Medellin Reports

[Beobeo]

"leche en su boca", "por el culo", "toda la noche".

Thank you.

BTW, do you always negotiate all the extra like CIM, BBBJ, etc before or after you met the girl. Some girls will ask for money right away, I usually negotiate extra with her then. Some girls don't mention anything at all, and just ask for the address. Also does anyone run into problem paying first then the girl refuse to do the extra that we agreed on.

Thanks.

[Trojan22]

What were some of your guys favorite touristy stuff to do in Medellin when you first went?

I'm sure you guys weren't non stop mongering so there had to have been activities or places you checked out.

Thanks.

[NeilGeorge]

This agency promotes socials as a way to meet Latin women and is having a social in Medellin on August 16-17. Wondering if anyone has attended? The location? If anyone has met girls who are interested in sex, or only marriage? Their website is loveme dot com. I am not interested in giving them advertising, so if the URL needs to be deleted, not big deal. They charge $450 for attending each social and I thought that was a lot of money for meeting some pussy. Most of these girl are probably looking for marriage, or not? Any men who have attended?

[Mr Enternational]

I am disappointed with what I have read over and over on this thread and on many others. What I see is people come to the board to try to get help getting what they want from their trip and all they get is people telling them they are stupid and to do something else instead. To those that came here looking for help getting what you want. You do you buddy. Don't let anyone tell you to do the opposite and seek other things. You have an idea in your mind of what you are trying to do, you do it. You may crash and burn and you may end up without what you want but you have to do you.

Sorry. I am just a guy that would rather not waste my time trying to reinvent the wheel. If someone with more experience tells me I should not get my hopes up for a particular thing then I have no problem listening.

There are times and places for everything. What one place is good for, another may not be good for. For example if a guy talks about his fantasy is to do a threesome. The advice would be different if he is traveling to Dominican Republic or Philippines where an advertised threesome is going to mean 2 girls taking turns with 1 guy, as opposed to if he was going to Brazil where the 2 girls are going to do each other and the guy at the same time. I am going to warn him that the Dominican Republic is not the place to go looking for the Brazil type threesome.

The advice would also be different if one was to pick up a street girl in Vera Cruz where she would do everything he wants for one flat fee as opposed to one picking up a street girl in Tijuana where they are going to charge for shit a la carte, even taking their clothes off. Don't get bent out of shape if someone with more experience says this is not really the place for what you are looking for.

I would rather someone warn me before I went chasing unicorns and going home disappointed. That is why I posted recent examples of someone trying exactly what another was looking for and the shit went down the tubes; because it is a nuance of that particular place. In Pattaya there are 10,000 discos where he can go do his grinding and whatever else he was after, but that same thing does not hold true for Medellin.

[PolloNegro]

Its all about ambiance; frankly, I can't do the sw thing all the time, the streets are noisy, crowded, polluted and just not conducive to me being put in a love making mode. Furthermore, there are many skanky items plying their wares. However, to think that there are no clean, attractive chicas to be found on the streets is a big mistake. I find that if they accept my invitation for a drink or a meal, if they're hungry, before going to a short time hotel I get really good service. I don't mind walking the streets with them, no one knows me in Medellin.

Became extremely professional. Being professional 24/7 eventually drives me crazy. The streets give me an opportunity to see how everyone moves, who, what, where, how, & when. Thats why a budget no longer matters to me, why pay 10 times a rate because I'm too lazy to walk around and meet people. Many of Veracruz chics are met by just asking simple questions. I'm not staying hidden in Poblado and american tourist areas and over charged for services, nope, I'll go to parque Botero daily & see who needs a companion. It's a easy choice for me! Pollo negro is out!

[Surfer500]

Its all about ambiance; frankly, I can't do the sw thing all the time, the streets are noisy, crowded, polluted and just not conducive to me being put in a love making mode. Furthermore, there are many skanky items plying their wares. However, to think that there are no clean, attractive chicas to be found on the streets is a big mistake. I find that if they accept my invitation for a drink or a meal, if they're hungry, before going to a short time hotel I get really good service. I don't mind walking the streets with them, no one knows me in Medellin.

For some, the SW scene can be surreal with what can be found out there besides all the riff-raff.

The SW scene is totally unpredictable, can be very dangerous, but on the other hand out of this world at times.

However you have to spend a lot of time plying the streets to truly experience the SW scene.

I know there are others that can relate to this.

[Linyjo]

I am disappointed with what I have read over and over on this thread and on many others.

What I see is people come to the board to try to get help getting what they want from their trip and all they get is people telling them they are stupid and to do something else instead.

To those that came here looking for help getting what you want.

You do you buddy. Don't let anyone tell you to do the opposite and seek other things.

You have an idea in your mind of what you are trying to do, you do it. You may crash and burn and you may end up without what you want but you have to do you. It is your money, it is your time, it is your trip. You spend it the way you want to.

Chase that unicorn. Chase that fantasy. Chase that dream.

When someone tells you do the opposite, put that in the not helpful column and move on.

When someone tells you some good advice on how to get what you want, take that advice and put in the helpful column and try to work that into your plan.

To those that think they are helping by telling someone to do something totally different.

There is nothing wrong with telling someone you disagree and suggesting a few different options.

What you should also include is thoughts and ideas that help him accomplish what he is seeking, no matter how you feel about it personally.

Too often I see people telling others how to get what the one giving advice likes and wants instead of helping the guy get what he wants.

Just because you don't agree with it or think it's a waste of time does not invalidate what he wants. That is what he wants, help him get it the best you can.

People are different. What you want could be different than what they want. Different strokes for different folks.

You think it's a bad idea to find facebook girls. Ok, say that but why not also use your experience to try and help him make the most of the approach he wants to take. Give him some tips on how to do it better, how to increase his chance of success.

You think it's a bad idea to try to create a certain fantasy, OK, say that but also share your wisdom and experience to help him try to build his fantasy and end the trip with a success instead of a failure.

Hey pal, I don't think Facebook is a good way to meet girls for sex, in my experience you will find "this happens" . But if you try this approach I have found that if you do "this and this", you will have better success.

Do you really think someone asking for advice to get "X" is going to abandon his wants and do what you seek instead? No, he is going to try and do his thing anyway. So let's try to help him get his "X" and stop trying to convince him that just because you like something different, that is what he should do instead. Please help him increase his chances of getting "X", because at the end of the day, he has to do him and not do you.

[Surfer500]

That exploding sound is the massive truth bomb you dropped with this post.

So which post and / or posts are we talking about here!

So many "truth bombs", so much disinformation at times, who knows what really is the truth some times.

[SpiderRider]

This is what I gather from reading here so please correct me if I'm wrong.

1. Average price: 150 mil plus taxi (20 mil?

2. Average time: this I'm not sure, people say they're not in a hurry to leave. In my experience, they leave after sex.

3. Extra negotiation: I know a guy that always pay 200 mil but he wants to fuck twice. Do you pay for extra? CIM, Anal and BTW how do you say those extra in Spanish?

BBBJ = sexo oral sin condom, this I know.

CIM = ?

Anal = ?

And some other extra in Spanish that someone can chime in.

Whatever I miss or left out, please feel free to add in. Thanks.

"leche en su boca", "por el culo", "toda la noche".

[Turgid]

For the life of me, I have always tried to figure out, what was so hard about going to Centro and Parque Botero and hand picking you a nice little 18 year old from Veracruz and having a really good time with her? Many guys on the board try and tell you that all of the girls from Veracruz and Centro are dirty. ..............

Its all about ambiance; frankly, I can't do the sw thing all the time, the streets are noisy, crowded, polluted and just not conducive to me being put in a love making mode. Furthermore, there are many skanky items plying their wares. However, to think that there are no clean, attractive chicas to be found on the streets is a big mistake. I find that if they accept my invitation for a drink or a meal, if they're hungry, before going to a short time hotel I get really good service. I don't mind walking the streets with them, no one knows me in Medellin.

[Beobeo]

This is what I gather from reading here so please correct me if I'm wrong.

1. Average price: 150 mil plus taxi (20 mil?

2. Average time: this I'm not sure, people say they're not in a hurry to leave. In my experience, they leave after sex.

3. Extra negotiation: I know a guy that always pay 200 mil but he wants to fuck twice. Do you pay for extra? CIM, Anal and BTW how do you say those extra in Spanish?

BBBJ = sexo oral sin condom, this I know.

CIM = ?

Anal = ?

And some other extra in Spanish that someone can chime in.

Whatever I miss or left out, please feel free to add in. Thanks.

[Trojan22]

There are quite a few. On Avenida Colombia one of the more expensive is Thematic suites I think its around 50 K, but very secure and nice with jacuzzi and they lock you in the room so you call the front desk to get the door unlocked this way both of you leave at the same time, no chance of being drugged. There another one I have used on Av 80 do recall the name and one near Av nutibarra why la 80, could not find on google maps but that's not surprising. I think on the Medellin List there is a section for love motels.

Thanks I saw Thematic suites as well but it's for 3 or 6 hours.

Since you can't bring in a different girl after the first time, this is pointless for me and I would rather get hotels which charge by each hour.

[SpiderRider]

You know, I think we all see this kind of evaluation all the time. To you the standard rate is 150 mil for an hour. With respect, that is a great medium figure to use when you talk to your prospective date. I've had them tell me "amor, I get 300 mil from my dates (I'm translating their comments) and I just respond that is too much for me but best of luck. This usually gets a 250 mil but only for you amor. Now is the time to inquire if you have any extra kink you want included or maybe 2 hours or whatever. About half the time this discussion ends something like 'you want more than I can spend' and we end our texting or she'll offer '200 mil and I'll cover my taxi's'. If the girl is really good looking it might be worth it but just remember if you beat her up too much in the negotiation, she isn't going to feel motivated to pleasure you any more than is necessary. You want there to be a little incentive for her not just in the monetary reward but you want her to think if she pleases you she may get another date or two or three while you're visiting.

Just to be clear, we're talking about 'prepagos' on facebook or twitter or tinder etc. Casa prices are quite a bit lower for the most part and street prices are lower still.

Yes, 150 k is the "50-yard-line" if you will. You can try to take the ball down closer, or get pushed back. Depends on a lot of factors. But have a point of reference, and some dignity and self respect. If you're going to let women walk all over you, or get trounced a war with a she-devil, just stay in the US or western Europe. Be civil, be kind, have fun, make friends.

[Knowledge]

That exploding sound is the massive truth bomb you dropped with this post.

[JjBee62]

I get what you been saying since I join this board. I am not trying to complicate things. I just find the perreo part to be fucking hot, similar to my fantasy of fucking a street hoe. I am not trying to take no ***** out to 4-star restaurant, don't get me wrong. I am not trying to date anyone when I'm in Sin City 3. 0 but at the same time I don't want every encounter to be str8 business, not in a club with a club chick, that's what my day time schedule is for when I prowl Centro for street-culito.

Paul Simon wrote some words of wisdom for you, back in 1973:

"If you took all the girls I knew.

When I was single.

And brought them all together for one night.

I know they'd never match.

My sweet imagination.

Everything looks worse in black and white".

Fantasies are great, right up to the moment they run into reality. Then you're left either feeling really silly or extremely disappointed.

Leave your fantasies at home and you'll have a much better time.