Medellin Reports

[JjBee62]

Believe or not, just because prostitution is legal, and it's more acceptable for men to be with younger women in Colombia doesn't mean that it's not a stigma for most Colombians to find out a family member is a hooker. Hence that's why I think you find girls working in casa's far away from their barrios telling their families they work in a store somewhere. And 40 K based on the Colombian minimum wage is about a day's pay, so it's lot of money for an hour's work.

I know Colombians that if they knew what I do when in Medellin, they would never speak to me again.

A single foreign man spending a lot of time in Medellin, not there for work. They don't know or they don't want to know?

That is the problem with folks that go to other countries to monger. Most don't associate with people outside of mongering and so they have in their mind that:

1. mongering is normal.

2. the whole country is full of hookers.

3. the citizens are indifferent to it or even welcoming if it.

I suppose it depends on which friends, whether they don't know, or don't want to know. I know exactly what Surfer is saying, because I have friends like that. I've listened to a few of them. They don't accept prostitution as normal and they don't realize how common it is. Even if they see a 60 year old gringo, having breakfast with a 20 year old chica, they don't assume it's the end of a TLN, which is what most of us would assume.

Here's two perspectives:

One night, two webcam models I was working with, sisters, wanted to meet for drinks, after their shows. I had them come to Jenson's, off Calle 10 near Parque Lleras.

We sat together on a couch, with me in the middle, drinking micheladas and talking. Eventually a gringo spotted us, did the math and figured I wouldn't mind letting him have one of the girls. He put on his best moves and worked at pulling one away from me. It was funny. One girl would be showing lots of interest, while the other was making fun of the guy to me. Then they'd switch.

When he found out they were webcam models, he played his ace. He not only knew a top webcam model, he worked for her and he could really help them out. They oohed and aahed over him and he got a smug look. He figured he had just pulled them both from me.

What he didn't realize was that model was my neighbor and a friend. He may have met her, but he wasn't a friend and didn't work with her Both girls had met her. If they wanted her help all they had to do was ask. They got him all excited, then completely ignored him and sat there laughing with me. He had mistakenly assumed they must be prepagos.

Had a Facebook girl meet me down in El Centro, at the Prado station. The plan was to go up to Parque Arvi, have lunch, walk around a bit and then head off for a nice long session. Even though she lived in the Santo Domingo neighborhood, she had never been up to Arvi.

When we got in the Metrocable to Arvi, we were in with a 40 something Colombian man, his wife and maybe 10 year old son. The family chatted with us all the way to the top. He was a birdwatcher and was excited, talking about all the birds he hoped to see. When they found out I spoke English, they wanted their son to practice his English with me. To them, we were just 2 normal people, not a hooker and client.

[Confiable]

This is very sad. It's like someone destroyed part of my childhood. My heart goes out to the firemen's family.

That is the problem with folks that go to other countries to monger. Most don't associate with people outside of mongering and so they have in their mind that:

1. mongering is normal.

2. the whole country is full of hookers.

3. the citizens are indifferent to it or even welcoming if it.

People don't apply common sense. Which I don't get it.

[DramaFree11]

That is the problem with folks that go to other countries to monger. Most don't associate with people outside of mongering and so they have in their mind that:

1. mongering is normal.

2. the whole country is full of hookers.

3. the citizens are indifferent to it or even welcoming if it.

Great points. Plus they do not the realize the work, time and money to be successful in other destinations. They think it is easy and all they have to do is show up and girls will be begging to be with them, and for little money. We hear a lot of positive stories, but I am sure pride gets in the way of hearing when guys fail and it is way more common then guys realize, it is just not that easy flying to other countries, not understanding the culture, currency, and not speaking the language.

[Mr Enternational]

Believe or not, just because prostitution is legal, and it's more acceptable for men to be with younger women in Colombia doesn't mean that it's not a stigma for most Colombians to find out a family member is a hooker.

I know Colombians that if they knew what I do when in Medellin, they would never speak to me again.

That is the problem with folks that go to other countries to monger. Most don't associate with people outside of mongering and so they have in their mind that:

1. mongering is normal.

2. the whole country is full of hookers.

3. the citizens are indifferent to it or even welcoming if it.

[Knowledge]

That is exactly right. I first came to Colombia for work reasons and I've had years of professional interaction with Colombians. Although they participate it is frowned upon and a source of national shame. There is an active and years long campaign against sex tourism and the sex trade in general. One of my favorite Provenza restaurants has a "say no to sex tourism" sign prominently displayed.

Another way to look at it is the girls at the strip clubs are in it for the long run. They are committed and full of silicone as proof. You see much less of that at casas, especially the mid to low end (Centro) casas.

Believe or not, just because prostitution is legal, and it's more acceptable for men to be with younger women in Colombia doesn't mean that it's not a stigma for most Colombians to find out a family member is a hooker. Hence that's why I think you find girls working in casa's far away from their barrios telling their families they work in a store somewhere. And 40 K based on the Colombian minimum wage is about a day's pay, so it's lot of money for an hour's work.

I know Colombians that if they knew what I do when in Medellin, they would never speak to me again.

[Knowledge]

I am not having problems getting dates. One girl who refused to leave her house the past couple of weeks showed up today.

I don't think SA allows nudity in photos, but I'm not 100%. Most have bikini / lingerie in their Private Photos, which you need approval to see (you can request). I took these pics the 2 times she came over. Ok, relatively speaking, for a 98 lb girl, she has big tits. No, they are not big tits if you are comparing her to the 180 lb broad in Juggs.

Has anyone been having successes / failures when trying to invite girls over for a ST during the quarantine?

I had somewhat of a negative tone in my last report, which is ironic, because 15 minutes later my esposa was raring to go! She should have waited one more day, in retrospect, but a little blood never scared me. Once I noticed, we got TF up out of my all-white bed, and put her up against the wall. Still. No. BJ. It's either going to be the worst of my career, or mind-blowingly worth the wait. (Or, more likely, I'll never find out!

The last couple days I noticed a topless tanner in a neighboring building, and a towel-only yogi in another. Anyone know what day it is?!

Cheers.

[TjBrazil]

A single foreign man spending a lot of time in Medellin, not there for work. They don't know or they don't want to know?

The whole stigma is dumb anyway. What's wrong with being a prostitute on your own terms. We all prostitute ourselves at work. We work for money, not because we like it. I hate most of my jobs. I do it for the money. A girl can make 100 dollars a day in Colombia while she is young and beautiful, but its looked down on, but working at Wendy's for peanuts is better. When I tipped the casa girl that I shacked up with for 2 days on my last night, the genuine thanks and hug she gave me for helping her out was worth it. There was nothing evil about us doing P4P. She was able to buy her kid food and diapers. I was glad to help.

[Surfer500]

A single foreign man spending a lot of time in Medellin, not there for work. They don't know or they don't want to know?

In my case I was working.

[Turgid]

.................I know Colombians that if they knew what I do when in Medellin, they would never speak to me again.

A single foreign man spending a lot of time in Medellin, not there for work. They don't know or they don't want to know?

[Surfer500]

. Still. No. BJ. It's either going to be the worst of my career, or mind-blowingly worth the wait. (Or, more likely, I'll never find out!

Your reporting on not being able to get a blow job from your wife is agonizing. So short of asking her, maybe touching your tongue or mouth and pointing at your pecker will do the trick. Maybe pulling down her pants and going down on her (not when she's on her period like others) will inspire her to reciprocate. Maybe just order her on her knees, pull your Johnny out and stick it her mouth.

Get this over with and report back, and who knows, maybe she swallows!

[Surfer500]

So these girls are going to work for 40 k instead of 200 k at Isla because someone might see them. Seems crazy. Who cares. Everyone knows how hard life is in Colombia. I don't think it has the same stigma it would have in the states. Tinder at least is a dating site. You can talk money through what's app if you like the guy. I see girls from my job on tinder. No big deal. The girl I found was a solid 9. Would have paid her 200 k at isla without blinking a eye.

Believe or not, just because prostitution is legal, and it's more acceptable for men to be with younger women in Colombia doesn't mean that it's not a stigma for most Colombians to find out a family member is a hooker. Hence that's why I think you find girls working in casa's far away from their barrios telling their families they work in a store somewhere. And 40 K based on the Colombian minimum wage is about a day's pay, so it's lot of money for an hour's work.

I know Colombians that if they knew what I do when in Medellin, they would never speak to me again.

[Surfer500]

I really hope you are wrong. SARS, which is similar to covid 19 has been around for 16 years and no vaccine has been developed for it to date. This is worst than SARS.

Trust me, I hope I am wrong more than you hope I am wrong. I'm just trying to brace myself for what may take place. Hopefully a vaccine and a cure is developed rapidly so we can get back to Colombia and banging all those beautiful women.

And the guys posting photo's only make it more painful sitting on the sidelines under an indefinite time-out.

[Nounce]

Other guy asked if I knew if the black girl was pregnant. Not sure why that matters. Not sure and do not care. She asked for 100. I jumped at it. Overpriced for that area but did not want to chance never seeing her again and miss my opportunity. I would have paid 150 for her.

If there is any reason, it is more of a compliment to the girl's body.

[Nounce]

So these girls are going to work for 40 k instead of 200 k at Isla because someone might see them. Seems crazy.

One reason is they can get steady income at 40 K but 300 K at La Isla will be hit and miss.

Everyone knows how hard life is in Colombia.

Many of them have one or two kids at home or maybe living on the street. It is better not to know too much about their life.

[SlapShot10]

Snapshot what kind of photos are on their private viewing on SA. Are they usually half naked pictures.

Did you take those pictures or did they come from her. Looks good. Not huge naturals but nice nonetheless. How was she in bed.

I don't think SA allows nudity in photos, but I'm not 100%. Most have bikini / lingerie in their Private Photos, which you need approval to see (you can request). I took these pics the 2 times she came over. Ok, relatively speaking, for a 98 lb girl, she has big tits. No, they are not big tits if you are comparing her to the 180 lb broad in Juggs.

Has anyone been having successes / failures when trying to invite girls over for a ST during the quarantine?

I had somewhat of a negative tone in my last report, which is ironic, because 15 minutes later my esposa was raring to go! She should have waited one more day, in retrospect, but a little blood never scared me. Once I noticed, we got TF up out of my all-white bed, and put her up against the wall. Still. No. BJ. It's either going to be the worst of my career, or mind-blowingly worth the wait. (Or, more likely, I'll never find out!

The last couple days I noticed a topless tanner in a neighboring building, and a towel-only yogi in another. Anyone know what day it is?!

Cheers.