Bogota Reports

[Mr Enternational]

Fortunately, I woke up from my fantasy after spending 2 hours with a regular girl who was "kind, sweet, helpful and cheerful" and who "I would not want to let her escape. " I scrapped my plan and went back and took the advice everyone else had given me. I was able to salvage my trip.

What happenes during those 2 hours to make you wake up from your fantasy?

[Mr Enternational]

Same for online meeting. If you are contacting only profiles with obvious sexy pictures of herself, not one picture of herself with friends or family, there is a good chance she is a hooker. A hooker will never post pictures of herself with her mom in her social media profile she is usying to find clients.

I feel the exact opposite about this. I think it is pretty damn weird when chicks put pictures of their kids and family on a dating site. But of course she is up to shenanigans if she has her ass sticking out on every picture.

[JonesLover]

1. Forget all the social media you've been using. Your chance of finding a regular girl that way is extremely low. Instead start looking on Colombian Cupid. Make your profile open to a long term relationship. Specify what you're looking for. You have a better chance of finding girls who aren't just prostitutes.

2. Don't commit to anything other than meeting, at a public place, for coffee or lunch.

3. Pick a city. It doesn't matter which one.

4. Only look for girls in that city. Don't waste your time on girls in other cities. There are plenty of girls in Medellin or Bogota.

5. Don't spend too much time messaging before you go to Colombia. Keep the conversation light and casual. If the girl tries to get you talking about sex, she's almost certainly a prostitute.

6. Meet the girls with no expectations. You're just having coffee with a stranger. Find out if there is a mutual interest after you are face to face.

7. Don't rush things. A love story takes time to develop.

You are right in everything, my problem is that I am used to Africa. Africa is a completely different continent. If I liked a girl I would call her and then we would have sex. No regular girl ever said no to me. It sounds unbelievable but it is. However of one thing I'm sure. I have never been cheated by any girl and I have never given money in a non-prudent way. I know the stories of fake dramas, girls are good at dramatizing all over the world. I'm not a rookie and I already know these things. My biggest mistake is having associated Africa with South America.
The last year I talked to a girl and was a Medicina student. I didn't believe her and I asked her: where are you now? She answered me
that she was at the university and that she was listening to the lecture. I asked her: can you take a picture of your hand to verify that you are at the university?
Her availability was great and she took a picture of her hand in front of the professor. ahahaha This is Africa!! However, one thing I can say with extreme confidence. In Colombia's dating sites there are 99% of prostitutes.

[JjBee62]

Sorry to hear about your experience, but I am afraid you have the wrong perception about Colombia. I'm living in Colombia since 7 years, have my social circle here and date Colombianas. Even when I lived in other countries, I always ended up with a social circle among the Colombian community and dated mainly Colombian girls. Never ever they asked for money. There is no such thing as semi-pros. A pro is having sex with strangers for money, no matter if it is once a week, once a day or once an hour. It might be higher in some areas such as Medellin or Pereira, but in Bogota 99% of girls are non pros and 1% is a pro. I know most mongerers visiting Colombia believe it is much higher, but it is a wrong perception. If you don't speak spanish, are obvious short term tourist, hang out in places where you can find pros, it is obvious that you will be approached only by hookers. A regular Colombiana will never approach a foreigner, only hookers do that. If you want to meet regular Colombianas, you will have to do the first move or have a social circle to meet them. Same for online meeting. If you are contacting only profiles with obvious sexy pictures of herself, not one picture of herself with friends or family, there is a good chance she is a hooker. A hooker will never post pictures of herself with her mom in her social media profile she is usying to find clients.

This forum is about finding sex, but 99% of reports is about prostitutes. If you are interested in dating regular Colombianas, just check my FAQ about dating Colombianas:.

Your advice is always top notch, but there is one thing you got wrong this time. Hookers, at least on Facebook, in Medellin, often post pictures of their mothers, fathers and children.

[JonesLover]

Hey,

I know it is not necessary to make a Covid-19 RT- PCR test or a simple molecular test neither to enter nor to leave Colombia.

Why do you make tests? I'd like to understand.

[JjBee62]

May be my English is so bad, I'm sorry. It is not my native language. I am in a mongering forum and maybe some guy will be offended. But I would never approach a prostitute to have a love story. I never thought this. I mean that I talked to 200 girls from various cities on the Internet and they all asked me for money, even 2 guys. One girl even asked me to send money before I arrived because I was booking it for that week. If you don't believe it, I won't send the conversation with her. I have never said or thought that all Colombian girls are prostitutes. I am referring to the ones I met on the Internet. The ones I spoke to are all prostitutes and I confirm it. I use Badoo, Facebook, Tagged, Mingle2, etc.

But yesterday I met a gem. A wonderful girl from Pereira. She that she will come to see me in Bogota or Medellin.

I am sure she is a regular girl and not a semi-pro.

She is kind, sweet, helpful and cheerful. I talked to her for almost a day. She is a needle in a haystack and I would not want to let her escape.

You're sure she's a regular girl? I really need to know what country you're from, if you think that regular girls will happily agree to travel across country in order to have sex with a foreigner, a complete stranger, 3 times their age, that they've only spent a few hours chatting with online.

Let me tell you what is almost certain to happen. Before you fly to Colombia she's going to need some money for something. Maybe because she wants to buy something nice to wear for you, maybe because she will need to pay some expense while she is away, but it's practically guaranteed some need will pop up.

Of course, it's not because she's a prostitute or anything. She's just a sweet, innocent girl who is interested in men 3 times her age. Aren't all 20 year old girls like that?

Because she is so sweet, kind, cheerful and helpful, and because you would not want to let her escape, you'll send the money. It just makes sense that traveling to spend time with you will cause her added expenses.

Then, probably within 48 hours of your flight, something is going to go wrong. Most likely there will be an illness in the family, or maybe an injured pet. Whatever the problem is, she won't have the money to pay for it. She'll feel really bad about asking you for money, but she doesn't have anyone else, and her grandmother, sister, brother or dog will die if she can't come up with the money.

What do you do? This poor, sweet, kind girl is in tears and she really wants to see you, but she can't until she somehow gets the money she needs. And when you think about it, she's not asking for a lot of money, not when compared to how much you're spending.

So you decide to send the money, because she obviously needs it and you don't want to let her escape.

You're not going to believe this, but on the day when she's supposed to travel to meet you, another financial emergency is going to get in the way. She's going to need more money before she can come and be with you.

This pattern will likely continue. She'll still be in Pereira and you'll be sending her money until 1 of 3 things happens.

1. She decides that she's gotten all the money from you she can.

2. You finally realize that you've been played for a sucker and stop sending her money.

3. She decides that she can get more money from you by coming to see you.

20 year old girls don't agree to meet with strangers who are nearly 60 years old, with the understanding sex will be involved, unless there's a financial incentive. Have someone tattoo that on your forearm in case you forget.

You would never approach a prostitute to have a love story? The only women who will agree to your "love story", without first spending time with you and getting to know you, are either prostitutes or scam artists. That has nothing to do with Colombia. Try it in your own country. Start sending the same messages to 20 year old girls who live in your country. Unless you find a prostitute, you're not going to have much luck.

Fortunately (for the local economy), every country that is a sexual tourism destination has plenty of girls who will happily give up being prostitutes in order to be a girlfriend (who gets paid more than most prostitutes) for any foreigner who reaches out to them. How do I know this? Because I believed the same thing as you. I believed that all those 18-23 year old girls in the Dominican Republic thought I was handsome. I thought they were just regular girls who desperately wanted a boyfriend, from another country, who was 30+ years older than them. I believed them and thought all of the guys here just didn't understand. I was absolutely certain I had found a better way.

Fortunately, I woke up from my fantasy after spending 2 hours with a regular girl who was "kind, sweet, helpful and cheerful" and who "I would not want to let her escape. " I scrapped my plan and went back and took the advice everyone else had given me. I was able to salvage my trip.

If you're committed to only having "a love story" your trip is probably going to be a complete failure, especially the way you are approaching it. If you're more interested in fucking up royally than in enjoying your trip, keep doing what you're doing. If you are more interested in having a good time, pay attention:

1. Forget all the social media you've been using. Your chance of finding a regular girl that way is extremely low. Instead start looking on Colombian Cupid. Make your profile open to a long term relationship. Specify what you're looking for. You have a better chance of finding girls who aren't just prostitutes.

2. Don't commit to anything other than meeting, at a public place, for coffee or lunch.

3. Pick a city. It doesn't matter which one.

4. Only look for girls in that city. Don't waste your time on girls in other cities. There are plenty of girls in Medellin or Bogota.

5. Don't spend too much time messaging before you go to Colombia. Keep the conversation light and casual. If the girl tries to get you talking about sex, she's almost certainly a prostitute.

6. Meet the girls with no expectations. You're just having coffee with a stranger. Find out if there is a mutual interest after you are face to face.

7. Don't rush things. A love story takes time to develop.

[Mr Enternational]

Posted yesterday that I was still at the airport testing site for an hour and 20 minutes and still no test. It ended up being an hour and 20 minutes. Got there at 10:45, had the test shortly after 1:00. I had read that it had to be a PCR test, but my Delta check-in information says antigen or PCR. Antigen would have been a lot easier. Anyway, got the test knocked out and got the negative results just after 10:00 pm. I uploaded them this morning and cleared to fly back.

Definitely recommend a different testing site. I didn't have anyone come to my room because I'm staying in an AirBnB.

I have posted testing sites here 10 times that cost from 70k to 90k for antigen and take less than 1 hour. The other day when I arrived in Bogota I saw 800 mfs standing out there at that airport testing site. I am sure the wait that day was longer than the one you experienced. You uploaded them and are cleared to fly back? All filling out the form on the website means is that you do not have to fill the form out when you get to the airport. It does not clear you for anything. You will have to show your test when you arrive at the airport for check in. Make sure you do your check-mig as well.

[Mr Enternational]

But yesterday I met a gem. A wonderful girl from Pereira. She that she will come to see me in Bogota or Medellin. I am sure she is a regular girl and not a semi-pro. She is kind, sweet, helpful and cheerful. I talked to her for almost a day. She is a needle in a haystack and I would not want to let her escape.

Do not put all of your eggs in that fucking basket. During the past week while I was in Colombia at least 8 chicks flaked on me. 2 of them I have been in normal relationships with before. Chicks will tell you all kind of shit when you are 8,000 miles away, but when you are just around the corner excuses will abound. Biches always want to know when did you arrive, how long are you staying, where are you staying, just to say they can not come. It is hard enough to get chicks in the same city to show up, and you are talking about a chick going from one city to the other. Do not fuck yourself over like that.

[Routard]

You tell me there are only prostitutes in Santa Fe? I would say not only in Santa Fe but in every corner of Colombia. You can't talk to a girl without her asking for money.

Sorry to hear about your experience, but I am afraid you have the wrong perception about Colombia. I'm living in Colombia since 7 years, have my social circle here and date Colombianas. Even when I lived in other countries, I always ended up with a social circle among the Colombian community and dated mainly Colombian girls. Never ever they asked for money. There is no such thing as semi-pros. A pro is having sex with strangers for money, no matter if it is once a week, once a day or once an hour. It might be higher in some areas such as Medellin or Pereira, but in Bogota 99% of girls are non pros and 1% is a pro. I know most mongerers visiting Colombia believe it is much higher, but it is a wrong perception. If you don't speak spanish, are obvious short term tourist, hang out in places where you can find pros, it is obvious that you will be approached only by hookers. A regular Colombiana will never approach a foreigner, only hookers do that. If you want to meet regular Colombianas, you will have to do the first move or have a social circle to meet them. Same for online meeting. If you are contacting only profiles with obvious sexy pictures of herself, not one picture of herself with friends or family, there is a good chance she is a hooker. A hooker will never post pictures of herself with her mom in her social media profile she is usying to find clients.

This forum is about finding sex, but 99% of reports is about prostitutes. If you are interested in dating regular Colombianas, just check my FAQ about dating Colombianas:

http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...593&viewfull=1#post1983593.

[Balboa]

That being said I'm thinking of taking an exploratory trip to Brazil because a Monger in Cali told me told me that Long Time was standard there like it is in my beloved Africa. I'll let you know.

Hope this Helps.

Trip.

Many reasons to explore Brazil, but because 'long time' is standard is not one of them, Lol.

Brazil, just as in Colombia, has short time, medium time, and long time monger venues.

I love Brazil, my personal favorite, however, just as in Colombia, if the vibe is good, it can even be difficult to get a girl to leave, Lol.

[Balboa]

Friends, first of all, thank you for your help.

I must say that Colombia is disappointing me a lot. I am used to Africa where the girls are just plain gorgeous. I am talking about their character because the black of their skin can like it or it cannot like it.

They are kind, sweet and helpful and affectionate. They do everything without asking for anything in return, even if they expect help, but without asking. Then you are the one who gives something to these poor girls.

You tell me there are only prostitutes in Santa Fe? I would say not only in Santa Fe but in every corner of Colombia. You can't talk to a girl without her asking for money.

I talked to about 200 girls on social networks and they all wanted money. A lot of money. As soon as they ask for money, I cut off the communication. Now I don't talk to anyone anymore. I run the risk of being left alone in Colombia.

It is horrible, really horrible. Thinking if a girl touches her tits she wants money, and if you touch her pussy she wants more money.

Maybe it will be that I'm old and I can't stand these things anymore.

Who is the semi-pro? Quickly said: a girl who is doing university and sometimes to pay for her studies or to have fun, has to sell her body. I met students of Medecina and Economics. Smart and affectionate girls. When you are with these girls you love them. I like to fall in love. They are sweet and loving. Nothing to do with the pros who only do that job, they treat you badly and where inside their pussy there is maybe shit.

Two guys also asked me for money on Badoo, when I asked for information about a city. Only a very nice girl refused to meet me and she wanted to be my friend but she didn't ask me for money.

Is Colombia this? It is truly ugly in relationships between people, it is beautiful only in places.

By now I have bought a ticket for Colombia but I am already sorry because I do not know where to go.

Listen brotha, I feel your pain, however, online dating, online mongering, online whatever is always full of money grubbers.

Depending on your personality, looks, energy, vibe, Spanish ability, etc, Colombia can be pure sweetness as well.

Just go, hit the venues and see who you vibe with. Follow your smart instincts, and you'll meet some sweethearts.

Enjoy.

[Jim2288]

Some will warn against overnight visits, and I agree with all that. It's dangerous and you never know what could end up missing.

That said, I had been messaging Nikol who I found on mileroticos. I got back to my room at 9:30 and she came over. It was 600 mil for the night (BBBJ included but covered sex). In the messages I asked her if she wanted anything from the USA. I bought her a hat and sweatshirt from the Airport in Houston. She loved it, think it made my experience even better.

She's cute and very sweet. Check out her tik tok videos at andryyarenizz. She showed me some videos so I told her I wanted to see her make one. There are 2 videos she made in my AirBnB room wearing the hat and sweatshirt I bought her. LOL.

She was here about 11 hours. She was very trustworthy. I left a wad of cash out in plain view like an idiot. She reached over the cash and grabbed the empty plastic bag the shirt and hat were in and asked if it was OK to take the bag.

[Jim2288]

Would you mind sharing the Airbnb you stayed at?

Paris loft in the G area.

In the pics, everything is white. White bed, white nightstand, white counters. It's hosted by Daniel. Who is really nice. The bed isn't the nicest and the noise outside is pretty bad. It sounds like I'm sleeping outside next to the road. I turned the radio on and that helped me sleep.

Highly recommend though, cause there is no security person. You enter the user ID and passcode on the keypad and open the gate. Use the user ID and keypad again to get through the door. A room key is left in a bowl in the little room downstairs, you walk up the stairs and the room is on the left. Super easy. He even sends you YouTube videos of how to get in. Not that you really need to see them.

The rule is one guest at a time. I respected that rule, but there's nobody here to say anything if you brought 2 girls back.

[Jim2288]

Posted yesterday that I was still at the airport testing site for an hour and 20 minutes and still no test. It ended up being an hour and 20 minutes. Got there at 10:45, had the test shortly after 1:00. I had read that it had to be a PCR test, but my Delta check-in information says antigen or PCR. Antigen would have been a lot easier. Anyway, got the test knocked out and got the negative results just after 10:00 pm. I uploaded them this morning and cleared to fly back.

Definitely recommend a different testing site. I didn't have anyone come to my room because I'm staying in an AirBnB.

[Balboa]

Has anyone tried paying for the room directly and making a separate payment to the girl instead of letting the girl pay for the room? I'm thinking that interacting with the motel staff directly would help to clarify when the knock is supposed to come. I think if I pay for a longer session, I should insist on doing it that way.

That's what I always do in Santa Fe.

Apparently you speak Spanish, so be cool and friendly with the person running the motel, and strike a deal.

15 minutes to me is way too quick.