Medellin Reports

[Nclpimp]

That bangs? I interested in perhpas doing comuna 13 o guatape and then banging after. Pm me if you prefer.

[JamesPearle]

I would have thought Tinder Gold was the best way to pre-arrange p4p before arriving but folks on here seem to be using Facebook for this. Is Facebook better app to use for this than Tinder? How do you know who is open to pay for play? Do you put something in your profile to signal that you're into p4p?

Staying at the San Peter through AirBnb. Nice building, great views. I ended up with a rear facing bedroom so the noise isn't too bad. I was curious about the bar with the loud music and ended up enjoying a few beers there instead of dealing with the noise.

I have yet to venture out to El centro, but I set up some contacts through Facebook and Seeking before I landed yesterday. I'm getting ranges of 150 K to 300 K on facbook and nothing below 400 K on Seeking. Most likely due to the fact that I don't speak any Spanish.

The first encounter of the day was with the 26-year-old with two kids on Facebook. She was very GFE, DFK, BBBJ. She would have done BBFS but I was hesitant and went con condom. She stayed for a little less than 2 hours but helped me with some Exito shopping on LA 70. Total damage 200 K including taxi. She asked for250 K when leaving but I showed her the WhatsApp message and she said okay..

[Osteoknot]

Throughout my trip I've had some interesting conversations with some of the girls I've seen that have given me some perspective / ideas about how Paisas see interpersonal and sexual relationships. There are definitely different tiers of relationships they have with men.

Four interesting categories that certainly had the ring of truth.

The Open Relationship with your Latina esposa caught my eye because that's what I have with my Numero Uno Novia Catgirl here, a pure Paisa. Unlike your experience, I have met many chicas here who expect their men and husbands to have affairs on the side. There is even a saying here that roughly translates to, "You can have a wife and girlfriends, just don't do it up front". That means do not fool around in ways that would cause embarrassment to your wife, her family and friends. Sort of, "Don't ask, don't tell". There is also another expression in Medellin that translates to, "When your wife cheats on you, she probably cheats with another woman. "

Both of these aphorisms I have experienced with Catgirl. The less than stellar days like the one I had recently with Caribe cause me to stop, pause and think, is it all worth it? I am really in love with Catgirl. We have known each other for over three years and been a couple for two years, and she is the sole reason I came to Medellin. The presumption is that she would be willing to settle down one-on-one with me and I am not sure that is the case. She seems to love her funky freedom as much as I do. Time will tell.

I agree your categories exit, but I don't compartmentalize the chicas as much. I see the chicas here on a continuum with the extremes at both ends. Pure hardcore Pay 4 Play at one end, and the real, regular loving chica on the other end. Amazingly, they all seem to love sex.

I have also never encountered a relationship culture close to the one here in Medellin anywhere else in the word, another notable point.

As you also pointed out, knowing Spanish makes a huge difference at whatever level you choose to engage these chicas.

[Osteoknot]

Oste amigo, "keep on fishing! Cut the bait (*****)". You don't want to put yourself in that position again with a known thief! Just my 2 cents worth opinion. Luvchicas.

Perhaps I did not carry over enough info from the previous posts about Caribe. The main reason I had an ongoing affair with Caribe was, best sex ever. Delivered early on time for daily morning wood.

She is the only girl who ever got me to tap out in the middle of sex and at the same time she would have none of it. I was never into Domination and Submission before her but she knew how to get me to do things in bed I did not want to do, never did before, and by the end of the session be happy that I did it. Until the theft I was thinking about possibly putting her in at Number Ten or even expanding my list a couple of slots to include her, but not now.

Does it make sense? No. Am I demonstrating rationale thinking? Of course not. Whenever my little head does my thinking for my big head, I have to accept consequences such as these. I have no regrets. Already in her mind it's as if nothing bad ever happened.

As long as I have Catgirl at the Numero Uno position on my Top Ten List as my True Love, then I can handle "come what may" (Shakespeare) with the other chicas. I have no death wish, but if I die tomorrow I die a happy man, so true, with no regrets. Ostee Out.

[Recondite]

Well it's not like I got funding, passed a review board or made a research plan. I do think it's interesting to try and understand why Medellin is famous for GFE and it's also worth comparing and contrasting with other mongering destinations. For me at least the answer is cultural.

You had to conduct an anthropological study to figure out providers pretend to be into us?

[Knowledge]

You had to conduct an anthropological study to figure out providers pretend to be into us?

Throughout my trip I've had some interesting conversations with some of the girls I've seen that have given me some perspective / ideas about how Paisas see interpersonal and sexual relationships. There are definitely different tiers of relationships they have with men. My Spanish is good so a bunch of them opened up to me and talked about goals, working as prepagos and their relationships. Of course I'm also drawing on my own experience. Anyway, I had 4 types of relationships identified to me: novio / esposo, amigo de verdad, amigo, and cliente.

Starting with novio / esposo (boyfriend or husband), what really fascinated me was how they all told me the same thing no matter how liberal they seemed. They don't want their novio or esposo fucking with other women and are not cool with polyamory or open relationships. I'm in an open marriage with a Latin wife and none could completely wrap their head around that. Even the photoprepagos girl Cristal told me the same thing and that was after face fucking her, anal and her telling me some crazy kinky stories.

After that one Facebook girl I saw yesterday Ana, identified a category for me "amigos de verdad" or real friends. Shed been asking me about chicas I saw and my experiences when the term came up. These are guys that they fuck around with for fun when they are single. But no money changes hands. Probably mostly Colombians but you might be able to get there if they really like you..

[FlappyGilmore]

Greetings gents,

I'm travelling to Medellin tomorrow. Solo. And I was wondering if anyone would like to join forces to explore the nightlife and other offerings this wknd. I'm staying in El Poblado. I'm easy going an ready to mingle with the chicas.

Thanks fellas.

Check your PM.

[ThatMurxGuy]

Greetings gents,

I'm travelling to Medellin tomorrow. Solo. And I was wondering if anyone would like to join forces to explore the nightlife and other offerings this wknd. I'm staying in El Poblado. I'm easy going an ready to mingle with the chicas.

Thanks fellas.

[Recondite]

Throughout my trip I've had some interesting conversations with some of the girls I've seen that have given me some perspective / ideas about how Paisas see interpersonal and sexual relationships. There are definitely different tiers of relationships they have with men. My Spanish is good so a bunch of them opened up to me and talked about goals, working as prepagos and their relationships. Of course I'm also drawing on my own experience. Anyway, I had 4 types of relationships identified to me: novio / esposo, amigo de verdad, amigo, and cliente.

Starting with novio / esposo (boyfriend or husband), what really fascinated me was how they all told me the same thing no matter how liberal they seemed. They don't want their novio or esposo fucking with other women and are not cool with polyamory or open relationships. I'm in an open marriage with a Latin wife and none could completely wrap their head around that. Even the photoprepagos girl Cristal told me the same thing and that was after face fucking her, anal and her telling me some crazy kinky stories.

After that one Facebook girl I saw yesterday Ana, identified a category for me "amigos de verdad" or real friends. Shed been asking me about chicas I saw and my experiences when the term came up. These are guys that they fuck around with for fun when they are single. But no money changes hands. Probably mostly Colombians but you might be able to get there if they really like you.

Then the category a lot of us can get to is amigo or friend. I think it's common for Colombian men with resources. These are guys who help them out in some ways. It seems perfectly natural to many of them. I think can like spending time with the guy and are somewhat attracted to them. I tried to play some games with a girl I saw this time and last time Sara where I told her I wanted to see her as a friend with no money besides expenses changing hands. She's got a steady job so isn't supporting herself just by prepagoing. She agreed to see me this time but wanted something once we got to sex (which I thought might happen as we'd been playing some games over text). Was really into talking to me and left the sheets soaked after sex. I told her I'd wanted to test if she saw me as a client or friend after and she gave me a long explanation about why she saw me as an amigo and how she saw amigos. I think the roots of why it's easy to get GFE here is in that amigo category. Some paisas just don't seem to feel much stigma from benefitting from sex and can genuinely enjoy paid sex. Now that's not true for all of them. I've talked about the mental gymnastics some do not label themselves as prepagos. But as has been the experience of others they may want other forms of help if not cash. All this applies to barrio girls the most I'd guess. I'd guess the upperclass women have a different perspective. I also think the amigo category is were the most scams and abuses happen (though that is up to the individual chica).

Finally, there are clients. That's more straightforward p4 p. Some of these girls are great actresses, though. Ana from yesterday was quite candid about not actually especially getting off from sex with her clients and never developing feelings. But boy was she a good actress when we had sex. I'll leave it at that. How they treat you as a client will come down to professionalism and attitude on their part.

[LuvChicas]

You fall off the cliff and have to scramble and claw your way back up. The "too good to be true" tale

For your amusement, I will admit I have not completely ruled out seeing her again in the future. I got careless and she eyeballed the combination to my room safe when I didn't notice so really all I needed to do was change the combination. But I don't plan on seeing her anymore this trip, and she never officially made it onto my Top Ten list, which perhaps is not such an obvious sequitur for the future, considering I have been called gullible and too trusting by many of my fellow mongers. Keep On Keepin' On.

Oste amigo, "keep on fishing! Cut the bait (*****)". You don't want to put yourself in that position again with a known thief! Just my 2 cents worth opinion. Luvchicas.

[RiceRocket99]

This trip was more of putting the finishing touches of my recent apartment purchase in both aesthetic and legal terms. Of course, I found time to mess around with the chicas, kept myself busy in multiple fronts. Couple days ago, I finally received the public deed and all the official paper work associated with my apartment. I now officially own a piece of heavenly real estate hehe, best decision I ever made, second only to making the virgin voyage to Medellin 9 years ago. There was a slight delay due to a correction that needed to be done on the title, so having a reputable and experienced lawyer is a must. I wanted to pay the property tax before leaving and found out it was only 700 mil for the entire year for a 300 million peso apartment! Doing the Math it's only 0. 23% of the purchase price, can't beat that! Back home in the Bay Area, I don't even want to look at my property tax that I got to pay in a month. I'm definitely looking into moving here permanently ASAP Rocky, even though I'm only 40, I ain't waiting till I get to my 60's to retire and ride into the sunset.

On a side note, there's a girl that lives in Barrio Pedregal that I've known for a while that saved up enough money to start her own nail saloon business. It's very small and can fit at most 4 people at a time and she had it built literally right underneath her house. I never had a mani or pedi in a long time so I went to support her business. Low and behold she has a very cute and young employee. 18 yrs old, white skinned, long jet black hair, petite body, very pretty face. It was 40 mil for like an HR and half of work, tipper her 20 mil. She was happy hehe. Rest of the day chilled and drank with both of them in between their breaks. Business was slow so they did more drinking than working hehe. Her mom was nice and offered to make sancocho, I said hell yeah. I went to the local store with her and bought all the necessary stuff to make a bombas sancocho. She did not disappoint, took her about 2 hours and it was very soothing to the soul. I just love hanging out in the barrios and literally no gringos/chinos in sight, no offense hehe.

BTW, I did get the chica number, saw her back in my apt the next day for 150 mil plus taxis. She gets paid 1 million pesos flat a month doing nails. Service was wonderful, loves to kiss, gives great BJ with CIM, her natural, petite yet firm body is just a gift from heaven and maybe next time, I'll convince her to do BBFS. I might have to wife her up before someone does haha.

Recondite, you got some competition in cooking for the chicas in Ricerocket99. I brought over a few Japanese ramen noodle packets from my local Ranch 99 Asian market along with authentic chopsticks hehe. It was intended for personal consumption, but then mind as well share it with the chicas. Some of them never had ramen before, not surprising since there's only like a few in all of Medellin. I've been to a couple of them in Poblado, it was fairly decent. I had to teach the chicas how to use chopsticks, funny as hell, too bad they don't eat spicy because I like to spice up my soup.

[The Tall Man]

I've enjoyed my annual visits to Kyiv as much as my regular visits to Medellin and it's painful to see what's happening over there. Guys here are a couple very legitimate organizations taking donations and helping with the largest refugee crisis since World War II. Most guys on this website wouldn't even miss $50 or $100 and you can probably imagine how much help that can provide in eastern europe.

https://www.rescue.org/topic/ukraine-crisis

https://www.icrc.org/en/donate/ukraine.

WTF has this got anything to do with Colombian pussy. What has ISG become, a gofundme site.

Seriously they got some issues back there but leave it there or in the USA as frankly people, gringos like myself who call Colombia my home and Colombians alike, could care less what is going on over in eastern Europe, heck this is why we are expats living in South America.

Give them your hard US dollars if you like but don't promote this BS here, at least post it on the appropriate threads like BS in Medellin or whatever they call those threads.

Much love and respect to all!

TTM.

[Osteoknot]

You fall off the cliff and have to scramble and claw your way back up. The "too good to be true" tale of Caribe ended after a few weeks when I caught her red-handed trying to steal money from me yesterday morning. She is the Web cam model who would show up early in the morning horny after a night shift of edging, for "free."

Well, as you have often heard me say, we all pay one way or another, either in the short term or the long term, directly or indirectly.

Things got physical after I quickly figured out where she hid my money, under the mattress on her side of the bed. As you also may recall I wrote before that she is big, bigger than me, muscular and strong. After some overturned pieces of furniture and spilled liquid, as I also unfortunately predicted I had to put a gentle choke hold on her to get control of the situation. She did not pass out but she immediately became scared into submission saying, "I was afraid I would wake up inside a coffin."

Take my advice from having been married to a once-violent female. Maybe not so much here in Colombia but the one thing you don't want to do is leave any marks on a girl from whom you have to defend yourself. The cops will jump all over that evidence and us it as a reason to arrest you.

Anywho, amusingly she tried to return part of the 800 mil she stole, but I took it all back. Then her severe mental illness kicked in and she went into a full delusional state of denial and told me she was just playing a joke on me and was going to return the money to me the next day. By the time she exited my hotel room she denied the event ever happened, called me a murderer, and kissed me on the lips. I gave her back 100 mil. Two hours later she texted me and said she was in need of emergency medical attention because someone shot her in the left ear and she had gone deaf. Paranoid schizophrenia.

For your amusement, I will admit I have not completely ruled out seeing her again in the future. I got careless and she eyeballed the combination to my room safe when I didn't notice so really all I needed to do was change the combination. But I don't plan on seeing her anymore this trip, and she never officially made it onto my Top Ten list, which perhaps is not such an obvious sequitur for the future, considering I have been called gullible and too trusting by many of my fellow mongers. Keep On Keepin' On.

[Knowledge]

4 PM most every day this time of year. It usually lasts one to two hours, sometimes all night.

This shit is doo doo. As soon as a mf get ready to head out to do some debauchery, it starts pouring down raining.

[Lucky Nuts]

I've enjoyed my annual visits to Kyiv as much as my regular visits to Medellin and it's painful to see what's happening over there. Guys here are a couple very legitimate organizations taking donations and helping with the largest refugee crisis since World War II. Most guys on this website wouldn't even miss $50 or $100 and you can probably imagine how much help that can provide in eastern europe.

https://www.rescue.org/topic/ukraine-crisis

https://www.icrc.org/en/donate/ukraine