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[UrDream]

Coming to Bogota this Saturday for a week. Anybody interested in meeting this Sunday?

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[Cbmcpa]

My girl didn't give me any sexual affection at all. But she did introduce me to her entire family. A school teacher, sweet caring. Kept me from going to her house in Bello B/ C it was too dangerous. Did drop her off on the corner. She was petrified that something would happen to me. I'd talk to her on the phone and hear a guy screaming "policia" like every few minutes or so. She told me it was a "MESA" that was basically a lookout. She said there was one on every street corner. Since she was from there, she had nothing to worry about. I think she was very genuine. But the age difference and the fact that I did not live there was the big issue. She mentioned that several times.

Guys, I"m going to be brutally honest here.

Do NOT aim for an LTR with a girl in Colombia, no matter how good it looks and no matter how good her English is.

UNLESS.

You truly and deeply understand the cultural vectors from here. And there are many sets of them, depending on where chica is from in this country. Sometimes they mix. It gets complicated.

You have knowledge of your own culture that you take for granted that you do NOT have here unless you've taken the time to EARN it.

There are a few of us here (Enternational Woodman Routard and I) who have been living here for a long time OR been coming here forever and the rules truly change for us..

[Mr Enternational]

I've found girls to be a little hesitant at first, but then very interested and receptive to foreigners that have a grasp of Spanish and interest in their culture.

This makes me think of something I encounter with chicks. What does culture have to do with anything? In my opinion shit. I am always taken aback when a chick says you don't understand because you are not from my culture. Or this is not working because we are from different cultures. As if being from the same culture makes everything peechy keen.

I then ask, well what happened with your last boyfriend. He cheated on me, or he was an abuser, or he didn't show me enough attention, etc. But aren't you from the same culture? Works the same way with religion. They want a guy that is Christian. But wasn't the last mf that was beating on your ass and cheating on you Christian? I think I am too logical for many people.

P. S. I did get an MBA in International Business because I like to study different cultures. But I have found that when male-female relationships are concerned, except for a couple of customs, cultural differences really play no factor. You can see this when people in the military go all over the world marrying people from different countries. That corporal in the Army can not say kiss my ass in Korean, but he and his wife and their 2 kids seem to be getting along just fine.

[IronQuinn]

Guys, I"m going to be brutally honest here.

Do NOT aim for an LTR with a girl in Colombia, no matter how good it looks and no matter how good her English is.

UNLESS.

You truly and deeply understand the cultural vectors from here. And there are many sets of them, depending on where chica is from in this country. Sometimes they mix. It gets complicated.

You have knowledge of your own culture that you take for granted that you do NOT have here unless you've taken the time to EARN it.

There are a few of us here (Enternational Woodman Routard and I) who have been living here for a long time OR been coming here forever and the rules truly change for us.

Before you even consider anything more long-term than a FWB arrangement with a girl here, you need to have strong mastery of the language, meaning you never need a joke translated for you and you can even make your own level of mastery and you need to be well aware of all the cultural nuances of here.

Honestly, I personally would suggest you just enjoy yourself and throw those fantasies in the garbage where they belong. Oneitis is stupid, and it's even stupider here. Just assume that nobody is ever going to commit to you long term (and nor you to them) and life is paradise here.

Well said. I think time is needed to get in good with a girl from any culture other than your own. I once had a great LTR with a Peruvian / Costa Rican mix, but that's only because she came up to NY for college and we had the time to get to know each other (and I had time to learn culture and Spanish).

I believe what you've said to be true for girls from Bogota, Medellin, Cali, Cartagena, ect, but as someone who has lived and traveled a lot in Colombia, I'm curious to know your thoughts about girls from smaller towns, or even remote areas like Mitu, or Inirida. I certainly haven't been everywhere in the country, but the out-of-way places I have been to, I've found girls to be a little hesitant at first, but then very interested and receptive to foreigners that have a grasp of Spanish and interest in their culture. In my opinion, it's easier to develop a LTR in lesser visited places. What's your opinion on the subject?

[Bango Cheito]

Guys, I"m going to be brutally honest here.

Do NOT aim for an LTR with a girl in Colombia, no matter how good it looks and no matter how good her English is.

UNLESS.

You truly and deeply understand the cultural vectors from here. And there are many sets of them, depending on where chica is from in this country. Sometimes they mix. It gets complicated.

You have knowledge of your own culture that you take for granted that you do NOT have here unless you've taken the time to EARN it.

There are a few of us here (Enternational Woodman Routard and I) who have been living here for a long time OR been coming here forever and the rules truly change for us.

Before you even consider anything more long-term than a FWB arrangement with a girl here, you need to have strong mastery of the language, meaning you never need a joke translated for you and you can even make your own level of mastery and you need to be well aware of all the cultural nuances of here.

Honestly, I personally would suggest you just enjoy yourself and throw those fantasies in the garbage where they belong. Oneitis is stupid, and it's even stupider here. Just assume that nobody is ever going to commit to you long term (and nor you to them) and life is paradise here.

[Bango Cheito]

Your girl could just as well be different. IMO it does not take a genius to realize when one is being used. If you have to give a chick money then no your girl is not different. If you have a girl like my chick in Cali that makes 1 million pesos / month and sometimes makes desserts to sell for extra money and does not ask you for anything but to spend time with her then you girl is different.

Honestly, I think this is a Cali thing. Girls there are generous. And HORNY AF!

[Bango Cheito]

WHats the link to the famous Routard list / FAQ? I can't find it.

Any preggos on the Sante Fe streets? I used to enjoy preggos in Thailand.

Showdown.

If your Spanish is good, just go to Santa Fe and ask on the streets and they will probably be able to link you up.

Or go to mileroticos.

[JoyTop]

Will be in the area this week. If anybody needs a wingman. Avoiding zona rosa and the clubs this time, mostly focused on Santa Fe.

Hey Madra,

I arrive on Wednesday night for a week and I'll be staying at San Francisco. I might go Wednesday when I arrive, at 12-1 am, or Thursday to during the day. Let me know if you'd like to meet up.

[KangarooTed]

Interesting to hear you found Bogota different to what you are used to in SE Asia, I am planning a trip to Bogota next month after having mainly mongered in Pattaya. I have decided to switch to Bogata simply because the cost of fucking in Pattaya has shot through the roof. Soi six, BF, LD and whatever the lady gets being around 1600 baht or $176,000 COP as to what I am reading around $40,000 Cop for a sweet streety Santa Fe girl. Have you exp Pattaya lately if so as far as getting ones dick deep into pussy which do you think is better value? SE Asia or Bogota?

I've been to both this year.

Obviously you can get a Street girl in Pattaya for less than a soi six girl but anyway.

Bogota can present far better value; but there are other factors, like where are you flying in from? How much or how long are your flights?

Also, you are comfortable mongering in a beachside village with thousands of other foreigners and everyone speaks English or Thainglish; how will you be in a city of 8 million, no falang about and no one speaks a word of English?

If you'll think you'll be fine then just go and see, no problem you won't know until you go. Yea, it's cheaper.

[Mr Enternational]

Right on, Tall Man. I consider myself lucky, learning this life lesson early, saving myself a lot of grief and aggravation. There's always those guys that think: "Yeah, I understand, but my girl is different. "

Your girl could just as well be different. IMO it does not take a genius to realize when one is being used. If you have to give a chick money then no your girl is not different. If you have a girl like my chick in Cali that makes 1 million pesos / month and sometimes makes desserts to sell for extra money and does not ask you for anything but to spend time with her then you girl is different.

[Mr Enternational]

I have decided to switch to Bogata simply because the cost of fucking in Pattaya has shot through the roof. Soi six, BF, LD and whatever the lady gets being around 1600 baht or $176,000 COP as to what I am reading around $40,000 Cop for a sweet streety Santa Fe girl. Have you exp Pattaya lately if so as far as getting ones dick deep into pussy which do you think is better value? SE Asia or Bogota?

That is because you are doing it wrong. I have told you guys time and time again negotiate 700 for the girl and pay 300 for the room at the bar. No idea how you get to 1600 unless you are buying a bunch of drinks.

As far as better value, that is all relative. First you have to compare apples to apples. I would say a Santa Fe casa or street chick would be akin to Beach Road chicks. In Santa Fe you can pay 40,000, but on Beach Road you are going to pay at least 55,000 (500 baht). But of course a vacation consists of more than how much it will cost to stick your dick into some pussy. You could find some $40 chicks around where you live that would lessen the need for you to travel at all if that was the only thing that counted.

You can't just ask what is the better general value, because in Pattaya you have the 22,000 COP crack shacks to the 1 million COP gogo girls. In Bogota you have the 30,000 Santa Fe chicks (I am sure there is something cheaper somewhere that even I do not want to see) to those expensive ass zona rosa places where it will cost you 70,000 just for a beer.

[Madra Bid Dog]

Will be in the area this week. If anybody needs a wingman. Avoiding zona rosa and the clubs this time, mostly focused on Santa Fe.

[IronQuinn]

Spot on from JjBee. Listen up to all your "hopeless romantics", first I must admit that I too use to fall into this category but here in Colombia the very best advice that I can give anyone is do NOT take anything or anyone serious, especially the chicas. I will be the first to admit that I had to learn this life lesson.

I don't give a shit how well they fuck you in bed or how they can look into your eyes and your feeling that they are touching your soul, how when they tell you that "age difference does not matter" or how they treat you when around in public. Enjoy it ABSOLUTELY but never take anything serious.

I know it is difficult but please follow this advice. I can spend days detailing real experiences that I have had and some ongoing, hell just twice in the past 2 days with 2 different paisas proclaiming their undying love and devotion to me and guess what? Yep this same chicas are some of the girls that some of you think is all into you.

I have no dog in this fight but I understand the culture and heck the girl that you may think is all into you and you want to consider for a long term relationship could be the same girl that I fucked for 3 hours last night in a motel here in Medellin, mummm believe it or not this is how they roll here in Medellin. Take it for what it is and nothing more please.

The Tall Man.

Right on, Tall Man. I consider myself lucky, learning this life lesson early, saving myself a lot of grief and aggravation. There's always those guys that think: "Yeah, I understand, but my girl is different. " To those guys, here's my advice: Don't be an idiot. I repeat, don't be an idiot. Just move on to the next girl once the one you're with goes south. There are more girls out there than anyone could possibly get with. Why would you stick with one? And, every time you come back, there will be new ones. This is a game of "taking". Once you start "giving" you'll be giving more and more, and that's when they take advantage of you. If a guy really wanted to, he'd have a better chance finding something real in the small villages, rather than in the cities. Head into eastern Colombia and you'll see what I mean, but most are too scared to do that. If you want to stay in the cities, just love them and leave them.

[The Tall Man]

Sorry for the late reply. Looking to head to Bogota now. The bello girl didn't pan out. Oh well.

Went back 2 x to "try" to form a relationship with her. Every time out, she basically wanted me to take her and her cherished son places that they could never afford. Didn't pan out. But she's pure gold to the guy that captures her heart. Off to Bogota and not looking for love. Just want to have a good time now. I'm a hopeless romantic unfortunately.

I'm blondish with green, wanting Spanish (learning) and 2 meters tall, in centro just use common sense, don't disrespect anyone even the druggies or tranies, walk with a purpose and you would be surprised what you will find given some patience and time.

Question. What do you mean that you "went back to Bello 2 x"? Many girls are from Bello, I have personally know some real cuties over the past 3 or 4 years and some I still see and play with from time to time. Elaborate on your statement.

The Tall Man.

I think you meant "pure gold digger."

These girls can be a lot of fun, but there's almost zero chance of the average guy to develop any sort of normal relationship with them. You're starting in 2 different worlds.

For the girls it's easier. They just need to find someone who is willing to spend the money to match her expectations of the typical gringo lifestyle. That's where the guys problems begin..

Spot on from JjBee. Listen up to all your "hopeless romantics", first I must admit that I too use to fall into this category but here in Colombia the very best advice that I can give anyone is do NOT take anything or anyone serious, especially the chicas. I will be the first to admit that I had to learn this life lesson.

I don't give a shit how well they fuck you in bed or how they can look into your eyes and your feeling that they are touching your soul, how when they tell you that "age difference does not matter" or how they treat you when around in public. Enjoy it ABSOLUTELY but never take anything serious.

I know it is difficult but please follow this advice. I can spend days detailing real experiences that I have had and some ongoing, hell just twice in the past 2 days with 2 different paisas proclaiming their undying love and devotion to me and guess what? Yep this same chicas are some of the girls that some of you think is all into you.

I have no dog in this fight but I understand the culture and heck the girl that you may think is all into you and you want to consider for a long term relationship could be the same girl that I fucked for 3 hours last night in a motel here in Medellin, mummm believe it or not this is how they roll here in Medellin. Take it for what it is and nothing more please.

The Tall Man.

[Ukman57]

Sante fe is basically 3 streets: Carrera 15 to 16 a with Calle 22 to 19.

Chicas all over waiting by the street. Once you agree she will take you to the closest room. Price she quotes include the room.

Make sure to have the exact change, once a girl pretended the room wasn't included to get more (but only once in 3 weeks, not bad).

At first I was on the edge about about safety but after few days realized it's quite safe within those streets. Always lots of people around.

The only trouble you could have is in the quiet streets to get there.

But honestly, after 3 weeks going there almost daily, never had any issue, day time as late night, on my own and waking from another neighborhood..

Interesting to hear you found Bogota different to what you are used to in SE Asia, I am planning a trip to Bogota next month after having mainly mongered in Pattaya. I have decided to switch to Bogata simply because the cost of fucking in Pattaya has shot through the roof. Soi six, BF, LD and whatever the lady gets being around 1600 baht or $176,000 COP as to what I am reading around $40,000 Cop for a sweet streety Santa Fe girl. Have you exp Pattaya lately if so as far as getting ones dick deep into pussy which do you think is better value? SE Asia or Bogota?