Medellin Reports

[Socker]

This is a very insightful post which makes me reflect upon our hobby of mongering, and how it fits in (more like dose not) into general society. I personally believe that I would not stop mongering regardless of how much money I had. In light of the superbowl New York has seen some recent prostitution stings. Attorney General Eric T. Schneiderman said ' He wanted to send a message to anyone thinking about patronizing illegal services that they better get in front of the TV have a few beers and watch the game and stay out of trouble. ' Because of the way some countries view prostitution some mongerers might feel more accepted living in other countries. I would guess that most members here could never talk to friends, family or coworkers about their exploits.

Nevertheless I will give you my insight regarding our hobby. For the most part I'm an open book and I talk openly about my travels. I have lost friends, I have friends who don't want to see photos or hear about my exploits and then a few that get a kick out of my life style. I would say 20% of my male friends don't keep in touch anymore. 60% of my friends do not want to hear about my travels and 20% are very interested. So that's my experience and I'm blue collar w / a varied bunch of friends.

I find it hard not to talk about it. Whenever possible I will challenge women w / my lifestyle and I will justify every aspect of it. They're usually amused when they ask me why I'm learning spanish and I reply so I can enjoy my beautiful Colombian hookers better. They are shocked but at the same time it makes sense to them and they either laugh or scratch their head in disbelief that I said it. I'm talking complete strangers here.

As far as my family and friends go they know me and how kind and considerate I am and have always been so they know I could not do anything to hurt another human being and they are right.

Respectful mongering is a very positive life style. There are millions upon millions of poor women and men who benefit from sex tourist and all are not sex workers. These benefits keep these poor people alive, out of the gutter, and enable them to have a chance of a better life.

So who ever said our hobby is immoral is a liar, stupid or both. Treat people w / respect no matter what proffession they find themselves in and the world is a better place.

I think more guys should speak up about what they want in life. There is no credible authority to say mongering is bad for society, on the contrary allowing the flow of nature is always the best option. Fucking Always.

My 2 pesos

[LukeSkywalker]

I understood that you were having fun at this idiotic question.

But it's not a joking matter to the US legal system. This simple question is to help Homeland Security Department (an executive branch) expedite legal proceedings through the courts (judiciary branch separate and independent from executive) , for quick convictions and deportation of people caught committed crimes or immoral activities.

People caught with crimes would also be charged with lying to immigration officers, which is a serious felony. Their entry visa privilege would be suspended for 10 years per violation.

I am not sure your reply is serious, or you're just having fun (which was my aim, BTW).

If one is caught committing anything illegal, he is prosecuted by law regardless he has "promised" to behave well or not!

When you enter European borders, you will be not asked "will you trade drugs here?", because it is obvious that the answer would be "no".

(they don't ask "will you be immoral here?", but this does not mean we are the Region of the Sin)

I (and. I must say. All others I know who visit US from Europe) consider this question in the immigration form one of the most laughable things, which a regular traveller ever experiences while on travel worldwide!

I am surprised no American usually gets the ironic potential of that statement.

[SeizeTheDay]

This is an enlightening read for many.

When I arrived in Costa Rica 9 years ago I was surprised to find that the majority of foreigners were struggling to get by and / or living off of a very fixed income. I was expecting to find more wealthy men and men with jobs that permitted them to live where they wanted. I had to ask myself, where are the wealthy single men living? Don't these entitled, single men want to get laid regularly as a top priority? The answer is no.

There are a few things that most men in this position are looking for IMO.

First, they are looking for an educated population of people to live with. Where educated people live things operate and function faster and more efficiently than in places where less educated live. There is less stress and more ease in living daily life.

Second, they are looking for things to spend their money on that increase their quality of life. These things range from general entertainment to better quality health care.

Third, they are looking for a safe place to live.

There are very few, if any, top mongering destinations that can meet most or all of this criteria. Over the years I have met many men who are wealthy and live abroad. Although they find my stories about the girls intriguing it is not on many of their priority lists.

I hope this sheds a light on this for some of you.

This is a very insightful post which makes me reflect upon our hobby of mongering, and how it fits in (more like dose not) into general society. I personally believe that I would not stop mongering regardless of how much money I had. In light of the superbowl New York has seen some recent prostitution stings. Attorney General Eric T. Schneiderman said ' He wanted to send a message to anyone thinking about patronizing illegal services that they better get in front of the TV have a few beers and watch the game and stay out of trouble. ' Because of the way some countries view prostitution some mongerers might feel more accepted living in other countries. I would guess that most members here could never talk to friends, family or coworkers about their exploits.

[Member #4244]

You need to read "The Millionaire Next Door" my friend. You'd be surprised at how many of the folks who portray themselves to be "high rollers" are actually leveraged to the hilt ("Big hat, no cattle") , LOL!

Nearly Half of America Lives Paycheck-to-Paycheck

http://business.time.com/2014/01/30/...k-to-paycheck/

Yup, it's crazy. Where I live you see a lot of hard-working immigrant families that are earning maybe $2000 a month for a household of of four or more. They live to their last penny and I understand that. But then ten minutes up the hills, you see people earning $12000 a month and doing the same thing.

[Black Page]

This simple question is to make sure they have you state your intention in writing, so if you are caught committing criminal or immoral acts, it would be quick and easy to obtain deportation orders by US court.

I am not sure your reply is serious, or you're just having fun (which was my aim, BTW).

If one is caught committing anything illegal, he is prosecuted by law regardless he has "promised" to behave well or not!
When you enter European borders, you will be not asked "will you trade drugs here?", because it is obvious that the answer would be "no".
(they don't ask "will you be immoral here?", but this does not mean we are the Region of the Sin)

I (and - I must say - all others I know who visit US from Europe) consider this question in the immigration form one of the most laughable things, which a regular traveller ever experiences while on travel worldwide!
I am surprised no American usually gets the ironic potential of that statement.

[LukeSkywalker]

US Immigration's definition of immoral activities is likely related to pimping and prostitution.

Sleeping with married women, or adultery, is not only immoral but may still be criminal in the laws of a few Southern states, but not crimes prosecutable under US federal laws. So you can go ahead and sleep with as many married women as you can get your hands on without fear of the law. But if they know you plan to pay prostitutes for sex, or you plan to sell yourself for sex, that may be deemed immoral and may be ground to deny entry.

This simple question is to make sure they have you state your intention in writing, so if you are caught committing criminal or immoral acts, it would be quick and easy to obtain deportation orders by US court.

Regarding immoral activities, a few Asian countries take it very seriously. I was on a trekking tour in Asia and crossed borders on land into Vietnam and Cambodia. Immigration officers at both countries grilled me for a long time about my purposes of entry into their countries, being a single man. Why was my spouse or GF not in the tour with me? Was I seeking entries into their countries to fuck their young girls? Those were their repeated questions. They made sure I understand that they do not like sex tourists.

I had to convince them that I like to tough it out on trekking tours, but my GF would never take these land tours on the rough and dusty roads of Asia. Immigration officers in Thailand, Malaysia, Indonesia etc... had no obvious concerns about immoral activities, however.

It is always difficult for me, each time I enter USA, to refrain from laughing out loudly in front of the immigration officer, when I present my ESTA declaration where I officially undersign, among various declarations:

Are you seeking entry to engage in criminal or immoral activities?

NO

Did anybody in the history ever answered YES to this question? What was the reaction of the immigration officer?

And, last but not least, who is the genius who conceived such profound questions to establish prerequisites to enter USA?

PS: during my last visit to USA, I actually had sex with a married lady, but it was not P4P. Does this qualify as "immoral"? I confess that yes, I always hope and aim to do such things, on all my visits. Am I guilty of false declaration?

[Vegas Jeff]

You need to read "The Millionaire Next Door" my friend. You'd be surprised at how many of the folks who portray themselves to be "high rollers" are actually leveraged to the hilt ("Big hat, no cattle") , LOL!

This is an enlightening read for many.

When I arrived in Costa Rica 9 years ago I was surprised to find that the majority of foreigners were struggling to get by and / or living off of a very fixed income. I was expecting to find more wealthy men and men with jobs that permitted them to live where they wanted. I had to ask myself, where are the wealthy single men living? Don't these entitled, single men want to get laid regularly as a top priority? The answer is no.

There are a few things that most men in this position are looking for IMO.

First, they are looking for an educated population of people to live with. Where educated people live things operate and function faster and more efficiently than in places where less educated live. There is less stress and more ease in living daily life.

Second, they are looking for things to spend their money on that increase their quality of life. These things range from general entertainment to better quality health care.

Third, they are looking for a safe place to live.

There are very few, if any, top mongering destinations that can meet most or all of this criteria. Over the years I have met many men who are wealthy and live abroad. Although they find my stories about the girls intriguing it is not on many of their priority lists.

I hope this sheds a light on this for some of you.

[Black Page]

The US does want tourists to visit and spend money. I recently learned that the US routinely grants visas to tourists from a very poor third-world country about 66% of the applications. Only a third was denied visas. That's a pretty high acceptance rate.

State department has a few criteria to deny visas:

US State Department really tries, but occasionally smugglers, spies, criminals and unemployed hot young girls can still get in the US to do what they want. So go figure.

It is always difficult for me, each time I enter USA, to refrain from laughing out loudly in front of the immigration officer, when I present my ESTA declaration where I officially undersign, among various declarations:

Are you seeking entry to engage in criminal or immoral activities?
NO

Did anybody in the history ever answered YES to this question? What was the reaction of the immigration officer?
And, last but not least, who is the genius who conceived such profound questions to establish prerequisites to enter USA?

PS: during my last visit to USA, I actually had sex with a married lady, but it was not P4P. Does this qualify as "immoral"? I confess that yes, I always hope and aim to do such things, on all my visits. Am I guilty of false declaration?

[Manizales911]

You'd be surprised at how many of the folks who portray themselves to be "high rollers" are actually leveraged to the hilt ("Big hat, no cattle") , LOL!

I have several friends like that, they spend it as fast as they earn it, foolish.

[SavePros321]

How can you have a house and a nice paying job and only have $400 in your bank account? Red flags everywhere! How can you afford a plane ticket let alone support yourself on this trip?

You need to read "The Millionaire Next Door" my friend. You'd be surprised at how many of the folks who portray themselves to be "high rollers" are actually leveraged to the hilt ("Big hat, no cattle") , LOL!

Nearly Half of America Lives Paycheck-to-Paycheck

http://business.time.com/2014/01/30/...k-to-paycheck/

[Hioctane]

Visa stamps in your passport showing you visit other countries and 20 million cop or more in a bank account trumps your name on real property and a steady job when it comes to getting a tourist visa.

I know a colombiana that owned a home had a decent paying job for over two years and still got denied. She said they asked her how much money she had in her bank account and she told them 800, 000 cop. Her visa was denied.

Tourist visas are given so people can come to the US and spend money that is the bottom line. No money. No visa.

How can you have a house and a nice paying job and only have $400 in your bank account? Red flags everywhere! How can you afford a plane ticket let alone support yourself on this trip?

[LukeSkywalker]

The US does want tourists to visit and spend money. I recently learned that the US routinely grants visas to tourists from a very poor third-world country about 66% of the applications. Only a third was denied visas. That's a pretty high acceptance rate.

State department has a few criteria to deny visas:

1. Persons who may commit terrorists acts, physical violence or other crimes in the US.

2. Persons with little stability in their own country, jobs, houses, physical assets, bank accounts, family ties etc. that may induce them to stay and hide in the US.

3. Convicted criminals or persons associated with drugs, gun, [CodeWord908], or with criminal backgrounds.

4. Persons suspected to engage in military or industrial espionage.

I know a few execs from a specific country who have again and again been denied tourist, trade or conference visas, because somehow the US knows they have been copying proprietary product designs and production processes, stealing intellectual properties, violating patents rights of Western countries.

US State Department really tries, but occasionally smugglers, spies, criminals and unemployed hot young girls can still get in the US to do what they want. So go figure.

[Member #4287]

Well who knows? By hook or by crook? Maybe a immigration guy was one of her dates and a few "porfavor?" and a good few dates and then BLAMO! Visa! Or she might have been able to show she had enough reasons to return. I think a few years back somebody said she bought a bunch of land (that's a ton of dates!) so a mortgage or a deed would be enough for a tourist visa no?

OR!

Or maybe she decided to do porn and is going to do bang bros! If that happens watch out! No more $200-$350 for a date, You'll see her up on TLC or Eros for $1200! Doing stirp tours! LOL!

This is a joke! I have no info about any of what is going on. Just my own perverted mind at work! LOL!

Also was Wendy charging 350 for a short time date?

Visa stamps in your passport showing you visit other countries and 20 million cop or more in a bank account trumps your name on real property and a steady job when it comes to getting a tourist visa.

I know a colombiana that owned a home had a decent paying job for over two years and still got denied. She said they asked her how much money she had in her bank account and she told them 800, 000 cop. Her visa was denied.

Tourist visas are given so people can come to the US and spend money that is the bottom line. No money. No visa.

[Member #4394]

But most casas do that for all girls or a few girls you like, if you request. It would be good idea to ask mamasan for an additional presentation.

I like what Blue Room does when they finish the one on one introductions they all come back out in a line and give you a second look, smart.

Jake

[SlamCity7777]

How in the world did she get a Visa?

God bless though.

Well who knows? By hook or by crook? Maybe a immigration guy was one of her dates and a few "porfavor?" and a good few dates and then BLAMO! Visa! Or she might have been able to show she had enough reasons to return. I think a few years back somebody said she bought a bunch of land (that's a ton of dates!) so a mortgage or a deed would be enough for a tourist visa no?

OR!

Or maybe she decided to do porn and is going to do bang bros! If that happens watch out! No more $200-$350 for a date, You'll see her up on TLC or Eros for $1200! Doing stirp tours! LOL!

This is a joke! I have no info about any of what is going on. Just my own perverted mind at work! LOL!

Also was Wendy charging 350 for a short time date?