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Buy my novels instead.
Originally Posted by AdventureSeekr
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I would consider myself more Libertarian than anything, but definitely hold progressive, liberal views, as well as fiscally conservative views. I think the Republican / Democratic divide is complete nonsense. Both sides are full of shit and are corrupt. Behind closed doors, they are elites and do what is best for them, neither party gives a fuck about us.
Anyway, I'm extremely tolerant of many things in life, but I am not tolerant of scammers, con artists, and liars. Allowing that kind of person into your life is not only damaging to your mind and wallet, but it also means you don't know where to draw a line or have healthy boundaries regarding what you consider to be acceptable behavior. You're basically a doormat and are convincing yourself you are helping someone to feel better about being taken for a fool.
I can send you my bank account if you'd like to send me a few hundred every month and I can send you some google images of babies if it makes you feel better.
I have a better idea. Buy my novels on Amazon one day. Thank you all for your attention. This has been a valuable experiment for me.
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Shouldn't have said "Republican"
Originally Posted by JohnGault
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I really liked your posts and could up to a certain point understood where you were coming from. You spoiled it all by bringing up politics.
Let me coin a new abbreviation. BHL bleeding heart liberal.
You are right. I shouldn't have said Republican / Liberal. Hot button terms. I should have said Literalist / Romantic.
I choose to see the world in more romantic terms. Hence my login: Loverboy. Mr. E. And many others will choose to see the world in more stark terms. Clearly they will not be fans of Monger Romance novels. But let's see how they do on Amazon one day.
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Bhl
Originally Posted by LoverBoy1024
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I guess this is similar to the Republican / Liberal divide. One side is all about religion, self-sufficiency and zero tolerance. The other side is about compassion, understanding different points of view and tolerance. I like my world view and you like yours.
I really liked your posts and could up to a certain point understood where you were coming from. You spoiled it all by bringing up politics.
Let me coin a new abbreviation. BHL bleeding heart liberal.
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Yea, I'm going to have to disagree on that
Originally Posted by LoverBoy1024
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I guess this is similar to the Republican / Liberal divide. One side is all about religion, self-sufficiency and zero tolerance. The other side is about compassion, understanding different points of view and tolerance. I like my world view and you like yours.
I would consider myself more Libertarian than anything, but definitely hold progressive, liberal views, as well as fiscally conservative views. I think the Republican / Democratic divide is complete nonsense. Both sides are full of shit and are corrupt. Behind closed doors, they are elites and do what is best for them, neither party gives a fuck about us.
Anyway, I'm extremely tolerant of many things in life, but I am not tolerant of scammers, con artists, and liars. Allowing that kind of person into your life is not only damaging to your mind and wallet, but it also means you don't know where to draw a line or have healthy boundaries regarding what you consider to be acceptable behavior. You're basically a doormat and are convincing yourself you are helping someone to feel better about being taken for a fool.
I can send you my bank account if you'd like to send me a few hundred every month and I can send you some google images of babies if it makes you feel better.
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Originally Posted by LoverBoy1024
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We are are all trying to experience life. We seek pleasure and avoid pain. As we move higher on the pyramid we look for more self-actualization and we want things that have more meaning for us. What we got before is not enough now. To obtain truly unique experiences, sometimes that means that we can ignore the scam and chase the thing we want.
I think I have a better chance of finding what I want if I develop a don't care attitude to being scammed in certain instances. Some times it pays off and sometimes not.
Money is more dear for some than others. Just as the poor girl will seek to lay her hands on money through scamming, there are mongers who cannot accept paying more than the lowest price for something.
The girl in my multi-part post was charging me more for just about everything. I knew it, but I ignored it. But in the end I got what I wanted. A memory of a unique girl, unique sex act and a unique church key to remind me.
There's only one problem with your approach, specifically in Colombia. It can get you dead.
I'm not one to fearmonger. However, I was somewhat surprised your episode did not end up with you being drugged and robbed.
You can stumble into an unique sexual experience, or you can plan it and seek it. There's something to be said for spontaneity and the lure of the unexpected, but with a Dom / sub situation you're much safer with planning and preparation.
While I don't know of any women who provide domination services, considering the number of submissive girls and bondage girls, I'm sure you can find one.
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Different Experience
Originally Posted by MrEnternational
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Nah brother. Someone's economic level has zero to do with how honest they are. Liars and scammers are liars and scammers and can be found in all walks of life. Preachers, doctors, lawyers, record execs, welfare queens. The only force at work is the character of the person.
Don't advocate putting up with anyone trying to rip you off because you feel sorry about them being poor. It is like the saying fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, then I need my head examined for staying around you after the first time. You don't just keep entertaining the shit like you think it is cute.
I guess this is similar to the Republican / Liberal divide. One side is all about religion, self-sufficiency and zero tolerance. The other side is about compassion, understanding different points of view and tolerance. I like my world view and you like yours.
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Originally Posted by LoverBoy1024
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Obviously there are different personalities that are more or less honest. But if you look at the group as a whole I think we can all agree that the number of scammers is higher than the general population. There are certain other forces at work. I do think there are many and poverty is just one. As I said; I am staying far away from the girl in my multi-part post.
Nah brother. Someone's economic level has zero to do with how honest they are. Liars and scammers are liars and scammers and can be found in all walks of life. Preachers, doctors, lawyers, record execs, welfare queens. The only force at work is the character of the person.
Don't advocate putting up with anyone trying to rip you off because you feel sorry about them being poor. It is like the saying fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, then I need my head examined for staying around you after the first time. You don't just keep entertaining the shit like you think it is cute.
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What day will Medellin start to pick up after Holy Week?
Originally Posted by Combo
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I've been in MDE a few times for Holy Week. The first half of the week will be fine. But starting Wednesday, things will dry up dramatically. If you know girls from previous encounters, you can probably arrange something quick with them. But if you don't have contacts, you'll likely have a hard time finding something.
What day will it start to get busy again? Will all bars and clubs in Parque Lleras be closed? Gustos? Would suck to lose out on a whole weekend!
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Originally Posted by Njoean197
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I ll be traveling to Medellin during Holy Week. How dead will Medellin be during April 9th through the 11th, that Thursday through Saturday? Will girls be around Parque Lleras, Will casas and strip clubs be open? Bars and clubs open? If so will they be dead? Anyone who could offer some intel / advice on best way to mongering and party during that weekend would be greatly appreciated!
I've been in MDE a few times for Holy Week. The first half of the week will be fine. But starting Wednesday, things will dry up dramatically. If you know girls from previous encounters, you can probably arrange something quick with them. But if you don't have contacts, you'll likely have a hard time finding something.
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Potential GF hotel
Hotel Zona A very close to Park Lleras appears to be girl-friendly.
The hotel policy does not address any fees for guests. Furthermore, in the comments section, someone complained about the noise.
From a guest's room that picked up a street girl.
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It will be very dead, most chicas spend time with family.
Originally Posted by Njoean197
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I ll be traveling to Medellin during Holy Week. How dead will Medellin be during April 9th through the 11th, that Thursday through Saturday? Will girls be around Parque Lleras, Will casas and strip clubs be open? Bars and clubs open? If so will they be dead? Anyone who could offer some intel / advice on best way to mongering and party during that weekend would be greatly appreciated!
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Fire
Originally Posted by LeyenLouvain
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But she owes you a cita. Why not let her do it on the strict understanding that there is no more money until the following time?
There is no controlling the experience with her. I am thinking she would not be offering to meet me if she didn't have a plan. I don't have any idea what her plan is. But I know it involves my money. It would likely be minimum a waste of time.
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Its all about the experiences
We are are all trying to experience life. We seek pleasure and avoid pain. As we move higher on the pyramid we look for more self-actualization and we want things that have more meaning for us. What we got before is not enough now. To obtain truly unique experiences, sometimes that means that we can ignore the scam and chase the thing we want.
I think I have a better chance of finding what I want if I develop a don't care attitude to being scammed in certain instances. Some times it pays off and sometimes not.
Money is more dear for some than others. Just as the poor girl will seek to lay her hands on money through scamming, there are mongers who cannot accept paying more than the lowest price for something.
The girl in my multi-part post was charging me more for just about everything. I knew it, but I ignored it. But in the end I got what I wanted. A memory of a unique girl, unique sex act and a unique church key to remind me.
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Originally Posted by LoverBoy1024
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I am staying far away from the girl in my multi-part post.
But she owes you a cita. Why not let her do it on the strict understanding that there is no more money until the following time?
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Nature vs Nurture
Originally Posted by MrEnternational
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So what excuse did Ken Lay and Bernie Madoff have?
Obviously there are different personalities that are more or less honest. But if you look at the group as a whole I think we can all agree that the number of scammers is higher than the general population. There are certain other forces at work. I do think there are many and poverty is just one. As I said; I am staying far away from the girl in my multi-part post.
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