Medellin Reports

[Dealdo]

great advice. that's exactly what i do. you're never as relaxed and happy on a date as when you've just had great sex.

as for people complaining about the non-pro discussions, well they don't have to read them, even less answer them.

as for me, internationalsexguide is not limited to prostitution and that's what i enjoy about it. i can get an overall idea of a place before i go there. i'm not against prostitution. i just don't want to be limited to it.

some men obviously have issues having sex with girls without paying them. like guilt issues and such.

i understand, it's a cultural thing, i guess. but in my reality you can give a girl a good time without breaking her heart if you know how to select and behave.

i don't agree with the idea that nothing is free in this world.

love is free and i like to spread it!

cheers

kali. i'm agree with you. i do a lot of non pro action everywhere, but my comment wasn't against doing it, if you have the skills and the play, is ok to use them. i don't like to hurt people that is true, but is just me, probably some other don't care. so i just have fun on my way.

i'm just saying that people gets a lot of misinformation for our fantasies. i always want to be very honest and not build wrong ideas and hopes about a place and a culture. and the non pro scenario has to many colors.

people talking about their gfs and easy picking up just sounds like bragging out to feel superior himself to the rest. that is not cool to me. because later on they hit the wall with the reality. just look at this paragraphs, some of them are yours.

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> "i've had the same problem as him so far: girls give me their numbers and kiss very easily but then they don't show up at dates. they flake, again and again, without warning you and then they don't answer their phones. i could believe it only happens to me but it does not seem so. and i am quite surprised nobody talks about that here.

agree 110%, colombianas are very flaky when it comes to dating and meeting again. they attract you with their femininity, the attention they give you, and the way they make you feel so masculine, but to get to that stage on subsequent dates is a challenge. and even as friends, they can be quite high maintenance.

99% of the time, it has nothing to do with you. it's just the way these colombianas are: incredibly immature, impulsive, confused, etc. colombian guys are a bit more successful, they have the obvious advantage of sharing the same culture/country; plus, they just keep trying and keep going after every available girl they can; that's basically how they do it! ". <

and the list of reports like this are endless. so is exactly the same than every part of the globe, non pros are similar, more or less, but the game is basically the same. so what information will help us to get lucky with these creatures? very little i would say. the advices given here are redundant always. is always the same old song. be cool, dance good, be smart, be funny, have personalty, speak the language, be confident, be "generous" (oh girls love this last one lol) act young, etc. (i will ad a bonus bcuz nobody has mention it: be an artist in bed, find the perfect vibratum in every single woman and every single time you are with them)

but our real secret weapons we never disclose them. no way. all those small details and lines used are only ours. so pretty much the real secret is always for every one of us to discover it.

so guys less fortunate go outfield thinking they have the sacred mantram to bring down the walls of jerico, reading all those guys with many gfs easy picked up like grapes, they found out most of that is a lie, and probably most girls are dating her real latin lover at the same time. and is sad. so i try not to mention those conquers because i care for my doughs. i can talk about the culture, my experience making friends etc. and the traps we all are expose, like one dude said, most of the girls are after your money and sometimes you think you are all that,.

the civilian hunting is something we all have to work out independently mostly.

nothing wrong trying to be a playboy, a little help ok, but nobody will give us the magic lamp to make our dreams come true. so before we want to show off or make a bad hollywood movie where a single american save the world lest think about how much we really are going to help the others or how much we are going to hurt their self esteem just for our fun and super ego.

love is free that is true, but you never will find love in a board like this. that is very private and i don't think i ever would share it here at all.

be cool and thanks for sharing you good thoughts with us bro.

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[Hioctane]

I've had a lot of laughs reading the last page of comments. LOL.

Diego got what he deserved. This will not only happen in Colombia but in all parts of the world. You befriend a family and betray/disrespect a family like that. And you can be sure the older brother will kick your ass! Even in the USA A!

About non-pro talk. I don't think there's anything wrong with non-pro talk. It's all useful info as long as you clearly distinguish between the two.

About flakiness. I don't think it's limited to Colombian women. It's a trait of ALL young ladies in general.

I agree with mixing the pros and the non-pros. You need to do it to keep yourself sane! Just make sure you have backup plans. B, C, and D!

[Kali22]

I highly recommend a dual strategy of dating regulars but sessioning with pros on your off-days. That way, you can keep meeting non-pros but you don't feel you have to try so hard to get in their pants. You'll feel a bit less pressure and frustration and enjoy your normal nights out more.

Great advice. That's exactly what I do. You're never as relaxed and happy on a date as when you've just had great sex.

As for people complaining about the non-pro discussions, well they don't have to read them, even less answer them.

As for me, InternationalSexGuide is not limited to prostitution and that's what I enjoy about it. I can get an overall idea of a place before I go there. I'm not against prostitution. I just don't want to be limited to it.

Some men obviously have issues having sex with girls without paying them. Like guilt issues and such.

I understand, it's a cultural thing, I guess. But in my reality you can give a girl a good time without breaking her heart if you know how to select and behave.

I don't agree with the idea that nothing is free in this world.

Love is free and I like to spread it!

Cheers

[Phunluv]

I don't know WHY this Colombian board is overloaded with reports about "My GF" "My non pro pick up" etc etc. Most of the time are not even true those stories. Most of the people don't even like to read about our girls and how lucky we are with civilians. I don't see how we are helping to our community. A guy who knows how to pick a regular girl up won't even mention it just like Diego. Sometimes I get contaminated and start talking about non pros answering those kind of reports. And I don't see the purpose.

Agree with you on this. Too much talk on non-pros is off-topic or worse. Maybe the moderator can make a "non-pro" thread like in the Brazil board?

As you said, some of those stories are not true. Also, some of these guys are fooling themselves. There's a lot of shades of grey in the P4P world in Colombia. A number of these "non-pro girlfriends" may have worked as prepagas in the past, or continue to do so from time to time. The prepaga phenomena has become very common in Colombia, I suspect almost half the girls under 25 have done it at least once! There's also a lot of "grillas" or "interesadas" out there, which basically means the girl is hanging out with you more for your wallet than your looks and charm. Nothing necessarily wrong with that, as when it comes to women, money is always involved one way or the other; but some guys will do all kinds of mental or social gymnastics to prove to themselves they don't have to pay for sex.

However, I do recommend every guy should engage in some non-pro dating just to keep a part of their brain in the real world and maintain a certain set of skills when it comes to dealing with "normal" women.

[SlamCity7777]

gents,

a little about diego: early on he told me he was 23, had inherited a good portion of a successful family business that made good money and was going to allow him to travel for long periods of time. diego also said that he was (in his own words) above average looking so he knew he could strive for more of the "creme de la creme". he was of hispanic decent and was 100% fluent in spanish. he was not however interested in the women of his homeland however (he never said why). diego said he had used the internet to research south america and medellin kept popping up as being a place with the type of look and level of women he thought he would like. along the way he came across this website isg and wsa and had a friend purchase a membership for him on both and read many of the posts that i and others had written and enjoyed the pictures i and others had posted. it was on wsa that he got my e-mail address.

cubanut,

hi how are you? i am not so well. i fucked up big time and i think i will not ever return to colombia or at least for sure never to medellin.

so i was in medellin for christmas and had a big party at my apartment. my friend and his sister and many others were invited. i kept him and his sister there the latest then when only us three were there, i got both of them real drunk with an aguardiente drinking game. my friend passed out and it was just me and his sister.

well you can guess what i did in the bedroom with is virgin sister (a virgin no more) so i will not say. when i got up my friend was up but would not talk to me. he told his sister to get ready to go and left as soon as she was ready.

i did not hear from him or his sister and i was afraid to call either one.

my friend called me on wednesday and asked if i wanted to go out for new years and i said sure and he said he was ok with what happened at the party. so i accepted. so he picked me up but only him and two other friends but not his sister. he said she was doing something else with her other friends. so we met up with some other people we know and had a great time.

but at about 4 am or so my friend was driving me home and he pulled into a dark place and pulled over and he and the other two guys got out and he opened my door and dragged me out. they threw me to the ground and kicked me and beat me at times with their fists. i was asking why why why? and all my friend kept saying was i was a piece of shit and i was going to die. i was crying in pain but they kept kicking me in the back and in the stomach and pounding me on the head and face.

finally they stopped and my friend told the two guys to get in the car. before he left he told me to get out of colombia because i had no respect for his family and was lucky that i only got my ass kicked.

they left me and i lay there for what seemed like half an hour. i can barely remember how i did it but i found a taxi and managed to get home. the next day i get a call from my friend and he says he wanted me to know that he was serious and not only talking drunk that if i did not leave immediately i would be dead.

so i was able to leave the country on saturday and i am home today and i look like shit i told the immigration there and here that i was mugged on new years. i have three loose teeth and a black eye and a swollen lip. my body aches all over too.

please, i am sorry but i am writing you to ask: (and this is where he asks for some advise on getting an attorney to proxy for his apartment lease and shipping or selling his furniture and close his bank accounts etc. which i have referred him to someone i think can help.)

so:

i must say this is a first and i never actually thought about this because it's not my cup of tea but i have to ask:

those guys who get with the "in" crowd and hunt the "higher end" non-pros, how long do you suppose you can do that with out running into a problem? i don't mean like an extreme like this guy diego but just losing friends because of the fact that you are using them in your conquests? after all those non-pros are somebody's daughter, sister, cousin, niece etc. right?

stay horny (but safe) my friends!

cubanut

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diego behaved like a 100% pure asshole, crowned king of dbag city!

right from the jump he sounded like a jerk. sound like he was a spoiled brat, got his money from his "daddy" and could do what ever he wanted? yeah. not to hard to read his profile.

this story should be seen as a "don't be a dbad" instead of a "colombia is unsafe" story

he was told by his "friend" to not violate his hot and innocent sister. he then proceeds to get his "friend" and his sister black out/passed out drunk and then took advantage of his sister!

the beating he got is what he deserved.

from the full impression of cubanut and diego's own email you can see he is:

diego is guilty of: being arrogant, being a spoiled brat, selfish, betrayal of his "freinds" trust, taken advantage of his sister in a drunken stooper,

if you're cool enough to have local friends and you're getting some high end colombian "normal girl" pussy don't be a lecherous jag-off and almost date [CodeWord123] your "friends" virgin little sister after you were told not to!

he reaped what he had sown

[Mule69]

Cubanut that could happen anywhere but I do agree that if you disrespect any upper class Colombian you are asking for trouble. Seems your pen pal fucked with the wrong mans sister and got off with a warning. He got off lightly but at least had the sense to get out. Big difference in p4p and civilians.

[Ricker]

Although I don't have much to compare with yet (only Bogotá), I see some truth in that statement. My first impression is that people here are very arrogant (they think they are the best but most have never traveled anywhere else) and they are not as friendly towards foreigners as in Bogotá. They also are not as polite and educated in my opinion.

I don't agree that girls here are more beautiful, they are just more European. They look more European, they (try to) act European (cold and hard to get) and they like electronic music and rock. To each their own.

Here is what a famous Pickup artist who lived 6 months in Medellin has to say about it:

"I've never been so disrespected and so flaked on by women than I have in Colombia and Argentina. I'm talking about ego-shattering treatment that would lead to a hatred of women in weaker men. But I'm still here in Colombia"

http://www.Rooshv.com/why-travel-to-...d-than-the-u-s

I've had the same problem as him so far: girls give me their numbers and kiss very easily but then they don't show up at dates. They flake, again and again, without warning you and then they don't answer their phones. I could believe it only happens to me but it does not seem so. And I am quite surprised nobody talks about that here.

Of course I've also had some good experiences (as I do anywhere) but all in all, for non-pros this town is not so great to me (when compared to Bogotá for example).

Medellin is great for cheap prostitutes in the day time casas (if that's your thing) and its good climate although it can be quite chilly at night.

Cheers

Interesting reading this post and the related link in the post.

I've traveled extensively all over Central / South America and the Carrib.

I basically tell my friends that Medellin has beautiful, beautiful women.

The PFP can be cheap and high quality, the non-pro scene can be rewarding, but you'll also experience a bit of arrogance, and lots of class consciousness.

I visit Medellin with an open mind. I enjoy the PFP and meet non-pros when the opportunity arrises In an easy, relaxed, no hurry manner.

I don't let an arrogant chica or group of chicas get me down.

I just smile and move on, no big deal, there are cool chicas out there too.

Generally, I have found PFP in Colombia to be lots of fun and plentyfull with an occassional trist with a cool non-pro when I get lucky.

Now I have found Brazil, particularly Sao Paulo, to be the BEST and easiest place I have ever been to meet NON-pros.

Just as in Colombia, language skills are very important.

Spanish is essential in Colombia and Portuguese in Brazil, most importantly for meeting the non-pros.

Good luck amigos.

[Member #3435]

Cuba:

Priceless story and sounds very credible, IMO.

The guy was a certifiable idiot. An arogant, spoiled idiot with no common sense and in the end, very lucky to make it home alive or not permanently crippled.

You take advantage of someone's sister anywhere in the world and you get the same results.

Location had nothing to do with it.

Thanks,

Schwmm

[Ricker]

Cubanut,

Hi how are you? I am not so well. I fucked up big time and I think I will not ever return to Colombia or at least for sure never to Medellin.

I had a (Colombian) friend there that I met that I met last July that has a beautiful sister. Just like the movie Scar Face, she was suppose to be off limits to me by her brother. I had lots of beautiful girls in and out of my bed in Medellin but maybe because I couldn't have this beautiful girl it was driving me mad.

Heya Cuba.

This guy was muy estupido!

He was taken in confidence by a family and he literally f. Ed them over. Their pride and honor and trust.

Similarly, I met a great family in Cali a while back.

They invited me into their home to stay whenever I was in Cali and I even went out to meet chicas with my friend, the head of the house.

They also have a beautiful, young daughter in her late teens, about to turn 20. It was a given that she was off limits, since it was also a known, that I was a 'playing around' and not looking for a wife.

Never never never did I or would I break that trust.

It would be stupid and I just wouldn't want to hurt that family in any way.

Isn't that obvious?

Again, your 'pen pal' was young and dumb and full of disrespect.

Take care amigo y Feliz 2010!

[Aussie Greg]

After being here since 2002, a little bit of advise ¨don't fall in love with a Paisa¨

Aussie Greg.

Although I don't have much to compare with yet (only Bogotá), I see some truth in that statement. My first impression is that people here are very arrogant (they think they are the best but most have never traveled anywhere else) and they are not as friendly towards foreigners as in Bogotá. They also are not as polite and educated in my opinion.

I don't agree that girls here are more beautiful, they are just more European. They look more European, they (try to) act European (cold and hard to get) and they like electronic music and rock. To each their own.

Here is what a famous Pickup artist who lived 6 months in Medellin has to say about it:

"I've never been so disrespected and so flaked on by women than I have in Colombia and Argentina. I'm talking about ego-shattering treatment that would lead to a hatred of women in weaker men. But I'm still here in Colombia"

http://www.Rooshv.com/why-travel-to-...d-than-the-u-s

I've had the same problem as him so far: girls give me their numbers and kiss very easily but then they don't show up at dates. They flake, again and again, without warning you and then they don't answer their phones. I could believe it only happens to me but it does not seem so. And I am quite surprised nobody talks about that here.

Of course I've also had some good experiences (as I do anywhere) but all in all, for non-pros this town is not so great to me (when compared to Bogotá for example).

Medellin is great for cheap prostitutes in the day time casas (if that's your thing) and its good climate although it can be quite chilly at night.

Cheers

[Member #4349]

Re Cubanuts story.

It never ceases to amaze me how many guys come onto this board, then say they don't want to monger, they want non-pro's etc.

Its a totally different game with non-pro's something like "real life" and something we all do all the time, more or less successfully. (or not successfully at all if you're some aged gimp).

For me the whole reason for mongering. Thats short for wh***mongering by the way. Is that I fuck hoo-ers with none, I reapeat none, of the timewasting pointless baggage that non pro's (aka women, FemiNazi's, bunny boilers etc) bring.

Who was it said "I don't pay women to sleep with me I pay them to leave. "

He's so right.

Lets hear it for commercial sex.

[Phunluv]

. . .

you see diego was completely interested in only non-pro's. he was so complete that he didn't even want to be seen around regular mongers like you and i for fear that his companions would think he too was a monger.

. . .

those guys who get with the "in" crowd and hunt the "higher end" non-pros, how long do you suppose you can do that with out running into a problem? i don't mean like an extreme like this guy diego but just losing friends because of the fact that you are using them in your conquests? after all those non-pros are somebody's daughter, sister, cousin, niece etc. right?

interesting anecdote.

basically this "diego" guy did pull an asshole move, especially when he got both of them plastered and banged the girl with brother nearby but out of commission.

this naive kid really shouldn't be pulling stunts like this in colombia. you're bound for a beating, like what happened later, and sometimes even worse!

especially when a family member says someone is off-limits. when someone tells you that in colombia, that's meant to be taken extremely seriously.

it's an honor thing. this "diego" guy violated not the girls honor (i highly doubt she was a virgin at the point of the story he has sex with her, lol!) but the family's honor, which is probably a worse thing to do!

and the way it all went down was typical colombian. they pretend to be your friend, get you liquored up, and then reality hits you between the eyes.

so it looks like this young affluent full-of-himself hotshot, who was too good for hookers, got a lesson in the "real" colombia, and during the holidays to boot! happy f***ing new year!.

he can always come back next year and start over in cali, or some other town; but i wouldn't be hanging out in parque lleras for the next 3-4 years if i was him.

it fascinates me how foreigners come down to bogota or medellin to live there for several months, and end up doing things they would never even dream of in their home country. imagine the possible legal ramifications of what "diego" did here in the states! in that sense, colombian street justice via the proverbial beat-down is probably a better result than a prison sentence in the states for a "date [CodeWord123]" although the follow-up call in the morning makes me think the death threat was real.

but the part that irks me the most is he comes off as if he's too good for hookers, yet he makes and maintains contacts with one of the "stars" of the monger forums. the hypocrisy is laughable!

finally, i do agree with cubanut's warning. if you're going to be dating estrata 5 and 6 non-pro girls, it's not the smartest idea to go too aggressive or chase every single one of them. you probably won't get your ass kicked, but instead of expanding your circle, you could get bad-mouthed and your social network starts to collapse instead.

and definitely respect the "hands-off" warnings from your male colombian buddies. at a party or club, before i even talk to a colombian girl, i try to get an intro from a male buddy and confirm she's "available" or "approachable". sometimes, the local guys bullshit you because they're jealous and don't want to see you hitting on that girl but if you suspect that's the case, you should still cross-check with a female friend of your target or some other guy.

[Jergens007]

Shit, I mean what does he expect? The moral of the story. If a colombian friend says his sister is off limits. Than you need to respect that! Regardless if they are from an upper class or lower class. I'm sure if you have a good looking sister. And your good friend slept with her, I'm sure you would be upset, whether you're going to end the friendship and kick his ass really depends on the whole situation. I hope Diego is okay!

Thanks for sharing.

Gents,

I was checking my emails today when I noticed one from a guy I know only through email. He had contacted me a couple of years ago about going to Medellin for the first time but did not like the Mansion/Castillo scene and instead wanted to know of a good hotel. So I gave him a few suggestions and he did in fact use one I recommended when he made his first visit two years ago.

Like I said I only know this fella (who by the way gave me the name Diego but said it was not his real name) through email and have never met him in person. We had a couple of chances to meet when he and I were in Medellin at the same time but our schedules conflicted since his type of mongering and mine were completely different.

You see Diego was COMPLETELY interested in only NON-PRO's. He was so complete that he didn't even want to be seen around regular mongers like you and I for fear that his companions would think he too was a monger.

A little about Diego: Early on he told me he was 23, had inherited a good portion of a successful family business that made good money and was going to allow him to travel for long periods of time. Diego also said that he was (in his own words) above average looking so he knew he could strive for more of the "creme de la creme". He was of Hispanic decent and was 100% fluent in Spanish. He was not however interested in the women of his homeland however (he never said why). Diego said he had used the internet to research South America and Medellin kept popping up as being a place with the type of look and level of women he thought he would like. Along the way he came across this website ISG and WSA and had a friend purchase a membership for him on both and read many of the posts that I and others had written and enjoyed the pictures I and others had posted. It was on WSA that he got my e-mail address.

Diego's first contact with me as I remember was a bit insulting. He said that the girls that I photographed were less than the quality he was seeking and said that he was confident that with just a few visits he could establish himself in the Paisa world he wanted to be in. I provided him with a few good hotels including the Dann Carlton and Poblado Plaza (both places I'd rather not stay at) and I wished him the best of luck.

So for the past 2 years I have only heard from Diego a few times and it was always with a question: Did I know this person or have I ever been to this place or (even one time) did I know of a certain girls background (which was particularly odd because he sent me a picture of the girl with her face blocked out?).

So back to today, I get this email (he wrote it without paragraphs so I broke it up and corrected some misspelled words):

Cubanut,

Hi how are you? I am not so well. I fucked up big time and I think I will not ever return to Colombia or at least for sure never to Medellin.

I had a (Colombian) friend there that I met that I met last July that has a beautiful sister. Just like the movie Scar Face, she was suppose to be off limits to me by her brother. I had lots of beautiful girls in and out of my bed in Medellin but maybe because I couldn't have this beautiful girl it was driving me mad.

Her brother said although he liked me he knew I was not going be able to get with her because he knew I would not be one to marry her but only to conquer in bed. On top of this she was a VIRGIN! I wanted her so bad that I just became stupid.

So I was in Medellin for Christmas and had a big party at my apartment. My friend and his sister and many others were invited. I kept him and his sister there the latest then when only us three were there, I got both of them real drunk with an Aguardiente drinking game. My friend passed out and it was just me and his sister.

Well you can guess what I did in the bedroom with is virgin sister (a virgin no more) so I will not say. When I got up my friend was up but would not talk to me. He told his sister to get ready to go and left as soon as she was ready.

I did not hear from him or his sister and I was afraid to call either one.

My friend called me on Wednesday and asked if I wanted to go out for New Years and I said sure and he said he was ok with what happened at the party. So I accepted. So he picked me up but only him and two other friends but not his sister. He said she was doing something else with her other friends. So we met up with some other people we know and had a great time.

BUT at about 4 am or so my friend was driving me home and he pulled into a dark place and pulled over and he and the other two guys got out and he opened my door and dragged me out. They threw me to the ground and kicked me and beat me at times with their fists. I was asking why why why? And all my friend kept saying was I was a piece of shit and I was going to die. I was crying in pain but they kept kicking me in the back and in the stomach and pounding me on the head and face.

Finally they stopped and my friend told the two guys to get in the car. Before he left he told me to get out of Colombia because I had no respect for his family and was lucky that I only got my ass kicked.

They left me and I lay there for what seemed like half an hour. I can barely remember how I did it but I found a taxi and managed to get home. The next day I get a call from my friend and he says he wanted me to know that he was serious and not only talking drunk that if I did not leave immediately I would be dead.

So I was able to leave the country on Saturday and I am home today and I look like shit I told the immigration there and here that I was mugged on New Years. I have three loose teeth and a black eye and a swollen lip. My body aches all over too.

Please, I am sorry but I am writing you to ask: (And this is where he asks for some advise on getting an attorney to proxy for his apartment lease and shipping or selling his furniture and close his bank accounts etc. Which I have referred him to someone I think can help.)

SO:

I must say this is a first and I never actually thought about this because it's not my cup of tea but I have to ask:

Those guys who get with the "IN" crowd and hunt the "higher end" non-pros, how long do you suppose you can do that with out running into a problem? I don't mean like an extreme like this guy Diego but just losing friends because of the fact that you are using them in your conquests? After all those non-pros are somebody's daughter, sister, cousin, niece etc. Right?

Stay Horny (But Safe) My Friends!

Cubanut

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[Phunluv]

Here is what a famous Pickup artist who lived 6 months in Medellin has to say about it:

. . .

I've had the same problem as him so far: girls give me their numbers and kiss very easily but then they don't show up at dates. They flake, again and again, without warning you and then they don't answer their phones. I could believe it only happens to me but it does not seem so. And I am quite surprised nobody talks about that here.

Agree 110%, Colombianas are very flaky when it comes to dating and meeting again. They attract you with their femininity, the attention they give you, and the way they make you feel so masculine, but to get to that stage on subsequent dates is a challenge. And even as friends, they can be quite high maintenance.

I highly recommend a dual strategy of dating regulars but sessioning with pros on your off-days. That way, you can keep meeting non-pros but you don't feel you have to try so hard to get in their pants. You'll feel a bit less pressure and frustration and enjoy your normal nights out more. Try to build a group of female friends/acquaintances for going out with, i.e., rumbear. You'll keep expanding your network this way and building "social proof." As you start to gain an understanding of how these chicas tick, you'll start being more successful.

Just NEVER take a rejection or flake-out personally. 99% of the time, it has nothing to do with you. It's just the way these colombianas are: incredibly immature, impulsive, confused, etc. Colombian guys are a bit more successful, they have the obvious advantage of sharing the same culture/country; plus, they just keep trying and keep going after every available girl they can; that's basically how they do it! :)

Just make sure to keep the pro and non-pro worlds as separate as possible, otherwise you could create an embarrassing situation for yourself with the non-pros.

That can be a tall order obviously but you gotta be careful about this. Otherwise, all the hard work with your non-pro group goes down the tubes and you'll have to start all over with a new group, which might be harder to do if you've been bad-mouthed around town!

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[Dealdo]

Gents,

SO:

I must say this is a first and I never actually thought about this because it's not my cup of tea but I have to ask:

Those guys who get with the "IN" crowd and hunt the "higher end" non-pros, how long do you suppose you can do that with out running into a problem? I don't mean like an extreme like this guy Diego but just losing friends because of the fact that you are using them in your conquests? After all those non-pros are somebody's daughter, sister, cousin, niece etc. Right?

Stay Horny (But Safe) My Friends!

Cubanut

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Cuba, good report, send my condolences to you Mexican friend.

I think he may saw that coming. Being a Latino he knows what are the non written rules between friends. And one of the first ones is DO NOT fuck you friend's virgin sister. If he has not intentions of marry her.

But you are in part right. Messing out with non pros may get you in trouble.

I try to stay away from them that's for sure. But not because I thought about getting my ass kicked. Is because las "seriesitas" are very complicated and opera like. To much drama for me.

Most of the non pros I mess with are kind of crazy and sluty. I love bad girls. They are more stupid but more easy to keep them away from my apartment. Being many times in ALL kind of troubles because of non pros made me realized they are for more serious and monogamist guys.

There are still some rare species in Latin American countries that still waiting for the love of their lives and dream about the prince charming.

Those girls are forbidden for me. I like to have fun but I hate to hurt good people. Pretty much all my non pro female friends Know that it won't be any serious relationship with me. That is the best way for me to stay out of trouble.

I'm with you Cuba. This is a Sex guide board, we know the main purpose is to find a good escort time. So lets keep it this way and we are safer also.

I don't know WHY this Colombian board is overloaded with reports about "My GF" "My non pro pick up" etc etc. Most of the time are not even true those stories. Most of the people don't even like to read about our girls and how lucky we are with civilians. I don't see how we are helping to our community. A guy who knows how to pick a regular girl up won't even mention it just like Diego. Sometimes I get contaminated and start talking about non pros answering those kind of reports. And I don't see the purpose. I participate in many other forums. In Español, in Russian, in Portugues in Italiano etc., and they do not show up what they don't have. Nobody talks about their GFs in a forum for escorts. I wonder how the English speaking forum have all this non sense reports. I think those stories should be reserve for close friends and private reunions. Don't you think?

Sorry if I hurt some sensibilities, is not trying to be an asshole, is trying to regain the respect for the majority who read the forum looking for some real escort action generally. The answer for non pros is ALWAYS the same. They won't find NOTHING new that nobody knows.

Sincerely,

DeAldo