Medellin Reports

[Socker]

I think it's called Karma. I learned to give not because I have much, but because I know exactly how it feels to have NOTHING.

Only good energy, amigo

Too many asshole scumbags making kabillions and living the life they want.

Too many good hearted people living a tortured existence, no, there is no Karma.

But there are mongers. After all is said and done at the end of 2013, we are mongers, very plain and simple.

A very lucky bunch we are too.

Best

[SavePros321]

Most guys on this board are on a tight budget, especially nowadays, but if you have the money to burn, I don't see what the big deal is. Myself, I don't have that kind of money to spare, but if I did, I would consider doing it for the "right girl."

I think it all boils down to perspective. I guess to some guys "money to burn" equates to putting a chick up and paying her way through college.

To me (and I am sure others on this board)"money to burn" equates to frequent, longer trips to multiple countries, and banging newer and increasingly hotter women. That would be my definition of getting the best ROI. If I want to be charitable, there is always the Red Cross and the Humane Society.

[Member #4244]

Phunluv I think that was an insightful post, thank you.

[Norman Stormin]

While making my morning rounds, I saw many of my regulars aimlessly wondering around Plaza Botero. Making matters more confusing, the girls of CL 52 were on CL 53. What's up? The Mayor making good his promise to clean up El Centro? These girls normally find a comfort zone and camp there for life. Then I found the answer. The front of Vera Cruz had been cordoned off to replace paving stones. This was so traumatic that some of the girls even went home.

Not to worry. They plan to finsh in time for the Christmas Chaos which will start Monday. For all you guys who live in Gringolandia, come up town. The water´s fine. The Mayor has really beefed up police and army presence. I´ve only seen three robberies and one stabbing so far this week. Crime´s down considerably!

[Phunluv]

There's been talking going on here that whether you pay the girl's tuition or expensive gifts, etc, we are all just "mongers" in denial.

Well, I've never liked that word and the attitude it implies (I prefer hobbyist or P4P myself, although I know that's somewhat vague). Words have all kinds of connotations. If all hobbyists are categorized as mongers, and all hookers are dismissed as w*s, well then no wonder people get mad when someone is blowing wads of cash on some chica's college tuition, LOL!

But there can be shades of grey when it comes to these things. There was an era once when affluent men fell in love with courtesans, or had kept women they supported on the side. Such things hardly exist nowadays but guys like Legal Tender keep some of those old practices going. Most guys on this board are on a tight budget, especially nowadays, but if you have the money to burn, I don't see what the big deal is. Myself, I don't have that kind of money to spare, but if I did, I would consider doing it for the "right girl." As long as you have your eyes completely open and realize no amount of cash can guarantee affection or loyalty or trust.

So enjoy the game but realize it's a fantasy. And all fantasies end. Of course, once one ends you can begin another one with someone else. The new fantasy will be a little different from the previous one, but with the right attitude can be just as fun (even more!). My approach comes from my user name. The main question is: are you having fun? If no, it could be from lack of knowledge or experience (not really your fault) or it could be the wrong approach or attitude (mostly your fault).

I've noticed a lot of guys here recently posting concern about the girls true feelings or intentions. When I was younger that worried me a lot as well. Now as I start to get older and less age-compatible it actually seems less an issue. I just take for granted that of couse holding things equal a chica is going to want to be with a guy her age from her part of the world. But once you accept that, you can actually be more relaxed around her. Remember, these girls can have doubts about you as well. They are probably thinking, this guy has had so many women, and he has money, he probably just sees me as another notch on his bedpost, or a trophy for his collection.

Sorry about rambling but the basic point is you will go insane if you obsess over these things. Just focus on having fun and being affectionate with these chicas, you will have mostly good experiences and minimize your chances of "being taken to the cleaners!"

[Kukulkan]

They talk on the phone and skype but she has never gotten naked for him. I'm telling you that it is the weirdest thing ever. She could have her choice of gringo's or Latin men if she wanted but she is in love. Not because of the college either. She has known him since she was 15 and after so many years I guess the love, (or thought of love) is real. I have tried to point out to her that if she is seriously waiting for him to come and sweep her off her feet then she is missing so much of her life because of him. Kinda a dick thing to do to her. She is not a working girl and cries when he doesn't make time for her. I got to find him and ask what type of freaking voodoo spells he uses. I saw a picture of him. He is an overweight Spanish guy. I'm guessing he hasn't visited for a few reasons. 1. He is married. 2. He is in the US illegally. 3. He is an absolutely fucking moron.

Well, you just blow my cover.

Thanks,

Kukulkan

[Ricker]

My dos pesos. I've been in my fair share of flame battles so I can't judge those involved but I will say everybody has a valid point.

Do what ever you like and who cares what the next man thinks? Dude ain't got to walk in my shoes, pay my bills, worry about my troubles, so why care who the next guy is? Some dudes love cheap cheap pussy, right on. Some guys like the GFE or from the sounds of it Wifey Exp. Right on.

I totally agree.

[Ricker]

They talk on the phone and skype but she has never gotten naked for him. I'm telling you that it is the weirdest thing ever. She could have her choice of gringo's or latin men if she wanted but she is in love. Not because of the college either. She has known him since she was 15 and after so many years I guess the love, (or thought of love) is real. I have tried to point out to her that if she is seriously waiting for him to come and sweep her off her feet then she is missing so much of her life because of him. Kinda a dick thing to do to her. She is not a working girl and cries when he doesn't make time for her. I got to find him and ask what type of freaking voodoo spells he uses. I saw a picture of him. He is an overweight spanish guy. I'm guessing he hasn't visited for a few reasons. 1. He is married. 2. He is in the US illegally. 3. He is an absolutely fucking moron.

Yep, there obviously has to be a reason why this dude doesn't visit his hot 'girlfriend'.

You named 3 good reasons.

I'll add nbr 4: a convicted Felon.

If he hasn't come to see her in 4 years or so, he's probably not coming, especially if she's so hot.

We'd all have been there after a couple weeks of chatting LOL.

She'll wake up eventually though and realize, and then be sad and pissed off and probably hate gringos or all men, etc LOL

[SavePros321]

Is Coffee House any good these days? I went once and was impressed but I didn't have time to session. A couple other times I have gone, it was pretty dead.

I've only been once. The time I went they had this short Afro-Colombiana named Analucia who had a ridiculous phat bubble ass and small frame. Took her for a spin, but the session did not turn out well (for me) since I had just came from a session at New Life (and had not recharged in time). I haven't been back there though.

[Almotu]

I think New Life is probably the only casa that let's you pay AFTER. Paying upfront to the manager is not a big deal for me, it's just how business is done here. I always ask to chat with the chica first before committing to the session.

Went to Coffee Shop (Cra 45 #55-45) and it's sister casa, Sarita / Leidy (Calle 55 #43-72) today around 3-ish. Did not session, only 1 chica out of a lineup of 6/7 in each would have been do-able if I had not just sessioned at Afrodita (Cra 45 #56-45) These 3 places all charge 35k / 60k.

[Member #4244]

Not true for all casas. Coffee House (the casa that is connected to the love motel) you pay first. When your time is up they call the phone in your room (you can request more time on the phone). I believe most have reported at Lindas Chicas you pay the mamasan first as well.

Sure, if you never venture out of Poblado, Lleras, or Laureles.

You pay first at Aiffe, too, at loads of casas, actually. Not sure where he is getting this info.

Is Coffee House any good these days? I went once and was impressed but I didn't have time to session. A couple other times I have gone, it was pretty dead.

[Legal Tender]

That's a pretty odd situation but hopefully it works out.

I've got nothing against helping someone and I don't advise against it per se. I advise against it as a means of you getting something out of it, whether emotional, sexual or both. If you're doing it just to get something, your heart is in the wrong place probably and, more importantly you probably won't get what you're after.

I think it's called Karma. I learned to give not because I have much, but because I know exactly how it feels to have NOTHING.

Only good energy, amigo

[SavePros321]

in the casas you don't pay first. i love this concept.

not true for all casas. coffee house (the casa that is connected to the love motel) you pay first. when your time is up they call the phone in your room (you can request more time on the phone). i believe most have reported at lindas chicas you pay the mamasan first as well.

also, this place is far safer than what most people imagine.

sure, if you never venture out of poblado, lleras, or laureles.

[Member #4244]

That's a pretty odd situation but hopefully it works out.

I've got nothing against helping someone and I don't advise against it per se. I advise against it as a means of you getting something out of it, whether emotional, sexual or both. If you're doing it just to get something, your heart is in the wrong place probably and, more importantly you probably won't get what you're after. This turned into something confrontational that may have obscured that. My last GF down here, I paid all her study prep for university entry and a lot of other shit for her. It didn't work out and for that reason I'm glad I did what I did and not a whole lot more. The last thing I would advise people to do is be cheap and make mongering all about some sort of Coupon Wars-style game to see who can get the most service for the least money. I always advise people to tip for good service and show respect to a woman whether she is a prepago, the Virgin Mary or one of the many women in between. That said, don't get over-invested. It's easy to do!

[PartyPooper87]

After, mongering in Medellin for 1 week I have a good idea of the place. First, this place is completely beautiful. I have not visited Brazil but this place has the most beautiful women on the face of the earth that I've seen. If you can speak Spanish fluently there is plenty of opportunity for you to find a girl friend or wife. Colombian women are completely open to dating foreigners. Even middle-age women look gorgeous here. Now for mongering, I would recommend the casas. Why? I went to a casa picked out a chica 7 in looks con grande culo. In the casas you don't pay first. I love this concept. I went in expecting trienta minutos and had sex for 2 hours. No one knocked on the door or bothered us. Damage 120k for 2 hours. Included BBJ and anal for 50k tip. This chica was amazing. Now, I've visited the strip clubs Maracibo and Executive. I wouldn't recommend visiting them more than twice. Bad service and someone knocks on the door even when you're not finished. Chicas in Maracibo are between 5-7 in looks however they have lots of energy. Now in reality there are more beautiful women walking the street of Medellin than in any club you go to. I got a phone number from a chica 10 in looks just hanging out at a restaurant. Colombians love to party and have fun. I would truly visit this country again without the intention of mongering. However, again Spanish is a must. I stayed here for 1 week and only met 1 person who could speak English semi-fluently. Also, this place is far safer than what most people imagine. Also, I didn't meet one monger while I was here which means it's a pretty big and sophisticated city.