Medellin Reports

[Hioctane]

Hey fella.

Just my 2 pesos here. Some info from one of the girls in CTG. This one girl mentioned she was on this (Colom Cupid) site. I also mentioned that I was too. We got to talking sharing profiles and stuff. She specifically said she was on there looking for business. She says its a great source for business and that a lot of chicas do the same. Now my question to her was why look for business on a dating site. She said a lot of the guys are looking for both. Serious relationship / novias and fun. They present themselves as both also. Novia material / fun chicas. Depending on the angle you take with the they play that part. I looked at the girls profile and it did not look at all like a working chica profile. She said yes she does work in CTG and provide guys with a good time. But she is also open to a relationship with a guy who is a tourist and is well established. Any thoughts?

A lot of hookers have infiltrated the "dating" sites. It is not just Colombia. They have gone high tech now all over the world. Girls are very into social media. Facebook, Tagged, Badoo, etc to look for business.

[Aussie Greg]

Its so cute, when people enter the new Panama Metro, the old people say "good morning"!

A. G.

[NCal2014]

Hey fella,.

Just my 2 pesos here. Some info from one of the girls in CTG. This one girl mentioned she was on this (Colom Cupid) site. I also mentioned that I was too. We got to talking sharing profiles and stuff. She specifically said she was on there looking for business. She says its a great source for business and that a lot of chicas do the same. Now my question to her was why look for business on a dating site. She said a lot of the guys are looking for both. Serious relationship / novias and fun. They present themselves as both also. Novia material / fun chicas. Depending on the angle you take with the they play that part. I looked at the girls profile and it did not look at all like a working chica profile. She said yes she does work in CTG and provide guys with a good time. But she is also open to a relationship with a guy who is a tourist and is well established. Any thoughts?

[TweedleD]

Troyboy, let's think about this 'low miles" concept. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXP5yu0552E

[TroyBoy]

With that being said I really don't think it's cool to post profiles and photos here (a pro$titution site) that you found on a dating site. If these girls wanted to explicitly advertise themselves as puta$ then they would sign up on an escort site, not a dating site. Try to have a little respect for their discretion.

You are absolutely correct. I have sent a request to the administrator to delete this specific chica's photo and profile. (hopefully this will be done in short order) My intent was to demonstrate that this particular site (colombiancupid. Com) does have the potential to be a source for hooking up with a quality low mileage prepago. My question to the group was: "What cyber sites have others had success with in finding this TYPE of profile / contact". In retrospect I realize that this truly was a classless disregard for her privacy. Thank you for being direct in pointing that out to me.

[SavePros321]

as far as "high mileage" is concerned, the odometer broke years before you got there!

Nice one, LOL!

[Jinxx]

I just booked another 9 night trip to Medellin, but this time I will probably NOT be at the Mansion; trying an apartment for the first time. I have quite a few cell numbers of previous contacts, but I would like to also have a way to meet fresh contacts without involving the Mansion or high mileage casa girls.

I have seen many posts here and on other boards, but I really did not pay too much attention to them as at the time I did not want to "work" or "romance". The relationship I seek is a simple one of $ for sex.

I did just open a free.

www.colombiacupid.com

Account. I put in my profile a simple / honest description of myself: healthy gringo 60yrs looking for young Colombiana to spend time with; always generous and respectful. Within 20 minutes I did get this reply- to me this is exactly what I am looking for: (she is 19yr student looking for a male 55-65yrs- hmmmmmmmm)

I need to pay the UPGRADE fee of $29. 99 / month to be able to read / reply to her emails and receive contact info.

My question is this to the experts: Is this a ripoff site? Is there another site that is more popular with the semipro prepagos? I also know many guys have used facebook extensively. It would be nice to get into a circle of friends who all play the game a little, but I worry that the pros, semi-pro and "good girls" would all get mixed up.

I am also not opposed to good old fashioned escort services. Is there someone here who has had recent good experience with one of these agencies? Thank you!

http://www.colombiancupid.com/en/pro.ile/ID/2270437

Colombiancupid can be anything. Some girls looking for a genuine relationship all the way to obvious prepagos. One way I identify the good girls looking for a real relationship is they will say in their profile "if you're over 35 years old DO NOT SEND ME MESSAGES!". Plus if their photos are a little too sexy and cheap, most likely they're prepagos. If she's in her 20's and she's willing to date 60 year old men. 99% chance she's a prepago.

With that being said I really don't think it's cool to post profiles and photos here (a pro$titution site) that you found on a dating site. If these girls wanted to explicitly advertise themselves as puta$ then they would sign up on an escort site, not a dating site. Try to have a little respect for their discretion.

[MdeJohn]

"She is 19yr student looking for a male 55-65yrs-"

I am all for dating well under my own age but this seems a little extreme. What is a 55-65 year old going to talk about with a 19 year old? No problem with jumping into bed with girls but you can meet them at the casas and clubs pretty quick. On the dating sites, I would look for someone with a little more in common.

To your question, its been years since I had a profile on the dating sites but LatinAmericanCupid worked fairly well. Not sure what is on the site now but there are a few posts that review the activity. If you are spending a few grand on the trip, $30 or so isn't too bad for the chance to make a few contacts beforehand. Make it explicit that you are coming down for a couple of weeks and will want to spend time with someone, that should help draw the type you are looking for (I. E. Not looking for a serious long-term relationship). The second anyone asks you to send money or gifts, block their profile.

Just my 2 cents though. Good luck.

[TweedleD]

They are only mixed up in your mind, any 19 year old looking to date a 60 year old, is absolutely looking for a cash payout, as far as "high mileage" is concerned, the odometer broke years before you got there!

[TroyBoy]

I just booked another 9 night trip to Medellin, but this time I will probably NOT be at the Mansion; trying an apartment for the first time. I have quite a few cell numbers of previous contacts, but I would like to also have a way to meet fresh contacts without involving the Mansion or high mileage casa girls.

I have seen many posts here and on other boards, but I really did not pay too much attention to them as at the time I did not want to "work" or "romance". The relationship I seek is a simple one of $ for sex.

I did just open a free www.colombiacupid.com Account. I put in my profile a simple / honest description of myself: healthy gringo 60yrs looking for young Colombiana to spend time with; always generous and respectful. Within 20 minutes I did get this reply- to me this is exactly what I am looking for: (she is 19yr student looking for a male 55-65yrs- hmmmmmmmm)

I need to pay the UPGRADE fee of $29. 99 / month to be able to read / reply to her emails and receive contact info.

My question is this to the experts: Is this a ripoff site? Is there another site that is more popular with the semipro prepagos? I also know many guys have used facebook extensively. It would be nice to get into a circle of friends who all play the game a little, but I worry that the pros, semi-pro and "good girls" would all get mixed up.

I am also not opposed to good old fashioned escort services. Is there someone here who has had recent good experience with one of these agencies? Thank you!

http://www.colombiancupid.com/en/pro.ile/ID/2270437

[BrasilSoccer0]

Just make sure you write us a nice report when you come back (photos included)

[MdeJohn]

Generally prefer the strip clubs but I went to Fantasia 2 today and think its probably one of the best casas in the city. Went there on a report from the forum today or yesterday and it was definitely a good call. Line-up of about 9 girls, most were nothing special but I'd say at least 3-4 cute and doable. I paid for the half hour (36,000) with Katarine. She's a little older, maybe in her early 30s or maybe it was just the heavy makeup, and fairly skinny. It was a little weird to walk through the girls' waiting area to get to the bedroom. The rooms are not as nice as Energy but average for most of the casas.

The sex was good but not great. Funny that she had no problem doing BBBJ without even asking but was minimal on the kissing, though it was still way more than you'll get at a lot of the other houses. She had a friendly personality and would probably give it everything she's got if you took her out and gave her 100k for a few hours. I gave her an extra 4k and will session with her again if she's there.

I've walked out of Aiffe three of the four times I've been there because of the line-up and have generally been dissatisfied with the casas but Fantasia 2 will likely become a regular stop for me. The house is pretty close to Cr 49, the 3-4 block shopping boardwalk, so it's nice to stroll and relax afterwards.

[El Bacano]

Go with the flow and the agenda of the Day, Sieze The Day, and some one get the first Beer for Some one, We can all have a better life workin together.

[SlamCity7777]

Amen to that!

Try EVERYWHERE where tourists are not expected. Avoid parque lleras! I personally prefer el centro and I love walking and hunting ALL over el centro. Why? Cause I find EVERYTHING I need there: Food, fresh fruit shakes, clothes, groceries and of course countless young pretty things wondering aimlessly and window shopping.

But be very smart! Just because they aren't "pros" doesn't mean they are naive! Sometimes they expect their first gringo to be that 120k cop payout they "heard" about.

As far as barrios, I don't recommend going there unless with local friends from that barrio. I'm brown but when I was up on that mountain partying in santo Domingo with locals, everyone was looking at me because "I didn't belong to the barrio"

There is one bar I will recommend exept I don't recall the name. It's in the centro, and it's where locals go to drink and sing along with the romantic lamenting type of songs. I think it's something like "70s or eighties" in the name. I know it's on a corner and dimly lit. Mostly girls go there after work.

Clap clap clap clap. Let me get you a cold one Brasilsoccer0!

Everywhere. Not just in Colombia but in the States too! Not to sound like a self help semenar but you have to "Say YES!" or be open to yes.

I'm not the best looking guy. In fact just the opposite. But I work with what my mom and dad gave me. Be your best you can be and just go for it!

Leave that fear of rejection at home. Or leave it out of you life and just smile (not like a creepy joker smile but a nice normal happy guy smile) and just say hello!

My last trip I met this amazing regular girl on the metro. At a stop I pretended to lose my balance and every so slightly brushed up against her. Just enough to say I'm sorry and for her to get off her phone for a second (I swear cell phones are a curse and a blessing). I said excuse them in Spanish and she said something like Tranquilo" and I then said something like cool cell phone and off we went. NOTE: In the states if a girl has a cracked phone or older model I'd bust her chops about it. Do not do that here. My Spanish is pretty good but something got lost in the translation! Save the snarky jokes for your native tongue or if you speak excellent Espanol.

You just have to try! Talk to a local and you'll see what happens. Nothing? Fuck her! Literally a train or bus will come by every two min with a few dozen more.

I also recommend getting out of Lleres. These girls DO not want you. IMO in part because of the low lifes that live in the Juan Valdez. Not all but some of those guys are pure jerks! You want locals and non pros you can't hang with a pure monger crew of gringos you know what I mean?

Also I agree with what Brazil said about being in the barrio and getting a few looks. I was with a novia and a few of her homies in the hood. I was getting looks from theses clowns. Nothing threatening but hard guys looks you know?

I think it might have been the cash I was flashing. Keep in mind what you think is no big deal is a huge deal for the next man. Be mindful of your environment if you are going to get off the beaten path! My two cents. Be nice and if you have to buy a round for the hard guys!

LOL.

Say yes! Be open to yes! If you do it could happen for you!

[Vegas Jeff]

Men keep your eyes open and your attitude positive, Everyday is a new day, here in the paradise city, I dunno about Cuba.

Hahahah

This is the attitude to have. If you are a gentleman and confident good things will happen to you in Medellin. Using your brain helps also. Relax and speak slowly.

For you guys with short trips hit the ground hard the first few days and repeat your favorites. For guys with time there is everything from steady repeats to regular girlfriends. Guys with time or are on repeat trips will have some girls to call which they have established something with and this is definitely an advantage. They are also more in touch with the lay of the land and the p4p options.

There are no new unknown barrios in Medellin. Some guys, I hear, are going up to Bello to meet fresher girls. I am constantly amazed at how guys are looking for the newest, untapped environments instead of stepping up their game to get respect from the girls who have a slight inclination towards them in the ordinary areas.

Although Medellin is not a new stomping ground for Gringos I find genuine experiences are to be had anywhere with girls. This is especially true if you get outside the upper class neighborhoods. My advice is to stick to the p4p until you get your Spanish up to a workable level. Too many guys are trying too hard and not making good connections with the culture.

I would encourage you guys to visit your favorite girls in their barrios. You don't need to go dancing at night but a simple visit to their house or a nearby restaurant would be enough. How do you expect to get respect from these girls if you can't relate to them and are constantly throwing money at them for everything that you want. Paisa working girls and regular girls alike will only hang with you for as long as you keep them entertained. Also guys get the word hour out of your vocabulary. If you put short restrictions on things these girls will never relax.

Also, Foxeshunter, there are no simple girls in Medellin. The best you can hope for is humble and sweet, and even then, they need a man who can assert themselves to gain their respect.

Good luck.