Medellin Reports

[Recondite]

Good insights. I identify with a lot of your experiences and think you are on well on your way down the semi to nonpro path.

I wouldn't have paid Mariana in your last post unless she hinted / asked you for money or you are most comfortable paying her. It sounds to me like you stumbled onto a nonpro with her (I completely stumbled onto the nonpro facebook game by accident too and now its what I swear by).

Anyway, my thinking now is why pay if you don't have to? Lots of women will accept your money but that doesn't mean they expect you to pay and you may find you piss a few off by offering them payment. They will make it clear if they do want money. I've found semipros ask for a "regalito" followed by "da me lo que quieres" or an amount or they mention needing help with some expense they have like a sick kid. I'll give them 150 or 200 k in those cases.

Otherwise in terms of your observations, some girls who contact you first are cool too. Just chat with them and feel them out. I'd judge them based on how they comunicate and their photos more than who makes the first move. Maybe I like the flattery, but it's fun to get the "papsito" and "eres muy lindo" messages.

I also agree that setting a datelike mood and being sexually generous leads to the best results.

Finally I agree speaking Spanish reaps huge dividends as well as being observant of and reactive to the women, which it sounds like you were.

A lot of this has already been mentioned on the forum but wanted to share some learnings based on my recent experiences.

1. Add as many girls on FB as interest you about a month before your trip. I started a week before and am only starting to see the real dividends now (girls adding me, lots of acceptances).

2. Just message a girl the day you want her. If she isn't available, say it's ok and look to schedule some time later. No need to message her a month before your trip.

3. On FB, if a girl brings up a price, she's probably not worth it. All my best experiences were with girls who didn't bring up price in our conversations.

4. If a girls messages you first, she's probably not worth it.

5. When a girl comes over, offer her a beverage of her choice, it helps them relax and breaks the ice before you start talking.

6. The more spanish you know the better. My Spanish is probably B1 level but I still stumble over words. If you are fluent, you can develop a strong connection like some of the legends of this forum have (ex. RiceRocket). Learn some flirty phrases and just be chill overall.

7. Play some music while the girl is around. Colombians love music. Preferably something latino. I have had girls play Bad Bunny, Feid and some other artists. Once the girl is comfortable she will change the music to her favorite artist herself. The music also leads to dancing which is a great natural lead-up to the bedroom.

8. I have found doing some DATY early yields results and helps get the girl in the mood.

[JjBee62]

Can someone explain the currency?

When I see 70 mil how does that translate to USD.

I've seen Colombian pesos to USD online.

70 mil or 70 k is 70,000 pesos. Right now that's a little more than $14. The current exchange rate is 4990 Colombian pesos per dollar. Round up to 5000 and it's easy. Remove 4 zeros, double the number that's left and you have dollars. 50 mil is $10,100 mil is $20.

Do not pay in dollars. For most people tge best rate comes from bo fee ATMs. Depending on their bank some people can get a better rate from a money exchange, but not ine at the airport.

Many Colombians will omit the mil when talking price. It's always a good idea to confirm she's talking mil pesos and not dollars. Paying $200 when you think you'll only be paying $40 is a headache you don't want.

[DandyMan51]

A lot of this has already been mentioned on the forum but wanted to share some learnings based on my recent experiences.

1. Add as many girls on FB as interest you about a month before your trip. I started a week before and am only starting to see the real dividends now (girls adding me, lots of acceptances).

2. Just message a girl the day you want her. If she isn't available, say it's ok and look to schedule some time later. No need to message her a month before your trip.

3. On FB, if a girl brings up a price, she's probably not worth it. All my best experiences were with girls who didn't bring up price in our conversations.

4. If a girls messages you first, she's probably not worth it.

5. When a girl comes over, offer her a beverage of her choice, it helps them relax and breaks the ice before you start talking.

6. The more spanish you know the better. My Spanish is probably B1 level but I still stumble over words. If you are fluent, you can develop a strong connection like some of the legends of this forum have (ex. RiceRocket). Learn some flirty phrases and just be chill overall.

7. Play some music while the girl is around. Colombians love music. Preferably something latino. I have had girls play Bad Bunny, Feid and some other artists. Once the girl is comfortable she will change the music to her favorite artist herself. The music also leads to dancing which is a great natural lead-up to the bedroom.

8. I have found doing some DATY early yields results and helps get the girl in the mood.

9. Make sure to have a clean towel ready for the girl. It's just polite. I always ask them to give it back to me so I can put it in the washer so they know I clean it after each use.

10. When discussing common topics the answers are. This is not my first time here. I love Medellin. I don't bring many chicas here (with a coy smile). I have have both Colombian and foreign friends here. I will be here for 1+ months more.

Disclaimer 1: These are just my observations and what's worked for me. Naturally, other people have their own methods.

Disclaimer 2: Mongering in Medellin takes a different flow from everywhere else I have been. It's more like dating in that the more you put into it the more you get out of it. If you have significant free time and are interested in having a number of what are basically "girlfriends", it is really good. These girls are more than happy to treat it like an actual relationship.

[DandyMan51]

Note that this report is a bit delayed. I wrote it up but didn't post it. I already had a ticket to go to Rio when I had this experience so I wasn't going to get much more in Medellin on this trip anyways.

I finally am starting to understand why people swear by Medellin. Today I met Mariana who was the best FB Chica of the trip. I messaged her on FB and we couldn't meet on Monday because she had to take care of her kids. She offered for me to come over so we could talk which was surprisingly sweet but I declined since I'm not looking for a chica wife at this time. We ended up rescheduling for Wednesday. She was very prompt in her responses. I never had to wait more than 20 minutes for one and usually it was in a minute or two. No price negotiations on FB, the only ask she had was that I pay for her taxi. She came over at the agreed time (well, about 10 minutes late but that is early by Chica time) and we sat and talked for a bit. She definitely has some imperfections that were airbrushed in her FB pictures but she is thin, A-cups, blonde, and generally good looking. Not a model but probably a decent GND type. It may also be that are FB pictures are right but she just didn't have makeup on since she said she just came from the gym. She is 25 but had her first kid at 17 and raises her kids full time. She We had rather good chemistry and danced a bit while stripping and doing some foreplay in the bedroom. Did some DFK, DATY, BBBJ, and a couple positions before I came. She asked to take a shower and I got dressed. After which she sat next to me on the sofa and listened to some music. She asked if I wanted to do anything else to which I declined because I have work tomorrow morning but she also asked if I wanted to go to a salsa club we talked about during the weekend. She ended up calling a taxi and I paid her standard FB rate mas taxi. If I improve my Spanish, I could definitely get used to this.

[Zeos1]

Can someone explain the currency?

When I see 70 mil how does that translate to USD.

I've seen Colombian pesos to USD online.

Mil is spanish for 1000.70 mil is 70,000. Sometimes also written as 70 k, as k is an international abbreviation for 1000. So look up the quote for the conversion, which changes daily.

[Zeos1]

TSA does not operate in Colombia. Colombia is where the coffee was confiscated. As I wrote in another post, it is Spirit Airlines that confiscated the coffee.

TSA rules apply if you board a plane going to the USA, or even a plane flying over the USA. The airlines are required to comply with TSA rules. If it was a domestic airline and you were flying within the country only then TSA would not apply.

TSA does have a rule that pertains to carry on of powdered or ground materials and so I'm assuming that would be the reason. It's a pain in the neck for sure.

[Mr Enternational]

TSA does not operate in Colombia. Colombia is where the coffee was confiscated. As I wrote in another post, it is Spirit Airlines that confiscated the coffee.

But TSA rules govern all direct flights going to the USA from a foreign country. That is why right before you enter the plane there are people asking more security questions and doing random checks. There is none of this had you been going from Colombia to Peru, or Colombia to Brazil, or Colombia to Dominican Republic. So Spirit did it because of TSA rules.

[Lucky Nuts]

All but one of the bags of coffee I brought back were gifts.

I personally don't like most Colombian coffee because it's not strong enough for me, and I actually bring coffee from the States down with me to Colombia as odd as that may sound.

However I have found one coffee that I like in Colombia called Matiz # 9 and is very strong, and similar to Starbucks Verona Blend which you might like.

As far as coffee makers, I bring those with me as well depending on which Country I'm headed to. Especially necessary in Asia.

We seem to have something in common, but I bet when it comes to women, were probably polar opposites. LOL.

Haha yeah we can agree to disagree on women and it wouldn't be a good thing if everyone chased after the same chicas. Well maybe your point is you chase after the beauty of the ones some of us overlook. En todo caso it's all good to play the game differently for the overall good.

I haven't tried Matiz #9 but will look for it. I like bold. I'm not familiar with any Starbucks brewed coffees but I love McDs coffee LOL.

When I'm in SE Asia longer than my coffee grounds survive I do go to Starbucks and buy Colombian coffee beans. I bring my USA grounds and ask them to match that courseness. Actually I probably like that Starbuck's Colombia coffee better than my daily coffee in USA but it's a tad expensive for daily use at home.

[Knowledge]

TSA does not operate in Colombia. Colombia is where the coffee was confiscated. As I wrote in another post, it is Spirit Airlines that confiscated the coffee.

The 350 gram limit is for carry on coffee and it is a TSA rule, don't blame Colombia. There is no limit in checked baggage, but in all cases you apparently need to declare it.

[Zeos1]

To me it makes no sense on any level. I chalk it up to the same sort of pretzel logic that had airport employees handing out masks to incoming international passengers on the jet bridge. I hear that is no longer happening. This is how crazy that 350 gram rule is. There are three or four stores that sell 450 gram bags of coffee in the boarding area. You know how Colombians can be with regulations. There isn't always a thread of logic.

The 350 gram limit is for carry on coffee and it is a TSA rule, don't blame Colombia. There is no limit in checked baggage, but in all cases you apparently need to declare it.

[Knowledge]

I don't live in the USA It makes no difference to me. It was a minor one time inconvenience. The 350 gram limit is a Spirit Airlines rule. That explains why you can buy as much coffee as you like right in front of the boarding gates and bring it onto the plane. It also explains why it doesn't get confiscated at the x-ray machines in the primary security area. Since Surfer reminded me of it happening to me I remember the Spirit gate agent told me it is their rule and it applies to any packaged goods, coffee or whatever else.

What difference does it make? Everyone has their quotas on duty-free items. They obviously want you to buy the commercial products that also have export duties on them. There's no shortage of good coffee outside the US. If you want more than 350 g, ship it to yourself.

[Hunglow1625]

I've been staying there going back to 2006. I also do Airbnb.

I just messaged what I thought was Alexa, to see about availability next month.

The reply I got was from Geraldine?

I'm wondering if that's the same geraldine AKA Demi Moore from back in the day, that's now possibly working at M1 in the Office??

Anyone on here that's been to M1 lately, who has been going there for years might know the answer!

I'm guessing Alexa is no longer there. What a shame because she was such a sweetheart.

Quite a bit of availability at M1 for next month,kinda surprising Hmmmm.

[MiamiSammy]

Agreed, Steve has it right: GFE in respect to sex at a casa or strip club is just shorthand for BBBJ and DFK--with the possible addition of their being delivered with some skill, enthusiasm, and personable interaction. And, with luck, a bit of flirtatious, good-humored banter for a few minutes before and after entering the room, some apparent (even if just convincingly faked) enjoyment of the sex (vocalized pleasure, readily moistening up during foreplay and / or DATY, an apparent orgasm or two), some expert twerking in doggie and CG.

On reflection "PSE" might be more apropos than GFE for what I look for, and, as often as not, do obtain, in a casa or strip joint--or perhaps call it PSE* with an asterisk or PSE-lite (annal or BBFS unlikely). I say that as someone who's a highly selective geezer (one session at most every day or two) and can make a full circuit of the Centro casas without finding a chica with the hot enough looks and right vibe to get me into a room with her. And one who always gets agreement to the GFE/BBBJ extras in advance--rather than going with the flow as many other mongers prefer.

GFE is subjective. There's a difference when I stop by the GF's house for a quickie and when I pick up an SW. Ideally a girl at a club or spa will give you her undivided attention and not just fuck 'and fly. Of course, any illusion of GFE is shattered on payment.

[MiamiSammy]

To me it makes no sense on any level. I chalk it up to the same sort of pretzel logic that had airport employees handing out masks to incoming international passengers on the jet bridge. I hear that is no longer happening. This is how crazy that 350 gram rule is. There are three or four stores that sell 450 gram bags of coffee in the boarding area. You know how Colombians can be with regulations. There isn't always a thread of logic.

What difference does it make? Everyone has their quotas on duty-free items. They obviously want you to buy the commercial products that also have export duties on them. There's no shortage of good coffee outside the US. If you want more than 350 g, ship it to yourself.

[Ken Allen]

Noob question, can you bring girls to your room at Nutibara without have to pay extra? Going to Medellin for the first time and will stay at Nutibara.

Many thanks!

Can someone explain the currency?

When I see 70 mil how does that translate to USD.

I've seen Colombian pesos to USD online.