Medellin Reports

[Hioctane]

First day in MDE and it is raining again It rained most of last May when I was here and I hope this trend stops as I like to do a lot of walking here.

Look up the weather data. April, May, June, September, October are the rainy months. I think I'll avoid those months in future trips too.

[John Gault]

While I was in the US at a flea market I saw some Betty Boop tee shirts.

I then remembered that my Pro Sammy has a Betty Boop hand bag. I invested $4 and I took it with me this trip. First a little back ground on her. She is around 33 years old and is a hot blonde who talks a mile a minute, but gives a outstanding BBBJ so I put up with the noise because it is really worth it. Now in the past she has been ok with me but no real besos or total GFE.

That said when I gave her that tee shirt she went nuts on me. All night besos and total GFE. She even kept her trap shut a little more. Best $4 I ever spent!

Another lesson learned. They should teach this stuff in school instead of the political crap that do now.

[Sky Ryder]

Most of us don't want to see her back.

I am NOT on that list! I was thrilled to see Marcy return! IMHO she is a real treat!

[Client 9]

First day in MDE and it is raining again.

I arrived three weeks ago, and I believe it has rained every day during those three weeks.

[Manizales911]

Most of us don't want to see her back.

Speak for yourself dude. I for one welcome her back.

[John Gault]

First day in MDE and it is raining again It rained most of last May when I was here and I hope this trend stops as I like to do a lot of walking here. It seems here in Itagui there is a curfew that starts at midnight. Something to do with a drug war that is going on in this area. A big police presense last night here in Mayorista. I went to sleep before midnight so I don't know if it is really being enforced.

I took Diana last night. She was hanging around the apt. And since she was really trying hard to get me I finally gave in. I was not sure to take her as in the past she was not GFE. The girl has that Asian look and is one pretty woman. I was just off the plane and against my better judgment I took her. Turned out she improved her performance quite a bit. No hurry from her and we even had a few laughs. She is a high priced girl for Mayorista and only goes for 50K.

Back on the strip I saw this blond girl named Karen that really fills out her clothes. She looks like the type that when the clothes come off it all sags. Not the case with her. She has huge natural tits that do not sag, also beautiful light colored nipples. 30K and in the room she said would I give her a tip if she made me happy. I said yes if I really was made happy. Turned out I had used all my leche on Diania and went a long time in many positions with no release. I told her I had had enough, but she said no I should come and then another 15 mimutes in the doggy position till I finally gave up for real. I gave here a 20K tip and she gave me a big smile.

Tonight I may call crazy Sammy and get the BBBJ that only she can give. She is a pain sometimes as she talks to much, but once in the sack she puts her mouth to much better use.

More info to come later.

[Av8r]

I see there is some talk of the Dollhouse on this board. I will check it out next week as it is easy walking distance from Mayorista. I have my hopes up a little as from what I have heard so far this could be an LDV of CTG type of place. I was there the second day they opened and I did not see any Pro's then. It looks like that has now changed and I must say if it is close to an LDV experence then that is something that many on this board have expressed as being a real nice addition to MDE.

As usual my reports will follow.

I went to Dollhouse for the first time this past Friday night, and I have to say it was a big disapointment. I agree that their business model is very confused. It's a huge place and it looked very dead because of all that empty space. There was only a sprinkling of girls, and they appeared to be mostly working girls, but not nearly as high a quality as Fase Dos or your average Mansion/Casa Blanca girl.

I was staying at the Mansion, and it was great getting Marcy back. She certainly had nothing good to say about Dollhouse, and was thrilled to be back at the Mansion with a new position; Manager of the "English Student Program".

[Shemp]

Marcy's back,

After her little "walk about" Marcy's has returned where she belongs, back with Papi MB, BBB y AG, in charge of guests relations and our "very important" "english student program"

Great having her back in a new team with Sara and Alexandra.

Casa Blanca Team.

Most of us don't want to see her back.

[Xxnegrito]

Hey buddy, you in MDE already, you said today right? Let me know how it goes at the Dollhouse if you end up going and I'll email you on that little favor I asked of you while you're there. Have fun and good hunting! Say Hi to your favorite girl for me.

I see there is some talk of the Dollhouse on this board. I will check it out next week as it is easy walking distance from Mayorista. I have my hopes up a little as from what I have heard so far this could be an LDV of CTG type of place. I was there the second day they opened and I did not see any Pro's then. It looks like that has now changed and I must say if it is close to an LDV experence then that is something that many on this board have expressed as being a real nice addition to MDE.

As usual my reports will follow.

[Shark Bait]

Shark Bait here, stayed at Parecro's place for a month.

As usual, everything was awesome!

I am a pereferred gust there since I have made about 14 trips to MDE, and every time, I stayed at Parcero's.

I am well taken care of there, just like everyone else is, although, after so many times I do get preferencial treatment.

Hell, one time, he even let me fuck his new girlfriend before he did!

They wash my clothes, cook me breakfast, and this time, Parcero was fixin some killer Chinese dishes like Shrimp Lo Mein, and Shrimp Fried Rice.

As usual, I meet other really cool guys there.

Since I was there so long, I met about five or six other guys there.

As you know, Parcero took down all of his threads and resigned from the board due to a lot of bullshit from this one and that one.

I AM here to say though that if you want the very best accomodations, stay in the very best part of the city and be treated with kid gloves, get a hold of Parcero, and reserve a spot.

If you don't have his contact info, pm me and I will give it to you.

Thanks Parce!

[Snoopdog21]

Thanks again all.

Cumulatively the group has raised many of the issues I myself have contemplated in one form or another. This is exactly the reason I had reached out to all of you. My hope is the "lessons learned" will benefit others as well. As with anything in life, one size does not fit all and I will need to come to terms with how I want to proceed.

I will be in Medellin at the end of the month at which time I hope to have resolved many of my own expectations. Don't be surprised to see a few words from me upon my return to the US.

Cheers.

Snoopdog21,

You Asked:

My question to the team: what should I consider as a monthly stipend significant enough to keep the pro out of the game?

End

In the very next sentence you say "I have already proposed a nice El Poblado apartment + separate monthly stipend".

So let's set aside the apartment costs and focus on what you actually are asking. How much money does it take to keep a girl from fucking for money? BTW-Some people use the word "pro" nicely instead of stating when a girl/woman is in fact a *****.

So it is helpful to establish if the girl/woman is a "pro" out of NECESSITY or out of GREED.

I believe a girl/woman working out of necessity is grateful when she does not have to continue to sell her body.

A girl/woman being a "pro" out of greed will have more temptation to make a few more bucks on top of even a hefty stipend.

That being said:

You make no mention of this girl having any kids or family. You make no mention of her education level or what strata she lives in now. You make no mention of just how "pro" she is. What I mean by this is does she work in a casa or strip joint or freelance only when the need(s) arise.

You mention that you are a slave to the grind so how hard would it be to sit down with her and grind some numbers of monthly costs to get a real base of how much of a stipend she would need to live on. Again, this will depend on if she has kids or family that will live with her and the bills she will have to pay (including cell phone). And don't forget clothing & shoes (women love clothes & shoes).

However:

Out of personal opinion, if you really want to give the girl a break. I would suggest that you STRONGLY urge her to get educated in a field that she can eventually turn into a career. Why? Well what happens if something happens to YOU? By that I mean if you can't or stop providing for her? What is she to do? Fall back on her back doing what she did when she met you?

Case in point:

I have a friend who met a girl 3 years ago in Cali. She was whoring herself out of necessity. He liked her and she him. After a year of knowing her he decided to do exactly what you are thinking of doing. The good thing is he got her a modest but nice place for her and her child and pays the rent and utilities and gives her some spending money for her and the kid.

The biggest part of his helping her though was he insisted she enroll in schooling in a field of her liking to keep her occupied as well as get her on the path to a career. I am happy to say that they are still going strong. She has had no reason or desire to go back to whoring her body. On top of this she completed her second year in her field of learning and has just one more year to go to complete & be certified. She already has a job lined up once she is through with school as well.

My friend has never had any "check ups" or spies to make sure she didn't go back to whoring. I can say she has been too busy to even do so. As a personal endorsement, I have known her for as long as he has and I know her to be a good person and I truly think he made a good decision to help her. She cares about her child and her family and wants to be in a better life and is very grateful of my friends help.

I read a recent post from you Snoopdog21 that you have decided to just treat your girl as a "Queen" when you are in Medellin. That kinda sucks since others will just treat her like a "*****" when you are not there.

If you REALLY care about her then I'd say do your due diligence and if you can come up with a Good Plan for her then Go For It!

Cheers,

Cubanut

[Golfinho]

Snoopdog21,

So let's set aside the apartment costs and focus on what you actually are asking. How much money does it take to keep a girl from fucking for money? BTW-Some people use the word "pro" nicely instead of stating when a girl/woman is in fact a *****.

What is actually being asked is 'how much ought it to cost to keep playing the girl, stringing her along'?

Reality is, if you have no interest in the woman beyond your own convenience with her, she has every right to turn around and milk you for all you're worth. Woman needs the security against the end of her youth/beauty, and some insurance for when the 'playa' tires of her.

[Ricker]

...There is a simple secret to not getting played and that is just don't have any expectations ...

That's it in a nutshell.

A very simple statement, but right on the money.

Helping someone out is fine and nice if you have the discretionary funds available.
Like Hioctane stated, and it's obvious, don't put yourself in debt for it.

It's when you put expectations and fantasies on your assistance, you can get played and hurt.

I'm no expert for sure, just learned from my past mistakes of being a dumb schmuck with expectations.

Good luck amigos

[Cubanut]

Hello, Team Medellin,

I am new to the team, having only been a voyeur of the form. I have done some time in Asia and throughout Europe (primarily FKK's in Germany), so do not consider myself a "newbie" to the hobby. Over the past few months I have made a few trips to Colombia, first for legitimate work in Bogota and Medellin, and more recently, to spend time with a specific pro. I have enjoyed my time with her, even to the extent of two trips to San Andres (which I recommend on its own merits).

I am considering taking her out of the game. I already know it is a crazy proposition, as I believe the temptation for a pro to make "just a little more" when a new Coach bag hits the shelf is difficult to overcome.

My question to the team: what should I consider as a monthly stipend significant enough to keep the pro out of the game? I have already proposed a nice El Poblado apartment + separate monthly stipend. I am a slave to the grind, so money is not the most significant issue. I am a man of principal, though I already appear to be breaking an important one. Don't fall for a pro.

I will have some intelligence to confirm or deny whether the pro is out of the game. I will also make a run for the south every month or two from the US. It will come to me as no surprise if the pro plays me. I would like to think I can walk if the circle of trust is broken. Yeah, I am nuts.

My last thought: why am I doing this? I have had a few lucky breaks in my life. For some reason, I want to give this pro a break.

I appreciate any insight the team may have. Ciao.

Snoopdog21,

You Asked:

My question to the team: what should I consider as a monthly stipend significant enough to keep the pro out of the game?

End

In the very next sentence you say "I have already proposed a nice El Poblado apartment + separate monthly stipend".

So let's set aside the apartment costs and focus on what you actually are asking. How much money does it take to keep a girl from fucking for money? BTW-Some people use the word "pro" nicely instead of stating when a girl/woman is in fact a *****.

So it is helpful to establish if the girl/woman is a "pro" out of NECESSITY or out of GREED.

I believe a girl/woman working out of necessity is grateful when she does not have to continue to sell her body.

A girl/woman being a "pro" out of greed will have more temptation to make a few more bucks on top of even a hefty stipend.

That being said:

You make no mention of this girl having any kids or family. You make no mention of her education level or what strata she lives in now. You make no mention of just how "pro" she is. What I mean by this is does she work in a casa or strip joint or freelance only when the need(s) arise.

You mention that you are a slave to the grind so how hard would it be to sit down with her and grind some numbers of monthly costs to get a real base of how much of a stipend she would need to live on. Again, this will depend on if she has kids or family that will live with her and the bills she will have to pay (including cell phone). And don't forget clothing & shoes (women love clothes & shoes).

However:

Out of personal opinion, if you really want to give the girl a break. I would suggest that you STRONGLY urge her to get educated in a field that she can eventually turn into a career. Why? Well what happens if something happens to YOU? By that I mean if you can't or stop providing for her? What is she to do? Fall back on her back doing what she did when she met you?

Case in point:

I have a friend who met a girl 3 years ago in Cali. She was whoring herself out of necessity. He liked her and she him. After a year of knowing her he decided to do exactly what you are thinking of doing. The good thing is he got her a modest but nice place for her and her child and pays the rent and utilities and gives her some spending money for her and the kid.

The biggest part of his helping her though was he insisted she enroll in schooling in a field of her liking to keep her occupied as well as get her on the path to a career. I am happy to say that they are still going strong. She has had no reason or desire to go back to whoring her body. On top of this she completed her second year in her field of learning and has just one more year to go to complete & be certified. She already has a job lined up once she is through with school as well.

My friend has never had any "check ups" or spies to make sure she didn't go back to whoring. I can say she has been too busy to even do so. As a personal endorsement, I have known her for as long as he has and I know her to be a good person and I truly think he made a good decision to help her. She cares about her child and her family and wants to be in a better life and is very grateful of my friends help.

I read a recent post from you Snoopdog21 that you have decided to just treat your girl as a "Queen" when you are in Medellin. That kinda sucks since others will just treat her like a "*****" when you are not there.

If you REALLY care about her then I'd say do your due diligence and if you can come up with a Good Plan for her then Go For It!

Cheers,

Cubanut

[Dornyone]

hi xxnegrito,

hey guy, my heart goes out to you and i wish you luck in your endeavor, although i have my own reservations about your situation. but you are an adult and you know what risks in your life are worth taking. however, i must correct any wrongful or off the cuff statements made. there are no pimps in medellin, girls work independantly. neither the dollhouse, casa blanca, nor i, or anybody in la mayorista or el centro gets a cut from the girls. they do what they do on their own. the striptease bars and most of the "casas" get their cut from the rental of the room, which is ussually included in the "cuties" price or is charged seperately like in "casa los angeles". no pimps generaly anywhere in medellin, although i´m sure there are some "pimping" or "gigolo" boyfriends,

xxnegrito, i hope that this phase in your mongering career passes in whatever way it will and you are unrep001hed at the end of it. just keep a running total of what you are sending and compare it to an average medellin wage.

if you are starting to pay more, then you are being played. i won't belabor the point, good luck.