Cartagena Reports

[Ricker]

. I'm traveling with 8 other Italian-Americans for a bachelor party. All of us in our 30's good looking and in great shape. Fun to party with and not shy on spending $.

We just secured a hellacious pad and ready to take Cartagena.

Good one Ricker, Costagena!

I propose: Goombagena, or Guidogena

Oh brother, feels like I blinked and everything changed.

That's cool though, just hangin' in new places.

[Ricker]

... But for the sex and good times and being able to parade all around town with a sharp, well spoken, college educated, hottie (who has never accepted money for sex, has never been passed around the gringo circuit, isn't on MSN Messenger or dating websites trolling for soon to be visiting vacationers, nor has slept with half the guys in town) I am making out like a bandit.

Sounds very nice. But does or will this girl have a desire to "advance" the relationship sooner or later? And when you get bored or it ends, will it end with drama or tears?

I'm not you but if I was living and dating locally in Medellin or Lima Peru which is my other frequent destination and possibly a permanent one soon, I'd actually feel better if part of any relationship with a non-pro was based on some kind of financial support to supplement her meager income. Because I always crave variety and hate being tied down I would also make clear the relationship be explicitly NSA. If I'm supposed to be sincere and faithful I would suffer from one of two negative feelings, either guilt when I just have to tap some new strange and lie to my girl about that or worse, risk being found out, or "caged-in" if I force myself to be unnaturally monogamous living in a place of pussy abundance.

I have to agree with the LuckyEddie on this.

It sure is nice to hang with a girl who makes her own money, won't accept financial support and would actually be offended if you tried, and is with you because she really does like you.

I still haven't found that type relationship in Colombia, never have, but I have it now in Brazil.

It's nice.

Now do I still get that craving for variety and the chase? Of course.

For me that's where the PFP comes in to play, and I dabble in that for some fun and I have to accept that's who I am, but I do enjoy eventually coming back to the girl who digs me.

Do you live in Medellin full time? Or just visit frequently and / or for long periods of time? Does she have Facebook? Take a look at what and which guys post on her wall or who's wall she posts on. Chances are that's who's she's banging when you leave town. Or if not thats her "dick in a glass case" "break in case of emergency" novio when she feels like it or if you fuck up. If she tells you that she doesn't have Facebook it's a lie beacause every single Colombiana i know under 30 has one. They will create 2 or more profiles. 1 sanitized that she will share with you and one for her friends using pseudo names like (Princessa 89) and things like this. I figured its best to not be "friends" with girls I become serious with because it just adds to much pressure and stress to a relationship. Just enjoy the time when we are together and thatssss it!

Hahaha. I'm with ya Heat, lots of these chicas are 'playas', but surely not all of them.

Believe it or not, there are some keepers out there.

Hasta pronto.

[MiamiHeatLuver]

This is so true in the US.

But in a 3rd world country with a 3rd world girlfriend who has a decent job it is exactly the opposite.

My current girl is on the pill, no kids, all 3 inputs open for business, swallows, totally GFE, freak in bed, has her own bedroom in an apartment she shares with her sister and answers to no one. The family lives 4 hours away on the outskirts and every member has a job.

I pay for the cine twice a month, dinner once a week and many times we just watch TV and bum around the mall. She gets up at 5:30AM to get to the office by 7:30AM and when she gets home at 6:30PM she has to cook her lunch for the next day. She's dog tired. We are not in a discoteque every night. I am the one having to drag her out.

On my birthday she took me out and pays for dinner in Lleras. When she got her year end bonus she took me out for drinks.

What I spend on her a month has to be under 200K. She is a 1-2 drink maximum. I do spend a good deal on gift days like birthday, Chirstmas, Dia de Amor Amistad.

But for the sex and good times and being able to parade all around town with a sharp, well spoken, college educated, hottie (who has never accepted money for sex, has never been passed around the gringo circuit, isn't on MSN Messenger or dating websites trolling for soon to be visiting vacationers, nor has slept with half the guys in town) I am making out like a bandit.

Do you live in Medellin full time? Or just visit frequently and / or for long periods of time? Does she have Facebook? Take a look at what and which guys post on her wall or who's wall she posts on. Chances are that's who's she's banging when you leave town. Or if not thats her "dick in a glass case" "break in case of emergency" novio when she feels like it or if you fuck up. If she tells you that she doesn't have Facebook it's a lie beacause every single Colombiana i know under 30 has one. They will create 2 or more profiles. 1 sanitized that she will share with you and one for her friends using pseudo names like (Princessa 89) and things like this. I figured its best to not be "friends" with girls I become serious with because it just adds to much pressure and stress to a relationship. Just enjoy the time when we are together and thatssss it!

[John Gault]

This is so true in the US.

But in a 3rd world country with a 3rd world girlfriend who has a decent job it is exactly the opposite.

My current girl is on the pill, no kids, all 3 inputs open for business, swallows, totally GFE, freak in bed, has her own bedroom in an apartment she shares with her sister and answers to no one. The family lives 4 hours away on the outskirts and every member has a job.

I pay for the cine twice a month, dinner once a week and many times we just watch TV and bum around the mall. She gets up at 5:30AM to get to the office by 7:30AM and when she gets home at 6:30PM she has to cook her lunch for the next day. She's dog tired. We are not in a discoteque every night. I am the one having to drag her out.

On my birthday she took me out and pays for dinner in Lleras. When she got her year end bonus she took me out for drinks.

What I spend on her a month has to be under 200K. She is a 1-2 drink maximum. I do spend a good deal on gift days like birthday, Chirstmas, Dia de Amor Amistad.

But for the sex and good times and being able to parade all around town with a sharp, well spoken, college educated, hottie (who has never accepted money for sex, has never been passed around the gringo circuit, isn't on MSN Messenger or dating websites trolling for soon to be visiting vacationers, nor has slept with half the guys in town) I am making out like a bandit.

Eddie, you are my hero. Really

[Golfinho]

sounds very nice. but does or will this girl have a desire to "advance" the relationship sooner or later? and when you get bored or it ends, will it end with drama or tears?

if i'm supposed to be sincere and faithful i would suffer from one of two negative feelings, either guilt when i just have to tap some new strange and lie to my girl about that or worse, risk being found out, or "caged-in" if i force myself to be unnaturally monogamous living in a place of pussy abundance.

+1.

even if 'bandit' was used as a figure of speech, the term still speaks for something that didn't sound good.

[Speculator]

This is so true in the US.

But in a 3rd world country with a 3rd world girlfriend who has a decent job it is exactly the opposite.

My current girl is on the pill, no kids, all 3 inputs open for business, swallows, totally GFE, freak in bed, has her own bedroom in an apartment she shares with her sister and answers to no one. The family lives 4 hours away on the outskirts and every member has a job.

I pay for the cine twice a month, dinner once a week and many times we just watch TV and bum around the mall. She gets up at 5:30AM to get to the office by 7:30AM and when she gets home at 6:30PM she has to cook her lunch for the next day. She's dog tired. We are not in a discoteque every night. I am the one having to drag her out.

On my birthday she took me out and pays for dinner in Lleras. When she got her year end bonus she took me out for drinks.

What I spend on her a month has to be under 200K. She is a 1-2 drink maximum. I do spend a good deal on gift days like birthday, Chirstmas, Dia de Amor Amistad.

But for the sex and good times and being able to parade all around town with a sharp, well spoken, college educated, hottie (who has never accepted money for sex, has never been passed around the gringo circuit, isn't on MSN Messenger or dating websites trolling for soon to be visiting vacationers, nor has slept with half the guys in town) I am making out like a bandit.

Yes, but you are LuckyEddie

[Cuero99]

This is so true in the US.

But in a 3rd world country with a 3rd world girlfriend who has a decent job it is exactly the opposite.

My current girl is on the pill, no kids, all 3 inputs open for business, swallows, totally GFE, freak in bed, has her own bedroom in an apartment she shares with her sister and answers to no one. The family lives 4 hours away on the outskirts and every member has a job.

I pay for the cine twice a month, dinner once a week and many times we just watch TV and bum around the mall. She gets up at 5:30AM to get to the office by 7:30AM and when she gets home at 6:30PM she has to cook her lunch for the next day. She's dog tired. We are not in a discoteque every night. I am the one having to drag her out.

On my birthday she took me out and pays for dinner in Lleras. When she got her year end bonus she took me out for drinks.

What I spend on her a month has to be under 200K. She is a 1-2 drink maximum. I do spend a good deal on gift days like birthday, Chirstmas, Dia de Amor Amistad.

But for the sex and good times and being able to parade all around town with a sharp, well spoken, college educated, hottie (who has never accepted money for sex, has never been passed around the gringo circuit, isn't on MSN Messenger or dating websites trolling for soon to be visiting vacationers, nor has slept with half the guys in town) I am making out like a bandit.

Sounds very nice. But does or will this girl have a desire to "advance" the relationship sooner or later? And when you get bored or it ends, will it end with drama or tears?

I'm not you but if I was living and dating locally in Medellin or Lima Peru which is my other frequent destination and possibly a permanent one soon, I'd actually feel better if part of any relationship with a non-pro was based on some kind of financial support to supplement her meager income. Because I always crave variety and hate being tied down I would also make clear the relationship be explicitly NSA. If I'm supposed to be sincere and faithful I would suffer from one of two negative feelings, either guilt when I just have to tap some new strange and lie to my girl about that or worse, risk being found out, or "caged-in" if I force myself to be unnaturally monogamous living in a place of pussy abundance.

[LuckyEddie]

At some point in your life you will acknowledge the fact that. :

"The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less."

This is so true in the US.

But in a 3rd world country with a 3rd world girlfriend who has a decent job it is exactly the opposite.

My current girl is on the pill, no kids, all 3 inputs open for business, swallows, totally GFE, freak in bed, has her own bedroom in an apartment she shares with her sister and answers to no one. The family lives 4 hours away on the outskirts and every member has a job.

I pay for the cine twice a month, dinner once a week and many times we just watch TV and bum around the mall. She gets up at 5:30AM to get to the office by 7:30AM and when she gets home at 6:30PM she has to cook her lunch for the next day. She's dog tired. We are not in a discoteque every night. I am the one having to drag her out.

On my birthday she took me out and pays for dinner in Lleras. When she got her year end bonus she took me out for drinks.

What I spend on her a month has to be under 200K. She is a 1-2 drink maximum. I do spend a good deal on gift days like birthday, Chirstmas, Dia de Amor Amistad.

But for the sex and good times and being able to parade all around town with a sharp, well spoken, college educated, hottie (who has never accepted money for sex, has never been passed around the gringo circuit, isn't on MSN Messenger or dating websites trolling for soon to be visiting vacationers, nor has slept with half the guys in town) I am making out like a bandit.

[LuckyEddie]

Good one Ricker, Costagena!

I propose: Goombagena, or Guidogena

[John Gault]

I have been reading this talking about young verse old and Paying pro's verse non pro's and getting free action from pro's.

I guess it is time for my opinion. As most likely one of the older guys on this forum who can hang with anyone young or old, I must say I think the main point is being missed here. First off when you pay it is the most honest transaction you can get. After you are finished you don't have to lie or play games with the girl. You just move on to the next one. Also the thought is always there, does she really like me or is she looking for that coveted ticket to the USA?

I think 99% of us have all had non Pro's at one time or another so what is the big deal about it? Forget all this bragging and get to the real issue, that is am I getting a awesome experence?

For me I hunt all the time (I travel almost every month for long amounts of time) and keep trying out new girls. The result is I have a solid Pro or two in every country I have been to. This enables me to have a total GFE whenever I choose.

To sum up. Leave your egos and the door (myself included as I have bragged a little here) and look for great experences not numbers and false hopes.

[DR1470]

Hey BlackHawk,

Like to see you in action.

Just wondering if you possess all these God Gifted skills then why do you have to travel to 3rd world countries to troll for women?

If you even have a fraction of the attributes you claim you wouldn't have to leave your backyard to find beautiful women. Just ask Heff or any Hollywood badboy.

Either you're not what you claim or your skills have seriously eroded to the point where you're trying to recapture your youth. Hence the fact that you've turned to prostitutes to feed your starving ego. ROTFLMAO.

Of course you can prove us wrong!

I'll be there with 8 other buddies on March 22. If you think you can hang and keep up with us? Look me up!

At some point in your life you will acknowledge the fact that. :

"The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less."

[Gonzo]

Damn right Jersey Shore it would be legendary to be there at the same time as your crowd as it sounds just like my boys just different coasts. I will take all the advise I can piece together as to definitely go to LDV and Cafe Del Mar etc. N definitely stay away from a Tony at Playa Hollywood. Thanks for everything guys.

Oh no. 8 goombahs in CTG! (I'm a goombah too). Blackhawk69 will help you out for sure! Also, you don't necessarily have to avoid Tony, simply show up around 4:30 or 5:00 when all the hooking up finishes up and Tony doesn't have enuf time to rip you off. Just keep Playa Hollywood as a contingency plan if you want sumpin-sumpin in the late afternoon, and you don't have any yet.

Good one Ricker, Costagena! It's mostly true, prices do vary, had 2 below market, but they are rising in general. It's annoying. And the 3-ways are very costly!

Blackhawk69, thanks for the compliment, I can keep up with the young chicas for a while, but eventually they wear me down. Most of the time here I'm feeling very satisfied, sometimes tired, sometimes I wish I had 3 johnsons.

[Hillbilly69]

A girl my younger wingman and I hooked up with 125k pesos. We both tagged her me once him twice LOL out of LDV.

He got another for 120k pesos pic later and one off beach yesterday for 50k pesos not bad.

Nice to run into you again Locogringo.

[Tar Heel Bred]

Heh. Okay I am going to be serious, as I have done a lot of traveling around South America and hung around the young good looking traveling guys in the backpacking hotels, told stories, had fun, but NEVER did they outpull me for girls. Not once.

Young, decent looking guys like yourself will have no problem getting girls. This is true. Go to the disco and you will get attention. HOWEVER, over in the corner you see that guy, that 40 something guy sitting at the bar who is pretty average looking, who is kind of smiling a little when he looks your way? He has already banged every girl that is whispering "que quapo" about you, and he can probably walk up to your new girlfriend and say "excuse me", offer to leave with her, and she will either go or meet him outside as she excuses herself. This is a different game than you are playing, and the field is not level.

I used to bang the smoking hot head bartender at Tequila rocks in Lima all the time. All the locals told me she was out of play. Sometimes would be sucking my * and her phone would ring, and it would be her US serviceman boyfriend who was 22. Last I saw her, she had moved on, quit her job, was hooked up with an american who was living in Lima, age 23, who was quite the handsome young man, and they were engaged to be married.

Ricker had a 19 year old girlfriend in Medellin about 5 years ago, and I was playing around with her younger sister.

This is not Kansas dude. You are out of your leaque.

Not sure the point of your post. Its like your bragging about some older dude that has fucked all the girls in the disco that he PAID for. LOL Anyone can pay for sex, that means nothing. Nothing wrong with paying, I just wouldn't brag about it.

[JersheyShore]

I am one of them! I have been told many many times from the girls, that I am a gift to them from above! There are not to many other guys who have better conversational skills than me, not to mention my physical beauty alone sweeps them off their feet. Anyone who has partied with me from the board here will tell you this. I am all that and more! When the girls get some of the Black Hawk, they are experiencing the taste of heaven. That again, is just keeping it in reality.

Hey BlackHawk,

Like to see you in action.

Just wondering if you possess all these God Gifted skills then why do you have to travel to 3rd world countries to troll for women?

If you even have a fraction of the attributes you claim you wouldn't have to leave your backyard to find beautiful women. Just ask Heff or any Hollywood badboy.

Either you're not what you claim or your skills have seriously eroded to the point where you're trying to recapture your youth. Hence the fact that you've turned to prostitutes to feed your starving ego. ROTFLMAO.

Of course you can prove us wrong!

I'll be there with 8 other buddies on March 22. If you think you can hang and keep up with us? Look me up!