Medellin Reports

[Mr Enternational]

You wouldn't have gotten along with this chica. A sense of humor is required.

Did you likewise take her handbag and go through it while you both were giggling like school girls? I am a grown man; I don't play those types of games. A woman is going to respect me and respect my belongings. And I offer her the same in return. Shit starts off as funny and cute and eventually makes its way to sad. (Same as the chick you thought was so funny that she would play with her phone while you were fucking her. Total disrespect if you ask me. She keeps pushing eventually deciding she can make you send rent money to her before she even meets up with you. Why not? You let her get away with other shit.)

You got to nip that shit in the bud when it is starting to happen. But of course many guys will let it go unchecked because they are afraid of losing out on the pussy. The reason women are able to run over men the way they do is because men let them. It did not happen overnight. It snowballed.

I picked up a chick in the Dominican Republic from her house. I had my tablet connected to the radio. She decided she wanted to pick my tablet up. I told her once, do not touch my things while taking it out of her hands. Maybe she thought I was joking because she picked it up again. I pulled the car over and put her out and deleted her from my phone. I can guarantee that she will not be trying that bullshit with the next guy. You're welcomed next guy.

[YippieKayay]

And you allowed this? I do not need a lock on my phone because women know not to touch my shit.

You wouldn't have gotten along with this chica. A sense of humor is required.

[Mr Enternational]

This one chica used to make me laugh. She'd walk right up to me at the airport grab my phone, unlock it because at the time I only had a pattern security lock, and she'd go through all my fucking whatsapp and emails making note of ANY females

And you allowed this? I do not need a lock on my phone because women know not to touch my shit.

[PepolesBuddy]

Don't know how up to date this info is but they list 2 swingers clubs on this site:

http://colombia.adultsearch.com/medellin/swingers-club

Are you able to elaborate? Are they similar to the reports in Bogota?

[YippieKayay]

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Doesn't mean you're a low life cause you're not planning on giving her a ring one day.

We all know there are the pure putas.

They want quick sex, and "dame tu plata", LOL.

There are the girls looking for the "rich" boyfriend too of course.

Boyfriends you mean, hahaha.

Yes, there are perfectly non-pro chicas who want a foreign boyfriend. They will usually complain that Colombian men treat them badly. They're not expecting any financial support either. I'm not sure about the whole balcony anal sex thing someone else posted but picking up normal Colombian women is not hard if you put in a little effort. I mostly don't see the point unless you live there. Guaranteed she'll be unfaithful within the first three months but expect you to be super faithful and double check your shit everytime you visit for any hint of another woman.

This one chica used to make me laugh. She'd walk right up to me at the airport grab my phone, unlock it because at the time I only had a pattern security lock, and she'd go through all my fucking whatsapp and emails making note of ANY females. Once she was satisfied I'd get a big hug. I'll never forget her. Complete nut. She did teach me basic Spanish though because she only knew two words of English. But these days they only need to speak cock and I'm happy.

[Wolf662]

Any of you lads have any information on the swing clubs in Mde? Are they like the ones described in the reports in Bogota? Any shared information would be great I. E, name, location, contact, atmosphere, how things work etc. Thanks.

Don't know how up to date this info is but they list 2 swingers clubs on this site:

http://colombia.adultsearch.com/medellin/swingers-club

[HBoy54]

Any of you lads have any information on the swing clubs in Mde? Are they like the ones described in the reports in Bogota? Any shared information would be great I. E, name, location, contact, atmosphere, how things work etc. Thanks.

There are a few on "the list".

[PepolesBuddy]

Any of you lads have any information on the swing clubs in Mde? Are they like the ones described in the reports in Bogota? Any shared information would be great I. E, name, location, contact, atmosphere, how things work etc. Thanks.

[Queens35]

If I go out to a club, buy a few drinks, dance, turn on the charm and end up going home with some girl, that's reasonable and understandable. We were both looking for the same thing in a place where people go to find that specific thing.

If I go on a website, which is specifically for compensated dating, where, except for the fake accounts, every woman is expecting some type of compensation, what should I expect to find? Maybe, if I'm incredibly handsome and charming a rare one will decide to say "fuck it, I'll do him for free", but the rest will stick to their game for either short-term or long-term compensation.

This is why people are skeptical. It's like walking into McDonald's and getting a free filet mignon.

I'm curious how many times he got cussed out, spit on or slapped? I live and work with Colombian women, mostly from upper middle to upper class families. If I had sex with any of them, and then handed them 100 k, the price of dinner and drinks for 2, none of them would ever talk to me again. One of them would probably try to kill me.

Exactly my point! Gracias.

[Queens35]

Anyone want to give me a name of a Facebook girl so I can scroll through friends of friends so I can set up for my next trip to Medellin please?

Befriend "La Vanee Restrepo". She doesn't really go out with guys unless she likes them she told me (I did her earlier this year, she was ok not great, no GFE, and is a little too thin for me, except for a big ass and big fake tits) but she "helps" other chicas find clients. She has at least 100 chicas that she can hook you up with. She even has a Whatsapp group where she sends daily new pics of chicas she "manages". Many are smoking hot, and mostly spinner types and look 18-24.

MAKE SURE TO ASK THEM TO BRING THEIR ID AND CHECK IT CAREFULLY. ANYTHING SEEMS OFF, NEXT!

[Queens35]

I stay in Centro because that's where most the chica's are. Most the Casa's, most strip clubs and food and stores everywhere. Only time I leave is to go to FaseII so I can pay out the nose for drinks. LOL. But I am fluent in Spanish and have lived in worst places in Central America.

Yep, that's why I said "usually". Many new guys just want to spend as little as possible and they know about 4 words of spanish and want to hang in centro. No good. Not sure I'd be hanging out in centro if I didn't speak Spanish.

[Queens35]

Unfortunately it can be hard to tell who you can trust and who you can't right away. But I've had no problems with everything from $10 Centro street chicks (no glue huffers) to FaseII girls, the only issue is when they see something they like and ask if it's a "regalo" for them. One time it was a stuffed bear the last girl, my regular had given to me, but she was so happy she squealed so I let her keep it. She sent me several pics holding it so I guess she liked it. LOL. Looked for her at VeraCruz this last trip but she was MIA. But she was my ATF and a $10 street chick (most GFE) so you can find good girls high and low.

Good point. The 2 street chicas I did this trip seemed cool. The one that I did the day we hung was an old pro, not sure I'd want her in my room. LOL. But the other one was a newbie, 19, real sweet.

[Queens35]

So if I understand your logic correctly. If a chica bangs me for free, that automatically means that she wants a long term relationship? So in your logic, there is no possible way that she'd want to bang me just to have an experience with a fun extranjero that's interesting, charming, and treats her with respect.

And if I or she do not want a relationship then I "have" to pay her if she is intimate with me? Because anytime a woman wants to have sex without strings attached. That a guy is obligated to pay her for it. Otherwise, all men that get laid for free and are not looking for a relationship are scumbags because they are leading a chica on?

Not trying to make you feel stupid. Just want to verify your logic. I'm sure other members will make you feel stupid responding to your logic lol

No strings attached? Yeah, if you picked her up at the disco or mall. But you contacted her through a sugar daddy website. That in itself implies that there are strings attached. Think about it, it'll come to you. BTW- it's great that you have such a high opinion of yourself "cute, fun, charming extranjero" LOL.

[ColombiaLover]

Maybe you having nothing in which a normal chica would have interest. Maybe you are lazy and find it easier to pay a pro. Maybe you like to pay for it. The idea of renting pussy. Whatever. But just because you have not experienced what I described does not mean it hasn't happened.

I paid for a one month subscription to SA. Curious. Based on some posts I'd seen. Yes, there are plenty of girls who are prepagos just looking for cash. Yes, there are chicas looking for a relationship. At first, I could not understand why any chica who was NOT a prepago would be on SA. But I soon found that some of them really didn't understand the concept of "seeking arrangement. " They were not looking for sex for money. Nothing is totally free. I have been out with three non-pros from the site. The one I banged four nights in a row just loved sex with an older guy. Her previous boyfriend was a 45 year old Colombian. She is educated and has a job. She is 23. My only "cost" was dinner (two nights) and taxi fare (which she did not ask for - 13 mil). Only the third non-pro turned out to be looking for something more. A novio. We went out to a concert during the flower festival and then to another flower festival event and then to see a movie. It was nice to pass time with someone who was there because she wanted to be. I told her I wasn't seeking a long-term relationship from the start, but maybe she thought she could change my mind. While she was a little disappointed a relationship was not going to happen, she said she was happy passing time with me. Do I know for sure whether any of them had taken money for sex in the past? No. But then again, you assume they have. Which is equally wrong.

That said, dealing with non-pros is not easy. Takes an investment of time. And just because you go out doesn't guarantee you'll get laid. For guys who don't go to MDE often, probably too risky, as time is your biggest concern. For me, it's not a problem, because I travel to MDE at least one a month. It non-pros are a great change of pace from pros. I like a mix of both.

To all of you who are delusional enough to believe that SA chicas are non-pros, keep dreaming. Most have taken money for sex (whether you think it's a real date or not-- if you give her a "gift" before she goes home, she's a pro) and will do so again given the chance. Yes, they may be looking for a relationship too, but if that doesn't happen, at least they'll get paid. And the ones that are really non-pros are going out with gringos and sleeping with them because they're looking for a long-term relationship. I know that there's many of you who are either married, in a relationship, or simply want free sex, and therefore are simply taking advantage of these chicas under false pretenses ("Lets go out and if there's chemistry great, if not next. " That's BS, you just want to get laid for free, you have to desire to actually be in a relationship with these women). Those of you that I just described are total scumbags.

[Balboa]

No, they would prefer to get into a long-term relationship, but they'll take the fee in the mean time. They are only interested in you fancy date, dinner, and fun activities, hoping it leads to a relationship. And if you are not interested in one, then you are leading them on and in my book, you are the lowest of the low.

None of these women are gonna bang you because you took them to a fancy restaurant. They are after the bigger prize.

I know it may sound strange, but there are girls who just want to have a fun night, with a cool guy, who treats them like a lady, and maybe care about their needs in bed a bit.

Doesn't mean you're a low life cause you're not planning on giving her a ring one day.

We all know there are the pure putas.

They want quick sex, and "dame tu plata", LOL.

There are the girls looking for the "rich" boyfriend too of course.

I just had this beautiful girl over that I met in one of the centro clubs a couple months back.

We went out, nice dinner, music, she danced and I attempted to, LOL.

Anyway, I mentioned helping her out a little , she flat refused.

I even left a couple 50 K notes under her purse, and they're still there after she split.

Hey I'm not some stud, but I know I'm nice and I treat these sweet girls well, and I know I'm not the "lowest of the low" just cause I'm not planning on the grand relationship.

That's just silly IMO.

Peace 😉