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06-16-23 20:32 #13492
Posts: 637Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
But to sum it up. I wouldn't take face value of 1 local how things are there, I got to multiple sources. For example, I get most of my information from the chicas who work the street and the clubs so I always know what's going on in and around Dolce, Delirium and Space, they will let me know up front the new scams, places to stay away from after certain times, clubs that pulls bait and switch, girls to stay away from, etc.
If you don't have those type of boots on the ground sources then social media is a good alternative.
I've put some reports before of the problems at the beaches, gringos being followed from the airport and robbed at gunpoint, People getting robbed in Getsemani as somehow that area is seeing an increased 2 men on a Motocycle sighting. I guessing the cops no longer have that roadblock preventing them from entering Manga and using the bridge to get over to Getsemani.
Another place to check is Instagram and use it as a resource to be aware of when you see something you can connect the dots and act accordingly rather than get caught off guard.
There are more on Minuto30.
Since you have not been there in over a year, here's a few to keep you aware:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CtbvO4bOlyY/
https://www.instagram.com/p/CryaKFFgfwt/
https://www.instagram.com/p/CsUrfdWA-E5/
https://www.instagram.com/p/CsaITG_A8Xp/
Might not be open:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CtILJsIAjuP/
As always, be cautious, stay safe, and make it home with more good stories than bad ones.
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06-16-23 19:07 #13491
Posts: 1987We are all men up in here. Do not lie to yourself or us!
Thank your for your warm welcome to the community.
Stop being passive aggressive Rzrfl69 and speak to me directly like real man. That is a request not a demand. And everyone who reads my posts needs to do so with their big boy panties on. I do not argue, attack or call names (like many others do). I discuss and share my thoughts. You don't like my thoughts, put me on ignore.
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Exactly what issue am I trying to make?
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Heads up for you Bro. I don't know where you are from. But for he last ten years I have lived in the Dominican Republic. I do not come from sex prison in the DisUnited States of America. I come from a land where young pussy is plentiful and available. But in case you didn't get the memo I have had a passport since got my first job for the government of my country of origin. And it was Diplomatic Passport. The color at that time was red. Pretty heady stuff for young man in his early 20's.
I share this not to brag but to give perspective to you young boys. Anyone with a passport has always been free to travel the world in order to go where they are treated best. Clearly the individuals from the (secret unnamed groups) are doing this after having been smart enough to get their passports, earn enough money to be able to buy a plane ticket to travel to another country, along with paying for the lodging, food and entertainment that they wish.
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
How does how another man spends his money have any affect on you?
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
What a girl expects has absolutely no affect on me. I am going to pay what I am going to pay. And I am going to give what I am going to give. It is a private transaction. And my experience and Spanish speaking ability allow me to tell a girl to to get your money from someone else. I am not paying anymore than I want to pay. The ability to say no and be comfortable with yourself is a very powerful skill. Those who seek more inner power need to master it. We all need to be men and hold frame. And not be moved by what others are doing. There are too many girls out there who would like to just have chance to get by this month. Get out of the tourist areas where these (secret, unnamed) groups operate and into the real world and community that you are visiting. You do speak Spanish, right?
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
My suggestion is for individuals who are not getting what they want out of life to spend some time doing some self examination and self improvement. Having a little backbone never hurt any man. And they might find their lives dramatically improved if they develop themselves instead of just complaining about others.
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
I see jealousy. And I don't understand why. Those with passports and knowledge, who don't like what others who also have passports and enough money to use them, can just use their passports again to travel to a different location. Or they can simply goto the establishments where the individuals of the (secret unnamed) groups that behave in a way that they don't approve off are not going. Worrying about what another man is doing with his dick or money is a violation of Man Law 101 in my opinion and is some mother fuckin, punk * ass girly man shit.
Instead of focusing on others, focus on yourself. Because if you can take care of yourself you will always be happy. You cannot control what others do. After you arrive in a spot and you find the individuals in that spot to no longer be to your liking, move on. You are not promised the experience your are seeking. Real men get it by seeking it out for themselves until they find it.
1,000,000 million people live in Cartagena. And individuals cannot find a place in the entire city where they are comfortable? Or is it that they simply don't feel that others (others in these secret unnamed groups) should have same right to exercise their ability to travel and party in the places that they do?
I keep it real!
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06-16-23 17:44 #13490
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
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06-16-23 16:44 #13489
Posts: 5656Mongering vs Real Relationship
No need for arguing over a matter that is so simple and which the 'arguers' are actually on the same page. P4P is a relationship that is based entirely on money. A 'real' relationship is not based entirely on money, both parties have made a commitment to each other. There are usually several factors that could lead to such a commitment being made and the financial resources of one or other of the parties may be one such factor. Other factors could be looks, background, interests, etc.
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06-16-23 16:29 #13488
Posts: 122We all know what groups, your just trying to make an issue in the community.
Yes it's a huge difference to people going somewhere doing things they couldn't normally afford. To people going there to do things that are legal and accepted in that society.
Massive difference in fact.
Those people don't know how to act. Like they just hit the lottery. Yet then go back home to their tiny existence.
And how does it raise prices? Because girls see these idiots throwing money around and expect that for them. How do you not understand that?
Oh this moron is throwing away $1 bills. He and his friends can afford to give me a lot more if they act like that.
So yes. This immaturity, ignorance, or just plain stupidity is ruining this scene almost everywhere.
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06-16-23 16:20 #13487
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
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06-16-23 06:12 #13486
Posts: 1987All real relationships involve money
I will just speak for myself. All my real relationships have involved money. Because money is life. And by a real relationship I mean emotional connection. That I care about the person beyond just a sexual interest. Now if you are just fucking you can certainly get away with just giving her your dick and walking away. If that is all I want to do, unless it is a hook up I just prefer to pay and keep things clear.
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
I have been married. Twice. And they were real relationships. And they involved money. And can tell you one thing, in my second marriage the sex stopped. But the money kept flowing (until the divorce). I have had plenty of real relationships and they all involve money. Why stop the money if the relationship is good? If I enjoy spending time with a girl I am going to take her out and spend money on her. In a real relationships.
You are big on the definition of what prostitution is. But I think you don't really understand the meaning. Let me clarify it for you:
prostitution, the practice of engaging in relatively indiscriminate sexual activity, in general with someone who is not a spouse or a friend, in exchange for immediate payment in money or other valuables.
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
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06-16-23 01:47 #13485
Posts: 35Originally Posted by Nypher [View Original Post]
I have found and read a couple of the local review boards and am making a contact list. Will probably set up one visit in advance and see how it goes. I am amenable to sticking with one girl to show me around if the price and the girl are right but I will keep at least one night to hunt the clock tower.
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06-16-23 01:47 #13484
Posts: 1987What groups? What show?
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
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06-16-23 01:24 #13483
Posts: 637Originally Posted by Rzrfl69 [View Original Post]
I went in blind and it was not to my liking. A good learning experience, the hard way and now I know from that mistake I was supposed to go to Frankfurt instead of Berlin so my next visit will be different.
http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...=1#post2741920
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06-15-23 23:03 #13482
Posts: 122That's exactly it. That guy taking a girl back to his room isn't effecting anyone else. Instead it's the groups making a show because they are in a country where their dollar travels further.
I think the big point being missed is between those groups going to places they can stretch their dollars. To us going to places were a certain hobby is legal or allowed. Half those guys don't end up taking a girl back at the end of the night, or yeah they think they are falling in love 🤣. So they cause inflated prices, and also pissed off girls.
It's a difference going somewhere and understanding the difference in the dollar to just exploiting it.
For me Cartagena is close and easy. Yes the stay and food is cheap, but I'm not staying in a penthouse and ordering lobster. The lower price just means I can stay longer or go more often.
If Canada had FKK clubs legal, shit I'the probably go there once a year because it's so close. For an example.
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06-15-23 19:16 #13481
Posts: 607Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
If we go to restaurants I will always pay. Why? Because I like expensive wine and fine dining. I wanted to go to these types of restaurants.
My GF is happy with food but I wanted aged steak.
But in the end if you want a relationship with any woman that is considered real men will be financially responsible.
There's a difference between being taken advantage of and simply being a man.
I have no problems with the traditional standards of providing if my girl has no problem of being traditional as well. That's where the issue is.
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06-15-23 18:59 #13480
Posts: 15925Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
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06-15-23 18:55 #13479
Posts: 637Originally Posted by SubCmdr [View Original Post]
To me, I thought it's the new wave of of men from the hip hop community that started travel to developing countries during the pandemic that fall under that label.
The challenge comes along with many people like to follow what they think is popular and trendy at the time. Different people who travel overseas separate themselves into subcategories, there are the Expats, Digital Nomads, Backpackers, etc but lately when overseas drama hits social media of guys acting a fool, take a look at the hashtags attached to the video.
As for how their presence and actions effect me?
When chicas start talking in dollars rather than their local currency.
When chicas want to be paid up front because the previous guy who looks like me fucked her over.
When vendors think they can upcharge me on something because the previous gringos who look like me was being reckless with money.
When clubs tell me I can't come in unless I buy a bottle or table service.
When the younger girls and touts approaching me with "what's up my and* instead of the usual "hola mi amor", or "my friend, my friend".
When certain individuals decide to walk off from the bill at the beach and the guy comes and give me their bill expecting me to pay just because I had the cabana next to them and they asked me a few questions about the nightlife and I told them where to go.
That's just a fraction of it post pandemic. I've learned and adjusted where to spend the majority of my time with limited interactions so I don't get mixed into the BS.
But since you're experienced in Sosua do you remember when Classico's started Bottle service and how all that began?
How about Playa Sosua at the spot with the green Presidente umbrellas? Ever ate there and looked at your bill and wonder why they added things to it that you never ordered?
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06-15-23 18:39 #13478
Posts: 109Originally Posted by Nypher [View Original Post]