Medellin Reports

[Mr Enternational]

IRL daytime the girl see who you are and can make a judgement from her spontaneous instincts.

What is IRL Daytime?

[C Jack Sparrow]

Latineuro mostly have young very good looking girls. It's much more serious than CC. According to me, and also to amigas in Medellin. The guys ask for relationship, the girls looks for long term, in much greater extent than in CC. My best friend Karen, now married to a Spanyard said it was "completely different" than CC, where $/ sex dominates. At CC the popular ones get enormous attention and can get whatever they want. At Latineuro "all" girls are goodlooking. There is a deal 200 addresses for 99 $US. God response. Girls mostly from Brazil, Colombia and the. Are.

I met my X, a real Pocahontas while she was waiting for the bus and I asked her if she wanted to have a coffee with me. Spanish is needed, but ask girls in daytime, IRL, opens up a totally extra dimension. Many girls don't like internet at all, or just have a profile but are rarely active.

I strongly recommend to add Latineuro and IRL, since FB, CC, Instagram etc have so many girls and they get 100's if not 1000's of replies.

Daytime Fishing in public areas, like Centro Comerciales or a bus Stop, are environment where the girl are secure. Many girls are by nature scared to just go home to a foreigners apartment, even if I have had many visitors.

IRL daytime the girl see who you are and can make a judgement from her spontaneous instincts.

[Black Page]

Having spent a lot of time in southeast Asia, and in Indonesia, I can tell you factually: Indonesia is just about the safest place anyone can visit on the planet. Yeah, some of Bandeh Aceh and some parts of Sumatra are full of radical Wahabi Islamic dudes that don't want you there. But, the rest of the nation: Far, far safer than anywhere in the US Europe or South America. Thats just a fact, and by every single crime metric available can't be disputed. Anything anyone says contrary to that is simply patently false.

He also wrote:

"I have been to Indonesia but you must not have been otherwise you would be aware of the muslim insurgency that is taking place there and the many women who have been publicly whipped for committing adultery."

Gross bullshit. I would simply disregard the troll, but someone who never went to SouthEast Asia might believe that. Bettet to point out bullshit, when we see it. That's the good of the Internet: anyone can write anything, but then people also comment. Surely, "public whipping" is laughable.

[JjBee62]

I don't want to sound like I think its all about race, not at all, it was just a quick thought based of some of my readings online. I'm not depressed about the trip, just saying the FB and CC thing was a kinda depressing process, but I'll give it more time. I'm very excited about my first trip to Colombia, and its my birthday trip! I know when I get on the ground in the clubs and massage parlors with the working girls I'll have a great time. Also, I'm flying into Cartagena for 4 days, then to Medellin for 5 days, so I'll get to experience both.

CC is a harder nut to crack than some others. Dominican Cupid or Latin American Cupid, just put up a profile, with a couple of decent pics and log on every day. You can search and hit the interest button on the ones you like, but you don't need to. You will get plenty of Dominicanas sending you messages. On LAC, you'll get the Venezuelans too.

The Colombianas aren't as forward and your youth may be a liability. If you look too young, you don't look established enough. The age difference isn't such a big deal there. Try some pictures that are more serious, rather than trying to be a stud.

You're not going to be able to hold their attention long. More than 3 or 4 weeks out, it'll be tough. You can always, if it's longer, get them on Whatsapp and then be a bit vague about your schedule. Make shit up about work or another trip. Then hit them up again 10 days before. Lay on the charm, heavy on the compliments and make it sound like you've changed plans just to meet her (and the other 10 too). Set something up, tentative, and go from there.

[Mr Enternational]

Weird. I'm 30, athletic, lift weights regularly, speak pretty decent Spanish, and have no problem getting beautiful women in America. Maybe its because I'm African American?

Maybe it is weird. I'm 44, Black, and 50 lbs heavier than when I was in the Navy 25 years ago. This one chick in Cali in the pic just hit me up out of the blue a minute ago.

This time the game is free!

JL nailed it. It is all a numbers game. Get on and click who's online. Go through and show interest to all the chicks you like. I don't bother with the people who only have 1 picture though. When they show interest back send them a mail saying Hello, how are you doing, what are you doing now? (in Spanish of course) After they respond say do you have whatsapp. Add them to whatsapp and talk shit. I always say stuff like what is your family going to say if you date a foreigner. I really don't have a routine. Every conversation is on a case by case basis. If I am feeling that a chick really wants to meet me then I will say I will only come to where ever if you come stay with me. Then see where it leads.

If I was you I would not tell a chick I plan on coming to Colombia. Just say that you go to Colombia all the time. Most chicks are impressed when I say something about some obscure shit that most visiting foreigers would not know. For instance if talking to someone in Medellin I might mention that I always stay down by Parque Berrio. Then after you are talking to them good say you have some free time and you are thinking about going to Colombia on such and such date. That makes them feel more special than you already having planned to go to Colombia and are looking for someone to kick it with while you are there.

This one chick keeps hitting me up on whatsapp every few days. Each time I will say who is this. Today she said you deleted me? I said no. She said well why do you not know who I am. I said it is just that I don't save anybody's name until after we have made love. She said oh really. I said yes. She said sooo? I said when do you want to do it. She said we can today if you are available.

Years back a chick hit me up and said she was 16. I said no way hit me back when you turn 18. She said but my parents won't mind. I said but I do. Just as sure as the Pope is Catholic she hit me up when she turned 18, might have been on her damn birthday even. I used to go see her in Cali and her parents always made me stay in their house, mom cooked 3 meals each day. We ended up breaking up because she insisted on getting married before visiting the USA. Now she is married to a Colombian and has a baby girl. We are still friends.

I have endless stories from the Cupid sites.

[HotRockIt]

No it's not because you're African American. At least I don't think it is. I was in Medellin back in November and my neighbors were African Americans who visit often and hookup online. They had dates every night and then some from what I could see.

Maybe give it more time?

I have no experience meeting online though. Prefer everything in person. Try Cartagena if you'd like more of a tourist atmosphere where the prepagos are out in public to meet.

I don't want to sound like I think its all about race, not at all, it was just a quick thought based of some of my readings online. I'm not depressed about the trip, just saying the FB and CC thing was a kinda depressing process, but I'll give it more time. I'm very excited about my first trip to Colombia, and its my birthday trip! I know when I get on the ground in the clubs and massage parlors with the working girls I'll have a great time. Also, I'm flying into Cartagena for 4 days, then to Medellin for 5 days, so I'll get to experience both.

[YippieKayay]

Weird. I'm 30, athletic, lift weights regularly, speak pretty decent Spanish, and have no problem getting beautiful women in America. Maybe its because I'm African American? I've read that the Paisas are a bit on the prejudice side. I'm just going to scratch the Colombian Cupid and Facebook thing, its just depressing and makes me feel this trip isn't going to be as fun as I thought, as far as chicas go anyway. I'm sure I'll enjoy the country itself either way.

No it's not because you're African American. At least I don't think it is. I was in Medellin back in November and my neighbors were African Americans who visit often and hookup online. They had dates every night and then some from what I could see.

Maybe give it more time?

I have no experience meeting online though. Prefer everything in person. Try Cartagena if you'd like more of a tourist atmosphere where the prepagos are out in public to meet.

[Jose Lima]

Weird. I'm 30, athletic, lift weights regularly, speak pretty decent Spanish, and have no problem getting beautiful women in America. Maybe its because I'm African American? I've read that the Paisas are a bit on the prejudice side. I'm just going to scratch the Colombian Cupid and Facebook thing, its just depressing and makes me feel this trip isn't going to be as fun as I thought, as far as chicas go anyway. I'm sure I'll enjoy the country itself either way.

Don't get down on yourself bro. I'm black and I have never ever even felt a little hint of prejudice in Medellin or anywhere in Colombia for that matter and I go down about 8 times a year every year since 2006. The people are very nice. I don't concentrate on those types of things so maybe I'm just blind to it. I have had some real stunners all white Colombians, met there families, and just never got that vibe. It may just be in your head. Plus its a numbers game like anywhere else in the world. I try to crack on at least 20 girls a day, get maybe 10 numbers, 5 may respond to whatsapp, 2 will go out on date ASAP, and ill get lucky with one. My advice is to just approach any girl that is fine in your eyes and throw your game down, especially if you speak Spanish.

15 second rule. Never fails. Just approach.

My 2 cents.

[HotRockIt]

Maybe you are doing something wrong. I have sworn by Cupid for almost 12 years now. My first time on it I did not speak Spanish. Even then I had no problem, but said to myself if I could speak Spanish then I would be unstoppable. I learned Spanish and guess what?

For that reason I do not really find it necessary to deal with hookers. Every two years or so I will reactivate my account for the 3 month period. I will meet more chicks than I can handle. Around the 2 year mark when that supply starts dwindling down I will re-up. I have met doctors, lawyers, and everything else on that site. The majority of real girlfriends that I have had in Latin America in the past 10 years I am sure I met them there. It is my bread and butter.

Weird. I'm 30, athletic, lift weights regularly, speak pretty decent Spanish, and have no problem getting beautiful women in America. Maybe its because I'm African American? I've read that the Paisas are a bit on the prejudice side. I'm just going to scratch the Colombian Cupid and Facebook thing, its just depressing and makes me feel this trip isn't going to be as fun as I thought, as far as chicas go anyway. I'm sure I'll enjoy the country itself either way.

[Bdb013]

I have been on Colombia Cupid for a couple of weeks now in preparation for my trip to Medellin in March. I have meet several girls on here. I have gotten their whatsapp number and even texted through that as well. I guess we will see how successful I am when I get there. At least I will have some contacts to try. I have not tried FB. I do have Tinder and will work with that when I get to Medellin. But as a backup measure. I have already engaged a guide to help me find the chicas. We will see.

Maybe you are doing something wrong. I have sworn by Cupid for almost 12 years now. My first time on it I did not speak Spanish. Even then I had no problem, but said to myself if I could speak Spanish then I would be unstoppable. I learned Spanish and guess what?

For that reason I do not really find it necessary to deal with hookers. Every two years or so I will reactivate my account for the 3 month period. I will meet more chicks than I can handle. Around the 2 year mark when that supply starts dwindling down I will re-up. I have met doctors, lawyers, and everything else on that site. The majority of real girlfriends that I have had in Latin America in the past 10 years I am sure I met them there. It is my bread and butter.

[YippieKayay]

But I wonder how the ratio is; rich guys / Super Fitness Babes. I assume that the major part of a year is a boring monotonic life, while those excellent weeks they get, are the only photos they show at FB, Instagram.

You'll notice a lot of those photos of them being on vacation are photos of them alone, haha. They rarely put the photo of the sugar daddy on fb with them unless he's become the official novio. The one I had I would see every couple of months. As far as I know she wasn't traveling with any other guy on any trips, but she was certainly fucking other guys for money because she had no job and needed money for food / rent.

I think them having a sugar daddy is rare. It's usually short term affairs. I've heard so many stories from these girls of that one guy they knew who would buy them everything, take them on vacation. How it all ended after a year. It's the story they will always tell late at night after some drinks. Always the one rich guy who got away.

The thing is it's hard to connect with a girl who only wants you for the money. It's easy to fuck them, but once you're apart you just get on with your life.

[Mr Enternational]

I have to say, the Facebook and Colombian Cupid experience so far is not making me excited about dealing with Colombian women on my first trip, so far I'm getting that they are arrogant stuck up bitches, for lack of a better term. I guess we'll see when we get boots on the ground. But the Facebook and Colombian Cupid game is a joke so far, I wouldn't advise any real friend to go that route.

Maybe you are doing something wrong. I have sworn by Cupid for almost 12 years now. My first time on it I did not speak Spanish. Even then I had no problem, but said to myself if I could speak Spanish then I would be unstoppable. I learned Spanish and guess what?

For that reason I do not really find it necessary to deal with hookers. Every two years or so I will reactivate my account for the 3 month period. I will meet more chicks than I can handle. Around the 2 year mark when that supply starts dwindling down I will re-up. I have met doctors, lawyers, and everything else on that site. The majority of real girlfriends that I have had in Latin America in the past 10 years I am sure I met them there. It is my bread and butter.

[HotRockIt]

Also, another poster mentioned not being able to figure-out how forum members are able to find Medellin girls through FB using a search feature. I wondered the same thing, how are you guys searching and finding them? Anyway, I'm probably out of the game on FB now since I'm locked-out of my fake account. I already gave one Medellin stripper my main account which probably wasn't a good idea.

So far I'm getting no luck with FB and Colombian Cupid. Decided to try Colombian Cupid for a month just to see what happens. With Facebook, the girls either don't accept your friend request or they do and won't respond to your messages (with the exception of one chica who I got the name of from a different monger site). On Colombian Cupid they just don't reply to you even if they opened the message, or they respond once or twice then disappear.

I have to say, the Facebook and Colombian Cupid experience so far is not making me excited about dealing with Colombian women on my first trip, so far I'm getting that they are arrogant stuck up bitches, for lack of a better term. I guess we'll see when we get boots on the ground. But the Facebook and Colombian Cupid game is a joke so far, I wouldn't advise any real friend to go that route. And I work from home so I have nothing to do but sit on these sites for (wayyyy too many) hours a day contacting women, and its been useless.

[C Jack Sparrow]

Yes, I understand that you can hide your friends but in my "real" account it would seem awkward to hide my friends from all my other friends. It's too bad there isn't a feature where you can select certain friends to be hidden rather than a blanket approach. Also, another poster mentioned not being able to figure-out how forum members are able to find Medellin girls through FB using a search feature. I wondered the same thing, how are you guys searching and finding them? Anyway, I'm probably out of the game on FB now since I'm locked-out of my fake account. I already gave one Medellin stripper my main account which probably wasn't a good idea.

I and Surfer get friends with a awesome medellin babe on FB. Then she has friends. I have 100 ths of fitness-girls, al awesome, but they seldom reply, even if they are prepagos. They have the Gym, partying, part time expensive erotic services and modeling and has so created a strong sub-culture; you can spend 24/7 looking at over-sexy paisas, all the same looks; from the gym exposing 88% of her body, 11% half transparently covered by expensive sport tops, shorts, ; giving you the impression that they are some kind of fitness models.

That is both true and not!. They go to the extreme to get those bodies and faces; but lacks fantasy totally; all look like Pornstars, like the girls from Chica's Car Audio. They start as pretty; the rest is; hard workout, mariujana and cocaine to lower apetite, working in mid-level prepago until she can afford plastic surgery; with gives her back her investment several times from the plastic surgery. They are descreet and arrogant. They are also those girls that did not have the brains and / or money to go to the private universities which gives you the good career, so when ready they go to countires where they make a lot of money; Panamá, Costa Ricas "Del Rey", clients in Brazil, US, and Western Europe; also Dubai and China, Japan. They are very strict about about putting up a false fasade to cover their real lifestyle. Remember that the middle-class is still very small so even if they get a university degree, the salary will be very modest.

Medellin / Colombia has so very much to offer besides these Super Fitness Babes.

I know a few +11 beauties and only one have a normal social behavior, the rest want to be lovers to rich guys and have fun, The fun consists of very expensive holidays, presents, paying for her surgery etc.

But I wonder how the ratio is; rich guys / Super Fitness Babes. I assume that the major part of a year is a boring monotonic life, while those excellent weeks they get, are the only photos they show at FB, Instagram.

[Psychman]

Tell that to the victims, and their families, of the many terrorist attacks that have taken place over the years. I have been to Indonesia but you must not have been otherwise you would be aware of the muslim insurgency that is taking place there and the many women who have been publicly whipped for committing adultery. Which European woman would want to live there?

As other has said, Indonesia is far safer than any country in Latin America. There have been more deaths in Europe due to terrorism than in Indonesia. In Jakarta, your biggest threat is going to be getting in a traffic accident.

And, MANY western women live in Jakarta. It is an international city with a huge international business community. The upper class bars, clubs and gastropubs are fantasic. The mongering is amazing, the women GFE as it gets, and the food is amazing.