Medellin Reports

[John Gault]

I've already said yes so I'm committed. Based on our history I trust her. I'm just not sure what I'm getting into with a family finca party.

I'm more in the "understand a lot of Spanish and can converse" category, but I can get by. She doesn't speak any english, so she knows my skills.

Thanks for the tip on bringing a gift. JjBee62 mentioned the same thing.

Someone there will be more than happy to go to the store for you if you forget to bring a few bottles.

[AfternoonSnack]

Yep, this happens quite a bit after the 3rd date, I usually just tell them that I wouldn't be comfortable doing that. It could be a perfectly good time but I tend to err on the side of caution.

I've already said yes so I'm committed. Based on our history I trust her. I'm just not sure what I'm getting into with a family finca party.

If you have Spanish speaking skills, or let's say you understand a lot of Spanish and can converse, I would go to the party for sure.

There will be lot's of booze and probably some very good food as well.

If your limited to using a translator all the time it might be awkward for you.

If you go, bring a couple bottles of liquor for the party, everybody will love you. LOL.

I'm more in the "understand a lot of Spanish and can converse" category, but I can get by. She doesn't speak any english, so she knows my skills.

Thanks for the tip on bringing a gift. JjBee62 mentioned the same thing.

[Mongo1]

I have really had a great massage from Lexi which in a independent. She has a nice in-call location close to UniCentro in Laureles. I did the 90 minute which did include full service and BBBJ on the flip.

I saw her 3 times on my last trip I enjoyed it so much. Another one is Spa Manos de Seda, more of a legit independent masseuse which has a pretty erotic style to it. Amatsu is really good if your looking for a good legit massage. Spa Therapias Medellin $150,000 90 minutes legit spot. I enjoy my massages a lot and will usually get one every other day when I'm visiting.

Had a very relaxing weekend in Medellin getting trying out some erotic massage parlors.

1 - Luxuri Tentaciones (can be found on mileroticos by searching 'Luxuri') - I pre-arranged a 1 HR session with Sofia (180 k) the good news is she is even more stunning than the photos on the website. The bad news is the location is a dump. It is on the first floor of a confusing apartment complex and smells like trash. The massage was nothing to write home about but got OWO and FS for 180 k. I'd recommend an outcall next time.

2 - Atenea (Spa Atenea on google) - I chose Heidy and she was exactly my type, slender and clean shaven. 1 HR massage for 200 k the massage itself was just okay, she was a little rough for my liking but the handjob was the best I've ever had, she clearly knew what she was doing. No option for FS but the happy ending was amazing.

3 - Spa in San Diego Neighborhood (no name yet) - found a massage parlor in an apartment building near Centro Comercial San Diego and booked with Paula. They appear to be new and can only be found on mileroticos, search "San Diego" under masajes and you will find a few postings with similar descriptions, just different photos and phone numbers. Each masseuse appears to be independent, but shares the common studio. Paula was stunning, 150 k for 1 HR massage. Definitely the best massage of the trip, body-to-body and touching was allowed (including FIV) but no FS. HJ was great but did not come close to Heidy at Atenea.

I have done the bigger "name-brand" parlors in Medellin before (Om Spa, Tantra, Fantasia, etc.) and am starting to like the smaller ones better. I would not recommend Luxuri for a straight-up massage, but the others listed above were both more than adequate.

[Surfer500]

I'm headed back to Medellin next week and my semi-pro novia invited me to a family finca party to meet her grandmother and the rest of her extended family. Any idea what I'm in for?

If you have Spanish speaking skills, or let's say you understand a lot of Spanish and can converse, I would go to the party for sure.

There will be lot's of booze and probably some very good food as well.

If your limited to using a translator all the time it might be awkward for you.

If you go, bring a couple bottles of liquor for the party, everybody will love you. LOL.

[Mongo1]

Yep, this happens quite a bit after the 3rd date, I usually just tell them that I wouldn't be comfortable doing that. It could be a perfectly good time but I tend to err on the side of caution.

I'm headed back to Medellin next week and my semi-pro novia invited me to a family finca party to meet her grandmother and the rest of her extended family. Any idea what I'm in for?

[Mongo1]

It's all good red, brown, olive, morena, guera. I personally love the white skinned Paisas which is why Medellin is my favorite mongering City. I'll be heading to Colombia again mid August for a month and can't wait to get back.

Brother TK you are so right. During my first trip to Medellin I was actually disappointed by the way the girls looked. Yes, there were a few stunners out there. But all the hype I had read about Medellin and the girls of Colombia simply was not true according to a "boots on the ground" observation with my own eyes.

That being said, there is going to be someone who jumps up (beats their chest and calls me names because I am new to the Medellin forum and have strong opinions they disagree with)' and tells me to go someplace else if I don't like it. And to them I just put two middle fingers up! I'll go where I want, when I want and write what want about it.) I had a great trip! And I got all the sex I wanted. And I learned that I simply prefer the skin shade of my girls to be butterscotch to dark chocolate. And to have some ass. Because the most beautiful Colombianas that I saw looked like that.

So it is off to Cali at some point to explore a place I have been told has more of girls of my preferred type. The girls of Medellin that I saw on the street fell on the numeric attractiveness scale that would fit a Standard Deviation curve. A beauty standard that I have found to be consistent the world over. In my opinion, the girls of Medellin are no more attractive or less attractive than I have found during my travels throughout the world.

[Surfer500]

Tonight was my first time in and around Parque Lleras since the traffic barriers were installed. I really like it, but I've never gone there looking for chicas. It appeared the only automobile traffic allowed inside the barriers was for deliveries, and going to / from the parking garage across from Hooters. I imagine they accommodate taxis going to the hotels to pick up and drop off luggage. The loud bar across from Patrick's had turned down their volume. I think a person could actually hear the sports broadcast in Patrick's now. Many of the bars and restaurants had tables set up in the streets. The hotel across from Lleras Town had three flood lights shining right in the face of anyone walking from the west and south towards the hotel. I hope that will be changed.

It will be interesting to see if, and how long until some of the still shuttered bar / eating places around the Park re-open.

With the increased amount of foreigners living here now, and tourists, I could see the whole area becoming as full and vibrant as the Provenza area within a few years.

[Knowledge]

Something we take for granted in the first world is public space design standards. It's not unusual to have to squint or shade your eyes to see past bright spotlights directed at eye level. Sometimes in restaurants I have to angle my chair away from spotlight glare to read the menu or see my table mate. I think part of the problem is the difference between the average height of Colombians and gringos. You have to be really careful with blinding lights while you are walking on broken sidewalks and navigating random deep holes. Some of the buildings around Milla de Oro have floor mounted spotlights on stairs shining into your eyes. It's funny once you get used to it but dangerous until you do.

Tonight was my first time in and around Parque Lleras since the traffic barriers were installed. I really like it, but I've never gone there looking for chicas. It appeared the only automobile traffic allowed inside the barriers was for deliveries, and going to / from the parking garage across from Hooters. I imagine they accommodate taxis going to the hotels to pick up and drop off luggage. The loud bar across from Patrick's had turned down their volume. I think a person could actually hear the sports broadcast in Patrick's now. Many of the bars and restaurants had tables set up in the streets. The hotel across from Lleras Town had three flood lights shining right in the face of anyone walking from the west and south towards the hotel. I hope that will be changed.

[AfternoonSnack]

You'll be required to give grandma a rim job. Don't forget that the correct term is "Beso Negro. " Afterwards, all the men in the family will spank you with bamboo while singing the Colombian National Anthem. At midnight everyone finds a goat to molest. Kind of like Friday night in rural Alabama, but in Spanish.

There will be food, drink and music. Some people will probably be dancing and will urge you to join them. The older generation will be interested in talking to you. The party will probably last until 2 or 3 am. Bring some special snack from home to share. My current favorite is a jar or 2 of bread and butter pickles. Treat it like a family reunion.

Thanks brother. I'll probably try to slip away with the abuela before the goat part starts. Sounds like we'll be on pretty good terms by then anyway.

[Fun Luvr]

Tonight was my first time in and around Parque Lleras since the traffic barriers were installed. I really like it, but I've never gone there looking for chicas. It appeared the only automobile traffic allowed inside the barriers was for deliveries, and going to / from the parking garage across from Hooters. I imagine they accommodate taxis going to the hotels to pick up and drop off luggage. The loud bar across from Patrick's had turned down their volume. I think a person could actually hear the sports broadcast in Patrick's now. Many of the bars and restaurants had tables set up in the streets. The hotel across from Lleras Town had three flood lights shining right in the face of anyone walking from the west and south towards the hotel. I hope that will be changed.

[OldSchool318]

I have a friend from Panama here in the states and she is adamant that every Colombiana she has ever met is actually a prostitute and will take $$$ for sex because it's a part of their culture somehow.

Don't know if that is exactly true however I will say even the Colombianas I have had in a dating situation called me Papi. Ajajajajja.

I dunno but I absolutely love them and plan to fuck their pussies mouths and assholes until my Dick falls off.

[TjBrazil]

I lost count of how many hookers I've been with in Mexico Brazil or Colombia that were texting their boyfriends or husbands after we were done. They had no clue she was a hooker or cheating. Most people can't do monogamy unless they have no options.

[Recondite]

I've had both normal girls I've dated and working girls tell me horror stories about Colombian guys, which has always made me assume they act worse than guys in the US and Europe. However, there are some hard stats that help illustrate the differences between Colombia and Western developed countries:

1) according to a recent study by Tinder / Bumble of over 600,000 Colombians 8 in 10 guys were unfaithful to their partners and 6 in 10 women were unfaithful to their partner. I'm attaching the link. It's in Spanish but it's amusing. Colombia is number 2 for unfaithfulness behind Brazil in Latin America.

https://noticias.caracoltv.com/actua...acionales-rg10

2) Colombia has a way higher level of femicides than the US or Europe (femicides women who are murdered due to their gender). In 2019 there were 570 reported in Colombia a country of over 50 million million. There were 470 reported in the US, a country of over 330 million, and the US is known as the country with the most per capita in the developed world. I had an interesting chat about this with a girl that is studying law in Medellin a while back. I used 2019 because I could easily find stats for that year for both countries.

I think infidelity for men in particular has to do with the culture and the legal system. Men are taught throughout Latin America that having a lot of women is a sign of being a successful man. My father-in-law, who is from Central America, for example, has three or four kids outside of wedlock. Secondly, there are no legal consequences practically for committing violence against women or abandoning kids. I know a couple of women in Medellin who have tried to get child support for their kids from a deadbeat dad but its taken years and both are still waiting for that money (both have six-year-olds). Most don't even bother. As we've seen with scopings, roberries, etc. , the fiscalia (I. E. Prosecutor) does a pretty poor job of investigating and prosecuting most crimes.

[Mr Enternational]

I never said those quotes.

I know man. It was MB, but the website software mistakenly quoted it to you and since the site owner will not take me off moderation I could not go back and change it.

[TjBrazil]

I am an ugly chick, old woman magnet. I don't know if that means I'm ugly, and don't realize it, or my being friendly to all coworkers including ugly ones make them think I'm interested. Weird thing is, I never flirt with unattractive girls. If I'm on lunch break with them, I will talk to them, but I never show sexual interest. One girl said I must be gay because I turned her down. She was a solid 4.

Hot girls on the other hand are like a riddle. You won't solve it unless you say and do and act in a way that triggers her attraction. That takes time.