Medellin Reports

[Knowledge]

Something we take for granted in the first world is public space design standards. It's not unusual to have to squint or shade your eyes to see past bright spotlights directed at eye level. Sometimes in restaurants I have to angle my chair away from spotlight glare to read the menu or see my table mate. I think part of the problem is the difference between the average height of Colombians and gringos. You have to be really careful with blinding lights while you are walking on broken sidewalks and navigating random deep holes. Some of the buildings around Milla de Oro have floor mounted spotlights on stairs shining into your eyes. It's funny once you get used to it but dangerous until you do.

Tonight was my first time in and around Parque Lleras since the traffic barriers were installed. I really like it, but I've never gone there looking for chicas. It appeared the only automobile traffic allowed inside the barriers was for deliveries, and going to / from the parking garage across from Hooters. I imagine they accommodate taxis going to the hotels to pick up and drop off luggage. The loud bar across from Patrick's had turned down their volume. I think a person could actually hear the sports broadcast in Patrick's now. Many of the bars and restaurants had tables set up in the streets. The hotel across from Lleras Town had three flood lights shining right in the face of anyone walking from the west and south towards the hotel. I hope that will be changed.

[AfternoonSnack]

You'll be required to give grandma a rim job. Don't forget that the correct term is "Beso Negro. " Afterwards, all the men in the family will spank you with bamboo while singing the Colombian National Anthem. At midnight everyone finds a goat to molest. Kind of like Friday night in rural Alabama, but in Spanish.

There will be food, drink and music. Some people will probably be dancing and will urge you to join them. The older generation will be interested in talking to you. The party will probably last until 2 or 3 am. Bring some special snack from home to share. My current favorite is a jar or 2 of bread and butter pickles. Treat it like a family reunion.

Thanks brother. I'll probably try to slip away with the abuela before the goat part starts. Sounds like we'll be on pretty good terms by then anyway.

[Fun Luvr]

Tonight was my first time in and around Parque Lleras since the traffic barriers were installed. I really like it, but I've never gone there looking for chicas. It appeared the only automobile traffic allowed inside the barriers was for deliveries, and going to / from the parking garage across from Hooters. I imagine they accommodate taxis going to the hotels to pick up and drop off luggage. The loud bar across from Patrick's had turned down their volume. I think a person could actually hear the sports broadcast in Patrick's now. Many of the bars and restaurants had tables set up in the streets. The hotel across from Lleras Town had three flood lights shining right in the face of anyone walking from the west and south towards the hotel. I hope that will be changed.

[OldSchool318]

I have a friend from Panama here in the states and she is adamant that every Colombiana she has ever met is actually a prostitute and will take $$$ for sex because it's a part of their culture somehow.

Don't know if that is exactly true however I will say even the Colombianas I have had in a dating situation called me Papi. Ajajajajja.

I dunno but I absolutely love them and plan to fuck their pussies mouths and assholes until my Dick falls off.

[TjBrazil]

I lost count of how many hookers I've been with in Mexico Brazil or Colombia that were texting their boyfriends or husbands after we were done. They had no clue she was a hooker or cheating. Most people can't do monogamy unless they have no options.

[Recondite]

I've had both normal girls I've dated and working girls tell me horror stories about Colombian guys, which has always made me assume they act worse than guys in the US and Europe. However, there are some hard stats that help illustrate the differences between Colombia and Western developed countries:

1) according to a recent study by Tinder / Bumble of over 600,000 Colombians 8 in 10 guys were unfaithful to their partners and 6 in 10 women were unfaithful to their partner. I'm attaching the link. It's in Spanish but it's amusing. Colombia is number 2 for unfaithfulness behind Brazil in Latin America.

https://noticias.caracoltv.com/actua...acionales-rg10

2) Colombia has a way higher level of femicides than the US or Europe (femicides women who are murdered due to their gender). In 2019 there were 570 reported in Colombia a country of over 50 million million. There were 470 reported in the US, a country of over 330 million, and the US is known as the country with the most per capita in the developed world. I had an interesting chat about this with a girl that is studying law in Medellin a while back. I used 2019 because I could easily find stats for that year for both countries.

I think infidelity for men in particular has to do with the culture and the legal system. Men are taught throughout Latin America that having a lot of women is a sign of being a successful man. My father-in-law, who is from Central America, for example, has three or four kids outside of wedlock. Secondly, there are no legal consequences practically for committing violence against women or abandoning kids. I know a couple of women in Medellin who have tried to get child support for their kids from a deadbeat dad but its taken years and both are still waiting for that money (both have six-year-olds). Most don't even bother. As we've seen with scopings, roberries, etc. , the fiscalia (I. E. Prosecutor) does a pretty poor job of investigating and prosecuting most crimes.

[Mr Enternational]

I never said those quotes.

I know man. It was MB, but the website software mistakenly quoted it to you and since the site owner will not take me off moderation I could not go back and change it.

[TjBrazil]

I am an ugly chick, old woman magnet. I don't know if that means I'm ugly, and don't realize it, or my being friendly to all coworkers including ugly ones make them think I'm interested. Weird thing is, I never flirt with unattractive girls. If I'm on lunch break with them, I will talk to them, but I never show sexual interest. One girl said I must be gay because I turned her down. She was a solid 4.

Hot girls on the other hand are like a riddle. You won't solve it unless you say and do and act in a way that triggers her attraction. That takes time.

[TjBrazil]

They are women. They are not some sacred untouchable alien orb. So because I ate pizza today, I can not eat a ribeye tomorrow? Because I drove my car today, I can not ride my motorcycle tomorrow or my bicycle the next day? There is no either or or mutual exclusivity with paying chicks or fucking chicks for free. You know that both can be done right?

Where did you get that understanding from?

I never said those quotes.

[Knowledge]

You are not wrong in my opinion.

Is anyone going to man up and say that even if the girl is not charing them for sex that they spend COP on a girl that has "real" interest in them?

I will.

I have a girl in Colombia. And she is into me for me. And when I am there I spend money on her. And when I am not there I send her money.

Now I will stand back and let people call me dumb, stupid, Western Union Novio (don't use it), Simp or any number of derogatory terms they wish to use to make them feel better after reading about how a situation works for me and the sex is to my liking. A poster said that you cannot have it both ways. That you can pay girls to fuck you. And I would argue that just because you give money to a girl and you are fucking them that does not make you her client or her your prostitute.

I am complete agreement that there is some wack thinking up in here (my opinion) and maybe a step back is in order. However you choose to get your pussy is fine with me. Just don't try to tell me that the way you get your pussy is better than my way of getting pussy.

[Mr Enternational]

Well gee. I wasn't addressing direct pay-4-play but let's not be naive here. We all pay in one way or another. Unless you are a gigolo and the woman pays you.

We may all spend money, but spending money when you are with a chick is not the same as paying to sleep with a chick. There is a difference. You are going to spend money in life whether a chick is with you or not. Hell, I could even go to an expensive steak house and spend $100 when I am alone but go to a buffet and spend $25 for 2 people when I am with a chick.

[MiamiBoy1]

How would you know? Have you ever been out on a date that wasn't transactional in nature? I didn't think so.

You can sugarcoat it as you please, but what Paulie said is damn right. It is a human nature. Take the money or possibility of inheriting shit out of the equation, and your average gringo grandpa becomes a regular pensioner playing dominoes at your local park.

[MiamiBoy1]

I've lived long enough now to know that hot chicks and ugly chicks are 2 different skill sets. Ugly girls are starved for male attention and sex. Guys don't hit on them or pay them no mind. I had a 65 yo women at a sports bar tell me she wanted to F me after talking to me for 10 minutes. Hot chicks don't do that. If ugly chick is a co worker she will immediately hit on you if you are friends. Hot chicks are so much work no matter your age. The 19 yo cashier at Taco Bell was smoking, she must get hit on 20 times a day. The song brickhouse was written for this girl. My late 40's ass at that time would have looked creepy trying to get a date, but I sure as hell would have paid her. That's why I love Brazil. There are a few of those types at one of the termas every time. They aren't in huge abundance anymore since help closed, but they are still there.

To sum up, I go to Brazil to bang hot chicks because I'm too lazy to hit on them in the states. I don't go for ugly chicks.

Exactly. This is why I don't pay to fuck ugly or average chicks. Why would I, if I can get them for free with relatively low effort? Doesn't make any sense. I only pay to fuck women I can't score for free, or women that would take a lot of my time and effort if I tried to fuck them for free. Ugly chicks don't make my dick happy, so I don't care about them, p4 p or not.

[Cuba Tourist]

There must be a list of casas on here but I cannot find it. Can any one point me in the right direction? I am in Medellin for the next week or so so if anyone wants to get together, please send me a PM. Thanks so much.

[JjBee62]

I talk to all of my dates at length before I fuck them & I am talkin hundreds of paisas & I am hard pressed to remember just one who spoke highly of the local men. Of course, hookers are at the lower end of the strata but still, almost 100% speak ill of local men & that is why they are not livin the dream of a husband, children, a house etc. Etc. If a guy was treating my prospective dates good, they would not be selling their snatch for a pittance, Mr. Know=it=all Enternational.

Depending on how I lead a conversation, I can get the same girl to say Colombian men treat her badly, and that Colombian men treat her great.

Almost any Colombian will agree with what you say, no matter what you say. It's deeply ingrained in their culture.

I also spend time talking to girls. Not one has ever mentioned how Colombian men treat her, what she thinks about gringos who overpay, or what she thinks about US politics. I never talk to a working girl about those things, so they never come up.

In the past I spent quite a bit of time with a working girl and her boyfriend. I think now they've been together for about 12 years and have 2 kids together. My impression is that he mostly treats her right.

However, they're poor and he has minimal work skills. He works when he can and she works when she can. Treating her well doesn't feed the family.