Medellin Reports

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`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. I wrote my report a month ago. In that report I stated how I longed to see this girl again, however in the time that has lapsed since then till now she has become the sine qua non of my existence. This girl is all I think about all day. Sure I get things done, but I do them while thinking of her. There is no longer me and my thoughts now it is me and my thoughts plus the thought of her. One user of the forum wrote that Costa Rica and the DR were the minor leagues while Medellin was the big leagues. Maybe I should have started with triple A first. I think that because I am in the US the dilemma is exacerbated; this is because I do not have sex with American women. This is an actual rule of mine, no American women. I am twenty one, no kids, never been married, and never had a girlfriend and I like things this way. The last thing I want is to be paying child support to some chick I had a one night stand with. While she refuses to let me see the child but expects the check to come in on time every month, no thanks. Because of the way I live my life the last thing I expected was to ever fall in love, I never planned for it. Now I try to rationalize it to myself, saying 'I cannot get hurt in a different country right? '. I always thought of fallen in love as a dangerous thing, a time when guys let their guard down and are inevitably eaten by their harpy girlfriend. I do not have any of her contact information, when I was in Medellin I was in such an elated state that I did not think about such things. I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. I believe this is a symbiotic proposition because I get the best sex of my life and she gets paid. If only fucking all women was this simple. I would like to know if anyone else has fallen for a girl the way I have? Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information?

Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.

Seems crazy to be taking Viagra at 21. Most 21 year-olds can fuck virtually non-stop. I could do that even if I was drunk out of my mind. Save the Viagra for later when you really need it.

You need to take another mongering trip and fuck a few dozen more hot chicks and then see if you're still in love. My prediction is you'll be laughing about this whole subject.

American women can be fine. The problem for me (and I assume many other ISGers) is I'm nearly 50 and I can't date much younger than mid thirties in the States. So I go to Colombia, Brasil, DR, etc to fuck hot-looking 20 year-olds. But you're 21. You can be fucking girls in the States like crazy. Just make sure you wear condoms, and you shouldn't have to worry.

[TweedleD]

I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. , Haven't we all. LOL

[Turgid]

Ohhhhhh brother puhleeeeze!

Follow advice below.

Read both paragraphs, then re-read them, then follow the advice.

Don't be a putz.

The girl you're obsessing over, well there's a gazillion more just like her.

Just get back to Colombia, relax, have fun, enjoy life.

My advice is to not have a mental block against falling in love. If you live the mongering only life there will come a time when you will desire the 'normal' life, viz. Wife, kids, family etc. And it is better to try that lifestyle while relatively young rather than later on in life when all sorts of complications can arise. Monger, yes, but if cupid's arrow strikes, give it a try. If it does not work out then "It is better to have loved and lost than."

[Almotu]

Can someone tell me how I get the info on the facebook page for the mansion I posted in Medellin list and got no response.

Thanks

If you are in the USA you can call their VOIP Miami number: +1-312 546-4301. They have their own thread in this Colombia section of ISG.

Their website is http://www.hotelmedellinplaza.com/index.html

[HelpRules]

STD, Never marry or fall in love for real w / a hooker. Period. These posts come up frequently on different forums. I have been mongering for about 10 years. I have fallen in "LOVE" countless times. Thats the fun of mongering. You fall in love, and then you tire of her and find another one, or you go to a different country and find another one. There is nothing better then finding a girl you think you are in love with, wifey up with her for 3 days, and then go to another destination and find a girl with natural dd 125 pounds 5'8 to realize you shouldn't fall in love in the marriage way. If you don't marry them and send them money, its ok to fall in love as you say, but keep it real. There are so many hot chicks that are turning 18 everyday in some mongering destination. You need to be there for all of them. Remember one fact of mongering: No matter how old you get, they always stay around 18 to 25.

[Ricker]

`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. .

Ohhhhhh brother puhleeeeze!

Follow advice below.
Read both paragraphs, then re-read them, then follow the advice.

Don't be a putz.

The girl you're obsessing over, well there's a gazillion more just like her.

Just get back to Colombia, relax, have fun, enjoy life.

Medellin has more pussy than you can ever get around to in one life time, so just relax and enjoy the long ride. Try to do a trip every 4 months or 3 times a year. That way, once you start going through pussy withdrawal symptoms (as you are experiencing now while in the US a*k*a "Sex Prison") you know that you will be back in pussy paradise shortly.
...

Don't get caught up in bullshit like trying to have the best car, the biggest house, and the flashiest clothes. If you are going to be a monger then go all in. Live frugal while in the US, and rock out with your cock out (literally) in another country. And if you do not contribute to an employer sponsored 401K, START!

[Vegas Jeff]

I think this post might be taken as a warning, because I have always thought that it would be detrimental to a man's social, personal, and intellectual development to start paying for sex before middle age.

Seizetheday. This some good advice for you.

`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin.Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information? Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.

You admit that you are 21 and have never been in love. You are not ready for this. You are confusing a passionate, connected sexual experience with love. I hate to say this, and I am not being mean, but I would seriously suggest some mental health counseling. If you don't take this seriously you will continue to make bad decisions based on your emotions. You need to move past this experience and put it in it's rightful place. The experience you had here was not bad one. It is just the way you are interpreting it. Hopefully some day you can look back at this and say,"What was I thinking?" GL

[Ezyngo]

Good info. Are there still tables on the street?

I wish they would allow bars and restaurants to have them out again. Stupid rule that Itagui has enforced since last year. Oh well, look on the bright side, I have recently known at least 5 new chicas that fit your type and taste.

Cheers.

[SeizeTheDay]

Where you from BRO?

U need a new group of friends & better buddy's.

Come hang with mee.

At age 21.

It's live fast.

Get $$$

Get pussy.

This love stuff you talk about comes later.

Have you at least bang 50 girls yet...

You gave good advice, thank you. You are the third person today that has told me to lay off the Viagra. Would someone please tell me what potential threat everyone is cryptically talking about? But in the end I do not see anything wrong with lusting over pussy. I cannot help how I feel. It is not as if I will marry her and try to get her a green card. I will not send her money transfers and other such things. All I want is to be able to fuck her again. I think Savepros321 is right; this is a natural reaction to going raw with a chick and busting a giant nut deep into her vagina. Now that I think about it, how could I not be lusting after this girl? I do not want to settle down; I do want to live fast.

[Infamous Man]

`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. I wrote my report a month ago. In that report I stated how I longed to see this girl again, however in the time that has lapsed since then till now she has become the sine qua non of my existence. This girl is all I think about all day. Sure I get things done, but I do them while thinking of her. There is no longer me and my thoughts now it is me and my thoughts plus the thought of her. One user of the forum wrote that Costa Rica and the DR were the minor leagues while Medellin was the big leagues. Maybe I should have started with triple A first. I think that because I am in the US the dilemma is exacerbated; this is because I do not have sex with American women. This is an actual rule of mine, no American women. I am twenty one, no kids, never been married, and never had a girlfriend and I like things this way. The last thing I want is to be paying child support to some chick I had a one night stand with. While she refuses to let me see the child but expects the check to come in on time every month, no thanks. Because of the way I live my life the last thing I expected was to ever fall in love, I never planned for it. Now I try to rationalize it to myself, saying 'I cannot get hurt in a different country right? '. I always thought of fallen in love as a dangerous thing, a time when guys let their guard down and are inevitably eaten by their harpy girlfriend. I do not have any of her contact information, when I was in Medellin I was in such an elated state that I did not think about such things. I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. I believe this is a symbiotic proposition because I get the best sex of my life and she gets paid. If only fucking all women was this simple. I would like to know if anyone else has fallen for a girl the way I have? Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information? Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.

Where you from BRO?

U need a new group of friends & better buddy's.

Come hang with mee.

At age 21.

It's live fast.

Get $$$

Get pussy.

This love stuff you talk about comes later.

Have you at least bang 50 girls yet.

Stay off the Viagra.

Workout.

Build muscle & stamina.

Explore the world

L usting.

O ver

V agina.

E diot

[SeizeTheDay]

I don't have any practical advice on what to do, except to say that it seems very unwise to me to take Sildenafil (Viagra) at the age of 21. I took it for the first time when I was almost 50 and the good thing was that it made me feel like I was 21 again.

I think this post might be taken as a warning, because I have always thought that it would be detrimental to a man's social, personal, and intellectual development to start paying for sex before middle age. Youth is the time for falling in love with women of one's own age, raising children, building a career and a place in the world, not for surreptitious travel to foreign parts for sex with prostitutes...

As far as the Sildenafil goes, you are not the first person to suggest I stop taking it. So I will ask you the same question. What is the risk? In regards to the rest of your post, I want children as much as I want colon cancer. What is the point of having a career if it does not afford me the luxury of doing what I want to do in life: travel the world fucking prostitutes along the way. Do you want me to slave away 70 hours a week with no vacation time so that the American government can take 60% of my income to pay for loquisha's baby's Similac? What is the point of making money if I cannot pay for prostitutes? As far as girls my age you got me there, I did not fuck any 21 year olds in Medellin. Although I did fuck a 20 year old and two 18 year olds. What do you want me to do, chase after the American dream? A wife, kids, and a house with a white picket fence? Are you serious? What year do you think this is 1950? Do you know what the national debt is? Do you know what the unemployment rate is? And the women! These girls sit at home watching 'Keeping up with the Kardashians'! Do you realize that Kim Kardashian filed for divorce after 72 days! Addicted to sex, give me some credit. Everything is an addiction now, if you like sex you are addicted to it right? Come on sir. If the price were to go to high I would not pay, simple as that. I would not pay if the price went up at all, expect for inflation being accounted for of course. And lastly why do I have to partner up with someone, why do I have to conform to your idea of a healthy life style? Why do I have to get married when there is a 50% divorce rate? Or have a girlfriend and run the risk of being subject to a common law marriage? Thanks for the input.

[SeizeTheDay]

The rest of us are too old to fall in love. Jajaja.

My advice is to go back to Medellin find the chick and then find two more that you like just as much and then put them on a daily rotation. It will help you keep things in perspective.

Also you are way too young to be swearing off American chicks. Just hump and dump. They'll like you more for it.

Thanks for the advice. I was already planning my trip back to Medellin before I even left. My contemplation was over whether or not to go back early to get this girls contact information. I do not really have an interest in other girls at the moment. Although if I was to go back, I would definitely purchase other pussy. And when it comes to American women, I would not fuck one with your dick! Why would I want to do something like fuck an American girl, what is the purpose. Even if the sex was free, after having gone to Medellin American women look like men to me. I am not attracted to them at all, I notice every flaw, no makeup, too much make up, mustaches, beer bellies, feet bigger than most men. I could be here all day listing reasons why I would not fuck an American women. But lastly and most importantly having sex with an American women could ruin my life. Most American women do not care whether or not the man wants a child they will have it anyway. All these chicks are in such a hurry to get child support and government assistance (hard earned taxpayers' dollars, which should not be responsible for some ghetto hood rat or trailer trashes illegitimate future inmate)!

[Frannie]

`I need some advice. I believe I have fallen in love with a prostitute from Medellin. I wrote my report a month ago. In that report I stated how I longed to see this girl again, however in the time that has lapsed since then till now she has become the sine qua non of my existence. This girl is all I think about all day.

I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. I believe this is a symbiotic proposition because I get the best sex of my life and she gets paid. If only fucking all women was this simple. I would like to know if anyone else has fallen for a girl the way I have? Also is my behavior irrational? Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl? Should I go back to Medellin to get this girls contact information? Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated thanks.

I don't have any practical advice on what to do, except to say that it seems very unwise to me to take Sildenafil (Viagra) at the age of 21. I took it for the first time when I was almost 50 and the good thing was that it made me feel like I was 21 again.

I think this post might be taken as a warning, because I have always thought that it would be detrimental to a man's social, personal, and intellectual development to start paying for sex before middle age. Youth is the time for falling in love with women of one's own age, raising children, building a career and a place in the world, not for surreptitious travel to foreign parts for sex with prostitutes.

What the poster will find is that even if he does find the same girl, things will not stay the same for long, with her giving great sex and him giving up money. She will want more and if he is addicted to the sex, she will probably get it, and it will probably all end badly.

I do understand the problem with many American women, and I can see why he would not want to date them, but there are many foreign women who would make good partners who are not prostitutes.

I would try to forget about this woman and seek out other potential partners.

[SeizeTheDay]

=SavePros321; 1445388]Congratulations! I say that because this sound more like "Lust" than "Love", so at least you have not lost all of your marbles, LOL.

I guess that is what happens when (from your report) you go bareback and bust your nut inside of some sweet Paisa pussy, hahaha. But best believe your chica may have moved on to a different Casa or dropped out of the game entirely by the time you get back. And be thankful you did not get her contact information because from your highly emotional report I believe she would have successfully manipulated you into sending her money via Western Union. Speaking of which, since you are new to mongering, here are some basic mongering rules with regards to avoiding becoming "Papi Noel"...

Thank you for the response. Your post was helpful, informative, and disheartening. I think I still have a lot to learn about mongering but I would hope I can manage to not become a sponsor. I like your six flags analogy and we share the same sentiment. What worries me is when you said that she is likely moved on. I cannot bear the thought of never being inside that pussy again. I am sure I will never have better or equal sex with another woman; I do not think it is possible.

[SavePros321]

Because of the way I live my life the last thing I expected was to ever fall in love, I never planned for it. Now I try to rationalize it to myself, saying 'I cannot get hurt in a different country right? '. I always thought of fallen in love as a dangerous thing, a time when guys let their guard down and are inevitably eaten by their harpy girlfriend. I do not have any of her contact information, when I was in Medellin I was in such an elated state that I did not think about such things. I think you could say I had a natural high, or I was high on life despite that fact that I did not partake in drugs besides some Sildenafil. Now I am thinking of going back to Medellin to find this girl again and actually getting her information this time. I also should explain that I do not know this girl well so the attraction purely stems from the sex and everything else I gathered from the times we met. But I do not think any of these things matter because I do not want to be her boyfriend anyway. I just want to have the security of knowing I can find her on my next trip to Medellin. Should I resent any feeling of love and attachment to this girl?

Congratulations! I say that because this sound more like "Lust" than "Love", so at least you have not lost all of your marbles, LOL.

I guess that is what happens when (from your report) you go bareback and bust your nut inside of some sweet Paisa pussy, hahaha. But best believe your chica may have moved on to a different Casa or dropped out of the game entirely by the time you get back. And be thankful you did not get her contact information because from your highly emotional report I believe she would have successfully manipulated you into sending her money via Western Union. Speaking of which, since you are new to mongering, here are some basic mongering rules with regards to avoiding becoming "Papi Noel":

Think about Six Flags for a moment. You pay your admission, ride the rides, take pictures, and go back home and share your experience with friends.

Now, once you get back home do you send Six Flags a portion of your income on a monthly basis? The same applies with dealing with chicas in other countries: Go there, ride the rides (chicas) , take pics, share the experience with friends. DO NOT send them money when you get back home hoping that you are somehow securing a "placeholder" for your return trip. Keep any contact with them once you leave to a minimum until about a month or two before your return trip. If she has moved on (novio, some gringo bobo took her out of the game until he goes broke sending her money), then you will find a new one to fill her spot.

Just be happy that you found out about mongering at the young age of 21 and have no kids (I started at 25) and are able to afford to take a trip to another country. Medellin has more pussy than you can ever get around to in one life time, so just relax and enjoy the long ride. Try to do a trip every 4 months or 3 times a year. That way, once you start going through pussy withdrawal symptoms (as you are experiencing now while in the US a*k*a "Sex Prison") you know that you will be back in pussy paradise shortly.

This is an actual rule of mine, no American women. I am twenty one, no kids, never been married, and never had a girlfriend and I like things this way. The last thing I want is to be paying child support to some chick I had a one night stand with. While she refuses to let me see the child but expects the check to come in on time every month, no thanks.

Welcome to the club! As long as I can afford to travel elsewhere pretty frequently, I have no desire to touch another American Woman every again. The end goal (for a good majority on this forum) is to ultimately do well enough to get the hell out of Sex Prison PERMANENTLY!

Don't get caught up in bullshit like trying to have the best car, the biggest house, and the flashiest clothes. If you are going to be a monger then go all in. Live frugal while in the US, and rock out with your cock out (literally) in another country. And if you do not contribute to an employer sponsored 401K, START!