Medellin Reports

[KillArmy]

Hello everyone,

First of all: this is not a typical post in here I would say. Sorry for it to be quite long too.

For the last 2 or 3 years; I am basically looking for a girlfriend to stay with. My game is quite OK and I am never shy to go to talk to any woman.

But I am looking for something really specific: a girl, educated, that does not want me to be her sugardaddy all the time, with a skinny top model body.

Sex just for sex doesn't interest me so much any more unless new experiences.

I am 32 y old; super tall; OK looking and European. My first language is French but I speak quite well Spanish. I am living in Medellin for 2 months.

Just came back yesterday from 5 really crazy days. I must say. I really hate myself now, but I guess it makes me feel temporarily better to write about it.

The girl.

5/6 weeks ago, I met this girl in a Parque LLeras club (el deck), had her whatsapp really easily with funny lines like "you are the girl of my life, I want to meet you, blabla".

She is physically my perfection: very skinny but still with a nice and natural ass / boobs combo; rather tall for a local girl (1.69) and has the longest hair I have ever seen. 22 years old.

I met her twice afterwards, we kissed on first date; she told me some really wonderful things like. "I want to know all about you", etc. She is middle class and in her last year as a dentist, she hates if I pay anything for her.

I am basically quickly falling into sentiments. The third date, I invite her at my place to watch some movie and we end up have amazing sex. She has the most beautiful body I have ever seen in real.

She is bisexual, tells me about some of her crazy stories, damn, perfect girl. She told me she wanted to go to EJE Cafetero (Salento, Manizales, etc.) during Semana Santa and I quickly said I would go with her. This is exactly what happened.

But it was not easy. She does not have money since she is still studying and her father is helping her. But the night before we are supposed to go, she is like, I am canceling all because my father is so bad, I can't go; blabla. She is out of her house for +24 hours.

I don't believe her and tell her she is playing with me. She answer me with so crazy messages telling me that "that all our conversations, laughs, the sex we had together, etc, were not a game, that she likes me a lot, etc. ".

I feel in heaven with her answers and the next day. Her father finally gave her money and Tuesday morning, we were in our way to Eje Cafetero.

I am like "Damn, OK, I only know her for a little bit of time but going 5 days in a trip with her is going to make things amazing. " Especially since she is dreaming about traveling but didn't have many opportunities.

When we make it to our amazing hotel near Manizales in our first day, we have amazing sex, she is so beautiful, god I am happy. Once again, she pays everything, we do all 50/50.

There I am, with a girl that I find physically perfect, not with me for my money, a bit crazy like I like, doing very well in her studies, etc. Almost most perfect times ever.

Then. Things start to go down. Second day, she tells me she does not want to have sex with me anymore. Basically, for the 4 other days, we had a once a day really nice masturbation sessions where I would give her an orgasm and she would finish me at handjobing.

Very nice but I don't understand why she doesn't want sex any more.

Then, and that is where I start to hate myself, I basically show too much my sentiments and she doesn't like it. Things like, when we are traveling, I always want to touch her hand or something like that. She doesn't like it.

We have conversations where she tells me that she is still young; that she doesn't care if people think she is a ***** but that she still wants to experiment with many guys and girls.

She wished and I wish that I was the guy that didn't had any feeling about her, just sex and fun.

But I basically never can do that in my life when I start to like a girl. And almost every times, it fucks me. I really think of myself of shit about this. Its like, any girl I really like I will always fuck up things. While most girls I fuck with, that I don't care about, things go quite well.

Then. Things get even worse. 3 days ago, she finally tells me, little by little, that she is thinking about another guy ALL the time. That she thinks to be in couple with him. All the bullshit about not wanting to be in a relation and then this.

The guy is Colombian, 36 why old (god girls love older guys here.), he told her she is in a informal relation with a woman but wants to be with her.

She goes so crazy about it, looking at her whatsapp all the time.

The fucked up thing is they met. Just a little bit before she met me! They had sex only once, when we were already together.

The *****. But before our 5 days trip, she would never show she was thinking about someone else. Once again, she showed me so many signs that I interpreted as 'I really start to like you too'. This whole drama only started during the trip.

What is more horrible than having a girl next to you that is 100% thinking about someone else?

God, this makes me feel so much like shit.

- I think it is almost impossible for a gringo guy, even with good Spanish; to find a paisa girlfriend in a relation non based about money. The nice educated girls, with no kids; they only want Colombian guys.

Plus, even if your Spanish is really good, the conversations with a local educated guy will always be more enjoyable for her. God this fucks me so much to think like that. Is my only viable option, knowing what I want, to be with a girl from my country? (Belgium) I hate the idea.

- She probably saw the guy almost as soon as we arrived to Medellin yesterday night. I tried to go party, to speak to a few girls but came back quite drunk, feeling like shit like never.

I hope it went wrong with the guy but I doubt it. He is probably good to make someone feel crazy like she did with her and even if he only wants a young and fine pussy, he will not fuck his own game.

She told me she was only in love twice in her life and that she had problems about it then (had to go to a psychologist, missed a whole school year, etc.). She is super passionate.

I don't know much what to do now. I plan not to write to her at all for a few days but the Whatsapp attraction is really strong.

Even though the idea fucks me, I guess I am done with her and should grow up and stop to be a drama Queen. But as soon as I will be again alone with my thoughts, not doing much, I will go down again.

°Did some of you have kind of the same stories? What do you think about it? Please, it would be great to read your since thoughts.

°Even though it doesn't make sense with the 'I am totally in love and want a relation with this Colombian guy' bullshit, she told me many times that she would want to have group sex.

I am opened to bisexual relations and she seems to be very fond about the idea. Do you recommend me the Swingers Clubs? I have read about Lili Swinger, is it nice there?

°Last but not least. Where do you recommend me to go out to, I guess I will have no choice, find more girls like her: educated, not looking for money type of girls. Where does university girls go? In my opinion, Parque LLeras is as bad as hell even though you can always get lucky. (I met her there.).

Parque Colombia? Anywhere else? For the story, before I met her, I once went to Bello, we were the only gringos in place and the game was maybe the easiest of my whole life! Had a really nice fuck the next day.

Cheers guys.

[Mr Enternational]

How long does it take the bus to get there? How do I arrange to take the bus back to the airport? How long does it take the bus to get back to the airport?

When I arrive, I usually drop off my bags where I am staying and make a mad dash for pharm/phone/food/cash: Hit the pharmacy, buy minutes for my local phone, change money, get snacks. I know where to get all that in Poblado, and in short order, but can anyone provide locations near the Hotel N?

It takes 50 minutes to get back and forth to the airport. To go back you go to the same place it dropped you off and hop on the next thing smoking. They leave every 30 minutes. I don't know about changing money because I use the ATMs. The one inside Nutibara hotel is one that is accessible 24 hours. Everything else that you mentioned you will find in ample supply all over the area.

P.S. There are restaurants open downtown today. Right now me and my girl are having breakfast at my usual spot.

[Iguana Six]

After you pass out of immigration and go outside there will be 2 green and white buses. One goes to San Diego and the other goes to centro. The people going to Poblado take the San Diego bus then take a taxi from there. The people going downtown take the centro bus and get off at the last stop, which is in front of the bus company's office and behind the Nutibara Hotel. 9000 pesos.

Thank you so much, sir. Once again, our own strange version of Fight Club delivers.

I'm dipping my toes into the Centro action next trip, staying at he Nutibara, and not using a driver to get there.

How long does it take the bus to get there? How do I arrange to take the bus back to the airport? How long does it take the bus to get back to the airport?

When I arrive, I usually drop off my bags where I am staying and make a mad dash for pharm/phone/food/cash: Hit the pharmacy, buy minutes for my local phone, change money, get snacks. I know where to get all that in Poblado, and in short order, but can anyone provide locations near the Hotel N?

[Surf Looker]

Yes visited but also good to keep hearing new info and others opinion.

Never been to this place but seems to be fun and pretty girls.

https://www.instagram.com/explore/locations/1029014894/

Fonda las Chifladas.

Anyone been there!

Are you ever really going to Medellin or are you writing a book? As early as 2009 you have been asking questions about Medellin. By your posts it seems like you know a shitload about the place (way more than me and I have been 5 times since January last year) for someone who has never been, but you still have more questions about the place as well as individual girls. You said you would go last November, but I guess that never happened so now it is back to more questions?

[Mr Enternational]

I'll be visiting MDE next month. I'd like to know more about this bus.

After you pass out of immigration and go outside there will be 2 green and white buses. One goes to San Diego and the other goes to centro. The people going to Poblado take the San Diego bus then take a taxi from there. The people going downtown take the centro bus and get off at the last stop, which is in front of the bus company's office and behind the Nutibara Hotel. 9000 pesos.

[Iguana Six]

I arrived in Medellin Friday night and took the usual bus downtown for 9k pesos. I have never seen the bus leave the airport and not be full, but this time it was only half full.

I'll be visiting MDE next month. I'd like to know more about this bus.

[Dellorto]

I arrived in Medellin Friday night and took the usual bus downtown for 9k pesos. I have never seen the bus leave the airport and not be full, but this time it was only half full. I met another monger on the bus who is retired and said he would be staying about a month. He is staying at a popular downtown hotel where I know other guys who pay $125/month stay. I rattled off some names and he knew the same guys.

Must feel good to arrive in Medellin like you did. This popular downtown hotel you are talking about, which one is that (pm)?

[Mr Enternational]

I arrived in Medellin Friday night and took the usual bus downtown for 9k pesos. I have never seen the bus leave the airport and not be full, but this time it was only half full. I met another monger on the bus who is retired and said he would be staying about a month. He is staying at a popular downtown hotel where I know other guys who pay $125/month stay. I rattled off some names and he knew the same guys.

When we got off the bus I peeked up the street and it appeared Barra and Maracaibo were closed. As a matter of fact downtown looked like a ghost town. No worries for me though because my girl was already in the room waiting. I had to make a brief stop by the front desk so the lady could copy my passport for immigration purposes.

When I got to the room I was ready to fuck. My girl said that we would have to wait until midnight because it was Good Friday. It was only 10:30. I told her enough with the superstitous shit. Soon we were doing the horizontal rumble and were off to sleep. I woke up at 5am to her sucking my dick and soon after we were asleep again.

I thought we would be out doing things Saturday but she only wanted to lounge in the room. She even sent me to breakfast alone and had me bring something back for her. We stayed in the room all day fucking and watching TV. My girl even brought Vaseline because she wanted to try anal for the first time. There was no hope in getting my big dick in her small [CodeWord116] chute though. We fucked so much that she started crying. I asked what was wrong and she said her pussy was sore. I asked why she would want to keep fucking if it was hurting. She said because she really wanted to be with me. I said that is fine, but don't do it to the point that you are hurting.

She did not leave the room until 8 pm when we went to the casino for dinner. From the looks of it downtown was in full swing. Now when I was dining at the casino last month with Dcfan and a couple of buddies, I did not see any women to talk to, but as Murphy's Law would have it, since I was with my girl then there were two hotties working there that I would have liked to chat up. We went back to the room and were asleep by 10.

My girl tells me that since tomorrow is Easter, we will be lucky to even find food.

Usually when I come here I am hanging out mongering with the fellas and only in the room minimum time. But let me tell you that it is hot as a mf in this room all day and night with no AC. If I ever plan on just staying with the same chick again then I will surely get an apartment so I can have more creature comforts. This place is great if you are only in it to sleep or fuck, but for chillin out it is for the birds.

[Mr Enternational]

Wake up in morning.

Morning: Head to Centro- best top 2 casas based on reviews has been I believe NEW LIFE and Zandalay and??

Are you ever really going to Medellin or are you writing a book? As early as 2009 you have been asking questions about Medellin. By your posts it seems like you know a shitload about the place (way more than me and I have been 5 times since January last year) for someone who has never been, but you still have more questions about the place as well as individual girls. You said you would go last November, but I guess that never happened so now it is back to more questions?

[Surf Looker]

Wake up in morning.

Morning: Head to Centro- best top 2 casas based on reviews has been I believe NEW LIFE and Zandalay and??

Afternoon: After getting some rest back to the casas or make an appointment with one your FB / Mansion girls or Colombian Cupid / RomanceLatina girls.

Evening: Top 3 strip clubs I believe is Fase Dos, San Diego and?

Top 3 discos for gringos to find putas. Gusto, Farenheight, Luxury Club??

After the strip club closes and after your done with your girl- Head to? I can't recall the place but I believe there is something open until 4 am or where the strip club girls go.

To.

[World Jockey]

I regard Argentinian women as the most beautiful in this hemisphere. Others may not but I am also absolutely mesmerized by Chinese women and also Italian and Ukrainian women. I consider these four to be the most beautiful on the planet.

My top would be Ethiopian, Colombian, Iranian, Japanese / Chinese / Korean (I honestly can't tell them apart by looking)/ Armenian.

I spent a couple of weeks in Medellin and I wasn't impressed with the quality of the girls at the casas, yet I saw gorgeous girls in the city, on the metro, out and about.

Is Facebook a better option to find beautiful girls? I did see a few beauties in Fase dos and La isla. I'm a face person, so no mater how perfect their body is, if the face is not gorgeous, it's a no go for me.

Where are the 10's?

I'm going back again soon. PM me if you want to share any FB contacts of gorgeous girls in Medellin.

Thanks!

No doubt the city if filled with head turners but how many casas did you visit?

What do you consider a 10? Knowing your type can help fellas lead you to a casa that has it.

Surprised you are returning considering.

Private apartment, studio on Airbnb is anywhere from $30-$60 for a nice one bedroom and some with washer and dryer and fridge. In El Poblado, LLeras.

No hassles with bringing in guest.

What are the pros of hotels. Other then room service and cleaning.

If I plan on just hanging out with a local novia or two the entire trip; who will cook and do my laundry Apartmento is cool.

However if I am doing a mongering trip something close and cheap is what's needed.

An well-educated Paisa might appreciate you using proper espanol, but the prepagos, taxistas, et al don't give a shit. For the most part, they don't use anything close to correct Spanish.

Sometimes I text and email girls I meet online and think "how is my spelling in Spanish better than yours" no doubt some is slang but I think some is just poor writing skills.

….As a matter of fact, one of them called to book it for me for my next stay at the end of the week. I am not out to try to impress a chica. They need to be trying to impress me.

"Eres grosero." LOL they sure love dropping that where you don't say or do what they want. Ja Ja.

[World Jockey]

Portenas are generally both boring and in comparison, I did not want to say it, but they are really UGLY. Arrogant and ugly, go to the northwest in Argentina and you are in Latin America. Buenos Aires. I lived there for a year, my first one in LA, so I didn't understand better.

A prominent, and more important, open, journalist wrote about it. He was more diplomatic, saying that portenas are conservatives, so they don't have boyfriends, they dedicate themself do studies, gym, the family, friends; and "noches manuales".

An american I met at UPB in Medellin said the same thing, rumors says one thing, they are completely false. Hookering are strictly for underclass ugly girls, older, or from the poor provinces. At Energy on Cra 74, two of the hottest girls lived just some blocks away and one was practically living 100 yards from me on Circular 2. Students. The cultural difference is enormous, as it in beauty!

I had a friend (good looking) down from Copenhagen....

Hilarious and sad at the same time.

I have heard this description of Argentinian culture / attitude from many people. I dated one in Miami and she leaned on the "conservative" side as well.

Sure I have heard some people say otherwise but they are in the minority.

Of the countries in the Americas I have been to, I found girls from the DR and Colombia to be the most happy go lucky.

The currency has fallen 1/3.

Brazil also have hard times. Their system of defending an artificial currency might have come to an end! Just Like Argentina had its 1:1, when it fell everything was for free during 2-3 yers. Especially I think 2003 was a fantastic year. Venezuela, if you now how to do it, has a parallel currency that in one year has fallen from 10% to 1% of the official rate. These economies are built on, just like China, exportation of products with low added value in combination with a strong fiscal and monetary policy. But when demands falls, even fails, diminish, devaluation, depriation is the only way out. Argentina quickly got back to a sort of crisis, but fake exhange made it difficult for our kind.

I hope for a Brazilian normalization , which would mean that Happy Days comes back - OverNight! And that maduros loco projects is over-run my democrats and that a new floating currency and calm down the whole society and we can be customers at ease. The whole continent would be ReConquista, but not in 700 years, but in 7 days!

Pretty amazing shit. While those of us using USD are getting a great bang (pun intended) for our buck I wonder how low can it go before it ends up being a problem (think Caracas) to visit. There is always a breaking point.

How long before day to day life becomes really uncomfortable for the people there. Somehow I don't think Colombia would bounce back as fast as Argentina if they hit bottom (no pun intended this time).

[BlueChange]

Try Exito, in Poblado, on Sunday morning after church, starting about 11 AM. There are women there of all shapes, sizes, and ages doing their shopping. They outnumber the men about 10-1. If you are by yourself just look like you cannot find something, and some women will be willing to help. Conversely, when in a group of guys everyone just looks, and will not approach.

Health & happiness to all.

Also Carulla For even higher class girls. I can't reccomend a membership to bodytech enough. Its very expensive even for US standards ($100) but you can go to each one around Medellin and meet soooooo many people. I ususally go SUPER early and meet the professionals (like lawyers docotrs) then around 10 comes to "instagram fitness models" They are really great but only really fuck with you if you have like 5 K followers or more. In the evening it's a mad house and just not worth it. But hang around in the juice bar and you good!! Also, if you strike out, the Rio Sur location has a nice jack shack / rub and tug in it. Those girls KNOW how to work out your muscles for REAL!

The thing I can't stress enough is to MAKE FRIENDS WITH LOCALS!! I have like at least half a dozen of REAL FRIENDS. People we have dinner with, we can crash at each others places, can leave money out and they won't take it! (the TRUE TEST) Just don't be a fucking "gringo" and be social, these people are awesome and you should respect thier country for ALL the fine ladies that have been born here. WOWW I FUCKING LOVE PAISA WOMEN!!

[SuperSteve]

Where would one venture out to see Medelllins finest women, non pros.

Envy- rooftop Charlee Hotel.

Any other places?

Try Exito, in Poblado, on Sunday morning after church, starting about 11 AM. There are women there of all shapes, sizes, and ages doing their shopping. They outnumber the men about 10-1. If you are by yourself just look like you cannot find something, and some women will be willing to help. Conversely, when in a group of guys everyone just looks, and will not approach.

Health & happiness to all.

[Balboa]

Beware of stuck up people that have economic interest in scaring you to stay in overpriced boring foreigner ghettos!

Get real bro!

Both sides of this debate are right.

Of course, if you know what you're doing, and don't mind the 24 hour crazier scene in el Centro, that's great, stay there by all means.

For those that like their downtime in a more relaxed area, el Centro is not the spot.

To each their own.