Medellin Reports

[Knowledge]

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Charles Schwab.

[Knowledge]

The great American philosopher Snoop Dogg said it best in the 90's: "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife". Personally, I think references on this site and others like it to "girlfriend" and "girlfriend experience" are misguided and misleading. I find it amusing and telling how rarely there are references to "wife" or "spouse experience". The reason in my opinion is few of us have any interest in that sort of experience, especially if we've been there and done that. I believe the references to "girlfriend (experience)" are misguided attempts to saddle providers with the responsibilities (physical, emotional, and loyalty) of a wife without accepting any of the same as a husband. That's real talk.

There are all kinds of "regular" girls, meaning non Play 4 Pay (or is it Pay 4 Play? Whatever), with whom you can maintain a satisfying, fulfilling relationship between visits to our beloved Medellin, I use Whassap for the free phone and video calls. I've done it, continue to do it. But if you are finding those girls standing around in front of the Vera Cruz Church or at your friendly neighborhood casa, then don't expect a high quality relationship. I've posted before that the best way to meet a "normal" girl is look for one while she is at work. She has a job. She has some sense of responsibility. She is still Colombian so more than likely she loves to fuck as much as you do. When guys here write absolute truths about all the women they meet in MDE, ask yourself in what kind of pool are they swimming? I have the full range of chicas in my ranked line-up from conservative working girl who does not expect anything extra to full-time puta drug dealer and user, who BTW is hawt as fuck. They all have their place. Don't try to put a square peg in a round hole. Or if you prefer a Biblical reference, don't try to make a silk purse out a sow's ear.

There is one, super-simple, obvious, easy, fail-safe and time-tested way to tell if a chica is really into you or not for those of you looking for more of a relationship and not just a wet mudhole to fuck. For some reason a lot of guys are too simple-minded or blinded to do it or see it. Stop all support, direct and indirect, money and gifts, and see if she sticks by you. That approach is a little over-simplistic because of the culture, if the girl thinks you really love her, then even regular girls see money and giving as a sign of true love, so there is some cross-over. But for the most part, it's a simple and accurate barometer, especially for chicas you have known for awhile. If you want a regular girlfriend and you open with, "I am never going to give you anything" that is not the recipe for success either, jajaja.

We all have our own selection bias and we are all biased from our own experiences, that's only natural. I got a nice reminder of that when I was on a roll here last visit earlier this year extolling the virtues of the pink shit, and how great it made sex and how the chicas all loved it..

[ChuchoLoco]

What is a CS card?

Title is the answer. Highly recommended debit card.

[Fun Luvr]

What is a CS card?

Charles Schwab.

[Turgid]

.....There is one, super-simple, obvious, easy, fail-safe and time-tested way to tell if a chica is really into you or not for those of you looking for more of a relationship and not just a wet mudhole to fuck. For some reason a lot of guys are too simple-minded or blinded to do it or see it. Stop all support, direct and indirect, money and gifts, and see if she sticks by you......

Stop all support, direct and indirect, money and gifts to your wife and see if she sticks by you.

[Nil Admirari]

Just opened in first weekend of October. I was there when owner had soft opening. Couple from Texas opened it. He was going through hiring end of September. It is good spot for states people to hang out.

Sounds to have been a case study in Latin American bureaucracy. When I was staying at the San Peter Apartments back in May, the Sports Bar owner told me that he was expecting his Medellin city business permit "any day now" and had his soft opening tentatively scheduled for a day or two after my departure.

[Surfer500]

Before I could find a luggage shop, noticed hundreds of girls leaning on walls in front of little sex hotels. They were scattered but about 100 stand around the church of Vera Cruz, most were kind of heavy for my taste, but quite a few hot spinners whom I would pork at the drop of a hat.

Are you sure you weren't hallucinating and / or having a wet dream? LOL.

[Surfer500]

This last few days here I've noticed and heard from others of difficulty getting cabs all around town, probably because everyone is out shopping, and there is a shortage of cabs.

Very difficult around Botero Plaza, it's best to look for guys hailing cabs for people and show them some coins, that will excite them, they will get you a cab.

The Metro has also been jacked up as well, with not as many trains running and packed.

Yesterday I arrived at the Poblado Metro station at 11 AM and barely was able to get in a car headed to Centro, and at the next stop Industrials, only about a third of the people on the Platform were able to get in.

I've never seen anything like this late on a Monday morning, as what I witnessed is pretty much what occurs during rush hours.

Also lots of places to eat, at least the nicer ones in Laureles and Poblado are checking for Vaccine cards, kind of a total joke though, as they don't really look at them.

[VasyaPetya]

Yes -- reimbursement of ATM fees. Works at most Colombian ATM machines.

What is a CS card?

[MiamiBoy1]

We all have our own selection bias and we are all biased from our own experiences, that's only natural. I got a nice reminder of that when I was on a roll here last visit earlier this year extolling the virtues of the pink shit, and how great it made sex and how the chicas all loved it. Then I met up in person with another member here, nice guy, who told me that on my recommendation he tried the pink shit, twice even, didn't hate it, didn't particularly like it. Even more strangely to me, he said half the chicas he offered it to didn't want anything to do with it. Great feedback and I suddenly realized, clearly I oversold the concept. Through my own selection bias I was (subconsciously?) picking out the chicas who I knew would like it and run with it. I literally never met a chica who didn't at least try it and 90% of them came back for more. I am not trying to convince anyone and we could be talking about Tussi or negro cono or Paisa pussy, it doesn't matter. I am saying that was a good example of my own selection bias and how that did not transfer over to the next guy's experience.

What I would suggest mongers do is get some good quality pink stuff and keep it just in case. Guys, don't do it yourself if you are not into drugs, keep it for the ladies. If you feel like she is a party girl and is into substances, go ahead and offer some to her. Most likely she will outperform in bed and will be more motivated to see you again. I always keep some booze at my airbnb along with something to munch on, as it makes my sessions much more pleasurable. From now on I will try to add pink shit to the list.

[ColombiaLover]

Don't forget option 3. She continues to see #1, while she convinces #2 that he is the man. And he supports her. #1 could be a Colombiano or a gringo. #2 is almost always a gringo, especially one who does not live in MDE, so can't track her moves.

Got to disagree with this Osteo. You are not empathising with their situation. A girl might be in to you, but she is in a difficult financial situation. If you cut all support then you will force her to make a decsion -.

1. see a guy that she is in to and that could support her but chooses not to do so.

2. seek another guy that does support her.

If she is in a desperate financial situation, she will obviously choose option 2, despite how much she is in to you.

A far better way to judge a girl is to live with her, and / or take the time to understand her life situation and to respond accordingly.

[Captain Solo]

Flew in Sunday night, went to the fancy Andre's Carne de Rez bar and restaurant for a $20 T Bone steak. It was served on hot iron plate, medium, tough, too much gristles, could not cut through with a sharp knife, had to chew on and swallow large pieces. After some fierce hand to hand combat had to give up 3/4 of the steak. Colombians need to develop their cuisine a lot more. I am famish here in Colombia for the last 2 weeks.

Had to buy new luggage. A cab driver drove me to Botero Shopping Mall, an area with hundreds thousands shoppers, tens thousands shops and street carts, nice, clean, civilized, the liveliest scene I have seen in Colombia, may be 50 x the foot traffic in Candelaria area in Bogota.

Before I could find a luggage shop, noticed hundreds of girls leaning on walls in front of little sex hotels. They were scattered but about 100 stand around the church of Vera Cruz, most were kind of heavy for my taste, but quite a few hot spinners whom I would pork at the drop of a hat. Medellin beats all other Colombia cities in quantity and quality of girls, also beat Tijuana by a wide margin.

This cute spinner Daniela in her white short was on the street playing with her friends. Took her to the hotel next door, 300 pesos for CBJ CFS, room costs 10 K Cops or $2. 5. She was fun and sexy in bed. Pumped her a long time. She was moaning, had her arms and legs wrapped around me for security.

Medellin has lots of hot girls working in shops. Most are nice, fun, polite, speak Spanish with high modulation and drawn out vowels like Italians in a charming way. They were also fun and flirting non stop. Guys should be able to find many nice, fun, pretty GFs here.

[SankarShetty]

I will be in MDE right after new year. Anyone planning a trip in the first 2 weeks in Jan, PM me if you want to exchange info. Or plan for a meet up.

[Osteoknot]

Maybe because they are png's? Not sure what I am doing different. I can't believe they are being censored by admin, they are not controversial. I will try to post them again.

Of course, yes, what TK wrote was a common sense, mature way of approaching the value of any long term relationship. As if often the case, my writing lets me down, especially when I am doing it at 4 AM, jaja. I was referring to a long distance relationship with a chica who a mongerer met here, and then wanted to maintain after her returned to the states. Cutting off support, especially as a temporary step while you gauge the chica's response, can provide valuable information. You can always go back to whatever level of support you like.

I have met too many guys who on the belief that some chica they briefly met here is madly in love with them, sends the girl money after they leave. That's fine, that's up to you, the vast majority of the time she will be playing you, usually with multiple guys. A lot of that depends upon how you met her, as a regular girl versus someone who was hanging out in front of the Vera Cruz Church. That would be your selection bias.

One reason Catgirl and I have made is more than two years is she passed that test. After I first met her and returned home, I refused to send her any support. But over time, I saw how little money she made after a ten or twelve hour work day. Sometimes she would come home with 30 mil COP in her pocket after eating, which is chump change for lot of guys from the USA. And then a couple of her jobs were so freakin' dangerous (e,g, working in a gold mine) that it scared me. And then when I returned to MDE she was always so tired from working that we barely had fun. So I decided to support her and it was a great decision. She stuck by me way before that point and since then during breaks of my support.

I have other girlfriends from MDE who ask me and I refuse them help, but they still want to see me when I come to MDE. The easiest way to handle it is to make it black and white and not give any girls anything extra, but I was reading here about someone who was interested in a more meaningful relationship with the local girls, and that is what sparked me. And call me crazy, but I see life as more of a continuum with shades of gray.

Great feedback! I liked your suggestion about living with her, albeit that is a drastic step. You can learn mountains (pardon the pun) of info about how these people live and breathe when you stay with them, even short term. I have stayed on the sides of mountains more than a few times in the lower and lowest stratas of housing in MDE. Also I have stayed out in the country in a remote mountain top village, and in two different mega-apartment complexes you can see from a distance on the mountain sides in MDE, and I loved it. But I do NOT recommend that for everyone. You have to have your wits about you in those situations, know your way around a little, know how to blend in, and definitely be with people you trust.

I stand by my little acid test, that if you stop sending a chica here money and then you stop hearing from her, you have good intel. You are right TK, she may find a substitute, so like 90% of life, timing is everything. You can always choose to go back to gifting her, that may be the right way to keep her, or you may soon be awarded your first of many degrees from Fool's College. My main point is there are many girls here worth pursuing, but because of selection bias, don't expect to be finding them in the places we commonly discuss here.

The right chica from MDE will show you much more appreciation, emotionally and physically than her counterpart in the USA. Calling them all golddiggers is misguided, because their need is genuine. Colombia is not the land of opportunity that exists in USA, where drive and talent get rewarded. You can have all those things in Medellin and still be suppressed and beat down by the system. If you judge these girls using the values you absorbed from the USA you will get the an inaccurate viewpoint.

Photos, I hope they all upload this time. The preggo is ready to pop. For those of you who follow me, she goes back over two years with me, second only to Catgirl in length of time. That is Amazonia and she held down my Numero Two spot longer than anyone until she got pregnant and moved back to her village five hours away. Well, her due date is this month, and she is back in Medellin waiting to deliver. I would fly over to MDE right now just for her and dip my wick in that prime preggo pussy, but I am down to the wire on the days left on my 2021 tourist visa. Ostee Out!

[CoolGregg]

Wait. There is a sports bar there? How long has it been there? I stay at the San Peter when I stay in Laureles. I loved the JM Grill on the first floor. They had GOOD BREAKFAST. But they closed in 2019.

Just opened in first weekend of October. I was there when owner had soft opening. Couple from Texas opened it. He was going through hiring end of September. It is good spot for states people to hang out.