Medellin Reports

[Duncan216]

If SJobs is a fraud. That was a hell of a lot of effort, and for what?!
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Anyone experience a similar situation?.

I've been in a similar but way less awesome situation. We were in Venezuela and she needed money to immigrate elsewhere. Long story short, I didn't give her anything until mid way through the trip and then gave her about 400 usd (I think she only asked for like 150) and one of my backup phones worth like 50 bucks on ebay about a month and a half in. She kept asking me to buy a few things here and there for her but everything put together was about 100 bucks.

Pros: She stopped asking me for money after I gave her 400. She started snuggling with me out of the blue and doing girlfriend stuff (not sure if I should put this in the pro section). She started letting me BBFS her a little time after.

Cons: After I gave her money she started asking me to buy more expensive stuff. I said no to about half the stuff she asked for because when I didn't say no enough she would walk all over me.

Conclusion: I should have just given her a modest allowance and told her she would get a bonus at the end if I felt satisfied. I also would have said "no" to her more since the sex and company was slightly better when she knew who was in charge. Like just say no randomly to even the cheapest stuff.

P.S. I was shacking up with her for about three months. She was hot but she was bad in bed and I only hit it once every couple days. I hadn't been to Colombia yet and she let me BBFS. Knowing what I know now, I would have just gone to Colombia or done more research and got a girl who could give a decent blowjob and liked more than just doggy style.

[Member #4665]

Frank11 touched on some things / asked some questions. She is artistic. She could learn whatever skills. That ain't going to help her look her mom in the eye in 6 days. Her and her friend were in the spare bedroom making belts and wallet chains, today. No clue how much they buy the materials and then sell the finished product for, but I can't imagine they'd earn more than the cost of a menu del DIA.

I know a little girlfriend she looks like a supermodel and she makes a lot of money with her behind. But I'm always telling her, "babe you have start looking for a 2nd source of income. One day you will be 38 and you'll still be beautiful but there will be 20 18-year-olds competing with you for all that money. ".

Time to look for degree. A lot lot of young girls today use Facebook all-time so why not work for Facebook? Or maybe they like YouTube and Instagram how about learning to edit video.

The situation described by slapshot is actually complex because if the girl gets money is an investment in the girl's life or is it to help her mom. Complex problem.

[SlapShot10]

I certainly wouldn't do it in a lump sum cash payment. Consider getting an item by item list of things they need paid. Then go to the landlord, GANA, etc and pay them yourself.

She did say I could send it directly to her mom. Given the fact that her bus broke down and got held up by some armed group of men, last time, maybe that would be the wise thing to do.

I think she is young, does not have income. This is bound to happen. Given what you said in your post, I would give her an allowance plus everything you are already providing her currently. Don't know if she can learn to be responsible and does not ask for more. It will be ideal if she can save some money so she will have some money by the time you leave. If she continues to give you different reasons that she needs more money, then it is not a good situation.

Probably the easiest route. Well said.

Damn. Whats up with you writing a long book. Here we go again with some drama shit to get attention. Trying to divert the attention from the new star Sjob. I guess this is what happens when you need to pass time. We know how this is going to turn out. Either pinky going to accept a clever lower figure or before she gets booted sex goddess is going to ask to move in to replace pinky. Whatever we know it always result in a Slaproseyending.

Blakhandedcomplimentman - I always appreciate you taking your fingers off your wallet for a couple minutes to chime in! Although, the Sex Goddess comment reminds me. She's waiting for her COVID test results, but she was sending photos and saying she can't wait to go down on Pinky. What a tease.

I might be seeing this completely wrong so obviously you can ignore me if I am. I have to say that I do not follow the narrative of every member and what's going on in their life so when you say "Pinky told me yesterday. " I really do not know who Pinky is and so I have to guess about some things, and when I do it comes down to this: I think you have a "girlfriend" and you are asking advice from guys who primarily are mongers who deal in transactions. That being said I have read BMs speaking about having girlfriends so maybe someone else could give you better advice.

So what does it mean to you to be with this chica? 2 000 000 cop would be cheap (centro regulars will not agree, but even they are probably not getting pussy twice a day and all nighters for 66 k a day) if you are banging her twice a day and sleeping with her all night etc for say a month.

But as you say in your post that she might ask for such and such in the future: You have to take control of that right away but first you have to ask yourself if you are ready to go the 2 000 000 a month. Cause that is what I think I would do if I wanted to be with her everyday and every night. I would be firm about the once a month allowance and then stick to my guns if anything came up in the future. They cannot manage money so I am not even sure I would not do the 2 000 000 once and then bring it down to a weekly say 500 000 a week. Let her know that is the arrangement no exceptions. Be very firm and be prepared to be called on it. Then stick to your guns.

She may or may not be "playing" you but Colombian women do expect to be helped out by men. It is a cultural thing. The lower the strata they more help they expect. Below I post a link to a discussion between some gringo expats that are not mongers and some Colombianas who are not prepagos, they are discussing dating Colombian women.

Pinky is a live-in companion / 3 some partner. We have developed a good connection, and know a lot about each other, at this point. Not a legit girlfriend, but some one I care about and enjoy her company enough to keep her around. She has had a very tough life. It's amazing what these young women have been through, compared to the average American bish. Frank11 touched on some things / asked some questions. She is artistic. She could learn whatever skills. That ain't going to help her look her mom in the eye in 6 days. Her and her friend were in the spare bedroom making belts and wallet chains, today. No clue how much they buy the materials and then sell the finished product for, but I can't imagine they'd earn more than the cost of a menu del DIA. That being said, I love the fact that they're trying, and doing something they enjoy. The only realistic way to make a quick buck in Medellin, for her, would be to spread her legs.

Anyhow, ex-Wifey is coming over for a double-approved trio (her and Pinky). I hope it's not awkward. Not sure if ex-Wifey knows Pinky is living with me, and she puts on a hard front, but is a cryer. Got to love a Friday night threesome party without even a thought about a condom. Their combined age is less than my own (I'm sure that's nothing special for most BMs, but if I was any younger, I'd be getting blocked by the Admin)!

[DramaFree11]

So give her the money and be done with it. Why all this back and forth stressing out shit every week? I am glad that my fucking habits do not get that complicated.

Great point, I am just not sure if all this is true. Many of the recent post make no sense on this page,(2-3 guys), sorry for stating the obvious. I am not getting in the middle of it, but I just do not believe half of there recent posts.

[Lugnut]

Anyone experience a similar situation? I was calculating in my head. All night 3somes, weekly, companionship, etc. What would it all cost? A hell of a lot more than 2.000.000, I think. I could easily spend more than half that in one night, for a similar experience to what I've been having for 250.000, more or less. I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas!

Cheers. Freakin weekend!

If I were in your shoes, given how she has been weaved through most of your stories on this trip, I would give it to her. It's not much. That's how I feel. I know you have been good to her, but she's the one doing threesomes with you and who has been there the entire time.

[Mr Enternational]

I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas!

So give her the money and be done with it. Why all this back and forth stressing out shit every week? I am glad that my fucking habits do not get that complicated.

I think you have a "girlfriend" and you are asking advice from guys who primarily are mongers who deal in transactions. That being said I have read BMs speaking about having girlfriends so maybe someone else could give you better advice.

So what does it mean to you to be with this chica? 2 000 000 cop would be cheap...
She may or may not be "playing" you but Colombian women do expect to be helped out by men. It is a cultural thing.

Never have I ever had a girlfriend that would even think I was about to buy her a $500 phone or fork over $500 to pay her family's bills. And I have had some really poor girlfriends in really poor countries including Colombia. It is no cultural thing that I have ever experienced.

His situation sounds more like a bill to me than a girlfriend. I certainly would not want a girlfriend if that meant being hounded about money every week. I would rather be off fucking some new pussy. $500/month to drive the same Ferrari everyday or $500/month to drive a Ferrari one day, Lamborghini the next day, Mercedes the next day, Lexus the next day...

[Mojo Bandit]

Pinky told me yesterday that we need to have a serious conversation. I absolutely hate that. Pregnant? Herpes? Post-Op Tranny? Fuck me! Just say it now! So, anyway, she asked for money for her family. To the tune of 2.000.000 COP.
Anyone experience a similar situation? I was calculating in my head. All night 3somes, weekly, companionship, etc. What would it all cost? A hell of a lot more than 2.000.000, I think. I could easily spend more than half that in one night, for a similar experience to what I've been having for 250.000, more or less. I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas!

Cheers. Freakin weekend!

I might be seeing this completely wrong so obviously you can ignore me if I am. I have to say that I do not follow the narrative of every member and what's going on in their life so when you say "Pinky told me yesterday. " I really do not know who Pinky is and so I have to guess about some things, and when I do it comes down to this: I think you have a "girlfriend" and you are asking advice from guys who primarily are mongers who deal in transactions. That being said I have read BMs speaking about having girlfriends so maybe someone else could give you better advice.

So what does it mean to you to be with this chica? 2 000 000 cop would be cheap (centro regulars will not agree, but even they are probably not getting pussy twice a day and all nighters for 66 k a day) if you are banging her twice a day and sleeping with her all night etc for say a month.

But as you say in your post that she might ask for such and such in the future: You have to take control of that right away but first you have to ask yourself if you are ready to go the 2 000 000 a month. Cause that is what I think I would do if I wanted to be with her everyday and every night. I would be firm about the once a month allowance and then stick to my guns if anything came up in the future. They cannot manage money so I am not even sure I would not do the 2 000 000 once and then bring it down to a weekly say 500 000 a week. Let her know that is the arrangement no exceptions. Be very firm and be prepared to be called on it. Then stick to your guns.

She may or may not be "playing" you but Colombian women do expect to be helped out by men. It is a cultural thing. The lower the strata they more help they expect. Below I post a link to a discussion between some gringo expats that are not mongers and some Colombianas who are not prepagos, they are discussing dating Colombian women. If you jump to 6:40 in the video the Colombian woman states plainly that lower strata girls are going to ask for more help with money:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2sBQLV0xE9Y&t=54s

[Kulibali]

No one is meant to give anyone 2,000,000 pesos. How about she start saving her allowances and develops a trade And then goes for little cheap diploma and an entry-level job. What kind of personality does she have? Will she make a good cook? Is she interested in coding HTML? Why not consider a career in computer science? She obviously has the looks to pay for at least part of her education. What's the problem was?

Don't give a horse a sandwich instead teach a donkey how to make a sandwich. The day a woman ask a man for that kind of money without justification is the day the man gets spooked and leaves. That situation sounds very uncomfortable and could even be dangerous. Obviously I know nothing about you, You could be the most humble reserve person, but generally speaking About other people That's why it's not good be arrogant and flash money around like a hip-hop artist.

There is definitely something wrong with some of these girls they want to have a 1,000,000 pesos smart phone but they make 800,000 pesos a month. Maybe they see having a dumb phone as some sort of status symbol . Why not get an $80 US dollar android and show us in what way the standard technology is holding you back. Can you do anything on that phone that actually demands more memory and faster processor is? Until you prove to us your intellectual technological capacity requires a better Phone use the affordable one.

Any guys in here direct straight forward and always telling people what you think? Go tell the pinky girl to stop Sniffing glue!

I think that 2 million pesos have already been given to her already, she feels entitled to his money that's why she said " we got to talk".

[SJobs]

Guys,

I just opened up this site for the first time today, I saw my name mentioned here and there. Sorry I don't have the mental capacity to read through all of it, but I will do it soon. I had back to back foursomes with some of my favorites since Saturday night, tonight I have a business dinner, after that with two super hot 19 year-olds for tln. I haven't stepped outside of my apartment since I got here, except to go buy with my girls (I normally just stay in the car and enjoy the view of the city).

To answer some questions about getting into Medellin, you need a PCR test that cost 200 dollars, just google it. Fill out the form online, it will speed up the immigration line. They didn't ask me for any app.

All I can say is that Medellin is definitely heaven for me, but sadly I think I've gotten too carried away, I received two complaints from the building manager about music, and girls wearing too little clothes coming in and out of my apartment.

[Blakman]

Damn. Whats up with you writing a long book. Here we go again with some drama shit to get attention. Trying to divert the attention from the new star Sjob. I guess this is what happens when you need to pass time. We know how this is going to turn out. Either pinky going to accept a clever lower figure or before she gets booted sex goddess is going to ask to move in to replace pinky. Whatever we know it always result in a Slaproseyending.

If SJobs is a fraud. That was a hell of a lot of effort, and for what?!

If not, I can attest that after a long night like he was planning (and his would probably be even longer than some of mine, because he's been chomping at the bit), there is an extensive recharge period, lacking of REM sleep. Then, a haze of a night, dehydrated and malnourished. Then, a good night of sleep. After that, I often found it fun to type my stories, as it helped jog my memory. I think SJobs, if that is his real name, could have put together a back-to-back, bringing in a second, or even third, crew. This would have kickstarted his energy and restarted the cycle. I did it once, and probably won't do it again. So, what I'm saying, based off the series of posts, is he could be hibernating. He could be making first, second, and third drafts of his big I MADE IT TO MEDELLIN Chapter One post. Or, he could have just been a really strange dude with free time and BitCoin to get a membership. Who knows. I hope to read about his first week. At this point, I forget when he arrived, and how long it's been. Maybe he should have given his address to The Tall Man?

Pinky told me yesterday that we need to have a serious conversation. I absolutely hate that. Pregnant? Herpes? Post-Op Tranny? Fuck me! Just say it now! So, anyway, she asked for money for her family. To the tune of 2.000.000 COP. That didn't go over well. I told her I shouldn't be buying her a 1.000.000 cell phone, if that's the case. I could buy her a 300.000 functional smart phone and send the rest home. She has a mom who is out of work with a young baby, and another young brother. I get it. I do. I also don't feel me banging Pinky, shacking up, etc., means I need to support the family. How many horror stories have we all heard about this? I said, so it starts with 2.000.000 to pay the last 3 or 6 months of home and store front rent, and then what? Then it's the same shit in 3 months? Fuck that. I told her she's snorted 2.000.000 of pink shit in the last 6 months. I also have paid her local rent, which makes more sense to me. If I kicked her out or she wanted to leave, I would feel terrible if she had nowhere to go because I had told her not to keep her room rental. She was hiding in one of the bedrooms, making calls and crying, after our talk. Her mom could be a scam artist, she could be a scam artist, who knows. I don't feel like she's a bad person, and she is living with me and not working. However, to send home 2.000.000, she needs to clear 3.000.000 with rent, food, etc. How many citas is that? She'd have to risk OD'ing at SJobs penthouse, if she wanted to make that amount in a week. We're both getting what we want. I almost told her to leave. It would have been so easy. I was gone all morning and was shocked that she was still here when I got back. The thing that pissed me off most was that she said WE need to talk. No, YOU need something. She also said 2.000.000 is nothing to me. That was the trigger that almost got her booted. I had to explain that just because of XYZ that she has witnessed, doesn't mean I'm a bobo, or that I don't have things important to me that I could spend 2.000.000 on. Fuck. I think she's a good girl in a tough spot, that cares about her family. I just wish she would have approached me in a manner of her needing help, instead of we need to talk about sending money to her mom. If she leaves now, she wouldn't send that much home until the holidays, in my opinion. She said she needs to go home in a week for an important family anniversary, so she obviously timed this. She was also filling out some application to be an online dance teacher, yesterday morning, which feels like part of the act, now.

It certainly took a little shine of the situation, but this is the fucking life of many Colombians. Her love, comfort, whatever with me is nothing compared to family. I don't think it makes her a bad person, or means I have to decide to jump into a sink hole, or not, but fuck... I could be blinded. She told me her friend lived in Spain and said it was so much better an easier there. You make more money, etc. I figured a traveling prepago, but she is a chef. I asked her how she'd buy her flight, let alone first month's rent. What would she do for work? Everything in Spain is significantly more expensive than here, etc. I had to drop the, how many countries have you been to? Ok, so you hear a story about ONE girl's experience, a girl with a talent in skilled trade, and you think it's as easy as a flick of the switch?!

Anyone experience a similar situation? I was calculating in my head. All night 3somes, weekly, companionship, etc. What would it all cost? A hell of a lot more than 2.000.000, I think. I could easily spend more than half that in one night, for a similar experience to what I've been having for 250.000, more or less. I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas!

Cheers. Freakin weekend!

.

[Surfer500]

Anyone experience a similar situation? I was calculating in my head. All night 3somes, weekly, companionship, etc. What would it all cost? A hell of a lot more than 2.000.000, I think. I could easily spend more than half that in one night, for a similar experience to what I've been having for 250.000, more or less. I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas! Cheers. Freakin weekend!

Straight talk, okay, your very lucky to have someone who is open to you having other women to bang along with her, and someone you enjoy being with. I can totally relate to how hard it is to find somebody you click with on most fronts. She said the $ 2,000,000 was nothing to you, and she was correct, ($ 550 USD) although you found it audacious on her part to ask. Can you blame her for asking after what you were paying for all the other Chicas and that Tussi shit? Perhaps give her just $ 1,000,000 instead, as she probably gave you an inflated number to begin with, along with a caveat moving forward relative to future RFM's like that. Basically 1 M is just a little bit more than the Colombian minimum monthly salary, and if you were to give her the 2 M, you would appear to be weak and subject to many future RFM's, whereas giving her basically $ 225 USD which is chump change for you, it 's somewhat of a compromise, which she may balk at, at least on the surface. Your concern is losing her, and rightly so, but 1 M, at least in my opinion is well worth it. This is what I would do, and I sent you a PM a while back.

[SpiderRider]

If SJobs is a fraud. That was a hell of a lot of effort, and for what?!

If not, I can attest that after a long night like he was planning (and his would probably be even longer than some of mine, because he's been chomping at the bit), there is an extensive recharge period, lacking of REM sleep. Then, a haze of a night, dehydrated and malnourished. Then, a good night of sleep. After that, I often found it fun to type my stories, as it helped jog my memory. I think SJobs, if that is his real name, could have put together a back-to-back, bringing in a second, or even third, crew. This would have kickstarted his energy and restarted the cycle. I did it once, and probably won't do it again. So, what I'm saying, based off the series of posts, is he could be hibernating. He could be making first, second, and third drafts of his big I MADE IT TO MEDELLIN Chapter One post. Or, he could have just been a really strange dude with free time and BitCoin to get a membership. Who knows. I hope to read about his first week. At this point, I forget when he arrived, and how long it's been. Maybe he should have given his address to The Tall Man?

Pinky told me yesterday that we need to have a serious conversation. I absolutely hate that. Pregnant? Herpes? Post-Op Tranny? Fuck me! Just say it now! So, anyway, she asked for money for her family. To the tune of 2.000.000 COP. That didn't go over well. I told her I shouldn't be buying her a 1.000.000 cell phone, if that's the case. I could buy her a 300.000 functional smart phone and send the rest home. She has a mom who is out of work with a young baby, and another young brother. I get it. I do. I also don't feel me banging Pinky, shacking up, etc., means I need to support the family. How many horror stories have we all heard about this? I said, so it starts with 2.000.000 to pay the last 3 or 6 months of home and store front rent, and then what? Then it's the same shit in 3 months? Fuck that. I told her she's snorted 2.000.000 of pink shit in the last 6 months. I also have paid her local rent, which makes more sense to me. If I kicked her out or she wanted to leave, I would feel terrible if she had nowhere to go because I had told her not to keep her room rental. She was hiding in one of the bedrooms, making calls and crying, after our talk. Her mom could be a scam artist, she could be a scam artist, who knows. I don't feel like she's a bad person, and she is living with me and not working. However, to send home 2.000.000, she needs to clear 3.000.000 with rent, food, etc. How many citas is that? She'd have to risk OD'ing at SJobs penthouse, if she wanted to make that amount in a week. We're both getting what we want. I almost told her to leave. It would have been so easy. I was gone all morning and was shocked that she was still here when I got back. The thing that pissed me off most was that she said WE need to talk. No, YOU need something. She also said 2.000.000 is nothing to me. That was the trigger that almost got her booted. I had to explain that just because of XYZ that she has witnessed, doesn't mean I'm a bobo, or that I don't have things important to me that I could spend 2.000.000 on. Fuck. I think she's a good girl in a tough spot, that cares about her family. I just wish she would have approached me in a manner of her needing help, instead of we need to talk about sending money to her mom. If she leaves now, she wouldn't send that much home until the holidays, in my opinion. She said she needs to go home in a week for an important family anniversary, so she obviously timed this. She was also filling out some application to be an online dance teacher, yesterday morning, which feels like part of the act, now.

It certainly took a little shine of the situation, but this is the fucking life of many Colombians. Her love, comfort, whatever with me is nothing compared to family. I don't think it makes her a bad person, or means I have to decide to jump into a sink hole, or not, but fuck... I could be blinded. She told me her friend lived in Spain and said it was so much better an easier there. You make more money, etc. I figured a traveling prepago, but she is a chef. I asked her how she'd buy her flight, let alone first month's rent. What would she do for work? Everything in Spain is significantly more expensive than here, etc. I had to drop the, how many countries have you been to? Ok, so you hear a story about ONE girl's experience, a girl with a talent in skilled trade, and you think it's as easy as a flick of the switch?!

Anyone experience a similar situation? I was calculating in my head. All night 3somes, weekly, companionship, etc. What would it all cost? A hell of a lot more than 2.000.000, I think. I could easily spend more than half that in one night, for a similar experience to what I've been having for 250.000, more or less. I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas!

Cheers. Freakin weekend!

I certainly wouldn't do it in a lump sum cash payment. Consider getting an item by item list of things they need paid. Then go to the landlord, GANA, etc and pay them yourself.

[Nounce]

Anyone experience a similar situation? I was calculating in my head. All night 3somes, weekly, companionship, etc. What would it all cost? A hell of a lot more than 2.000.000, I think. I could easily spend more than half that in one night, for a similar experience to what I've been having for 250.000, more or less. I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas!

I think she is young, does not have income. This is bound to happen. Given what you said in your post, I would give her an allowance plus everything you are already providing her currently. Don't know if she can learn to be responsible and does not ask for more. It will be ideal if she can save some money so she will have some money by the time you leave. If she continues to give you different reasons that she needs more money, then it is not a good situation.

I know some girls, especially the older ones, hate Colombian men or men in general because of her father or the father of her child. Personally, I would avoid putting them in the same situation again but that does not mean to take care of them long term.

I am the same way when I am working. Just don't have the time or too lazy to make arrangement.

[Member #4665]

To the tune of 2.000.000 COP.

No one is meant to give anyone 2,000,000 pesos. How about she start saving her allowances and develops a trade And then goes for little cheap diploma and an entry-level job. What kind of personality does she have? Will she make a good cook? Is she interested in coding HTML? Why not consider a career in computer science? She obviously has the looks to pay for at least part of her education. What's the problem was?

Don't give a horse a sandwich instead teach a donkey how to make a sandwich. The day a woman ask a man for that kind of money without justification is the day the man gets spooked and leaves. That situation sounds very uncomfortable and could even be dangerous. Obviously I know nothing about you, You could be the most humble reserve person, but generally speaking About other people That's why it's not good be arrogant and flash money around like a hip-hop artist.

There is definitely something wrong with some of these girls they want to have a 1,000,000 pesos smart phone but they make 800,000 pesos a month. Maybe they see having a dumb phone as some sort of status symbol . Why not get an $80 US dollar android and show us in what way the standard technology is holding you back. Can you do anything on that phone that actually demands more memory and faster processor is? Until you prove to us your intellectual technological capacity requires a better Phone use the affordable one.

Any guys in here direct straight forward and always telling people what you think? Go tell the pinky girl to stop Sniffing glue!

[SlapShot10]

If SJobs is a fraud. That was a hell of a lot of effort, and for what?!

If not, I can attest that after a long night like he was planning (and his would probably be even longer than some of mine, because he's been chomping at the bit), there is an extensive recharge period, lacking of REM sleep. Then, a haze of a night, dehydrated and malnourished. Then, a good night of sleep. After that, I often found it fun to type my stories, as it helped jog my memory. I think SJobs, if that is his real name, could have put together a back-to-back, bringing in a second, or even third, crew. This would have kickstarted his energy and restarted the cycle. I did it once, and probably won't do it again. So, what I'm saying, based off the series of posts, is he could be hibernating. He could be making first, second, and third drafts of his big I MADE IT TO MEDELLIN Chapter One post. Or, he could have just been a really strange dude with free time and BitCoin to get a membership. Who knows. I hope to read about his first week. At this point, I forget when he arrived, and how long it's been. Maybe he should have given his address to The Tall Man?

Pinky told me yesterday that we need to have a serious conversation. I absolutely hate that. Pregnant? Herpes? Post-Op Tranny? Fuck me! Just say it now! So, anyway, she asked for money for her family. To the tune of 2.000.000 COP. That didn't go over well. I told her I shouldn't be buying her a 1.000.000 cell phone, if that's the case. I could buy her a 300.000 functional smart phone and send the rest home. She has a mom who is out of work with a young baby, and another young brother. I get it. I do. I also don't feel me banging Pinky, shacking up, etc., means I need to support the family. How many horror stories have we all heard about this? I said, so it starts with 2.000.000 to pay the last 3 or 6 months of home and store front rent, and then what? Then it's the same shit in 3 months? Fuck that. I told her she's snorted 2.000.000 of pink shit in the last 6 months. I also have paid her local rent, which makes more sense to me. If I kicked her out or she wanted to leave, I would feel terrible if she had nowhere to go because I had told her not to keep her room rental. She was hiding in one of the bedrooms, making calls and crying, after our talk. Her mom could be a scam artist, she could be a scam artist, who knows. I don't feel like she's a bad person, and she is living with me and not working. However, to send home 2.000.000, she needs to clear 3.000.000 with rent, food, etc. How many citas is that? She'd have to risk OD'ing at SJobs penthouse, if she wanted to make that amount in a week. We're both getting what we want. I almost told her to leave. It would have been so easy. I was gone all morning and was shocked that she was still here when I got back. The thing that pissed me off most was that she said WE need to talk. No, YOU need something. She also said 2.000.000 is nothing to me. That was the trigger that almost got her booted. I had to explain that just because of XYZ that she has witnessed, doesn't mean I'm a bobo, or that I don't have things important to me that I could spend 2.000.000 on. Fuck. I think she's a good girl in a tough spot, that cares about her family. I just wish she would have approached me in a manner of her needing help, instead of we need to talk about sending money to her mom. If she leaves now, she wouldn't send that much home until the holidays, in my opinion. She said she needs to go home in a week for an important family anniversary, so she obviously timed this. She was also filling out some application to be an online dance teacher, yesterday morning, which feels like part of the act, now.

It certainly took a little shine of the situation, but this is the fucking life of many Colombians. Her love, comfort, whatever with me is nothing compared to family. I don't think it makes her a bad person, or means I have to decide to jump into a sink hole, or not, but fuck... I could be blinded. She told me her friend lived in Spain and said it was so much better an easier there. You make more money, etc. I figured a traveling prepago, but she is a chef. I asked her how she'd buy her flight, let alone first month's rent. What would she do for work? Everything in Spain is significantly more expensive than here, etc. I had to drop the, how many countries have you been to? Ok, so you hear a story about ONE girl's experience, a girl with a talent in skilled trade, and you think it's as easy as a flick of the switch?!

Anyone experience a similar situation? I was calculating in my head. All night 3somes, weekly, companionship, etc. What would it all cost? A hell of a lot more than 2.000.000, I think. I could easily spend more than half that in one night, for a similar experience to what I've been having for 250.000, more or less. I think a lot of my decision-making, aside from actually enjoying my time and experiences with Pinky, lies in the fact that I don't want to deal with the searching, the chatting, the rescheduling, the disappointment in a bad cita, etc. Straight-talk is ok, fellas!

Cheers. Freakin weekend!