduced to fill the breach.
The brothel operator said the same thing: And one year is the time limit where it is not enough time to damage you psychologically for good, you can still reverse the damage, however, you run the risk of irreversible psychological damage if you stayed in this business longer than one year. Making big money is addicting, you do not want to fall into the trap of getting used to making this type of money.
I had never thought of a hooker as damaged goods. That sounds a little judgmental to me, but I found it interesting that both of these two people mentioned it.
I wish I could I say that I went the sugar route because I was concerned for the damage being done to women. There were two main drivers for me. The first and morally worse reason was the sex was better. The other was the feeling of emptiness after paying the hooker and having her leave. Even the rare times when you had this passionate intimate experience, it was like the women put back up this wall and said this was all about the money. I did not feel that emptiness with a sugar baby. With sugar babies, the women were in no hurry to leave, and I did not want them to go.
People make fun of sugaring versus seeing a hooker. They say it is the same thing, sex for money, but I knew it was different. That mutuality the former hooker talks about is intact in a sugar relationship whereas it is not with hookers. I read in a different book that women who are mistresses of married men look for the same qualities in the married man that they do in a partner. So while there is sex for money, like sugaring, it is not all sex for money, and that prevents or more likely lessens the damage.
Anyway, Johnnie, thanks for the post. It made me think, and I wanted clarity on this subject.
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01-10-24 12:59 #14326
Posts: 14Calle 30 spots I liked
Originally Posted by BangoCheito [View Original Post]
Restaurante why chocolateria Yoconta.
CL. 30 #5 - 82 Local 1, Bogot, Colombia.
They're only open until late afternoon but the food was so good / popular they had to open a 2nd restaurant next door called yocanta 2.
I did find one spot on the street over open for dinner that was excellent name is Turmequ Bar why Cocina Bogot on Calle 29. There's an Italian spot just up the hill from there that looked great I just didn't have time to try it, but it's on the list for my March trip. Name is Restaurante Aria.
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01-10-24 06:36 #14325
Posts: 2First Time
I will be traveling to Bogota for the first time and have started contacting the independent escorts. Is it a red flag if a girl can't meet you at your hotel and requires you to meet at their casa?
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01-10-24 05:36 #14324
Posts: 101Inflation
Is it just the US tourists or inflation plays a role also? Things has become more expensive all over the world in the last 3-4 years.
Originally Posted by JohnnyWishBone [View Original Post]
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01-10-24 04:52 #14323
Posts: 1255Another One
Another sucker has been scoped and robbed, this time in Bogota.
https://youtu.be/v4t1qkd3Pjs?si=cCf7LB8R7b4B-24W
Follow Along.
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01-10-24 01:57 #14322
Posts: 1255Originally Posted by BangoCheito [View Original Post]Originally Posted by Chelovec [View Original Post]Originally Posted by Woodman09 [View Original Post]
Theres also some very good Chinese food places on CL 22 as well. KR 7 is the main tourist / pedestrian strip and has various restaurants and bars. Another must try place for. Fried chicken fanatics is Alitas Colombians about a 10 minute walk to the North.
There's is also a McDonald's nearby and a Centro Comercial with various restaurants inside I believe an argentinian steakhouse as well as an Italian place too.
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01-10-24 01:30 #14321
Posts: 1281Originally Posted by DaVinci40 [View Original Post]
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01-10-24 01:03 #14320
Posts: 1281Originally Posted by Woodman09 [View Original Post]
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01-09-24 21:32 #14319
Posts: 13Originally Posted by GoEast [View Original Post]
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01-09-24 18:02 #14318
Posts: 1105Casa Del Rey, Great Steaks and other stuff a few blocks south of Ibis
Plenty of great places downtown-.
Casadelrey on KR 7 and Calle 22, a great restaurant, Huge--in an early 20th century building-- attached is a coffee bar, good burger joint, taco house, sushi joint, and a sausage place. They have their own bakery.
There are 3 bakerys down the street on 22-- On kr 7 several parrillas and Florida bakery -restaurant which is a good white linen type restaurant -- And much more south and there is a new Mexican place I saw on kr5 near Bacata.
https://www.tripadvisor.com/Restaura...ey-Bogota.html
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01-09-24 15:21 #14317
Posts: 138Originally Posted by Elvis2008 [View Original Post]
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01-09-24 13:34 #14316
Posts: 55Originally Posted by SankarShetty [View Original Post]
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01-09-24 05:21 #14315
Posts: 122You're correct for dinner. Not a lot but not sure of your taste and budget. There's a pizza / pasta place (Archie's) below the hotel which is honestly kinda mediocre. Right across from Ibis are 2-3 restaurants on Transverse 6. Okay'ish Asian at la lonchera. Nice enough for a quick meal. Not really for a date. Restaurant republik looks good for a date type thing though I've never been inside just looks nice from the outside. If you're okay with pub food there's a BBC just up the road from them both with some great craft beers. There's a really cute street Calle 30 going up to the La Perseverencia market (which itself is fantastic but only open for breakfast / lunch). That little stretch of Calle 30 is really an up and coming, trendy, restaurant row type area but I believe they're only for the lunch hours. You'the have to check. If they do dinner then that little stretch has about 8-10 restaurants and would be perfect.
Originally Posted by SankarShetty [View Original Post]
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01-09-24 02:06 #14314
Posts: 207Pricewise, both Ibis and Teq seem very reasonable. Its just one night, can't go wrong with either one I think. I am not concerned as much with chica friendly since I am booking for 2 and I will be checkin with the chica. The location is a issue though. I want to be at a place where I can go out for dinner. Nothing fancy like park 93 area but like the zona gourmet in chapinero or some restaurants. I am assuming Teq and Ibis do not serve this purpose?
Originally Posted by DaVinci40 [View Original Post]
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01-08-24 18:40 #14313
Posts: 1105AirBnb style buildings in Chapinero
Hey All you Naughty Girl Lovers-.
I'm looking for Apartment buildings that do AirBnb style rentals that Are Not AirBnb-.
I know there is one in Chapinero but the name and info has escaped me-.
Also any other areas are also wanted-.
Thanks in Advance.
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