Medellin Reports

[Mongo1]

I will be visiting Medellin on Jan 6th for 9 nights. This will be my first visit here although have spent some time in Costa Rica (think Del Rey and Cocal). I had some great mongering time there.

I wanted to hit some of the casa's but would like to have a wing man if I'm going to be running around Centro. I didn't have any problems running around San Jose just not sure about the El Centro area in Medellin.

I tried to join this site but I'm from the USA and it looks like they are blocking all the transactions, kind of a bummer. If anyone has any hot fun chicas they can recommend send a few to a brother. Thanks all and looking forward to doing some posts on my research there in Medellin.

Hey all,

I have a couple weeks off next week and was thinking of heading to Columbia. Was considering Medellin. Is it the best spot for a newbie?

I have been all over the world (FKK in Germany, Pattaya, Tijuana, Havana, KL) but never South America. It will be my sixth continent, and I am open to any suggestions.

[Talon]

How do you guys trick your minds into believing this? Found a chick that was not a hooker to come over for money? Does that really make any sense at all? If she was really a non-pro, then she would have come for 0.

Actually she agreed to come over and share a drink without me offering her any money at all. I might have been been able to score for free but after doing this so many times I've just gotten into the habit of offering my usual fare.

I call her a non-pro because she told me this is the first time she's ever done something like this and I don't see any reason to doubt her as she acts different from all the pros and semi-pros I've encountered so far in Colombia. A typical FB prepago will:

1. Just outright tell you they're an escort or a "dama de compania".

2. Have other prepagos and gringos on their friends list.

3. Immediately act super flirtatious when you message them and are eager to meet.

4. Have lots of tattoos and / or trashy clothes.

5. Have lots of photos showing off their body and themselves partying.

6. Photos of their kids but never any with their father.

And then when you meet it's fairly self-evident that this is not their first rodeo and that once they get their money they're not interested in sticking around. Whereas with this girl I didn't get the same vibe, plus she happily hung around just to chat or watch videos together. Trust me I'm not a naive fool.

Please ask her or you tell us what is the actual difference between special friends and more than special friends...Before getting in to any type of relationship each party needs to make clear what they expect from the other. Being more than special friends might mean you have to take care of her family, including the kid she has with another man. And what more TANGIBLE benefit would you be receiving for taking on the extra responsibility? Usually none.

Good point. I think she wants to pursue a romantic relationship and might be seeing me as possible husband material. Which is why I asked for advice, since I'm not interested in settling down but I enjoy being with her and don't want to ruin what we got now.

[JjBee62]

Yeah, I just go with the flow, would never think of negotiating for GFE, LOL.

I know we all March to a different beat, but IMO, all the over analyzing, over thinking of this fun hobby, just takes the fun out of it.

I seem to have pretty good luck, so I'll just keep on truckin.

Happy Holiday to all!

Felices Fiestas.

I'm with you on going with the flow. For me, GFE is an assessment I make after, not an up front negotiation.

The silly thing, "simulate GFE" was a joke. It was a little poke at the guys who stay at the Mansion 3 times a year, never venture out of Poblado and think they're the king of Medellin.

[JjBee62]

How do you guys trick your minds into believing this? Found a chick that was not a hooker to come over for money? Does that really make any sense at all? If she was really a non-pro, then she would have come for 0.

One man's junk is another man's treasure.

Or one man's non-pro is another man's puta. Or one man's non-pro has been paid to handle a lot of other men's junk.

Another tip, college student in Colombia generally means high school. Universidad is a university student. Both terms are abused by Colombians. If she ever attended University, even if for one day, she'll be claiming to be a student until she's 30. After that she'll toss it out to suggest she graduated.

Met a university student in Bogota 4 years ago. She even had her student ID and showed me around the university. Almost 3 years later I found out she hadn't been a student for 4 years. Also found out she was 5 years older than she claimed. So far, she's claimed to be a student, in a 4 year program, for 6 years and people are still believing her. If you're wondering, webcam model.

Please ask her or you tell us what is the actual difference between special friends and more than special friends. Two days ago when I got off a street chick in Tijuana we were talking while getting dressed and I forgot what she said, but I responded "but I might want to be novio". She said, "That costs more!" I had to give her a high 5 on that one.

Before getting in to any type of relationship each party needs to make clear what they expect from the other. Being more than special friends might mean you have to take care of her family, including the kid she has with another man. And what more TANGIBLE benefit would you be receiving for taking on the extra responsibility? Usually none.

Being more than special friends means you get to pay more and get less.

[Mr Enternational]

Agree that it does not matter what one considers a GFE or how to define it, it is kind of like beauty, it is hard to describe but you know it when you see it.

But if it is going to cost you extra then you better know how to describe it. Other wise how will the service provider know what to give you? Like the brother that was in Sosua the other day asking for a complete massage and was disppointed when they didn't jack him off or suck his dick at the end. Yeah, he knew it when he saw it, but unfortunately for him, they didn't know what he wanted to see.

[Mr Enternational]

I have a couple weeks off next week and was thinking of heading to Columbia. Was considering Medellin. Is it the best spot for a newbie?

I have been all over the world (FKK in Germany, Pattaya, Tijuana, Havana, KL) but never South America. It will be my sixth continent, and I am open to any suggestions.

Medellin is not in Columbia and Columbia is not in South America.

[Mr Enternational]

I caught a non-pro college student who was at first suspicious of me but after some gentle small talk agreed to come to my place for 150 mil.

How do you guys trick your minds into believing this? Found a chick that was not a hooker to come over for money? Does that really make any sense at all? If she was really a non-pro, then she would have come for 0.

We've kept in touch while I'm stuck in Sex Prison (aka America) and lately she's been saying that she wants us to be more than just "special friends".

Please ask her or you tell us what is the actual difference between special friends and more than special friends. Two days ago when I got off a street chick in Tijuana we were talking while getting dressed and I forgot what she said, but I responded "but I might want to be novio". She said, "That costs more!" I had to give her a high 5 on that one.

Before getting in to any type of relationship each party needs to make clear what they expect from the other. Being more than special friends might mean you have to take care of her family, including the kid she has with another man. And what more TANGIBLE benefit would you be receiving for taking on the extra responsibility? Usually none.

[Balboa]

I think what he means with Simulated GFE vs GFE with a working girl is. The initiative. Like if you meet a chick and she is just horny for you and there is chemistry and she attacks your cock and kisses you and doesn't really care about rubbers and all these rules and lets you do pretty much anything without whipping out a menu item of how much things will cost. That is GFE. BUT if you got to tip her for everything little thing, BBJ, more passionate besos etc then that is the simulated GFE, cause she is doing it but it is almost with less passion and more cause you had to pay more. It is not soething she wold do if given a choice.

Yeah, I just go with the flow, would never think of negotiating for GFE, LOL.

I know we all March to a different beat, but IMO, all the over analyzing, over thinking of this fun hobby, just takes the fun out of it.

I seem to have pretty good luck, so I'll just keep on truckin.

Happy Holiday to all!

Felices Fiestas.

[BlueChange]

Actually you are completely wrong. The definition of GFE varies mildly between mongers. But let's use your definition, which is commonly accepted in the mongering world. So for the sake of argument, let's assume GFE entails kissing, BBBJ and DATY, just as how a real, unpaid girlfriend would perform. It is of no relevance whatsoever if you have to request these acts or not, or if you have to pay extra. As long as the prostitute is doing it as part of a paid session of sexual acts, it is GFE. Period. To contend whether GFE vs "simulated GFE" depends on whether you pay extra or not, or if you have to verbally request it, is just completely asinine. So by your contention, GFE is where a session with a prostitute involves kissing / BBBJ / DATY. But you're saying if you verbally ask for one or more of those acts, the GFE automatically gets transformed into "simulated GFE. " So if prostitute is performing CBJ and a monger utters two words "no condom" which results in the prostitute removing the condom and performing BBBJ, then you have yourself a "simulated GFE" session all because of two words the monger spoke? Utterly ridiculous. Or if a prostitute refuses to kiss, you offer her $1 extra, then she agrees to kissing. That $1 magically transformed the session into "simulated GFE?" Utterly laughable! If you're paying a prostitute for kissing / BBBJ / DATY, whether it is considered an upgraded or verbally requested service or not, you are getting GFE. And "simulated GFE" is a term which makes no sense. A simulation of a simulation. What's the point of that? Can you name one other thing on Earth that is a simulation of a simulation? I'd be hard pressed to think of one myself.

"Simulated GFE flat out doesn't exist. The only thing I can think of that could even remotely be a possibility is if your real, unpaid girlfriend who normally doesn't perform one or more of kissing / BBBJ / DATY suddenly agrees to one of these acts if you paid her.

I think what he means with Simulated GFE vs GFE with a working girl is. The initiative. Like if you meet a chick and she is just horny for you and there is chemistry and she attacks your cock and kisses you and doesn't really care about rubbers and all these rules and lets you do pretty much anything without whipping out a menu item of how much things will cost. That is GFE. BUT if you got to tip her for everything little thing, BBJ, more passionate besos etc then that is the simulated GFE, cause she is doing it but it is almost with less passion and more cause you had to pay more. It is not soething she wold do if given a choice.

[The Tall Man]

Ain't that the truth! In the huge dragnet of messages I sent I caught a non-pro college student who was at first suspicious of me but after some gentle small talk agreed to come to my place for 150 mil. Showed up wearing a gray college uniform which I found pretty hot. She was a total sweetheart, one of the best GFE I've ever had and gave a phenomenally good bbj. She quickly became one of my regulars and seemed to genuinely love being around me. Even bought me a small gift before I departed Medellin, something I never expected and found touching.

We've kept in touch while I'm stuck in Sex Prison (aka America) and lately she's been saying that she wants us to be more than just "special friends". It's tempting but I doubt I'd be able to stay monogamous and I'm addicted to the constant hunt of finding newer better sexual partners and experiences. Any of you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

With regards how to handle a request for more than just being special friends, you need to manage the situation, DO NOT take anything serious (been there and done that) and you can and will have lot's of fun. Enjoy it.

I have 2 very special ladies at this time in Medellin that has evolved into a very special friendship that leaves me completely satisfied, I mean completely satisfied with deep emotional sex and connection that I have never experienced in my life, simply incredible, I tell myself how lucky I am.

Take it slow with your gal and you never know.

The Tall Man.

[The Tall Man]

Lighten up Dr Fun, no need to analyze it that much, LOL.

It just really doesn't matter what someone calls it.

Agree that it does not matter what one considers a GFE or how to define it, it is kind of like beauty, it is hard to describe but you know it when you see it.

The Tall Man.

[The Tall Man]

The FB girst can be worth the effort. Just start friending a few girls and over time you will get more friend requests. Sometimes you will find a real Gem.

Yep that's the ticket with FB, a good friend of mine who is not on this forum board now gets 5 to 10 requests EACH DAYfrom FB girls in Medellin, it is taken off!

The Tall Man.

[Tnrwv]

Hey all,

I have a couple weeks off next week and was thinking of heading to Columbia. Was considering Medellin. Is it the best spot for a newbie?

I have been all over the world (FKK in Germany, Pattaya, Tijuana, Havana, KL) but never South America. It will be my sixth continent, and I am open to any suggestions.

[Wolf662]

Even bought me a small gift before I departed Medellin, something I never expected and found touching.

Ha, that happened on my 2nd trip last year, my main girl brought me a present, a stuffed tiger with "Te Amo" on it. Right after she left I had a cute VeraCruz street chick over to the hotel for our 2nd date, she saw the tiger and squealed in delight, "Un regalo para mi!" Sigh, I let her keep it, she sent me a pic of her with it. LOL.

We've kept in touch while I'm stuck in Sex Prison (aka America) and lately she's been saying that she wants us to be more than just "special friends". It's tempting but I doubt I'd be able to stay monogamous and I'm addicted to the constant hunt of finding newer better sexual partners and experiences. Any of you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?

Sure, ride it out as long as you are enjoying your time with her.

[Talon]

The FB girst can be worth the effort. Just start friending a few girls and over time you will get more friend requests. Sometimes you will find a real Gem.

Ain't that the truth! In the huge dragnet of messages I sent I caught a non-pro college student who was at first suspicious of me but after some gentle small talk agreed to come to my place for 150 mil. Showed up wearing a gray college uniform which I found pretty hot. She was a total sweetheart, one of the best GFE I've ever had and gave a phenomenally good bbj. She quickly became one of my regulars and seemed to genuinely love being around me. Even bought me a small gift before I departed Medellin, something I never expected and found touching.

We've kept in touch while I'm stuck in Sex Prison (aka America) and lately she's been saying that she wants us to be more than just "special friends". It's tempting but I doubt I'd be able to stay monogamous and I'm addicted to the constant hunt of finding newer better sexual partners and experiences. Any of you ever been in this situation? How did you handle it?