Cartagena Reports

[Mojo Bandit]

Asia is the big ticket item I want to hit before I get too old to enjoy. Both Thailand and Philippines and on the list. I agree with you from what I read the Philippines sounds the better place for what I like in girls, total GFE and spending a few days with the same girl before trading her out. I'm not a 1 or 2 hour guy with a girl. I like to have multiple sessions as after that first one or two, the sex gets much better if there is chemistry and the its just boom boom barriers come down.

My hesitation is the security aspect. It just seems Thailand is much more safe to visit.

I will keep doing research and price them out. I guess with a 2 week trip I could hit both places and get a taste to see which I enjoy more.

I was in Bangkok and Patong Beach in 2011, a birthday present for myself. I don't know why the guy said he was "underwhelmed" in Thailand. I enjoyed it very much. I hit two of the usual "red light district" spots in Bangkok, Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy. The high concentration of women in these areas means that the law of large numbers is on your side to find a beauty. The prices are cheaper than Colombia even though you will always pay a bar fine. In Patong Beach, the "red light district" is Bangla Road (Thanon Bangla on Google Maps). Bangla Road is where I met the most beautiful woman that I have ever had. Thai women with nice breast are hard to find but this girl had the best natural set of tits I have came across (no pun there) and she had just enough oriental in the shape of her eyes to be exotic but not so oriental that you could confuse her with the next girl you only saw for a second. I will recommend that if you go to Bangkok, there is a hotel called Majestic Grand, it is walking distance to Nana Plaza and 12 minute taxi to Soi Cowboy. The Majestic Grand is "girl friendly". It is a classy hotel where you can get a room for under $100 US a night. If you venture down to Patong Beach which is what I recommend to any beach loving monger (paradisiacal beach environment) then I would recommend looking for an apartment. You can get a decent place for less than $50 and a very nice place for less than $100 in the low season. When I rented my apartment the guy I rented from said he could send someone to the Phuket Airport to get me and take me to the apartment, I said how will I know who is there to pick me up? He said "she will be the one with the big tits" and so that is how I met the first girl I banged in Patong Beach. In a big way the lower prices for the women and the low prices for rooms and apartments balances out the high price of flying there.

Thailand has to be the mongering capital of the world and I never even made it to Walking Street in Pattaya. I met a guy on the plane to Bangkok who said he spends 25 weeks out of the year in Pattaya! He almost had me talked into dropping all my plans and going there with him but I like to take in more than just mongering when I travel. Thailand's beaches rival any in the world. I also did the ThaiCupid site before I went and had a good looking semi-pro that met me in Patong Beach, so when I went out to Phi Phi islands I took her with me. She was with me for four days and nights. I ended up giving her around $150 dollars to pay her "motor scooter payment" and paid for all her food at the restaurants we ate. She was also handy when we were shopping because they have "foreigner prices" and "local prices" at some places.

A funny thing happen when I was on Phi Phi Island. I wanted to go to a bar a watch some thai boxing, the girl decided to stay in and sleep in the bungalow. I had talked to a lot of women on ThaiCupid and skyped with quite a few that were in thailand before my trip and had forgotten most of them when I settled for the ones that were the best looking. When I was staggering back from the bar late at night on the windy streets (if that's what you want to call them. There are no cars on Phi Phi) down this particularly dark street and some girl lifts up this tent and says "you want massage?", of course I wanted a message. Then in the middle of my "happy ending" she says Your name is ________ right? The girl knew my name because we had skyped! She was in Cambodia at the time we were skyping but had gone down to Phi Phi to make some money. a million girls giving massages in Thailand and I stagger down the street of to find a girl I had skyped with when I was thousands of miles from that spot and her hundreds.

So just a little info to nudge you in that direction. And I'm hoping that the moderator doesn't yell at me for this huge plug about Thailand in the Cartagena thread.

[Turgid]

Have to agree with Linjyjo comments on Brazil. It was terrible, never been so scared in my life, not a good place at all. Way past it's prime. I am not a big fan of Colombia either, but Brazil made me appreciate Colombia.

I will stick with both Mexico and Russia.

I have been pursuing our hobby now for well over 40 years and can state categorically that the best sex I've had outside of the US has been in Brazil followed closely by El Salvador. The women most to my taste have been in Germany. Must confess though that I'd love, absolutely love, to bang Kadashian. Never been to Russia.

[Black Page]

I read the last 10 pages and didn't find anything interesting in case of a hotel. Other information are fine. Other guys had the same question. Short time hotels around clock tower area is not what I'm looking for. Juan at Airbnb was written, but is it Chica friendly? Others are expect names while booking.

So once again, I'm looking for a low budget hotel and Chica friendly close to the action. Beaches or clock tower area. At the Bogota thread my question was answered pretty well. I guess here are also guys with helpful information.

I made a search for "hotel" and "Black Page" in this thread. You know there is a "Search" tool here. I spent more time than you reading the last 10 pages, so a question comes spontaneous: why my time has less value than yours? People is reluctant to spoon feed, so you should not be surprised if you are not overwhelmed by responses to your question.

First and most important: ALL higher-end hotels in Colombia, and especially in Cartagena, are ZERO girl-friendly. They do whatevere they can to discourage people to bring "guests". Period.
Colombians do HATE seeing men bringing putas to their hotel, where they go with their family.
Colombians take girls to short-time hotels, which can be sketchy and cheap, or expensive motels which you would not see in our sad origin countries.

You will NOT find a hotel like the one you want in CTG, unless it is a hotel which also welcomes 1-hour guests. In such a case, it is not a hotel where you would like to stay.

Making a search for "hotel" and "Black Page" (yes, so simple), I found the following posts of mine, where I address your question.
http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post2068290
http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post1694710
http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post1694886

Besides my posts, there is the precious List to check, with all important addresses listed (but some are outdated).

Advice: look for an apartment to rent, and before finalizing ask the magic question "What is the guest policy at night? Might I take some friends with me?
Some of the better condos do not even allow guests to enter after sunset, imagine overnight, as if they were hotels.

[The Tall Man]

You are definitely off the mark there.

I share time between Colombia and Brazil.

Mostly Medellin and Rio de Janeiro and So Paulo.

Your stereotype view of Brazil is way off.

I too prefer the sexy flaquitas, with curves, and Brazil is packed with them.

IMO the best women on the planet!

To brush off Brazil like that is doing yourself a disservice IMO.

Doesn't have to be expensive either.

I got to agree as Medellin is my home for a few years now but I have visited Brazil, specifically Rio twice and found many flaquitas that rocked my world. They have all types to suit every perverted taste.

The Tall Man.

[Balboa]

I disagree that conversation and flirting loses its luster using translator.

Really? Hard to believe you actually think that, Lol.

Anyway, I enjoy your posts.

Keep enjoying your travels!

[Balboa]

Have to agree with Linjyjo comments on Brazil. It was terrible, never been so scared in my life, not a good place at all. Way past it's prime. I am not a big fan of Colombia either, but Brazil made me appreciate Colombia.

I will stick with both Mexico and Russia.

Totally disagree with you, however, good luck in Mexico!

[Linyjo]

I doubt that a gringo that speaks Spanish well is a turn off, LOL.

I speak Spanish and Portugus very well, but will always have that foreigner accent that they dig.

Add to your list of that stuff that girls like:

Communicate.

They love to talk, tell you all their shit, and have you really listen and respond.

When you can make them smile and laugh as well it's a huge bonus, as I'm sure you know.

Sorry, but conversation, flirting, etc, loses its luster thru google translate, LOL.

I agree that communication is important.

I disagree that conversation and flirting loses its luster using translator. At least not in my experiences. It has never been a problem or a hindrance. My remedial Spanish is enough to flirt. I just never had any issues with language and girls.

[DramaFree11]

You are definitely off the mark there.

I share time between Colombia and Brazil.

Mostly Medellin and Rio de Janeiro and So Paulo.

Your stereotype view of Brazil is way off.

I too prefer the sexy flaquitas, with curves, and Brazil is packed with them.

IMO the best women on the planet!

To brush off Brazil like that is doing yourself a disservice IMO.

Doesn't have to be expensive either.

Have to agree with Linjyjo comments on Brazil. It was terrible, never been so scared in my life, not a good place at all. Way past it's prime. I am not a big fan of Colombia either, but Brazil made me appreciate Colombia.

I will stick with both Mexico and Russia.

[Balboa]

Language has never been an issue for me. I know enough words to get the jist of what she is saying but can't hold conversations. I use translator a lot. I wonder if a Gringo that speaks Spanish too well is a turn off or red flag for some of the girls that are not full time professionals. I dunno. I just know I never had an issue with language barrier and try to make it fun for both of us, turning it into she is teaching me Spanish, even if I already know the words. Chicks seem to dig that.

I doubt that a gringo that speaks Spanish well is a turn off, LOL.

I speak Spanish and Portugués very well, but will always have that foreigner accent that they dig.

Add to your list of that stuff that girls like:

Communicate.

They love to talk, tell you all their shit, and have you really listen and respond.

When you can make them smile and laugh as well it's a huge bonus, as I'm sure you know.

Sorry, but conversation, flirting, etc, loses its luster thru google translate, LOL.

[Balboa]

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Brazil, meh, long flights and expensive digs. I'm not much for big butts anyway, I like supermodel bodies not Kardashian fat.

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You are definitely off the mark there.

I share time between Colombia and Brazil.

Mostly Medellin and Rio de Janeiro and São Paulo.

Your stereotype view of Brazil is way off.

I too prefer the sexy flaquitas, with curves, and Brazil is packed with them.

IMO the best women on the planet!

To brush off Brazil like that is doing yourself a disservice IMO.

Doesn't have to be expensive either.

[Linyjo]

Nice reports, I remember reading about your adventures with this girl for a while now. How did you find this girl? I'd be interested in finding a similar arrangement, any tips for someone that speaks spanish?

As I recall your arrangement initially was a paid arrangement, how did you transition into a non-paid arrangement?

I guess I could have said it more simply.

As a 25 year married monger, my experience in life with woman has taught me that:

Women want men to do things for them outside the bedroom.

Men want women to do things for them inside the bedroom.

When one side is supplying the other side with what they want, they both usually get what they want.

[Linyjo]

I read the last 10 pages and didn't find anything interesting in case of a hotel. Other information are fine. Other guys had the same question. Short time hotels around clock tower area is not what I'm looking for. Juan at Airbnb was written, but is it Chica friendly? Others are expect names while booking.

So once again, I'm looking for a low budget hotel and Chica friendly close to the action. Beaches or clock tower area. At the Bogota thread my question was answered pretty well. I guess here are also guys with helpful information.

All of Juans properties are chica friendly but most are located in El Liquito which is a good place to base.

There are plenty of condos on the beach that allow girls, you just have to weed through them. Send a message to the host on Airbnb and ask what the guest policy is. A lot of us won't share property names because it gets ruined by the heavy traffic and the mongers who don't know how to behave. If you just put in a little work, you will find them.

[Linyjo]

The security takes their job seriously and they paid attention to the Chicas who are registered as visitors.

I never give them a hard time, I know they just doing their job. I always protest the wristbands, I claim it is a security issue, I don't want my girl walking around outside showing where she is staying. They always either let me carry the thing in my pocket or put it on my wrist so loose that I can take it on and off when I want. After they are agreeable and make exceptions for me, a 10 K or 20 K tip is always the best way to show some love back and get them to remember you.

Thanks for sharing, I would try this app next time. It would help me tremendously by doing breakfast run etc for me.

It is very convenient. If you don't have a girl making you breakfast, this is a good alternative for sure. Especially for liquor, soda, mixers, beer, snacks and cigarettes. You start to party a bit and don't want to run to the store. Rappi has it at your door in 30 minutes. Living like a boss!

Don't expect too much from Thailand. If you have never been there, give it a try. But I always feel the experience in Bangkok and Pattaya to be underwhelming. I prefer my experience in Manila and Angeles

I have been all over Europe, Amsterdam, Brussels, London, Paris, Berlin, Stuttgart, Hamburg, Cologne, Prague, Barcelona, Rome and many others. Euro scene was fun in its time buts its so mechanical.

I have been to every country in central america and Costa Rica many many times. Cheap trips, hit or miss girls and safety issues except for Costa Rica and Panama. Those two place have reasonable security and you can find some real gems for girls, mostly imports.

Colombia I have been to Bogota once and Cartagena a dozen times. Top notch woman, great prices, reasonably safe except Bogota can get a bit sketchy.

So what's left on the hit list?

Brazil, meh, long flights and expensive digs. I'm not much for big butts anyway, I like supermodel bodies not Kardashian fat.

Dominican Republic, will hit it one day, Blackbeards just for the check mark but Sosua sounds like a cesspool and I don't want to die having a drink, so will wait on that one.

Asia is the big ticket item I want to hit before I get too old to enjoy. Both Thailand and Philippines and on the list. I agree with you from what I read the Philippines sounds the better place for what I like in girls, total GFE and spending a few days with the same girl before trading her out. I'm not a 1 or 2 hour guy with a girl. I like to have multiple sessions as after that first one or two, the sex gets much better if there is chemistry and the its just boom boom barriers come down.

My hesitation is the security aspect. It just seems Thailand is much more safe to visit.

I will keep doing research and price them out. I guess with a 2 week trip I could hit both places and get a taste to see which I enjoy more.

[Linyjo]

Cartagena: Vendors on every sidewalk, If you talk to one, 3-4 others will line up behind him, getting in line to pitch to you next. I have said "no moleste" which means do not bother me and they reply, "I'm working!" then they say "this is not your country."

Other problem is the heat, its just too hot except for December, January and Feb. Only one shopping mall to walk around in. Have gotten tired of Cartagena.

Bogota is better for temperature, if you can take the elevation and getting winded climbing a flight of steps.

Medellin is a good compromise.

I hear you but there is something special about being at the ocean and the beach. It is supposed to be a trip to paradise so the environment makes a difference. Plus flying into Cartagena is always quicker and cheaper than the others.

It's the same in Costa Rica. Would you rather be in San Jose or take the extra jaunt and go to Jaco Beach? The beach scene always feels more like a vacation and tends to be more laid back.

[Linyjo]

Nice reports, I remember reading about your adventures with this girl for a while now. How did you find this girl? I'd be interested in finding a similar arrangement, any tips for someone that speaks spanish?

As I recall your arrangement initially was a paid arrangement, how did you transition into a non-paid arrangement?

Nice reports, I remember reading about your adventures with this girl for a while now. How did you find this girl?

My trips from 2 years ago I hooked with a girl named Claudia. I saw her 2 years ago and did a repeat with her last year. We would wife up for 4 to 7 days and became friends and stayed in contact. When I booked my first trip this year in April, I contacted her and she said she would be on vacation in Argentina with her family so we would not see each other. She then offered to hook me up with a girl she went to college with. I accepted her offer and she sent me the contact info for Maria.

As I recall your arrangement initially was a paid arrangement, how did you transition into a non-paid arrangement?

I cut and paste this from my trip report from back in April.

"Sunday.

Woke up and had another round of sex. Had breakfast and I asked her if she wanted to go to the pool before she left today? She looked at me confused and said I thought you are staying until Tuesday. I said I was but when we talked, we agreed on three nights. She asked don't you want me to stay with you until you go? I want to stay with you, she said. I asked how much she expected for the extra two nights, I was already in 900 K and travel costs. She said nothing, I am having a lot of fun and we are having fun together. You are happy with me, yes? I asked again, that you are staying for free, to make sure that I don't have a problem at the end. She said yes. I said OK and told her to go get ready to go to the beach or the pool, whichever she wanted."

After I went home from that trip, she contacted me and asked when am I coming back to see her. I told her soon and asked her how much she expected to get paid for the week. She said nothing, just cover my travel costs. She said she liked me and was having a lot of fun, she got to vacation at the beach and enjoyed our chemistry and good sex. We just kept it going. I have visited her 3 times over the last 2 months for a week at a time. We say I love you and every trip feels like a honeymoon. Deep down we both know we just having fun, it just makes it better to have some feelings and it makes the sex much better too.

I'd be interested in finding a similar arrangement

It's about chemistry and the quality of the people you interact with. She was not a prostitute, she was just a friend of a college girl. I think that helps to flip the script a bit. She told me after the first trip, she felt a bit dirty or uncomfortable accepting money for sex, especially from someone she liked and enjoyed being with. She was not looking to prostitute herself, she was looking for some fun and to get away to the beach with a boyfriend without all the hassle of maintaining a relationship.

It happened with Claudia too. She was a semi pro, college girl hooking up with guys every couple of months to help pay for college. After our first visit she stopped charging me and just wanted to have fun.

For me, It has happened with a few other girls too, usually just an extra night or two, not like this where she spends a week with me. There has been many times where I paid a girl for a night and she ended up staying two or three.

It's not rocket science, they are just girls. Treat them well, be kind, be attentive, don't treat them like a object for sex and things turn quickly. You can see from the writings on the board how they get treated by a lot of guys. Be different. Don't treat them like slaves and they become a slave to your kindness. Groom yourself well, smell nice, be a gentleman, don't always be in t-shirt, shorts and sandals. Don't stay in shit hole places, get comfortable and stylish condos at the beachfront. Ask her what she wants to do, where she wants to go, what she likes to drink, what she likes to eat instead of just dragging her around like an after thought forcing her to do what you want all the time. Make her think her being happy matters to you, even if it doesn't. It's all an act, a show.

It helps if you are attentive during sex and are good in bed. Make sure she is pleased and having many orgasms instead of just taking what you want and satisfying yourself. She is a woman, treat her with respect and act like you care about her, that's all any woman wants. Treat her like you are courting her and she will treat you like a king. Treat her like a sex worker and she will treat you like a John.

any tips for someone that speaks spanish?

Language has never been an issue for me. I know enough words to get the jist of what she is saying but can't hold conversations. I use translator a lot. I wonder if a Gringo that speaks Spanish too well is a turn off or red flag for some of the girls that are not full time professionals. I dunno. I just know I never had an issue with language barrier and try to make it fun for both of us, turning it into she is teaching me Spanish, even if I already know the words. Chicks seem to dig that.